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Norma Morganbesser Obituary

Norma Elizabeth Morganbesser died peacefully at her home at the Goodwin House in Falls Church, Virginia on Monday, August 30, 2021 at the age of 86. Born Norma Haber in New York City to Louis and Tessie Haber, she grew up in the Bronx. Norma graduated from the City College of New York and became an elementary school teacher in the New York City public school system. Norma married Marvin Morganbesser in 1962 (after meeting him at a dude ranch), and in 1967 she moved – reluctantly – from New York City to Connecticut, residing from 1967-1971 in Wethersfield and from 1971-2010 in West Hartford, which she grew to love. In 2010, following Marvin's retirement from CCIA, they moved to the Goodwin House in Falls Church, Virginia. Norma was an active volunteer in the West Hartford public school system and worked professionally as an elementary school teacher at a Jewish day school in the 1980s. Norma was a devoted and reliable friend, and she thoroughly enjoyed her social life in the Cliffmore-Berwyn neighborhood and at the Farmington Club, where she loved to play tennis. She will always be remembered for her intelligence, strength and fierce loyalty. Norma was an active bridge player with her husband, Marvin, and following Marvin's death in 2012 she played with many of her friends at the Goodwin House, continuing to play and racking up master points through the weeks and even days before her death. Norma consistently demonstrated a remarkable energy, resilience and love of life, enabling her to survive repeated cancer diagnoses – the earliest in 1988 – in complete defiance of the "odds" (which she just refused to accept). Norma took great pride in her children and grandchildren, and she loved to follow every detail of their educational, professional, athletic and personal endeavors – and never hesitated to share that pride and those details with others. Norma is survived by her son Neil Morganbesser, her grandchildren Lauren and Jason Morganbesser, Neil's partner Ellen Liao and stepdaughter Nathalie Rebolledo, of Los Angeles, California, and Norma's daughter Jill Patrone, son-in-law Eugene Patrone III, and grandchildren Matthew and Chloe Patrone of Falls Church, Virginia. Funeral services will be held at the Hartford Mutual Society Memorial Park, 74 Wolcott Road, Simsbury, Connecticut at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, September 5, 2021. Donations in memory of Norma Morganbesser may be sent to the Goodwin House Hospice, 3440 S. Jefferson St., Falls Church, VA 22041.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 1, 2021.

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Adrian J. Otero

September 7, 2021

I do believe that Ms. Haber was my 5th grade teacher at P.S. 192 in Manhattan, NY. Most sincere condolences to family and friends. She will forever be remembered for her remarkable attributes

The Henry Family

September 5, 2021

Please accept our condolences and may you find peace in loving memories of Norma.

Lynette Taylor Grande

September 1, 2021

Dear Jill and Family ~
With fond memories of your Mother, I send condolences on your loss. Beyond her professional gifts, Norma was memorable to me for her kindness. I am not sure if you remember her offering my toddler Bobby a red tricycle which must have been enjoyed by you and Neil. It was such a meaningful gift to a special boy. I remember visiting your home for lunch and being surprised by this much-appreciated token of her love. May you be blessed with many more memories of a lovely lady who left a wonderful legacy.

Deanna Shuman

September 1, 2021

Norma was a strong persona in my life here at Goodwin House whether we played bridge, ate dinner or laughed together. I will miss her as well as all our bridge friends

Vinnie Seidita

September 1, 2021

Norma was a kind, considerate and generous person. She was a wonderful mother and grandmother. She is loved by everyone who knew her and I miss her very much. I like to think that she is with Marvin.

Michele Patrone

September 1, 2021

So beautiful! I have such fond memories of Norma and can only hope to be as strong as she was. She was an amazing mother in law to my brother. Norma had the most wonderful relationship with her grandchildren and they will cherish those memories forever. Love you all!

Judy Kotick

September 1, 2021

So sorry to hear of Norma´s passing.I have lots of memories of fun times spent together with her and Marvin and the Smernoffs.

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