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Rochelle Abeles Obituary

Rochelle (Shelly) Zarchin Abeles, 80, passed away at home with her family on May 7, 2021. She was much beloved for her kindness, generosity, and devotion to her family. Shelly delighted in watching and taking part in the growth of her two children and six grandchildren. She loved and cherished her husband Sig for 53 year. Shelly received her Bachelor's and Master's degrees from Central Connecticut State University. Over her life she worked as a medical assistant, teacher, and career counselor. Shelly was a member of Congregation Kol Haverim in Glastonbury, CT and was active as co-chair of their Honorable Menschen social group. Shelly's relationships throughout her life were extraordinary, she loved and was loved by all. A private graveside ceremony at Adath Israel Cemetery was held on May 10th. Contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 11, 2021.

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Jeannie Tasse

May 6, 2023

I still miss your beautiful smile. I miss you Shelly xo

Linda Livolsi

May 5, 2023

Today, remembering a beautiful lady, Shelly. It was a great honor and pleasure to know her. May she rest in eternal peace.

Linda and Andrea Livolsi

May 5, 2022

Remembering Shelly today as the lovely elegant lady she was to us. Thinking of you Sig, and your family .

Jeannie Tasse

June 16, 2021

My heart is broken to learn of Shelly passing this beautiful soul has been in my life for over 20 years, I had the honor of doing your hair. How I will miss our conversations and sharing the pictures of our kids and grandkids. I had just spoke and texted with you in March you were so excited I became a grandmother and I was just going to call you to tell you I had a granddaughter on June 14 th. But I guess you already knew that from heaven. You will remain in my heart forever Shelly, my heart goes out to Sig, David and his wife. Paige and John and her pride and joy her grandchildren. Forever loved always ♥

Mr Gerald M Livolsi

May 11, 2021

Shelly was a one of a kind. She was a gentle, sweet and thoughtful human being. We are so sorry for your loss. There are no words. But, we send our sincere heartfelt condolences. May she Rest In Peace. Love, Gerald, Linda & Andrea Livolsi

Joyce Fidrych

May 11, 2021

Dearest Shelly, I am going to miss you!! We were going to have lunch outside when it got warmer.However, we will meet again.
Ed and I wish to extend our heart filled sympathy to Sig, who will be lost without her and also to her family whom she was so proud of.
I will remember Shelly as a kind, thoughtful and caring friend.

Sue Grenier Presch

May 11, 2021

My condolences to Sig, Page and David, and the beautiful grandchildren she was so incredibly proud of. I worked with Shelly for 10 years. She was the most wonderful person. She nourished friendships and made you feel like you were the most special person in her life. She left her mark in this world and in my life. She will be dearly missed.

Eloise Farmer

May 11, 2021

I did not get a chance to see her often enough...a wonderful lady, always warm and charming. I will miss her presence in our world.

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