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Robert P. "Bob" Sylvester, 67, of Wethersfield, passed away on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at Hartford Hospital. Born in Hartford on September 26, 1956, a son of the late Robert L. and Phyllis (Paladino) Sylvester, he had been a resident of Wethersfield since 1990. Robert was a graduate of George J. Penney High School in East Hartford, class of 1974 and later earned his Associates Degree from Manchester Community College. Prior to his retirement he was employed for forty years by the State of Connecticut–Department of O.P.M. where he was a financial clerk. He was an avid outdoorsman who liked walking and bird watching. He was also an animal lover, especially of cats. Most of all, Robert will be remembered as a kind, funny gentleman who was a devoted son, brother, and uncle.

Robert is survived by his four brothers, William Sylvester and his wife Patricia of Albuquerque, New Mexico, Dennis Sylvester and his wife Tally of Newington, David Sylvester of Rocky Hill, Daniel Sylvester and his wife Sheryl of South Windsor; two aunts, Elaine Wutsch and her husband Walter of Rocky Hill, Josephine Hedges of Rocky Hill; his two beloved cats, Nikki and Sylvester; several nieces, nephews, cousins, co-workers, and dear friends. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by a sister, Barbara Ivey of Hoschton, Georgia.

Honoring Robert's wishes, a private funeral service and burial will be held at the convenience of the family. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Robert's name may be made to the Connecticut Humane Society, 701 Russell Road, Newington, CT 06111. The D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel, 30 Carter Street, East Hartford has been entrusted with the care of the funeral arrangements. For on-line expressions of sympathy to the family, please visit www.desopoeh.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 7, 2023.

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david p wanczyk

December 20, 2024

Merry Christmas Bob in Heaven
Dave, Jeannine and Cody Bear!

Karen Belanger

January 29, 2024

I miss Bob so much. We were such good friends. We lived a street apart and spent much time together, chatting, working on my house, walking. He helped me immensely when I moved away. But we still talked on the phone sometimes daily. He was a good man, very kind and always gave a helping hand. His love for animals was beautiful.

david p wanczyk

December 13, 2023

My very good Friend Bob, always helped me out and played with my dog, Cody Bear. Unfortunately I lost both of them in a matter of two days

David Mariasi

December 11, 2023

My condolences to the Sylvester family on the loss of Bob. He and I were friends for over 30 years talking almost daily about everything and anything. He can now rest easily. I miss him but glad he´s no longer in pain. I´ll keep your family in my prayers during this difficult time.

Mary-Beth and David Raymond

December 11, 2023

Dan and Sheryl, so sorry to hear of your brothers passing. i hope the memories you have together, can make this time a little easier.

Ben Berg

December 8, 2023

My stepson Bobby was a very good and compassionate soul.
I'm happy his terrible torment has ended
In my heart I know his mother came to take him home.she asked her very special children to always look after Bobby.
She asked her son Danny especially look after Bobby
All the brothers there in CT stepped up. In my heart I know his mom Marge..sister Barbara..Bobby are enjoying Paradise
Love and God bless
His step dad
Ben

D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel

December 7, 2023

Our deepest condolences on your loss. The D’Esopo Family.

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