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Gay A. Healy

1942 - 2024

Gay A. Healy obituary, 1942-2024, Windsor, CT

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Gay Healy Obituary

Gay A. (Locke) Healy, 81, formerly of Windsor passed away on Monday, January 15, 2024 at Seabury in Bloomfield surrounded by her loving family after a long battle with Parkinson's disease.

Born in Hartford, CT on December 2, 1942, daughter of the late John Locke and the late Mariana Armstrong Locke. She attended both the University of Hartford and the University of Maryland, overseas extension.

Over the years, she lived in Louisiana; Havana, Cuba; Mexico City; Amenia, NY; Massachusetts; Peru; Chile; Mississippi; Florida; England; Belgium; France; England again; California & ultimately settling again in Connecticut, where she lived in Simsbury, Bristol, and then in Windsor for 30 years before moving to Ashford, followed by South Windsor, and then returning to Windsor at Delamere Woods. She retired from Aetna after 17 years, during which time she served on the Women's Club Board for six years, one as President from 1988 to 1989. She then worked for Travelers and MetLife for ten years until her final retirement in 2003.

Over the years, she was a former member of the Daughters of the American Revolution, Rainbow Girls, Eastern Star, Junior League of Hartford, Junior Women's Club of Windsor, Windsor Civitan, and the Windsor Women's Club. She and her family enjoyed spending happy days from April to October at her summer home at Sun Valley Resort in Stafford Springs.

She was predeceased by her husband, Joseph Healy, who she met and married while he was stationed in England with the Air Force. She is also pre-deceased by her half-brother, Gregory Locke. She is survived by her children, Tony Healy and his wife, Carol, and their two children, Katie and Bryan; John Healy and his wife, Cathy, and their two children, Shannon and Paige; and her daughter Laura McKeown and her husband, Patrick, and their two children, Kelcie and McKenna. She is also survived by her brother Kingsley Locke and his wife, Beverley and their children and families; her half-brother, Ricardo; and half-sister, Loretta Locke and their families. The family would like to thank the staff at Seabury for their compassionate care over the past three years.

Her family will receive friends on Thursday, January 18, 2024 from 4-7 PM at Carmon Funeral Home, 807 Bloomfield Ave., Windsor. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday, January 19, 2024 at 10:00 AM at St. Damian of Molokai Parish-St. Gabriel Church, 379 Broad St., Windsor. Burial will be in Windsor Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Windsor.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research or the Parkinson's Foundation. To leave on-line condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 17, 2024.

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Patrick Healy

January 18, 2024

Tony, John, Laura & families,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom. She and your Dad are together again! Hoping all of the wonderful memories bring you all comfort at this difficult time. You are in our Prayers.
Love, Patrick ( Healy )

Patty Adams

January 17, 2024

To John, Tony, Laura, I am sorry for your loss of your Mom/grandma, I worked with Mom at Aetna. She was my boss, she was a driven boss, and hard worker, at time at Aetna it was like we were all a family at the time. She was a good boss with sense humor. She Suprise us one day when a girl spoke Spanish, Gay spoke Spanish back what she overheard, what she said. We all really surprised she can speak Spanish. That one thing I will never forget on Gay and her laughed. My prayers to all of you at this difficult time. Hugs so long Gay.

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

January 17, 2024

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

Diane Newton

January 16, 2024

Brent and I were so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Continued prayers to your family.

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Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

807 Bloomfield Avenue, Windsor, CT 06095

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Mass of Christian Burial

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St. Damian of Molokai Parish-St. Gabriel Church

379 Broad St., Windsor, CT

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