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Harold J. Moffie

1928 - 2020

Harold J. Moffie obituary, 1928-2020, Bloomfield, CT

BORN

1928

DIED

2020

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Harold Moffie Obituary

Harold Jay Moffie died September 3, 2020 at his home in Bloomfield. Hal was born in Brookline, Massachusetts, August 31, 1928, to Saul E. Moffie and Ruth D. Epstein. Harold's mother Ruth died less than four months after his birth. Mr. Moffie graduated from Brookline High School and received the George Bradburn Schick Cup the school's highest award for scholarship and athletics. He was voted "Best Running Back" in the history of Brookline High School in 1980. At the age of 16 in the Brookline-Newton 1945 Thanksgiving Day game he punted a football 93 yards – a record that remains in Ripley's Believe it or Not. In 1946, he received a scholarship to Harvard. He graduated in 1950 with an advanced degree in Romance languages. He developed a mastery of the Spanish language that was taught in a department by scholars and former dissenters to Franco's regime in Spain. Mr. Moffie was a 3-year starter in varsity football and baseball at Harvard. In 1948, against Holy Cross he accumulated 165 punt return yards, and took the first play from scrimmage in the Harvard-Yale game for an 80-yard touchdown - feats that remain in the school record book. Mr. Moffie was drafted into the infantry after college and joined the counterintelligence section given his faculty with languages. He was honorably discharged in 1955. Mr. Moffie's father, an architect, inculcated in him a joy of construction, finance, and real estate. In 1972, Hal formed Connecticut Health Facilities [CHF] a company that specialized in the design, construction, and management of long-term care facilities. CHF developed and managed an unmatched level of nursing homes in Connecticut. He was smart, bold, resolute, and managed his company with a generous spirit reflected in the respect, longevity and quality of staff and company performance. In addition to his work at CHF, Mr. Moffie held every elected American Health Care Association (AHCA) position including its presidency. AHCA is a national trade association that represents over 14,000 nursing homes and assisted living facilities. He was an accomplished writer, speaker and few at any professional level wanted to follow him to the lectern after one of his singularly erudite orations. He was selected in 1992 by INC magazine as "Entrepreneur of the Year." Mr. Moffie cherished Yiddishkeit and was instrumental in the development of The Chabad House of Greater Hartford. Although he reveled in the occasional touch of the high and mighty his admiration and respect was far more inclined to the multitude. He was magnanimous and like a knight errant anyone in need became a near immediate recipient of his chivalrous stance. There is a scene in the movie The Right Stuff – ground personnel are rushing with negligible hope to the site of the crash of a fighter jet on the desert floor. Suddenly, one detects movement through the smoke of the wreckage and queries, "Is that a man?" "You're darn right it is." Sic Transit Gloria Mundi. Mr. Moffie was a stunning force in the lives of his family and venerated unconditionally. He is survived by his wife Selma, whom he adored and once described as "the wind under the family's wings," two sons Calvin (Patricia) and Clint, three daughters Celia (Michael Bedus), Carrie Riccio (John), and Cathy DeMio (Richard), fifteen grandchildren and five great grandchildren. Funeral arrangements are private. In lieu of flowers or any like gesture donations may be made to The Chabad House of Greater Hartford 2352 Albany Avenue, West Hartford 06117. For Condolences vist Carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 4, 2020.

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Jeffrey J Moffie

May 29, 2024

Ah my Uncle Hal...he showed me how to be a father and always was an very interesting entertaining guy. Love him

Stephen Gans

May 29, 2024

Hal was a good and simple man who saw good and wanted to extend it and saw bad and tried to end it In my case he saw a sad kid and changed it!

Stephen M. Gans

May 27, 2024

Hal bought my father's Boys Summer Camp Arundel in Raymond Me. It was a terrible blow to me and Hal somehow sensed it and went out of his way to make me feel important. One day in late July he took me out to teach me high level Water-Skiing. I was very shy and nervous but Hal spent that afternoon teaching me, many kids were watching from the beach. Hal made me important again and we became good friends, he was generous with his time and caring of an 11 year old kid.

Jeffrey

August 29, 2022

Uncle Hal...I will always have a special place in my heart for you. You were always there for me when I needed you. Miss you alot.

Pam Livingston

October 1, 2020

Mr. Moffie was an earthly Angel, who encouraged, inspired and blessed strangers from all walks of life. Heaven has truly gained a beautiful and priceless soul. My deepest condolences goes to the Moffie family.

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Karen Frawley

September 19, 2020

My sincere and deepest condolences to the entire family. May Mr. Moffie rest in eternal peace. May you feel his love each and every day; speak of him often, as you carry that love in your heart; and hold onto the beautiful memories, until you are together again for all eternity! Sincerely, Karen Frawley

Joel Wolfe

September 9, 2020

Selma, my condolences to you and your family. May you be comforted with the mourners in Zion and Jerusalem.

Tim Coburn

September 9, 2020

It has been an honor to know Mr. Moffie and have him for a friend for over 40 years. My sincere condolences to his wife Selma and the entire Moffie family. You are all in my heart and prayers.
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Linda Erickson

September 8, 2020

Selma, what an amazing history! My most sincere sympathy to you and your family. May your memories sustain you..

Judy Lubusky

September 7, 2020

It was an honor and a priviledge to work for such an outstanding man. My deepest condolences to Selma and the family.

Dick & Sonny Bernstein

September 6, 2020

Knowing we both the same age. Also. we both served in the Counter Intelligence (CIA) which he never told me. Our condolences to Selma and the Moffie Family

Myron L. “Mike” Wasserman

September 6, 2020

Harold Moffie was one great guy, someone to whom I always looked up to, respected, and admired. My name is Myron “Mike” Wasserman, and, 3/4 of a century ago, as Sports Editor of Brookline High’s Sagamore, he was always my highlight topic, and my true hero. I was there for the 93 yard punt, his selection to the areas all-scholastic baseball and football teams, and how he led Brookline to the State Football championship. At Harvard, I covered his 80 run, among other highlights, for the Crimson....Growing up, I lived in the same Coolidge Corner neighborhood as Selma, knew her and her brothers. All the guys, myself included, thought that she was the best looking girl in the neighborhood......To me as a kid, Harold Moffie was like larger than life. I was sorry to learn of his passing..Most sincerely, Mike Wasserman

EDGAR A RAMSPECK

September 5, 2020

My deep sympathy and condolence to you Selma and to your family. Edgar Ramspeck

Samuel Moffie

September 4, 2020

Uncle Hal cast the largest shadow. A mensch's mensch. Always there with a kind word, a helping hand or a pat on the back. Enjoy those card games with your brother and my father.

Samuel Moffie-Nephew

Shoshanna Wasserman Richek

September 4, 2020

Uncle Harold will remain in my heart as a man who could soar with strength. He had a sense of Boston bred humor, cynicism and sarcasm that left many scratching their heads. He was a fun-loving man who loved his family more than life itself. His memory will be reminders of strength and love, and will always be a blessing

Ned and Norma Rogin

September 4, 2020

We have found memories of Harold from our years in West Hartford and enjoyed meeting Cal at Guilford House. Warm condolences.

Kathy Moffie, sister-in-law

September 3, 2020

Sending my condolences to the Moffie Family. I remember Harold as a kind person who was always there when needed. There were many times when we were in tough financial situations that he came through. Thank you Harold and may you Rest In Peace. I know if Joel were still alive, he would wish the same.

Nicholson & Carmon Funeral Home

September 3, 2020

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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