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Rhoda Russak Obituary

Rhoda E. Russak died with family by her side on November 22, 2020 in San Diego, CA at the age of 82. She was born in New Hartford, CT to Eugene & Edna Dorothea Fleming. She grew up in Hartford, CT and graduated Hartford High in 1956. She is preceded in death by her husband of over 30 years, Alex Russak Jr, step daughter Christine Russak from East Hartford, CT, brother Gene Fleming from Willimantic, CT and sister Joan Morin from Preston, CT. She is survived by her sister Dorothy Leiter and brother Colin Fleming and sister in law Sue, children Anthony & Donna Barbagallo, Gail Reeves, and Alison & Ryan Dotters. She is also survived by her beloved grandchildren, Loren, Chandler, Maxwell, Bailey, Brighton and Jase. Rhoda lived most of her life in the greater Hartford area; East Hartford, Manchester and South Windsor. She spent her early years as a server at the Marco Polo restaurant in Manchester, CT. After earning her degree in Social Work from Norwich University she entered a career with the YMCA as an Executive Director. She spent time working at the Arthritis Foundation and she retired from North East Utilities in 2003. After retiring she and husband Alex moved south to Ormond Beach, FL. They traveled the country in their RV with 2 dogs, Casey and Sabbi. Rhoda enjoyed spending time with family, gardening, Tai Chi, and swimming. She moved from Florida to San Diego, CA in 2017 to be closer to family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Rhoda Russak to Sandy Hook Promise https://salsa3.salsalabs.com/o/51101/donate_page/inhonorof

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 25, 2020.

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Joan Shaia

November 30, 2020

I net Rhoda at the Marco Polo restaurant in East Hartford, CT. We were each a waitress. I followed her all around and told her my problems and she listened. She finally took me to an Al-=Anon meeting in East Hartford, CT. I still attend Al-Anon meetings. I have been attending for 42 years and will never stop going. All thanks to your mother. Rhoda was also good to my two sons, Joe Octtorovich and Jason Shaia. They are both in heaven now. Rhoda was, is and always will be a good person. She was the one who took me to my first Al-Anon meeting. I never heard of Al-Anon until I met Rhoda. I am glad that I wrote her a beautiful letter about a ear ago. I used to love talking to her. She had a good heart. She aged beautifully. I was honored to have known her. She was good to me and included me in her life. My only regret is that I did not stay in touch with her. I am sure you all will miss her.

Robie

November 29, 2020

Sincere condolences from cousins Robie and Marilyn to Rhoda’s family. God bless and May years of happy times spent together comfort you and knowing she is in the arms of angels bring smiles to your hearts ♥

Connie Bordieri

November 25, 2020

I'm so very sorry to hear of Rhoda's passing. She was an awesome person and neighbor. All my love to Alison and family, thinking of you during this difficult time.

John Porriello

November 25, 2020

Gail, Chandler, Tony, Ali and the rest of the family,
I am sorry for your loss. Rhoda and her humor will be missed.
John Porriello

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