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Matthew MELANSON Obituary
MELANSON, Matthew Marc
Matthew Marc Melanson, age 22, of Simsbury, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, April 21, 2013. Born on September 14, 1990 to Marc and Tracey (Armstrong) Melanson, Matthew was a lifelong resident of Simsbury where he graduated from Simsbury High School in 2009. In 2008, he enlisted in the Connecticut National Guard Charlie Company of the 102nd Infantry Division. Matt transferred to Alpha 1/181 of the Massachusetts National Guard serving a tour of duty in Afghanistan in 2011-2012. Matt was also a former member of the Simsbury Volunteer Fire Department. Currently, he was an active member of Charlie Company 102nd and a student at Tunxis Community College. Matt was fiercely proud of his service to his country and his brothers with whom he served. All who encountered Matt were touched by his infectious smile, enormous generosity and unhampered spirit. Matt's interests included snowboarding and offroading in his Jeep, but he was most passionate about his family, his friends and service to his community and country. Matthew is survived by his parents, Marc and Tracey of Simsbury, his sister, Heather and her fiancé Sean Boyd of Canton, MA, his brother, Andrew currently stationed at Barksdale Air Force Base in Louisiana, his brother, David of Simsbury, his maternal grandmother, Joy Armstrong of Winsted and his paternal grandmother, Ethel Melanson of Simsbury. He also leaves behind countless aunts, uncles and cousins. He was predeceased by his maternal grandfather, Richard Armstrong, and his paternal grandfather, Alfred Melanson. Matt was loved by many and will never be forgotten.
Calling hours will be at the Vincent Funeral Home, 880 Hopmeadow Street in Simsbury on Thursday, April 25th from 4-8 p.m. Funeral Mass of Christian Burial will be Friday, April 26th 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, 942 Hopmeadow Street in Simsbury. Burial with military honors will follow in Simsbury Cemetery. Please visit Matt's "Book of Memories" at www.vincentfuneralhome.com for online condolences. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider donations to The Tunxis Oasis, c/o The Tunxis Community College Foundation, 271 Scott Swamp Road, Farmington, CT 06032 to benefit Oasis and Tunxis students who are veterans, especially those suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). At ease soldier, we'll take over from here.
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Michelle Turner (Langer)
June 4, 2013
My Condolences go out to you and your Family on the lost of your Son Matthew , prayers to you all.
May 10, 2013
To all the Melansons:
So sorry to hear of your loss. We as Americans are blessed that we have brave young men like Matt to ensure our freedom. Please accept our sincere condolences. From Mary Brian and Kelly Kinahan
Wayne Travers Jr.
April 30, 2013
I didn't know you, Matthew, but we both served in the same battalion, 1/102d Infantry, and thus we're connected. Thank you for your service to our nation and your community. R.I.P., Soldier and "Stand Forth!"
Tim DiPace
April 29, 2013
Mark and Tracy,
My sincere condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I am greatful for Matthew's service to our country. I know the experiences and am here for you if you want to chat.
Tim DiPace
MCPO, US Navy
BG (RET) CTARNG G. Ottenbreit
April 29, 2013
My prayers and condolences to the family:
“It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived.” U.S. Army Gen. George S. Patton
Chuck & Carol Johnson
April 28, 2013
Tracey and Marc, I'm so sorry for your loss.
FF
April 27, 2013
To the Family, Please look to Our merciful and loving God to comfort you at this difficult time. May his precious love bring comfort to your hearts. . He says "I have heard your prayers, I have seen your tears" 2 Kings 20:5.
Katrina Hall
April 27, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
April 27, 2013
Dear Marc and Tracy, we cannot imagine your grief and enormous loss of your precious son, our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you. Guy and Elaine Theriault, Moncton
April 26, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Lieberman Family -Sam's Mom and Dad
Matt (WHFD) and Sharon Stuart
April 26, 2013
To the Melanson Family-
Please accept deepest our condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Claudia Ladetto
April 26, 2013
My most sincere condolences to the Melanson Family; your loss is profound. Your wonderful son will be missed and always remembered.
Jackie Griggs (Horner)
April 26, 2013
Dear Mark and Tracy, I can't imagine your sadness for such a great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know the Melansons are a close-knit family bonded with love. And a family with strong faith, so I am certain God will give you the strength and courage to move forward until the day we see Matt again. May you celebrate Matt's life as you remember all the good memories.
Michelle Paquette
April 25, 2013
Marc and Tracey, I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. I remember babysitting for Matt about 15 years ago. I am praying for you and the kids. You are such wonderful parents and my heart goes out to you all. Lots of love always, Michelle Paquette (Cunningham) and my 14 month old son Brady and husband Brian
Jennifer Sanborn
April 25, 2013
We are praying for all of you. I'm a friend of Louise's, and so I know from a distance the warmth and love of the extraordinary Melanson family. May all those relatives mean a storehouse of memories about Matt that will never run empty. God has welcomed him, and we pray his way to the light.
April 25, 2013
Dear Mr.& Mrs Melanson
You do not know me but I have served my country also and it saddens me to hear of your loss. May god greet our warriors at the pearly gates and please accept my condolences. May gods eternal light shine on Matthew and your family.
God bless you.
(Friend of Chris Lindsay)
Laura (green) and Derrick Platner
April 25, 2013
Marc I am so sorry for your loss you and your family will be in our prayers and thoughts
Arlette & Bob Stawasz
April 25, 2013
Dear Mar and Tracy,
Words fail us. We can't imagine how sad you must be. Know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathy
April 25, 2013
You are in my prayers.
Charlene LaVoie
April 25, 2013
Marc,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son. Our condolences to you and your family.
Charlene & Lee
Sheryl McCrystal Postmaster
April 25, 2013
May the Lord comfort you and your family in your grief. With deepest sympathies,
April 25, 2013
I first heard of Matthew Melanson through my friend Bradley Noone who served with Matt in Central Asia. I know Brad through the Colorado-based groups Paradox Sports and Veterans Expeditions which have been doing outstanding work with veterans and adaptive athletes. Later I discovered he was the nephew of Blair Wlochowski who I know through the Connecticut climbing and outdoor-education community.
While I never met Matt, I am grateful for his proud service to our country. No doubt, he was a loyal friend to many. To Brad, Blair, Andrea and the rest of the Wlochowski and Melanson families, please know that you have my deepest sympathies and heartfelt best wishes in your time of grief.
Chad Hussey
Farmington, CT
Marcel & Susan Barrieau
April 25, 2013
Marc, Tracey, & Family,
Our sincerest condolences for your loss. Matthew is in our hearts and prayers.
Marcel & Susan Barrieau & Family
Joanie Politis Hacia
April 25, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the entire Melanson family. The Lord has a new angel who will watch over all of you.
Lindsey Barrieau
April 25, 2013
Marc, Tracy, Heather, Andrew, David, & Extended family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Matthew was loved by so many and will be greatly missed.
Love Lindsey Barrieau
April 25, 2013
Marc & Tracey, it was deeply saddening reading of your loss My & Regina's prayers are with you.
Alex & Regina RuDewicz
Mike Gluth & Family
April 25, 2013
Dear Marc and Tracey,
Our families have a 40-year history of friendship, love and support. You, and all the Melansons, are in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Deb ANGELL
April 25, 2013
He served his country. He is a hero! God Bless him.
Kayce Gannon
April 24, 2013
Dan, Kayce, Danny & Krista Gannon
Laurie Carlson
April 24, 2013
Marc and Tracey, I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. My words can not express how deeply saddened I am for you. You will be in my prayers now and forever.
Frank and Ann Sanford
April 24, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to all of the Melanson family on your loss. Thank you Matt for your service to our country. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Ann Sanford
April 24, 2013
Marc and Tracey,
I was very saddened to hear the news about Matt, my and my families thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family and extended family.
Kelly and Cindy O'Laughlin
Lisa Patrick-Rhoads
April 24, 2013
Tracy I have known you since high school, just breaks my heart to see your family in so much pain, sendig many prayers your way peace be with you.
April 24, 2013
Marc, Tracey and extended family, Our sincere condolences are sent to you!.You are all in our thoughts and prayers!
Denis & Barbara Bilodeau
Ronda/Ogden Lummis(habersang)
April 24, 2013
Though we did not know Matthew well, our son David Habersang is a good friend of Andrew - We have fond memories of their high school years together and want to let him and his family know we are thinking of you and hope that thru the pain you can think of those special times you had with Matt. So so sorry for your loss -
Frank and Sheila Misericordia
April 24, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Melanson family.
The Misericordia Family
April 24, 2013
Sincères condoléances à Ethel et la familles Marc & Tracey. Nos pensées sont avec vous.
Cousins et cousins Maria, Jeanne, Imelda, Camille & Thelma, Jean
Xinia Novia
April 24, 2013
My heart just broke when I heard about Matt. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Rheal & Tracy, Alex & Renee Barrieau
April 24, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with Matt's family and friends during this difficult time. We're thinking of you all.
April 24, 2013
Sincères condoléances à Ethel et la famille de Marc & Tracey.
Des cousins/cousins Maria, Jeanne, Imelda,Camille & Thelma, Jean
Moncton, NB
Finbarr & Sinead Buckley
April 24, 2013
Marc, Tracey and the extended Melanson family, please accept our sincere condolences from Finbarr and Sinead Buckley and family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers, the few times we happened to meet Matt he was so full of joy and a real pleasure to spend time with, Shane and Niamh remember him with great fondness, all our love and prayers at this difficult time
April 24, 2013
I am so sad to hear this news. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Barb DeBellis Naugle
Rita Rousseau
April 24, 2013
Being a Melanson, I know you to be a good human being, also way too young to leave this earth. Thank You for your service sir, and rest in peace.
Karen Karg-Roller
April 24, 2013
Matt earned a special place in my heart when he walked into my CCD class at St Mary's so many years ago with that beautiful smile and heart of his. I loved watching him grow up and turn into a fine young man. He always had a bright smile and hello for me when ever our paths crossed. And he will always have own that special place in my heart. What a beautiful soul. My heart goes out to you all.
Steve Mondaca
April 24, 2013
Matt was a close friend for many years. Always there at the drop of a hat if you asked, and always with that infectious grin. I don't know why he left so soon, or what plans the Lord has for him, but I can't wait for the day we meet again.
I pray all family and friends find the comfort needed to get past this tragedy.
Pam & Paul Kelley
April 24, 2013
Matt was a bright light in this world, gone too soon. Our thoughts are with all his loved ones
Jon, Linda, Katelyn and Justin
April 24, 2013
Matt will always hold a special place in our hearts. He has touched each of us in many ways and we will cherish those memories forever. Our hearts go out to the Melanson Family
Barrieau Family
April 24, 2013
Matthew will be dearly missed in Bouctouche and by his Canadian close relatives. With thoughts and prayers,
Joe&Maureen DiPace
April 24, 2013
Marc and Tracey: I`m so sorry for your loss.
Tom, Lisajean, Amanda & Cody
April 24, 2013
At the end of a visit or a phone conversation Matt would say "I love you Auntie Lisa" and I would reply " I love you more my favorite Godson" Matt would laugh and say " that's because I'm your only God son" "yaa, that's because the Good Lord knew I couldn't handle two of you" and we would both laugh. Now I look back and realize...he was so special I only needed one. So many heartfelt prayers and thoughts are for Matty and his family.
Kelly Barrieau
April 24, 2013
Marc and Family,
We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your son Matthew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Kelly, Gilles and Devan Barrieau
Saint John, NB
Litchfield Gardens and Litchfield Heights Apartments
April 24, 2013
It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of God, family and friends can carry you through.
Kimberly Sanders
April 24, 2013
On behalf of President/Chief Administrator David Eustis and the entire Northwest Catholic High School community, I offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of Matthew Melanson.
Because his parents Marc '78 and Tracey Melanson, his uncles Stephen Melanson '74, Robert Melanson '79, Charles Melanson '81, Donald Melanson '84, Paul Melanson '87, and Daniel Melanson '99, his aunts Charline Melanson Poirier '76, Denise Melanson McDonald '77, and Andrea Melanson Wlochowski '85, and his cousins Susan Poirier Zybert '99, Christopher Poirier '01, Michael Poirier '03, Michelle Poirier '05, Nicole Poirier '11 and Patrick Melanson '13 are cherished members of our school family, we feel that Matthew was, too, and we mourn his too-soon death along with all those who love him.
Please know that we are holding all of Matthew's family very close to our hearts this week, and that we will include Matthew on the prayer list at our next school-wide Mass. We are very sorry for your loss.
~ Kimberly Sanders, Director of Communications, Northwest Catholic High School
Jill Brakeman
April 24, 2013
My thoughts are with you all in this sad time. You are in my prayers.
Dave Olson
April 24, 2013
To the family of Matt,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this so very difficult and transitional time. All of your fond memories of Matt, will be cherished... and live on forever!
Sincerely,
Dave Olson
Paul, Jeannine Melanson
April 24, 2013
Our deepest sympathy Ethel to you and your family, our taught and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jennifer Menard Milush
April 24, 2013
We are deeply saddened by Matt's passing, and you are constantly remembered in our thoughts and prayers. We are grateful for his life and service and know he is loved and will be missed by many.
Mary and Charlie
April 24, 2013
We are deeply moved by the passing of this vivacious young man, a champion of our country and a vibrant thread in a tightly weaved family. Our thoughts, prayers and hearts are with you and with Matt who is surely with friends and family in the Lord's home.
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