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Raymond A. Pastula

1930 - 2021

Raymond A. Pastula obituary, 1930-2021, South Windsor, CT

BORN

1930

DIED

2021

FUNERAL HOME

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

419 Buckland Road

South Windsor, Connecticut

Raymond Pastula Obituary

Raymond A. Pastula, 90, of South Windsor, beloved husband of the late Joanne (Jaworski) Pastula, passed away with his sons at his side on Friday, June 18, 2021 at home. He was born in South Windsor, Connecticut on July 25, 1930, son of the late Joseph and Sophia (Zyla) Pastula and had been a lifelong resident. Ray was a proud veteran and Paratrooper of the U.S. Army, serving his country during the Korean War, as a member of the 187th Airborne Regt. Combat Team and saw action in North Korea. He holds many medals and awards. Ray was awarded the Korean Service Medal with one Bronze Campaign Star and the United Nations Service Medal. He was a member of the John Maciolek American Legion Post #154 in Enfield and a member of the V.F.W. Post in South Windsor. Ray was a longtime member of the 82nd Airborne Division Association, Inc. He was a member of Teamsters Local Union 671 and was employed as a truck driver for over 38 years. After his retirement from the Union, he worked for P.D.S. Construction and Engineering of Bloomfield, until 1998. Ray was formerly an assistant coach with South Windsor Little League, as well an assistant Scout Master of South Windsor Boy Scout Troop #390. He enjoyed going to the casino, traveling on vacations and growing tomatoes and blueberries. Ray was an avid Boston Red Sox fan and spent many hours building jigsaw puzzles. He is survived by his four sons, John T. Pastula and his wife, Rosemary, James R. Pastula and his significant other, Jess Foley, Mark S. Pastula and his significant other, Lesa Barrett and Charles J. Pastula and his wife Laura, his four grandchildren, John T. Pastula II and his wife, Amy, Brian J. Pastula and his significant other, Melanie Sutter, Brandon S. Pastula, and Elyse M. Rossignol and her fiancé, Cory. His two cherished great-grandchildren Hailie Sutter and Harper Rose Pastula and numerous nieces, nephews and their families. In addition to his wife and parents, Ray was predeceased by his daughter-in-law, Cynthia Pastula, seven brothers and three sisters. A time of visitation for family and friends will be at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Road in South Windsor on Wednesday, June 23, 2021 from 5-7 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Francis of Assisi Church, 673 Ellington Road in South Windsor on Thursday, June 24, 2021 at 10 AM. Everyone is asked to please go directly to the church. Burial with full military honors will follow in St. Catherine Cemetery, Rye Street, in Broad Brook. Memorial contributions may be made in Ray's memory to the Wounded Warrior Project. To leave an online condolence, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 20, 2021.

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Paul & Robin Martocci

July 4, 2021

To the Pastula family, sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. He was a kind person who always took the time to talk to you and make you feel like family. our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Michael Smith

June 23, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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June 21, 2021

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Brandon M. Pastula

June 20, 2021

Ray Pastula also referred to as “Poppy” is someone not only who I’ve always looked up to but been inspired by. Poppy was one of my biggest reasons why I joined the military. He always put a smile on my face and was there for me and anyone else weather he knew them for five minutes or five years. You will be miss but never forgotten. I love you Poppy, always. “Your my Man”.

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Diane & Tom Dinges

June 20, 2021

Sincere condolences to his family at this sad time & prayers for their comfort. RIP Mr. Pastula.

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Memorial Events
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Jun

23

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

419 Buckland Road, South Windsor, CT 06074-3709

Jun

24

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Francis of Assisi Church

673 Ellington Road, South Windsor, CT

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Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

419 Buckland Road, South Windsor, CT 06074-3709

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