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Ian S. "John" McMillan

1938 - 2020

Ian S. "John" McMillan obituary, 1938-2020, Portland, CT

BORN

1938

DIED

2020

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Middletown, Connecticut

Ian McMillan Obituary

Ian (John) S. McMillan, 81, of Portland passed away peacefully on May 26, 2020. He was born in Glasgow, Scotland on November 10, 1938. He was a proud member of the Scottish Boys Brigade and loved soccer. After graduating from the Stow College of Printing, he emigrated to the US where he built a career in printing that spanned more than 40 years. He worked in TN, VA, and OH before settling in CT. Most of his career was spent working at Weekly Reader/Xerox Education/Field Publications in Middletown. It was there that John met the love of his life and wife of more than 51 years, Santina (Sandy) Ruffino McMillan. In addition to his wife, he leaves behind his daughter Laurie Bald and husband Kevin and his son Jamie and wife Tracey. He was a proud and doting grandfather to Maria, Aaron, Allison, Ian and Connor. He also leaves his brother Allan and wife Marie, his sisters-in-law Christine McMillan, Josie Cameron and Anna Foreman and husband Bill. John was predeceased by his parents James and Mary (MacIntosh), brother William, brother-in-law William Cameron. John loved to travel, especially car trips in his '63 Corvette Stingray. John enjoyed family vacations and in his retirement he and Sandy traveled extensively. His family was his whole world. He was always there for his children and grandchildren, as a parent, coach, fan, grandpa or friend. He also dedicated himself to the Portland community, where he lived with his wife and family for almost 50 years. John took great pride and enjoyment in helping to develop the Portland Youth Soccer program (where he coached for many years), serving on the Portland Library building committee, and guiding the Men's Club at Portland Golf Course. He loved playing golf, and cheering for his favorite teams; the NY Giants and the Virginia Tech Hokies. His love of books and reading is how many will remember him. Due to the pandemic, a private service will be held, and a celebration of John's life will be held at a future date where his family and friends can gather. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in John's memory to the Alzheimer's Association at www.alz.org or to Friends of Portland Library at www.friendsofportlandlibraryct.org. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 31, 2020.

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Anthony Covino

June 12, 2020

My deepest condolences to the McMillan family. I was honored to know John during his later years. He was a true gentleman and his kindness always shined through. My life was touched having known him and his wonderful family. My deepest sympathy to Jamie and the family.

Kevin Stewart

June 3, 2020

We offer John's family our deepest condolences for your loss. As our next door neighbor for so many years, John was a true gentleman and friend. His generosity and kindness, his quick wit, and love of soccer endeared him to our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Lynn Gildersleeve

June 2, 2020

John always lit up the Portland Library when he came in for his books. He sure did love them. His enthusiasm for reading and golf and life in general was very infectious. He loved to tell us all about his family. He was so proud of them.
After visiting his relatives in Scotland, we would kid him about his accent becoming stronger, to which he would laugh even harder and say, "I just can't help myself".
All of us here at the Library will miss him terribly. He truly did enrich all of our lives.

Donald Gates

June 1, 2020

Sandy and family-I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Continue to be strong as a family and supportive of each other. I have fond memories from PHS days.

Karen LeBrasseur

June 1, 2020

Sandy and family: I worked with John back in the 1980s at Weekly Reader/Field Publications. I remember John to be a kind person with a huge heart. I am sorry for your loss.

Judith Durham

May 31, 2020

Santina,
So very sorry for your loss. Your husband was such a great guy.....I remember how he used to sit at our table at American Education Publications during our breaks.....he always made us laugh. Those were such happy times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Bill Fox

May 31, 2020

I "ALWAYS" enjoyed talking with them (M & D) when they came in for lunch. I felt Ian and I became friends , or perhaps that was just the magic this man made people feel when around him.
God Bless you all and sorry for your loss.
Bill Fox

Lee Gallagher (McMillan)

May 31, 2020

So many happy lovely memories of you Uncle Ian xx Always in our hearts xx

Phyllis Bonfoey

May 30, 2020

To Sandy, Laurie, and Jamie....my words can only try to comfort you at this difficult time. John was a special husband, father and friend. He will be extremely missed by many people. Know that he and Jack will be watching the Giants games again!
My LOVE to all of you. Phyllis

Lou D'Amico, Jr.

May 30, 2020

My condolences to the McMillan family.

Santina, may your husband rest in peace along with my father who also recently passed away. Thank you for being a friend to him and making him feel welcomed during his stay at the Village at South Farms.

Thank you and may God Bless you and your family.

Jennifer OBrien

May 30, 2020

Thoughts and prayers to the entire McMillan family. John was truly an inspiration as a man devoted to his family and community. He was a light in the lives of so many and will be greatly missed. Hugs, Jen O'Brien

Maria Demarest

May 28, 2020

My condolences to Sandy, Jamie, Lori and extended family. I will remember Johns smile and welcoming nature. He will be missed. Thoughts and prayers from Maria and Steve Demarest

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