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Hugh MacGillis Obituary

On April 20, 2020 Hugh MacGillis of West Hartford travelled on from his wonderful, quirky, earthly life filled with his quick wit and unfailing love and acceptance of those he met along the way. Hugh was well known and respected as a social worker at the Village for Families and Children and June 13th, 2001 was proclaimed "Hugh MacGillis Day" in the state of CT in recognition of his dedication and commitment to mental health care for children. That same compassion and love was shown to his wife Susan Ritz, sons Peter and Daniel MacGillis, daughter Rachel Moore and her husband Chris, and Hugh's beloved grandchildren, Mac and Cam Moore, who often provided him with sweet treats and in return were bestowed with kisses to the tops of their heads. This love was reflected back by his family with unceasing care during the end stages of his 35 year dance with Parkinson's disease. Hugh was the driving force behind weekly Sunday dinners at his childhood home on Sedgwick Road with his twin sister Ann MacGillis, sisters Christine MacGillis and Jane Kimball and her husband Lewis, brother Donald MacGillis and his wife Ingrid, sister in law Luz Falcon and her husband Thomas MacGillis, who is with Hugh on the other shore with their parents Hugh and Dorothea MacGillis. Hugh's colorful life included driving through all 48 contiguous United States in a Volkswagen pop up camper, attending the Poor People's March in Washington D.C. with MLK, and spending the night in 'the big house' after protesting discriminatory housing practices in the South End of Hartford. He loved Christmas, Provincetown, the Sunken Garden Poetry Festival, Big Reds, UConn Husky basketball and the Boston Celtics--when they won. Rachel cherished times practicing synchronized swimming and doing "Laps for Leukemia" with her dad at Simsbury Farms. Dan loved caring for his dad and sharing long talks while watching cowboy movies and giving him snacks. Pete remembers fondly their driveway basketball games and in the later years, as they both got older and creakier, walks around the block. The family is grateful for his wonderful caregivers Betty, Hajara, Hawa, Luz, Sam, and Franny who he always seemed to charm into getting him ice cream, extra bagels and adventures at The Auto Show, the Humane Society, and Elizabeth Park. Hugh enjoyed many yearly vacations with his lifelong friends Geoff and Linda and in recent years was touched by the deep kindness of his sister and brother in law Shelley and Ken, friend Marybeth, neighbor Sue, and Dave Thomas of St. James Episcopal Church. His first wife Bobbi MacGillis remained a lifelong family friend. Donations in Hugh's memory may be sent to the Village for Families and Children, Development Office, 1680 Albany Avenue, Hartford CT 06105, or online at www.villages.org/give. A memorial service and party celebrating Hugh's life will be held at a later date. Please notify the family if you wish to participate. For online condolences, please visit www.taylorandmodeenconnecticut.com.
Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 26, 2020.

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Roland Lareau

April 20, 2025

Thinking of Hugh today. He was my friend and will be missed forever. RIP my friend.

Cassandra Luby

September 6, 2020

"A loving gentle soul", I was a shy, lonely child next door (Sedgwick) who would sneak over to pet Hughes Husky dog. Hugh would come out through the garage with a basketball (heard someone with the dog) and gently approach with a warm smile and greeting. He would land a few baskets and make small talk. As a shy, quiet child I found peace in his company though he towered the skies from my little eyes. Hugh, you were a light in a little girls gray world. I have grown, and carry that warmth, kindness and passion for children myself. ~Cassy (Bowen) Luby

John Lugus

April 28, 2020

I met Hugh (and Ann) at Uconn when we were in the same dorm. Through college and for several years there after we maintained a close relationship that has lapsed over the past forty years.

I found that unlike most of us freshmen Hugh already had a strong social consciousness as well as a wry sense of humor. I recall that he was involved with SNCC and the "folk song crowd" which in the sixties was the campus radical left...he liked to hint that the FBI had a dossier on him. I'm sure they did.

I also want to note that Hugh was not a particularly cautious person as compared to me anyway. For example after graduation I purchased a motorcycle from a mutual friend of ours. Hugh and I drove down to somewhere south of New Haven to pick it up. Neither of us had any motorcycle riding experience so my plan was load the bike into Hugh's wagon and haul it back to Windsor. Hugh was not having it... he drove the bike back on Route 91... no helmet and no goggles. I'm sure there may be other even more daring stories.

He was a wonderful friend I wish I made more efforts to stay in touch.

Juliana and Ron Polstein

April 28, 2020

We were saddened by the news of Hugh's death. He was a very unique, warm, caring man with a special sense of humor. Although we left Connecticut in the early 70s, the memories of time spent with Hugh have remained fresh in our minds.
Our sincere condolences to Susan, Rachel, Peter, Daniel, and Bobbi.
Juliana and Ron Polstein

Linda Macintosh Rodger

April 27, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of Hugh's death. His was such a wonderfully engaging personality I always enjoyed talking with him. I had meant to tell him that I still had a poem he shared with me back in the 1960s and I had it read at my father's funeral in 2016. It is Elegy for Robinson by Winfield Townly Scott. If you would like a copy, please let me know. Blessings on you all.
Linda Macintosh Rodger
[email protected].

Kelcy Laing Hardrick

April 27, 2020

Condolences to the family. To know that he lived with Parkinson's all these years is a testament to his courage and strength. I'll always remember Hugh as a kind and compassionate man who truly cared about children. Many DCF staff who interacted with him at the Village knew him to be a wonderful person. RIP.

Roland Lareau

April 24, 2020

Sending my condolences to the "Mac" family. Hugh was a great friend and room mate in Bloomfield back in the 70s. I'll always remember the cross country camping trip we went on in the red chevy station wagon. What a hoot! He convinced me to play Santa for the children at Child and Family services. Gifts would be collected at Connecticut General and I'd load them in my van and distribute them to the kids on a yearly basis. What fun we had!

Of course who can forget Sundays at the MacGillis house on Sedgwick Road! Cocktails, watching basketball and having a wonderful dinner in the dining room. Those will be times I'll never forget. Hugh always would entertain us with his dry sense of humor and play hoops in the backyard sometime during the afternoon.

A more gentle and caring man you'll never meet! Peace to you my friend!

Jean Hintlian-Granillo

April 24, 2020

It was with deep sorrow that I read of
Hughie's passing. I send my condolences and
prayers to the whole MacGillis clan. He was
a shining star in a very bright family and
will be sorely missed.

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