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Roland Lareau
April 20, 2025
Thinking of Hugh today. He was my friend and will be missed forever. RIP my friend.
Cassandra Luby
September 6, 2020
"A loving gentle soul", I was a shy, lonely child next door (Sedgwick) who would sneak over to pet Hughes Husky dog. Hugh would come out through the garage with a basketball (heard someone with the dog) and gently approach with a warm smile and greeting. He would land a few baskets and make small talk. As a shy, quiet child I found peace in his company though he towered the skies from my little eyes. Hugh, you were a light in a little girls gray world. I have grown, and carry that warmth, kindness and passion for children myself. ~Cassy (Bowen) Luby
John Lugus
April 28, 2020
I met Hugh (and Ann) at Uconn when we were in the same dorm. Through college and for several years there after we maintained a close relationship that has lapsed over the past forty years.
I found that unlike most of us freshmen Hugh already had a strong social consciousness as well as a wry sense of humor. I recall that he was involved with SNCC and the "folk song crowd" which in the sixties was the campus radical left...he liked to hint that the FBI had a dossier on him. I'm sure they did.
I also want to note that Hugh was not a particularly cautious person as compared to me anyway. For example after graduation I purchased a motorcycle from a mutual friend of ours. Hugh and I drove down to somewhere south of New Haven to pick it up. Neither of us had any motorcycle riding experience so my plan was load the bike into Hugh's wagon and haul it back to Windsor. Hugh was not having it... he drove the bike back on Route 91... no helmet and no goggles. I'm sure there may be other even more daring stories.
He was a wonderful friend I wish I made more efforts to stay in touch.
Juliana and Ron Polstein
April 28, 2020
We were saddened by the news of Hugh's death. He was a very unique, warm, caring man with a special sense of humor. Although we left Connecticut in the early 70s, the memories of time spent with Hugh have remained fresh in our minds.
Our sincere condolences to Susan, Rachel, Peter, Daniel, and Bobbi.
Juliana and Ron Polstein
Linda Macintosh Rodger
April 27, 2020
I was so sorry to hear of Hugh's death. His was such a wonderfully engaging personality I always enjoyed talking with him. I had meant to tell him that I still had a poem he shared with me back in the 1960s and I had it read at my father's funeral in 2016. It is Elegy for Robinson by Winfield Townly Scott. If you would like a copy, please let me know. Blessings on you all.
Linda Macintosh Rodger
[email protected].
Kelcy Laing Hardrick
April 27, 2020
Condolences to the family. To know that he lived with Parkinson's all these years is a testament to his courage and strength. I'll always remember Hugh as a kind and compassionate man who truly cared about children. Many DCF staff who interacted with him at the Village knew him to be a wonderful person. RIP.
Roland Lareau
April 24, 2020
Sending my condolences to the "Mac" family. Hugh was a great friend and room mate in Bloomfield back in the 70s. I'll always remember the cross country camping trip we went on in the red chevy station wagon. What a hoot! He convinced me to play Santa for the children at Child and Family services. Gifts would be collected at Connecticut General and I'd load them in my van and distribute them to the kids on a yearly basis. What fun we had!
Of course who can forget Sundays at the MacGillis house on Sedgwick Road! Cocktails, watching basketball and having a wonderful dinner in the dining room. Those will be times I'll never forget. Hugh always would entertain us with his dry sense of humor and play hoops in the backyard sometime during the afternoon.
A more gentle and caring man you'll never meet! Peace to you my friend!
Jean Hintlian-Granillo
April 24, 2020
It was with deep sorrow that I read of
Hughie's passing. I send my condolences and
prayers to the whole MacGillis clan. He was
a shining star in a very bright family and
will be sorely missed.
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