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Rebecca A. "Beckie" McGill

Rebecca McGill Obituary

MCGILL, Rebecca "Beckie" A. Rebecca "Beckie" A. McGill, 16, passed away on Wednesday (January 21, 2009) after a tragic ski accident at Sugarloaf Mountain in Maine. She was the loving daughter of David K. McGill and Miriam "Mimi" (Burgess-Bouley) McGill. Beckie was born August 21, 1992 in Patchaug, NY, and attended Barkhamsted Elementary and Northwest Regional #7 through ninth grade. She then transferred to Stratton Mountain school in Stratton, Vermont for her sophomore and junior year. While at Northwest Regional # 7, she played Field Hockey for the varsity team, played trumpet in the band and softball. She was also class Secretary. Beckie was a member of Trinity Episcopal Church in Collinsville. Beckie was also a member of the Ski Sundown Race Team since the age of 9. She was on the Women's Alpine Team at Stratton Mountain School. She was a graceful, beautiful free skier. In addition to her parents, she is survived by a step-brother, Matthew Bouley of Vernon; grandmother, Margaret Burgess of Vernon; two aunts, Sarah Goodwin of East Granby and Johanna McGill Hansen of Glastonbury; an uncle, Larry Burgess of South Windsor; and three cousins, Patrick Burgess, Larry Burgess and Meg Burgess, all of South Windsor. She was predeceased by her paternal grandparents, Florence and John McGill and her maternal grandfather, Thomas Burgess. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, January 31, at Christ Church Cathedral, 45 Church Street, Hartford, CT at 11 a.m. with a reception immediately following. Burial will be private. David and Mimi will receive friends and family at their home in Barkhamsted, CT from 2–8 p.m. through Thursday, January 29, 2009. Montano-Shea Funeral Home, 5 Steele Road, New Hartford has care of the arrangements. Donations in memory of Rebecca McGill may be made to: Stratton Mountain School, 7 World Cup Circle, Stratton Mountain, VT 05115 to build a special memorial. Donations may also be made to her Connecticut race team, Sundown Ski Team, c/o Rick Cloud, 97 Taylor Road, Barkhamsted, CT 06063. Visit an online guestbook at Montano-Shea.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 24, 2009.

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Martha Rein

June 1, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McGill:

We've never met, but you've been in my thoughts so often since Beckie's accident. I was a member of Pat Koss's CT knitting group, and recently learned that you and she were friends. My heart aches for your loss; although I'm late to this site, I wanted to let you know that people like me think of you.

February 26, 2009

Not a day has gone by that I don't think of Beckie and Mimi and Dave. My daughter, Morgan, was one of Beckie's best friends. Being a thousand miles away, I was not able to have the pleasure of knowing Beckie personally. The night after Beckie's funeral we were graciously invited over to Beckie's house for dinner. That night I got to know Beckie through the many stories that were told. What an amazing night it was!! So much laughter and so many tears. For a month now, I've tried to imagine and feel what Mimi and Dave are going through. Although totally impossible, what I've tried to understand about life is the "big picture." Not one person here on earth knows how many days they will be here. So when someone like Beckie takes life by the reins and lives everyday to the fullest, time does not truly exist. What she has done in her short earthly time has taken most decades, if ever, to achieve. We should all be forever grateful for her life and for what she has taught us all about life. We will all live the rest of our lives missing Beckie, but also celebrating what she has given us. Find comfort in knowing we will all be together again someday!

Anita & Walt Pawlak

January 31, 2009

Mr. & Mrs. McGill We are both saddened by Beckie's accident. Thinkingof you both in your time of grief. Our prayers are with you. Yours truly, Anita & Walt Pawlak

John Badura

January 31, 2009

Dear Matt & Family, I am very sorry for your loss. In a time like this, I hope it offers some relief to know many people our thinking of you. My sympathies, John Badura

Mike Simkewicz

January 31, 2009

Dear Matt & Family, Being parents ourselves we cannot possibly imagine the feeling of loss you have endured. Your family has and will be in our prayers. Beckie will be missed by all. Someday we will all see her again in Heaven. Love and Sympathy, Mike and Sandra Simkewicz

Chris and Tammy Miron

January 31, 2009

Our deepest condolences, Mimi and David. Seems like yesterday you both were beaming over Beckie's skiing and her place in life, when we talked at Matt and Amanda's house.
We wish we had met her.

Christine Upton

January 30, 2009

Many at ASD are thinking of you. I will pray for your peace of mind. Chris Upton

Marley pawlak

January 29, 2009

Amy Pawlak-Bedrosian

January 29, 2009

Dear Mr. & Mrs. McGill,
My heartfelt sympathies are with you and your family during this untimely loss. I didn't know Beckie, other than through cherished photos from my niece Marley Pawlak and their friends at SMS. How fortunate Beckie was to have parents, family and friends who supported her passion to ski the grandest mountains with confidence and strength. How blessed you are to have raised a gifted child who had the ability to share her kindheartedness to everyone she encountered.

I pray you find comfort in God's love and in the powerful spirit Beckie left in the hearts of so many.
Very truly yours,

Amy Bartram

January 28, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McGill
We are so sorry for your loss. My son, Dan, skied with Beckie and went to Mt. Hood with her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amy and Dan Bartram

coleen bolduc

January 26, 2009

Dear Matt and Family, We were hurt to hear of your untimely loss. Please know that you and your family our in our prayers. All our sympathy, Coleen and Johnny

coleen bolduc

January 26, 2009

Dear Matt and Family, We were hurt to hear of your untimely loss. Please know that you and your family our in our prayers. All our sympathy, Coleen and Johnny

Kim King

January 26, 2009

Dear Matt and Family, My heart breaks for all of you. I know how much Becky was cherished and loved by all. Your loss only confirms that there is a heaven and Becky is an angel that now walks with God. May she ski the clouds above us until we see her again. My love and sympathy.

Kellie Roberts

January 25, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McGill,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not sure if you remember me or not but, my name is Kellie (Dennis) Roberts. I worked at the daycare (Giant Steps Daycare) that Rebecca went to when she was toddler and I also babysat for you as well. I can not even imagine what you are going thru. My thoughts and prays are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Kellie

Victoria Schmitz

January 25, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Beckie's amazing smile and spirit will remain with us forever. With Love and Light from everyone at Heads Up! Hartford

Anna Aramini

January 25, 2009

Dear Friends and Family of Beckie McGill, I am so sad to learn about your loss. As director of Heads Up! Hartford, I was one of many to make a special connection with Beckie while she was at camp. On behalf of the Heads Up! Hartford community I send our deepest condolences. We are all holding you in our hearts and sending prayers of love to you. Sincerely, Anna

Nicole & Staff @Roaring Brook Kennels

January 25, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Beckie. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you and your family during this difficult time.

May/Victor Marques

January 24, 2009

Our hearts and prayer go out to you and your family.

Gail (Funk) Gordon

January 24, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Julie Roberts

January 24, 2009

Dear Mimi and David,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the days ahead. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Warmly,

Julie Roberts and All the Girls of Hair World

Cindy&Fred Lynn Bereaved Parents USA Ct Chapter

January 24, 2009

We understand as our son gained his wings in 2003. Our children are the light of our hearts and when we are left to grieve them we can feel so alone with the overwhelming pain of loss, please know you are not there are many who walk with you and we are near if you ever need. When the world returns to normal for everyone else and yours is forever changed. Be gentle with yourselves, it isn't a time to be strong you are griving your child. During this time hold each other close and we will hold you in our prayers.

Marcia Crocetto

January 24, 2009

Dave and Mimi:
What can one say? I am at a loss to express the sorrow and grief I am feeling for you at this time. I do know that Becky is with her Heavenly Father and we will see her again and live in eternity with her. What a miracle this hope and assurance is! I promise to keep you in my prayers and continually ask God to comfort you as you grieve the loss of your precious little girl. Her hand is now being held by HIS. Grace and Peace, Marcia Crocetto and daughters.

Matthew and Amanda Lawrence

January 24, 2009

Mimi and Dave, Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Kim @Roaring Brook Kennels

January 24, 2009

Dear Mimi and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there's anything that we can do.

Joanne Santiago

January 24, 2009

Dear Mimi and David
We walk together another path ---and I am so sad for this one...when I think of Becky, I always remember the spunky smile that is part of her!
With love
Joanne

Diane Ritchie

January 24, 2009

There will never be a child more cherished by her parents than Beckie. She died as she was taught to live... free, with abandon, gripping every moment with joy. God bless, Mimi and Dave. Know that the gift you gave her, to follow her dreams and enjoy what she was given, is the greatest gift a parent can give. She was truly blessed as much as she was a blessing.
Beautiful girl, be at peace.

Wanda Ward

January 24, 2009

Mimi and David,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.
Wanda Ward

Rena' Giesselman

January 24, 2009

We will miss you Miss Beckie. What a beautiful young lady with your warm smile. You are in God's hands now and one of our angels.

January 24, 2009

so sorry for your loss

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