Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Martha Vernlund Obituary
Vernlund, Martha Shepard of Sunapee, NH and formally of Middletown, CT died peacefully with loving family by her side on July 23 at age 92. Beloved mother of Emily DelConte, Trina Hill, Alice Ford, Sarah Vernlund, Carl Vernlund, and Robert Vernlund. Grandmother of Kristin Gundersen Penno, Heather DelConte, Renee DelConte Nevills, Shannon Vernlund Manchesi, Lauren Vernlund, Ryan Vernlund, Jessie Ford & Anders Lundgren. Great Grandmother of Emma Nevills, Madeleine Penno, Austin & Lily Manchesi and many nieces and nephews of the Shepard and Irwin clans. Pre-deceased by siblings Francis Irwin and William Shepard; former husband Robert James Vernlund MD and nephew Christopher Irwin. Born in Berlin, CT on November 15, 1922 to Katrina B. and William C. Shepard. Martha attended the The Day School in New Haven and graduated from Vassar College (1943) with a degree in French. She married Robert J. Vernlund MD in October 1946. She worked as a civilian for the Navy in Quonset Point, RI and after raising her family, for the CT Forest and Park Association in Middletown, CT. Martha was a member of the Unitarian Universalist Church of West Hartford, CT. She resided for many years in Middletown CT on her horse farm. She was a charter member of the Berlin Land Trust and served on the board of Directors until her retirement in June, 2014. Her greatest joy was spending time with family. A Celebration of Life for Martha will be held on Saturday, August 1st at 4:30 PM at St. James Church in Burkehaven, NH. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Berlin Land Trust, Inc. P.O. Box 94, Berlin, CT.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Martha Vernlund
Sponsored by the family.
Peggu Beyers-Ferrell
September 18, 2019
I'm so sad to see the loving Martha has passed. I have been looking for her. I cleaned her house for 4yrs until My Mom passed. She was so caring to My kids n I. She was a loving caring Sweet Soft Beautiful lady. She will always have a special piece of my Heart. My Heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I'm so Sorry. I really loved Martha, I had a many memories with her. I thought she would be here passed 100. God Rest Her Soul. Love Always Peggy ❤
Stephanie Denton Cuzzocreo
August 5, 2015
Sending condolences and sympathy to Sarah and siblings on the passing of your mother. She was a wonderful, warm-hearted woman who always made me feel accepted as part of the gang. I have many happy memories of my childhood spent in the company of your family.
August 2, 2015
I have wonderful memories centering around the horses and ponies, dogs, and goats in Sunset Farm and the Middletown farm, with Mrs. Vernlund's kindness and generosity toward me never forgotten. She was a special person. My condolences to Satah, Rob, Carl, Trina, Alice, Emily, and the entire family. - Carol Denton Arrowsmith
July 28, 2015
Sorry for your Loss. She a was a beautiful woman and I imagine you all have very good memories of times with her! Ginny Raposo
David Stoltz
July 27, 2015
Judy and I offer our condolences and wish you and Nellie and your entire family blessings of Love and Light and the great memories that are yours forever.
Joey Kositzky
July 27, 2015
It was obvious to me that she was a special lady the minute I met her. Sharing the day and a seat on the Red Bus in Glacier National Park is one of my fondest memories. My thoughts and prayers are with all of her family .....
MaryAnn Troilo
July 27, 2015
I wish to express my condolences to Dave Liz and Martha's entire family. I never met Martha..but as I look at her photo I see a strong yet gentle soul. Rest peacefully
Christine Bunce
July 27, 2015
So very sorry for your loss. May her memories sustain you every day.
July 27, 2015
Carl, Rob
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom. While I didn't know her personally, I had the pleasure of attending school with several of her children and, because of those interactions I know she was a very special woman.
Princeton Stephenson
Cleotilde Lopez
July 27, 2015
Hello, Liz & Dave Shepard. I'd like to send my sincere condolences. I am truly sorry for your loss. I' just read Martha Vernlund's obituary. She lived a good life with remarkable and impressive accomplishments. Again, please accept my condolences. I will remember you and your loved ones in my prayers. God bless.
Karen Sevenoff
July 26, 2015
Loved your Mom very much. She was quite a lady and will make an excellent Angel! Jamie and I send our deep condolences and warmest blessings and appreciation for Martha and all of you. Your Mom's grace has had a direct and glorious impact and blessing on our lives. We will be forever grateful to her for the peace she created here.Looking forward to seeing you Saturday. Thanks and Love Always, Karen Sevenoff & Jamie Wright
Cathy & Ron Manchesi
July 26, 2015
Our sincere condolences to Carl, Shannon, Mike, Lauren, Ryan & all Martha's family. She was a very sweet & amazing woman, who leaves a wonderful legacy to her to her family. So glad our grandchildren, Austin & Lily, had time to make special memories with their Great Grandma Marney. Love, Cathy & Ron
Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results
Make a Donation
in Martha Vernlund's name
Memorial Events
for Martha Vernlund
How to support Martha's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Martha Vernlund's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
