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Lydia Coyle Obituary

Lydia Angela Radikas Coyle, 59, of Burlington died unexpectedly April 24th. Lydia spent her youth primarily in Bucks County, PA, later settling in Connecticut where she graduated cum laude from CCSU, majoring in English. She earned masters and graduate degrees from Northeastern University, and then embarked on a rewarding career as a school psychologist and consultant. Lydia loved travel, languages, history and literature and was known for her keen sense of humor, style and fashion. She was a beautiful, dynamic woman who loved presenting and hosting and had a gift for making those she met feel special. Many students she counseled wrote touching letters to her years later to thank her for her caring and positive influence at a difficult time in their young lives. If Lydia was in a room she was in the front of it and when she left she took everyone's eyes out with her. Lydia was an exclamation point in a world of commas. She was fluent in Lithuanian and proud of her family's heritage. Lydia leaves to mourn her loss her devoted husband Michael, her mother and stepfather Mary and John Kasputis of Farmington, her sister Regina Radikas of Vermont, her brother Raymond (Amy) of Glastonbury, and her father Vytautas Radikas (Loreta) of NYC. She also leaves many cherished cousins, nephews, aunts and uncles, and special nieces Ava, Paulina and Marla. Lydia was predeceased by her identical twin sister Loretta. Memorial donations in Lydia's name may be made to Camp Neringa, 147 Neringa Rd., Brattleboro VT 05301

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 3, 2020.

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Terrie Hartan Seitz

September 10, 2020

What a wonderful person. I knew her when we were in Elementary and Jr. High. She was always very friendly with a good sense of humor. She made drawings of my parakeet biting her. She and Loretta are together in heaven. My sincere condolences.

Ausra Kananavicius

May 20, 2020

She was a beautiful person and I remember her fondly.

Paul Vivian

May 12, 2020

I had the distinct honor and pleasure of working with Lydia at both South Side School and Chippens Hill Middle School. She and I conducted group counseling sessions with students and Lydia was always so kind and empathetic making every student feel comfortable regardless of what they were dealing with. Lydia was such an elegant and gracious soul who cared deeply for all her students. My sincere condolences to her husband and family. We have all lost a special person who made us better people by knowing her.

Clare Kindall

May 11, 2020

Michael - I am shocked and so sorry for your loss. Lydia was indeed an exclamation mark in a world of commas - so full of life and joy. You have my deepest condolences. With highest regards, Clare

Ron Polaske

May 10, 2020

Michael, I cant imagine the sorrow you are feeling. My heart goes out to you, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace

jeff curtis

May 9, 2020

I was very sorry to hear of Lydias passing. I worked with her at South Side School in Bristol for many years. A beautiful spirit who always had a smile on her face. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Vida Salciunas

May 6, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Lydia's passing. I have so many beautiful memories of attending Lithuanian School with her and Loretta, teenage years at folk dance practices, scout camps, and spending weekends at each other's homes. Lydia will forever be my childhood BF. My deepest sympathies to you Michael, Lydia's mom, and the entire Radikas family.

David Elias

May 5, 2020

This is incredibly sad and depressing. I haven't seen Lydia in years but she would come up in my thoughts often and I remember the good times I had with her and Loretta. They will never know how much they meant to me. My sympathies to Michael and the Radikas family.

Rita

May 5, 2020

Mike so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. This is truly such sad news. In sympathy Rita

David Kalafa

May 5, 2020

Mike: Thinking about you and sending my condolences at this difficult time.

Ann Davies

May 4, 2020

I havent seen Lydia in over 35 years, but my wonderful memories of her came rushing back when I heard of her passing. Both she and Loretta were very significant in my life. Ill always remember their beautiful smiles and spirit. RIP together. ❤

Betsy

May 4, 2020

Lydia was beautiful inside and out - seeing her at her desk opposite my office door was always a lift, since she always smiled and waved a welcome- or popped her head in later if she couldnt talk in that moment. I am heartbroken to know the world is not graced by her presence any longer... To Mike , and Regina and her treasured nieces and all of her family my sincere condolences...

Lisa damato

May 3, 2020

So very sorry for your loss, I worked with Lydia at South Side School in Bristol. She was such a lovely lady, so beautiful, both inside and out, so caring twards all of the staff and students. My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this difficult time

Debra Morrell

May 3, 2020

Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. In reading Lydias obituary, she was an amazing person and I wish that I had met her. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers. Cherish those memories and look for those signs from Lydia. She will be with you always. ❤

Chris Cassin

May 3, 2020

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mike and Lydia's entire family. Lydia was a beautiful person, inside and out. She positively impacted so many lives, she will be truly missed.

Angela Stortz

May 3, 2020

I am so sorry to hear this news. I worked with Lydia at South Side School. She was such a vibrant, positive person, and had a great sense of humor. I was on the committee to interview applicants when she applied for the job. We made a wise choice in getting Lydia on our team.My heartfelt sympathy to her family.

Pete(pops) Garrison

May 3, 2020

Mike, we're sorry to hear of Lydia's passing. She was a BEAUTIFUL PERSON

Joe Trombetta

May 3, 2020

Regina, I want to send my condolences to you and your family and say how sorry I was to learn of Lydia's passing. I remember meeting Lydia through you and always bumping into the two of you at the mall. I always enjoyed talking to her and how nice and considerate she was. She always had a great smile and very friendly. Sending prayers to you and your family.

Mimi

May 3, 2020

Mike, so sorry for the loss of your wife, Lydia.

Brenda

May 3, 2020

Mike u r truly in my prayers & thoughts, & I think of u both a lot.

Dawn Killiany

May 1, 2020

My deepest sympathy to Lydias family. I first met her at South Side School during my student teaching over 20 years ago. Lydia was always so comforting and supportive in everything she did. She was so proud of her heritage and dressed in her traditional Lithuanian clothing for our cultural festival. The kids loved her. Years later, I reconnected with her at Chippens Hill Middle School where her love of children and caring nature surrounded all who knew her. I was sad when Lydia left Chippens because she was a colleague who I looked up to. My heart breaks for her family.

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