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Richard R. O'Keefe

1953 - 2019

Richard R. O'Keefe obituary, 1953-2019, East Hartford, CT

BORN

1953

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Portland Memorial Funeral Home

231 Main St

Portland, Connecticut

Richard O'Keefe Obituary

Richard R. "Tiny" O'Keefe 66 of Portland husband of Cathy (Schwamb) O'Keefe passed away on Tuesday at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by his family. Born on January 20, 1953 in Hartford son of the late Francis and Joyce (Gustafson) O'Keefe. He was raised in East Hartford before moving to Portland 27 years ago. Richard had been retired from Pratt & Whitney Co. after 41 years. A member of St. Mary Church Portland. Besides his wife he is survived by his loving family 3 sons Rick O'Keefe and daughter in law Taylor of Southington, Matthew Fasciani and wife Jessica of Portland, John O'Keefe of Portland. 3 daughters Melissa Chivers and husband Craig of Middletown, Margaret O'Keefe of Portland, Kara O'Keefe and Austin. A brother Frank O'Keefe of Vernon. 3 sisters Brenda Pagano of East Hartford, Anne Cimadon of East Hartford, Sheila Brown of South Windsor. 6 grandchildren Raychel, Brionna, Molly, Avery, Matthew, Cole also several nieces and nephews. He loved his family more than life itself . He was a kind, gentle sole who loved, nature, woodworking, but most of all spending time with his family and friends. He was the 'BEST ' man to all that knew him. He will be missed everyday for the rest of our lives. The funeral will be held on Saturday (July 13) at 9 am from the Portland Memorial Funeral Home 231 Main St. Portland followed by a mass of Christian burial in St. Mary Church Portland at 10 am. Burial will be in the Swedish cemetery Portland. Friends may call at the funeral home on Friday (July 12) from 5 to 8 pm.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 11, 2019.

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Maureen James & The James Family

July 4, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Mary Hildreth

July 4, 2020

It is hard to believe that a year has gone by since Rick's passing. When we look at his place across the Cold River, we think of how much Rick enjoyed spending time here in Acworth. It makes us happy to see family members still enjoying the property and we know that Rick is right there with all of you.

Tim and Christine Gowen

July 30, 2019

We will miss Rick..such a sweet man and fabulous neighbor. Our condolences to his family.

Bill & Mary Hildreth

July 23, 2019

Our condolences to Rich's family from your Acworth NH neighbors. It was always a pleasure to see Rich enjoying life in Acworth. He always had a smile and a kind word. We'll miss him.

July 21, 2019

So sorry to hear of Ricks passing. He was one of the kindest people one could ever know. He will be missed dearly. RIP Rick.

Annie & Phil Leonard
Fort Myers, Florida

Patricia Sartori

July 20, 2019

Frank and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences and my prayers go out to you all.

Steve Fiori

July 19, 2019

My condolences to the O'Keefe family. I am very sorry to hear of Rick's passing. I worked with him at Pratt & Whitney for many years. He was always helpful and one of the nicest people you could ever hope to know.

Joanne DOnofrio

July 16, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. I too worked with Rick at PW and he was always so genuine and kind. He was a wonderful person and will truly be missed.

Norman Rodrigue

July 15, 2019

I worked with Rick for many years. He was very knowledgeable, friendly and a wonderful person to deal with. I met with him and a few others for lunch after Rick's retirement. He truly loved life and his family.

Ernie Stafford

July 14, 2019

So sorry to hear of Ricks passing. He was great guy and friend to all who he worked with.

July 12, 2019

Tiny, What I wouldn't do to talk to you one last time - share one more laugh. RIP my friend. You will be missed.
Paula Daly

Tom and Nancy Dimockt

July 12, 2019

Kathy and family we are sorry for your loss.
We will always remember Tiny.
Tom and Nancy Dimock

Lucy DeSario Herring

July 11, 2019

My deepest condolences to the O'Keefe family. I'm glad I have so many good memories that will never be forgotten. Rest easy Tiny. ♥

John O'Toole

July 11, 2019

Cathy and family We will keep you all in our prayers.

July 11, 2019

Tiny I'll miss my drive ins when you were up here in NH. Glad we connected early in our lives and later. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

Denny Hersom, Marlow, NH

Sue Whitney

July 11, 2019

Cathy and family, I am so truly sorry to hear about Tiny,s passing. I have known him as long as I have known Sheila and I am will always remember laughing with him every time I saw him, that's what I will remember most, his great sense of humor. He was a great guy. My condolences to you all, Sue

Eternal Friendship Remembrance Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Claire Whitney

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Bonnie Chernick

July 11, 2019

Cathy: I am so sad to hear of Rick's passing. I hope that wonderful memories sustain you, the kids and grandkids through this difficult time. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. I love you.

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a loved one

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Tiny's spot in Acworth, New Hampshire. Took the picture this morning his friends the Gowens were in the process of haying the field.

Denny Hersom

July 11, 2019

Lorna Annis

July 11, 2019

So sorry hearing of Ricks passing. Rick was a good friend and co worker, he always had a smile in good and bad times.never heard him raise his voice once. He certainly was ❤ loved by all who knew him. Cathy I met you at the Dude Ranch where you two met! What a memorable weekend that was.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your families.

Betty (Branciforte) Jasiecki

July 11, 2019

Cathy ~ so very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband! Thought about you the other day!! With sincere sympathy...

George FOGG

July 11, 2019

Worked with Ric at Pratt for a few years in the 90"s, he was a good guy and a hard worker.RIP Ric

Diana Burnham

July 11, 2019

I worked with ric at pratt for over 30 years..
I left Pratt over 15 years ago he was one of those coworkers that you will never forget..he was so kind and every job he held he was the best worker there

Kathy Kiely

July 11, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for the family

Mary Ingalls

July 11, 2019

You have many East Hartford friends who remember you with fondness "Tiny". May you rest in peace friend.

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a loved one

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July 11, 2019

So sorry to hear my old buddy going back to Woodland School has passed. I have and will always remember Tiny as a gentleman. My heart felt sympathy to the entire family.

Leo Bond
Sebastian Florida

Leah (Schafer) Consonni

July 11, 2019

My deepest condolences to Tiny's family. We grew up together and I had the pleasure of running into him a few years ago. I am so sorry for your loss.

Beverly Matthews

July 11, 2019

I worked with a Rick for much of his 40+ years at Pratt. He was a great guy and will be missed by all who knew him. Condolences to his family.

Donna & Rick LaRose

July 11, 2019

Cathy - we're so sorry to hear of Rick's passing. It's been a while since we've seen either of you but have thought of you both many times over the years when memories of good times we shared came to mind. Rick was the best. He was such a kind & gentle soul. He'll be missed and remembered often.
To all of Rick's family- He was one of the good ones and we're saddened and sorry for your loss.

Soar with th eagle,Rick.

Terry Strubell

July 10, 2019

I will always remember this kind,loving man..Rick. He and his family stole my heart. Rest in peace,my friend. And to his family,thank you for being in my life. Carry on!

Love you all

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231 Main St PO Box 168, Portland, CT 06480

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Portland Memorial Funeral Home

231 Main St PO Box 168, Portland, CT 06480

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Mass of Christian Burial

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