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KISNER, Paul D.
Paul David Kisner, 55 of Amston, CT, beloved husband and father, passed away suddenly on May 24, 2013. Born Jan. 7, 1958, the son of Edward and Jessie (Sarnmark) Kisner. Paul grew up in Hebron and was a graduate of Xavier High School. Paul married his soul mate, Marlene (Ross) Kisner Aug. 7, 1982, and brought three beautiful boys into the world - the pride of his life. Paul worked for the US Postal Service for 29 years. He devoted his spare time to coaching football in Hebron, both at the youth and high school level for 12 years. He is survived by his wife Marlene Kisner; sons and daughter in laws, Brian & Nikki and Tyler & Megan; mother, Jessie Kisner; brother, Stephen Kisner; brothers and wives, Mark & Lynn Kisner, David & Donna Kisner; many nieces and nephews and his precious grandchildren, Gabriella and Jacob Kisner.
Friends and family may attend calling hours on Thursday, May 30 from 4-6 p.m. at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Rd., Colchester. A memorial services will follow immediately at 6 p.m. at the Funeral Home. Burial will be private. Donations in his memory may be made to the RHAM Youth Football and Cheerleading, P.O. Box 209, Hebron, CT 06248.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul KISNER
Tony Alfano
May 20, 2019
I remember the good times I had with the whole Kisner clan. Paul was a GREAT ATHELETE and a good father and husband. sleep well Paul and know that you are loved and remembered.
Jolene Eastman
August 22, 2013
Aunt Jesse,Mark,Steven and David I am so Sorry for your loss. I live in California and did not hear about this until now. Please accept my apologies for being so late. i Love you all.
Beatrix Paguada
June 10, 2013
Marlene and family,
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with at this difficult time. Stay strong.
Art Griswold
June 6, 2013
My deepest sympathy's to the whole Kisner clan. I grew up on Old Colchester Rd and they were great neighbors. We had some great times playing ball in our side yard!!! The Kisners, Longs and Griswolds. Stay strong Paul will be looking down upon you.
Art Griswold
JaMina EnGram
June 4, 2013
My heart and prayers go out to the Kinser family. I worked with Paul for many years at the Post Office at Bradley. I enjoyed talking with him, he was very knowledgeable and also very funny. He was a wonderful person and co-worker and will truly be missed.
Judith Shuff-Bruce
June 1, 2013
To the entire Kisner family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Paul was a wonderful person and co-worker.
Rhonda Harvey
June 1, 2013
Aunt Jessie, Stephen, Mark and David, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ms. Mooney
May 31, 2013
Tyler and family, I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Wishing fond memories of you all together will bring some comfort not only today and always.
I will never forget his dedication to RHAM athletics and the pride he had watching you all play.
Gary Kaplan
May 31, 2013
I'm going to miss Paul he helped me so much through my rough times! I will never forget what a true friend he was he is an angel!
Stan Fox
May 30, 2013
Marlene, So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and friend. I am sure that his life was rich and rewarding. May you find strength during this difficult time.
May 30, 2013
I am so sorry for your lose, all of you. He was a great man and will be missed very much. Everyone who knew him lost someone special. I will have you all in my thoughts constantly.
Ann & Wayne England
May 30, 2013
Mark and Steve, We were so sad to read of your brother's death. Our thoughts are with you.
May 29, 2013
Dear Marlene and family, Our hearts were saddened when we heard about your loss! Please know you are in our prayers! Dan and I and all of our kids have such fond memories of Paul from Rham youth football! May God Bless you during this sad time. Mary Woods Cafro and Dan Cafro
Jim Morrison
May 28, 2013
Mrs. Kisner and family,
I don't have words to express the feelings I have on hearing of your loss. Coach taught me and my fellow teammates so much our freshman year playing football for RHAM High School that we not only carried all 4 years at RHAM but, I know I will carry for the rest of my life. He gave the 13 of us not only the skills and values to be successful on the field but also off the field. We will always be, as he called us, "His boys" Coach will be forever in my heart, thoughts and prayers. He will be greatly missed and I am honored to have had him in my life.
May 28, 2013
Dear Marlene and family,
Please accept our sincere prayers for you and your family during this very difficult time. I will pray for the comfort and car of friends and family carry you through this tragic event.
Love, Sheila DeLuca
May 28, 2013
Dave, Donna & the Kisner Family,
We are truly sorry to hear about Paul's passing and would like you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May strength and peace be with you to see you through such a difficult time. Our Love, John & Laura Steiner
May 28, 2013
Dear Marlene, Tyler and Brian: We were all shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's passing and are so sorry for your loss. Our family has many fond memories of the times the boys spent together on the football field and wrestling mat. Paul was a great guy and left a lasting impact as a coach. May God bless your family. We will keep you in our prayers. Brian & Barbara Levasseur, Frank Conaci, Danielle & Rachelle
May 28, 2013
Marlene and boys, I am so sorry for you loss. It has been a long time, but you are all remembered fondly in our hearts. Old friends and good memories are never forgotten. Love to you all.
Paul and Linda Caswell
Wayne and Sandy Chasse
May 27, 2013
Dearest Marlene, Brian,and Tyler and your families,Wayne and I are greatly saddend at the loss of your Beloved husband , Dad and Grampa,the entire Kisner family, Wayne ,I,and Nick and Amber , have ALL of you in our hearts and prayers . Paul was a really great guy and gave so much of himself to everyone in all he did,especially with our RHAM football family, he was a great all round guy and a terrific fun coach and loved by all his kids he coached over all these years. May you all find the strength to get thru this sad loss together ,prayers and HUGS to all of you The Chasse Family Wayne Sandy and Nick Chasse and Amber Chasse Tommasi
Barbara Allison
May 27, 2013
Dear Marlene, Brian, Tyler and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We want you to know that our hearts are with you during this difficult time.
We will always have fond memories of Coach Kisner.
With our heartfelt sympathy,
The Allison's
Barbara, Michael, Ryan and Khaliyl
Lois Roy/Lunt
May 27, 2013
May You feel the comfort of Gods embrass. Paul will surely be missed.
Peace & Love
May 27, 2013
Marlene & family we are so sorry to hear of your loss Our thoughts are prayers are with you. Mike & Deb Baribault
May 27, 2013
my heart and prayers are with you and your family as you go through the following days and weeks. GOD BLESS YOU ALL
May 27, 2013
I am sorry for you loss, I read with great sadness the pasting of coach Kisner. I have great memories of the year we coach youth football. the many good games and conversation with Paul. He will be truly missed. Rick Senger ( Ellington Youth Football)
May 26, 2013
Paul will always be remembered for his unique sense of humor and will always be missed. One of those people you can't help but to like. My sympathies to the family.
Sorry, John Holcomb, APWU
May 26, 2013
Paul was one of those people I'll always remember at the Post Office. Always with a sense of humor and never taking anything too seriously. A good man who will be missed. Sympathies to the family. John Holcomb, APWU
Chris & Todd Christensen
May 26, 2013
Marlene and family; We are very sorry for your loss. We have fond memories of Paul, you and the boys playing softball with the Bradley Bombers, picnics and swimming on hot summer days. Paul was a fun, loving, caring man. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Chris & Todd Christensen
May 26, 2013
Marlene and family; We are sorry for your loss. We have very fond memories of time spent with you, Paul and the boys. Playing softball with the Bradley Bombers, enjoying picnics and swimming with the kids. Paul was a fun, loving, caring man who will be missed and we offer our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Tony and Pauline Alfano
May 26, 2013
With many fond memories we send our greatest sympathy for all the family and wish them the best always. Paul was one of the greatest kids I ever coached.
Mark Petrizzo
May 26, 2013
I am very sorry for your loss. I was Paul's supervisor at the West Hartford Post Office. Paul was always a pleasure to be around. We had many conversations about everything from football and family to our shared experiences working for the Postal Service. Paul was always polite and pleasant whenever I spoke to him and was well liked by all of his customers and co-workers. He will be missed.
Marlene
May 26, 2013
Paul you were and always will be the love of my life. What we shared as a husband and wife, mother and father and now grandparents was so special. You were my rock. You completed me and i completed you. You have made me into the woman i am today. It hurts so much to know that i will never be able to talk to you again , see your beautiful smile and just hold your hand. I do know in my heart that we will be together again for eternity some day but that is so far away. Please help me through this just as you always did when we had to face adversities in our life.i love you so
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