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Melvin Lacafta Obituary

Melvin James Lacafta, 95, of Granby, beloved husband of the late Jean (Martin) Lacafta, peacefully passed away at home on Friday, November 19, 2021.  Son of the late Peter and Louise (Melvin) Lacafta, he was born in Manchester on November 28, 1925.  Melvin proudly served his country in the United States Navy aboard the USS Leslye B. Knox during WWII.  He had a long career as a general foreman at Hamilton Standard.  Melvin was an avid fly fisherman who took pride in teaching the sport.  He loved spending summers at his beloved camp on the Natchaug River and welcomed all who wanted to visit.  He also enjoyed cooking, and his famous pizza recipe will live on for future generations. Melvin lived life to the fullest and was especially proud of his beloved family and grandchildren.  When asked about his legacy, he said he lived each day with the mantra, "Soldier on."  Melvin is survived by seven children: Sandra Dykstra and her husband James of Fort Meyers, FL, Peter Lacafta and his wife Leslye of Bloomfield, William Lacafta and his wife Susanne of Houston, TX, James Lacafta and his partner Dennis Burke of Ft. Lauderdale, FL, Mel Lacafta and his girlfriend Carrie Liquore of Enfield, Dawn Marie Conde and her husband Frank of Granby, and Joseph Lacafta of Wethersfield.  He also leaves behind 14 grandchildren, 14 great grandchildren, and 1 great great grandchild.  In addition to his beloved wife Jean, Melvin was predeceased by his son, John Lacafta and sister, Rose O'Connell.  Services will be held at a later date, at the convenience of the family.  Leete-Stevens Enfield Chapels has care of the arrangements.  For online condolences, please visit www.leetestevens.com.  The family extends its sincere thanks to the staff of Masonicare of East Hartford.  In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Masonicare at www.masonicare.org.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 25, 2021.

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VALERIE PATRY

December 3, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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November 25, 2021

Love you Mel,Soldier On my friend.

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November 24, 2021

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