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Peter Rival Obituary

RIVAL, Peter Richard Peter Richard Rival, 65, of New Britain, passed away peacefully Tuesday (July 22, 2008), at the Hospital of Central Connecticut at New Britain General. Born on August 31, 1942 in New Britain, Peter was the son of the late Edmund and Florence (Callahan) Rival. Peter was a graduate of New Britain High School where he played basketball and baseball. Throughout his life, Peter was an avid baseball fan, coach and player. He had a true love for the game, playing on several softball teams, including the champion Gartenhaus team until 1982. Peter was most recently employed by Stanley Golf Course. Known best, perhaps, for his infectious sense of humor, Peter will be greatly missed by all of his family and friends. Peter is survived by his loving wife of 31 years, Ann (Clark) Rival, daughter Lisa and son-in-law, Jason Ostrout, grandsons, Cameron and Brady Ostrout, son Kevin Rival, all of New Britain, brothers, Charles Rival of Kensington and Walter Rival of The Villages, FL and several nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Celebration of Peter's Life, Friday, July 25 at 10 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Church, 655 East Street, New Britain. Committal service and final resting place will be in Saint Mary Cemetery, Stanley Street, New Britain. There are no calling hours. To extend condolences or to share a memory of Peter, please visit our website @ www.shakerfu neralhome.com. The Paul A. Shaker/Farmingdale Funeral Home, 764 Farmington Avenue, New Britain has charge of arrangements.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 23, 2008.

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George, Janet & George Nurisso

August 4, 2008

Kevin, we just learned about your loss. Although we didn't know your father, we can see how special he was and how much he will be missed by family and friends. We will keep him and you and your mom and sister in our prayers.

Christine Murphy

July 26, 2008

To the entire Rival family ,
Peter was such a special guy . We didn't see him often but every single time we did, it was like we were his long-lost friends- we loved him and the light he brought into every room. God bless you Peter .
Chris and Tony Murphy

Michael Carragher

July 26, 2008

Dear Kevin and Family,

I was very saddened to hear of the loss of your father. Having lost my father this year, I know how difficult it can be. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need.

Bob Struzenski Sr.

July 25, 2008

To my team mate in life, my pal Pete.
You are not gone, you are just not here.
You will be with me always in my mind, heart and spirit.
Love Ya, Bob Struzenski Sr.

Michelle Gustavson

July 25, 2008

Lisa, Kevin and Mrs. Rival,
I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Rival is in a safe place and will always be watching over his beloved family and protecting them. May you be strong with all of the wonderful happy memories you have to remember him by. I send my deepest condolences.

Bill, Mary Anne, Greg and Pete Pellegrini

July 25, 2008

Ann, Lisa and Kevin,
All you had to say was say "baseball" and Pete was there. He was a great coach and a good person. He will be missed.

Richard Callahan

July 25, 2008

Ann, athough I am unable to attend Pete's service I want you to know how sad I was to hear of his passing. One of a kind and one of the kindest person I will ever know. My dad thought so much of Pete and I know the feeling was mutual. I have some pictures when you visited my parents camping and I will get them to you soon. Rick

Adam Peters

July 25, 2008

Kevin,
I am so sorry for your loss. I only had the chance to meet your Dad several times and from those meetings I could tell how special he was. I know how much he meant to you and your family just from the way you spoke of him. My condolences to you and all of your family.

July 24, 2008

Lindsay Windish

July 24, 2008

Kevin and Lisa,
I was so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a great man, and will be missed. You both are in my thoughts.

Kevin Rival

July 24, 2008

I'm just signing your book because i know you want me in it.i could just picture you reading this with you're magnifying glass at the table with mom and lexi.(right after you just called me to tell me i'm you're buddy)..i know you're still in my back pocket from the day i left for baseball,but i still miss you like crazy..love kev

J gallicchio

July 24, 2008

Dear Kev and Lisa,
We never got a chance to meet your dad but know that he raised some really great, smart, caring, funny and loving children and grandchildren. Your father will be missed by all.... keep his laughter and smiles going...he will love that most....

Chris Machol

July 24, 2008

Kevin,

I was sorry to hear about your father. He was a great coach and teacher, and more importantly a great guy. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Judith Strong

July 24, 2008

Kevin,
We are so sorry to hear about your father. You and your family our in our prayers. Come by and see us.
Jerry and Judy Strong

George Windish

July 24, 2008

Dear Ann, Lisa and Kevin;

Our family was sadden to hear of your loss. Dad and I saw Peter over the winter and as always he was the positive about everything that was going on. He had a great outlook on sports when he played softball with his competiveness, aggressiveness and love of the game. On behalf of all the players from The Little Casa Loma, Elmer's Place, Dack Industries and Iffland Lumber who competed with and knew Peter, our sincere condolences.

The Windish Family (Newington)
George Windish, Sr (New Britain)

July 24, 2008

Kevin, Lisa, and Ann

While growing up playing sports, and being a virtual resident of the Rival household for many years I got a chance to know and learn from one of the funniest, most influential people I have ever had the privilege of meeting. He was wise to the ways of the world, and ALWAYS knew how to put things into perspective. Pete's memory will live strong within all of us who knew him. My thoughts are with all of you. Love you guys.

-Artie Ritone

Shelby & Norm Nadeau

July 24, 2008

Lisa & Family,
We're so very sorry to hear of your father's passing. He was a great man always remember the great times you all shared together. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Anna Jun

July 24, 2008

Mrs. Rival, Lisa, and Kevin,
I'm so sorry about the loss of "Big Pete" and my thoughts are with you. I will never forget his uncanny ability to light up a room and keep everyone laughing.
Love Always...

Heather Carpenter

July 24, 2008

Kevin and Family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Kyle and Deanna Levengood

July 23, 2008

The Rival Family,

Kevin has been an outstanding friend to my wife and I for many years. You have a son, brother and uncle to be proud of. I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Rival a few times, all of course ending in laughter. He was a good man and I thank him for leaving us a friend like Kevin.

Ronald Sullivan

July 23, 2008

Dear Wally and Rose,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your brother Pete. I often think of his younger years and how he excelled in sports. I always thought he would be a baseball player. He was a good guy to grow up with. I will keep him and your family in my prayers.
Ron and Lucille Sullivan

Ronald Sullivan

July 23, 2008

Dear Wally and Rose,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your brother Pete. I often think of his younger years and how he excelled in sports. I always thought he would be a baseball player. He was a good guy to grow up with. I will keep him and your family in my prayers.

Marc Harris

July 23, 2008

Jason and Lisa,

I am sorry for your loss.

Carmine

July 23, 2008

Kev, Lisa, Mrs. Rival
I can't put into words how greatful I am to have known Mr. Rival... He taught me so much about not only sports but life and he didn't even know he was doin it. He loved his family the most especially you three.. I feel blessed to have known him... He will always be in my prayers....

Jaron Cohen

July 23, 2008

One of my favorite memories of my childhood was talking to Mr. Rival before and after Little League games and listening to his comedic and serious encouragement. He was a great man and my deepest condolences to your family.

Tyson & Barb Sandquist

July 23, 2008

To the Rival Family,
I our short time knowing Mr. Rival he was a great and funny man that will be deeply missed. I wish you all the best during these difficult times.

Larry Callahan

July 23, 2008

To the entire Rival Family, the Cromwell Callahan's send their love and prayers to all of you. I always thought of Pete as one of my brothers, and in Uncle Dick's eyes he was a son. When they built Peter Rival they broke the mold. I was so greatful that I was able to visit him on Friday, and will hold that visit close to me heart. God bless all of you, and may he keep you in the palm of of his hand

Love Larry, Donna Jen and Erin

Gregory & Rose Smith

July 23, 2008

Both Greg and I are so sorry for your loss. He was a great man!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Ray Acey

July 23, 2008

To the Rival Family,
The world will be a sadder place without Peter. He was a wonderful friend whom I admired and looked up to as a young athlete in New Britain. Ann, I hope the days that follow are filled with wonderful memories of a great guy.
Sincerely,
Ray Acey
#1 Gartenhaus Cafe

Peter & Jocelyn Karp

July 23, 2008

Mrs. Rival, Lee and Kev,

We send our deepest condolences to you and your family. Pete was a great man and we are both fortunate to have known him. He will be missed and the memories & laughter he created will live on.

Pat and Sandy Callahan

July 23, 2008

Dear Ann, Lisa, Kevin and Family
Pete left us to soon, he had many dreams and was fighting to see them.God now has another player and I'm sure Pete will be on the on deck circle soon. May God hold all of you close during this very sad time.

Patrick Swayne

July 23, 2008

Kevin and family-
Just wanted to say your father was a great guy and will be sorely missed.

Joe & Aimee Parlante

July 23, 2008

Kevin, We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to let us know.

Matthew Carbray

July 23, 2008

Rival Family,
We are all a better people for our interaction with Pete over the years. He treated everyone like one of his own and I will always remember that about him. God Bless.

Cameron/Brady Ostrout

July 23, 2008

Love You Papa

Marcus

July 23, 2008

Mom, Lee & Kev,

We were lucky to have him in our lives. He meant more to me than I can even attempt to explain here. I'm thankful for every day I have you guys.


Love Always,

your other son & brother

Cameron/Brady

July 23, 2008

Love you papa...

Douglas Bottaro

July 23, 2008

Kevin,

Your father was a great man. Funny and practicle just like yourself. His memory will live on for many years to come. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Dave & Mary Ann Leonard

July 23, 2008

Extending our deepest sympathy to
you and your family.

Paul Ostrout

July 23, 2008

A great papa ! You will be missed but not forgotten.

Paul and Mary

Gina Rondini

July 23, 2008

Dear Ann, Lisa, Kevin and Family,
We are so sadden about the loss of Peter. I'll always remember him and his sense of humor. He was a wonderful man and I know he'll be greatly missed. We share your grief.
Gina and John Rondini

John Robinson

July 23, 2008

So sorry to hear of the passing of a great friend. I have many fond memories of Pete from my days playing with "Gartenhaus". May the good Lord bless and be with the family at such a time as this.
Johnny-Rob #55

Pete and Sally Waz

July 23, 2008

Dear Kevin and Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad, he was a special man and we are glad we had the chance to know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

FrankJ Kohl

July 23, 2008

I'll miss you Peter, I love you,

Butch

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