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TOPER, Richard P. Richard P. Toper, 73, of Ft. Myers Beach, FL, and Eagle Bay, NY, died Sunday (October 7, 2007) at Eden Park Nursing Home in Utica, NY, with his wife of 47 years, Rosalyn (Oja) Toper by his side. Born in Hartford February 7, 1934 to the late Edward and Katherine (Hyziak) Toper, he had lived much of his life in East Hartford and South Windsor. During this time, he owned and operated New England Sand and Gravel for over 20 years before retiring in the mid-1990s. Throughout his life, he most enjoyed family travel and activities. He also was an avid UConn football and basketball fan, a snowmobiler, and a NASCAR and "muscle car" enthusiast, having restored a 1971 Buick GS455 with which he won a number of trophies. Besides his wife, he is survived by two sons, Richard J. Toper and wife Lynn of Tolland, and Kenneth M. Toper and wife Patricia of South Windsor; one brother, Edward S. Toper and wife Janet of Manchester; and four grandsons, Cameron, Jameson, Zachary, and Daniel. There are no calling hours and funeral services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to a charity of the donor's choice. Tillinghast Funeral Home, 433 Main St., Danielson, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 9, 2007.

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Judy & Paul Schmidt

October 31, 2007

Dearest Rosalyn
We were so sorry to hear of Dick's passing. We will always remember the times spent together over the years. Our thoughts are with you.

Sheri and Dennis Barnicle

October 9, 2007

Ken and family,

Our thoughts are with you during this very sad time. I remember when I first met you, how you and your dad worked on the show cars together and we would hear the progress reports at work. What a wonderful time to have had with your dad. May you find strength in these and other good memories of such a special person in your life.

With sincere sympathy,

Pete & Dottie Kiro

October 9, 2007

Dear "Ros" and Family. Our thoughts are with you at this time. We will always remember Dick and the GREAT times we had together. He was indeed "one in a million", kind and coutrious all the time.
Pete & Dottie Kiro

Brendan Owens

October 9, 2007

Dear Ken,

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for your loss.

Love Brendan, Lyn, Sean, James, and Angela

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