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NODDEN, Marc Marc Nodden, whose varied careers with yachts and computers never defined him as much as the words "husband and father," died suddenly Friday, (September 22, 2006) at 48, leaving too soon his beloved wife, Mary, and son, Alex. Old Lyme and Essex were Marc's home for most of his life, although he was born in Colorado, went to college in Pennsylvania, lived briefly in Florida, and traveled throughout the Atlantic Ocean. In recent years, he also enjoyed weekends and vacations in New Hampton and Meredith, NH. Samuel Johnson, the 18th-century writer, said that a man who loves life at sea "is not fit to live on land," but Marc ran that idea aground. Love for Mary and Alex rooted him deeply at home, and he was happiest beside them – working on another project at home, playing in the yard, or relaxing at their favorite Sunday breakfast spot. Marc and Mary celebrated their silver anniversary this month. His absence will be felt in so many daily moments, even as his presence remains in countless memories. In addition to Mary, Alex, and a large family of in-laws who loved his company, Marc is survived by brother Peter Nodden and sisters Kim Ladue, Kelly Gilliard, and Robin Courtney. He was preceded in death by his parents, Armond A. Nodden and Joyce Stevenson. Visitation will be from 5-8 p.m. Tuesday, September 26th at Robinson, Wright & Weymer Funeral Home, 34 Main St. Centerbrook, followed by a funeral Mass at 11 a.m. Wednesday, at Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church located at 12 Prospect St., Essex. Interment to follow at Duck River Cemetery in Old Lyme. Contributions in Marc's memory may be made to the Alex Nodden Educational Fund, c/o Merrill Lynch, City Place II, 185 Asylum St. Hartford, 06103
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Victor Santos
September 20, 2021
My prayers and condolences to you and Alex on the anniversary of Marc´s passing.
Marc was my good friend and coworker at Vantage Computer Systems. We worked together on a number of projects. One we were both proud of was when we were assigned to do a software release upgrade with Marc as the manager and me as the lead technician. We were given a group of fresh college graduates to use as our team for the project. They had no Vantage-one experience and most of our peers at the company thought it could NOT be done. And with a lot of hard work we succeeded.
I loved hearing Marc´s stories of his sea faring adventures. He had wanted to start a business in Vermont or New Hampshire and wanted me to partner with him. He was always full of ideas. We stayed in touch even after we went on to different project and after he left Vantage. We sometimes met for lunch in Hartford to catch up and talk about about our work. One year we ran into each other in Texas and on the weekend we headed to Galveston to see area and the shrimp boats. On the road to Galveston we got into a friendly argument about the height of the water towers we saw along the way. So now when I see a water tower I remember my good friend Marc.
Liz Laucks Lerch
October 15, 2006
Dear Mary and Alex,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Marc's sudden passing. While I never had the pleasure of knowing Marc, I can see from watching Alex grow up, that he must have been a fine person and father. Please know that I will hold you close in my prayers.
Betsy Falby McLaughlin
October 5, 2006
Mary, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I was so saddened to hear of your loss. With my utmost sympathy to you and your family.
Lisa Nodden-Murphy
September 28, 2006
It was with great sorrow that I received this news of Marc. I've only seen him once as an adult. He was so very sweet. But my memories are of him as an adorable, bubly child. I adored him. I'm sure he's smiling proudly at you while he waits. God comfort your souls.
Lisa Nodden-Murphy
Rochelle Nodden
September 28, 2006
Dear Mary and Alex,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult and sad times. I always loved that warm smile so many are mentioning. I know Marc had a happy life because he loved his family. May the memories of his love give you the strength that you need at this time.
Kim my thoughts are with you also. I know how fond you were of Marc.
Sincerely, Rochelle Nodden
Stephen and Heather Harris and Family
September 27, 2006
Dear Mary and Alex,
With deepest sympathy for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
George Maznicki
September 27, 2006
Mary and Alex, I am deeply saddened to hear about Marc's passing.My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Some people come into our lives and quietly go, others come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same. I'll miss him. God Bless you and you son. Marc's friend, George
Victor Santos
September 27, 2006
With deepest sympathy ... I worked with Marc a number of times. We shared stories of past adventures over coffee, over golf balls, on the Wethersfield Green, discussing work plans, future plans… Just knowing Marc was a pleasant adventure that I’ll always remember. God bless you and your family, Bon voyage my friend.
Victor Santos
September 27, 2006
With deepest sympathy ... I worked with Marc a number of times. We shared stories of past adventures over coffee, over golf balls, on the Wethersfield Green, discussing work plans, future plans… Just knowing Marc was a pleasant adventure that I’ll always remember. Bon voyage my friend.
amy randall lynch
September 27, 2006
Mary - Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May the prayers and compassion of others help sustain you and bring you comfort. The Lynch and Randall families will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Lori Taylor Piascik (ING)
September 27, 2006
I am very sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Marc. Although I did not know Marc well, we worked on a few projects together at ING. He would always smile and say hello in passing.
Tenderly… may God's love heal your sorrow. Gently… may the prayers of friends ease your hurting. Softly… may God's peace replace your heartache with warm and loving memories.
Martha Lemieux (Bagg)
September 27, 2006
Mary and Alex,
May the Lord wrap his arms around you and help you through this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle Dick Nodden and Dale Goodwin
September 27, 2006
Mary and Alex, We were so saddened to read of Marc's premature death. The long lines at his wake are surely testament to how special he was and you both are. May the love that surrounds you comfort you at this sad time.
Love to you both
Polly Nodden
September 26, 2006
Dear Mary and Alex, I was deeply saddened to hear about Marc's sudden death and want you to know that my deepest sympathy, prayers, and love are with you. Each time I saw Marc, I could not help but think what a wonderful young man! His charisma, high spirit, and devotion to his family were always so apparent. With much love, Polly Nodden
Brooke Nodden
September 26, 2006
Mary and Alex,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss ... and of the loss to our Nodden family as a clan. Although Marc was older than many of us cousins, his arrival or appearance at a family function was always cause for inspiration and awe. His dignity, charm, intelligence and sincerity set a standard that will always be honored but never matched. I regret that my Mary and I are so far away from you at this time, but we hold you both in our thoughts and hearts. May peace be yours.
Mark Leahy
September 26, 2006
From the Rime of the Ancient Mariner:
'Still as a slave before his lord,
The ocean hath no blast;
His great bright eye most silently
Up to the Moon is cast--
If he may know which way to go;
For she guides him smooth or grim.
See, brother, see! how graciously
She looketh down on him.'
Our deepest sympathies - The Leahy Family.
Richard P Nodden Jr
September 26, 2006
I am very sorry to hear of your loss.I am a first cousin(Brooke and Tyler's brother) but I never met Marc.
Terri Bernhard
September 26, 2006
Mary and Alex,
May each prayer you receive, each person you greet, and each card you receive help ease the burden that you bear at this time. I pray that you will relish the memories that you carry of Marc and the gift that Gad gave you with his life.
Jay White
September 26, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Marc several years ago when he was at CSC and enjoyed our work relationship. His ability to share his wide array of career experiences is something I often share with others. He will be missed.
Sharon Morse-Erwin
September 26, 2006
Alex,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. OLOS CCD Teacher.
kelly gilliard
September 25, 2006
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Anita & Ed Roy
September 25, 2006
Our deepest sympathy in your loss of Marc at such a young age. In time you will be able to remember only the joyful things that made him so special.
This message comes to you from Marc's father's first cousin, Anita Noddin.
Marco & Debbie Ferreira (ING)
September 25, 2006
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dan Colli
September 25, 2006
Mary & Alex-
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and father. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. Keep in mind all the great times everyone shared together as family and hopefully this will sustain you during this difficult period.
A friend
September 25, 2006
My brother worked with Marc and although I don't know your family, I am deeply saddened by your tragic loss. By reading his wonderful obituary, I feel like I know him...and what a wonderful person he must have been. Keep his memory close to your heart.
Jeanne & John Rago
September 25, 2006
Mary and Alex,
We cannont begin to adequately express our sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.We hope you find comfort in the love & caring of family and friends.
Kim M. Campbell
September 25, 2006
Mary and Alex
I have no words to express my deep sorrow and heartache for you both in the loss of Marc. I know how completely you all loved one another.
Hold this close, as I know you will.
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I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
My love and firm support
Kim
Maggie Peterson
September 25, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jayne Blanchette
September 25, 2006
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. May your memories provide some comfort during this difficult time.
September 25, 2006
I was a colleague of Marc's and will miss his dedication, professionalism and smile. Please accept my sincerest condolence.
Nancy Senick
ING
Kim Puglisi
September 25, 2006
With deepest sympathy to Family and Friends... Mark will certainly be missed!
Jeanne Lee
September 25, 2006
Heartfelt sympathy and prayers are sent your way in hopes that these may comfort you in some way and help ease the pain of your loss. Working with Marc was a great experience in knowledge sharing that I will never forget.
Barb Linder
September 25, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Brian Clymer
September 25, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorry.
Joan Munroe
September 25, 2006
Marc had many friends at ING who appreciated his wonderful personality and spirit. We will miss him and will pray for strength for his family at this most painful time.
Angelique Wemmell
September 25, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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