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for Ronald Aliano
Tessa
August 22, 2010
Michael, Ronda, Valerie & Family:
It is with a heavy heart that I write this message. I had and still possess an unmeasurable amount of Respect for your father, husband. He was a hard man to get along with at times, but he was a fair man and a generous employer. I felt we had a great relationship because as much attitude that he threw at me I threw right back at him, and at the end of the day he always made me smile, especially if he had just made me cry :). He didn't just give respect, you had to earn it from him, that's what made him a great boss to work for, he made sure you stepped up to the task and gave your absolute best, every time, he didn't settle for excuses because he knew you were capable of more. He had an enormous heart, and was so incredibly giving. I'll never forget him asking me to run to the store to grab him some cigarettes, I was like Ron I don't have my car today, so he threw the keys to his Jag at me and said "Here, take my car". I laughed back and said "No way!, I'll get someone else to go get them, I'm not scratching that thing"! When I left American he asked to see me before I went, and he gave me great words of advice and promise for my future. I told him my plans about wanting to be a nurse and he said "Why not be a doctor, don't settle". That was his way. Strive to be the best, your best. I will never forget him. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Roger Ouellette
February 4, 2010
To the Aliano family: Today 02/04/2010, is the first and shocking news I heard of Ron's passing. You don't know me but I sure knew Ron Aliano. You see, he and I were High School friends. We hung out together like a magnet on iron. I recall cruising around in his fathers black Cadillac, I beleive it was a 1952 or so Sedan, we sure had fun in that car. I recall the time Ron borrowed the car from his dad, we wanted to go to a football game, so Ron and I wanted to look Mob'ish,so we went out and bought ourselves a black fedora (a Frank Sinatra type hat) and sprayed the side of our hair gray, we wanted to look older and distinquished in that black Caddy. We looked hot, I think we even bought cigars. Ron and I had learned how to hypnotize people from a friend and we used to gather some friend, go to his parents house and put friends in a hypnotic trance. His mother would laugh at us at what we were doing. I have great memories of Ron and I am so sorry we lost contact with each other during my Air Force days and after, he was such a good friend and today is a very sad day for me to know that my search to find him is over.
My deepest sympathy to the Aliano family
My Email is [email protected]
Roger Ouellette
November 18, 2009
dear valerie and family,
what an asset to our community. i, personally will miss him greatly - especially his smile and generosity. my heart and prayers go out to all of you.
love and god's grace,
pia
norwich
Liz Robbins
November 13, 2009
Dear Valerie, Michael and family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss, as a former employee of American Ambulance Billing Service, I admired and respected Ron - I'll especially remember the Christmas parties in the foyer, with potluck and the gift exchange - it was as if we were all one big family. My sincere sympathy to the family - and the employees.
November 10, 2009
Dear Dick and Dulcina:
Our deepest sympathy to you and the rest of the Aliano family.
Bob and Carole Rogers
Donna Vetters
November 10, 2009
Aliano Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you on this sad occasion. I was always a great admirer of Ron and his leadership over AASI in the 6 years I was there. When he was in the office, his door was always open to talk about what may have been going on in a no-holds barred method I truly respected.
He was the kind of business owner that was not satisfied with the status-quo and he had incredible vision for his businesses and the city of Norwich. He also took pride in his people. If it weren't for Ron agreeing to a favor for me I would not have owned my first home. That is a remarkable thing for a "boss" to do for an employee and I will forever be in his debt for that.
Blessings to you all.
November 8, 2009
Dear Dick, Dell and Ron's Family,
How truly sad I was to hear of Ron's passing. Mom (Joan Brown) shared the news that she and Jennie traveled to Norwich to convey all our sympathies, Debbie, Phil and Bill to you all. Wish that I could have been there as well but sad news like this doesn't travel to Cape Cod that quickly.
It doesn't seem that long ago, because I remember it so vividly, that I brought your Aunt Odzile to visit your mom, who was living with Ron in the apartment at the Broadway home while I attended a business meeting. After I was done, Ron escorted us down to the Wharf for a fabulous luncheon on him at the American Grill. He was so proud to point out the building on the hill, the wharf and all his accomplishments in the town at that time which, I can only venture to guess, was some 12 or more years ago.
I remember fondly the home on Witches Rock Road on Cedar Lake. You boys were larger than life to me then, sort of movie star-ish in my little girl eyes. Your mom gifted to me a brass gong and hammer that I still cherish to this day. It sat within the kitchen and I always admired it. Aunt Louise was always a favorite of mine, so full of love and hugs. She was mom's favorite as well when she fondly recalls the days at the apartment on Landry Street.
I also remember Ron at my Dad's funeral and him just recovering from Lyme disease which he contracted almost 22 years ago way before it became a news item.
My sadness is also full of regret that we could not keep in touch more often than time and miles allowed.
Please know Dick, his children and you are all in my special thoughts.
With love,
Brenda Brown Lundquist
Harwich, Massachusetts
November 8, 2009
Michael,
My heart aches for you and Ronda. Please keep all your memories close to your heart's . Dad will be with you both watching over your family's. He loved his grandchildren so. You both should be so proud to be his children!
REST IN PEACE RDA ! You will be missed by all.
employee
Bunnie Belyea
November 7, 2009
Valerie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bunnie Belyea
Paul Winfield Smith
November 7, 2009
I had the unique pleasure of knowing and associating Ron for nearly forty years. We came I each others lives through the vessel called EMS. We had agreement and disagreement along the way. He was at all times a fighter for excellence patient care. He was the consummate educator whether in EMS or life. In the passed three years, I with several old colleagues taught an Instructor Institute in his building in Norwich. On one of the Sunday’s of the event Ron dropped by to check the program out. We where not surprised this was Ron’s way. We had the pleasure of visiting with him recounted old events the talked about the look to the future for EMS. What an eventful time that rekindled many memories.
To Ron’s family and his extended family of all those he touched both in and out of EMS know that you have my most sincere condolences on our loss. Paul Winfield Smith, MEd, and EMS: Educational Seminar Foundation, Inc.
Ronda Quinn
November 7, 2009
Dear Dad,
Oh how you are missed. There is so much I wanted to say for you these past couple days; all the sweet and loving things that I thought only I was able to see, yet I heard those things over and over through the stories of the people you touched. I am so proud of you and have relished hearing of the kindness and inspiration you gave to others. You have had so many wonderful accomplishments in your life and the greatest (your relationships) you have left with me, your Valerie and Michael. I hope there is some way you could see how strong the bond is between your family because of you. You would be elated to see all your children and beautiful wife so close. You will always live on with us and I see you in your grandsons, they have your big beautiful eyes. Charlie and Maxwell miss their Grandpa Guido but will never forget you with our stories and pictures.
I felt my closest to you these past years. It was such a gift to see you so happy and enjoy being a Grandfather.
I will miss your phone calls, visits, and hugs. Thank you for all that you have done for me.
As you just told me, "You could never possibly know how much I love you".
Love and miss you Dad,
Your Poohzer and namesake
RON D.A.
Lisa Coe
November 6, 2009
To the family and friends of Ronald Aliano, and to the wonderful men and women of American Ambulance...I am deeply sorry for your loss. It is without question that Ronald Aliano served his community with leadership and a passion to do something good for all that he touched.
Those of us in the nursing home profession can attest to the fact that Mr. Aliano built the finest ambulance service in this state. For us, his permanent legacy to the community is with American Ambulance. In my years in long-term care I have grown to know that his company is the one that you call when you want a top-notch, professional, and compassionate service for your residents.
Mr. Aliano is a gift to Norwich, as well as to every community that his fine company serves. He was a genuine hero, and I for one am glad to know that his vision, and his commitment to service lives on with the fine men and women of American.
Sincerely,
Lisa M Coe RN BSN
Director of Nursing Services
Villa Maria Nursing and Rehabilitation Community
Plainfield, CT
November 6, 2009
Valerie: My love, thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Always
Charlene
Mario & Linda Tristany
November 5, 2009
Dear Michael and Ronda,
We sadly share in your loss. Your dad was a great dad, a great, great friend and an even greater American. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to know him and to have spent a lot of time with him over the last 30 plus years. My best memories are centered around the marina development as we spent a significant amount of time together on this project.
May the Perpetual Light of Our Lord Jesus Christ shine upon your dad and our dear friend Ron.
Your dad has, and will continue to give you both the strength to persevere.
God Bless,
November 5, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Joseph & Diane De Lucia
November 5, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Jeanna Zavistoski
November 5, 2009
Mike , Ronda and Val ,
There are so many people who feel your loss , though none as great as you do . Ron was an inspiration and friend to many. He took this rookie MRT and taught me about compassion , commitment and caring which I feel has enriched my career as a Paramedic . If were not for his determination and strength the people of eastern Connecticut would have never received such wonderful patient care. Ron was quick with a smile and a lesson , that separated the "men from the boys" and he will always be with me as a mentor , teaching me the importance of respect and pride in what you do . I thank him for that . Micheal - you are more like your father than you will ever know , Ronda he was very proud of you , and Valerie he was very happy ,and at peace with you .Ron lived his life as he chose and enjoyed each minute . May we all learn that lesson also. God Bless rest in peace A1 -- #118
Michael & Kimberly Combies
November 5, 2009
Aliano family, having known Ron for over 30 yrs, I have him to thank for many things. He taught me Lessons he felt I needed even when I wasnt the most receptive. Having "cut my teeth" in EMS with him many years ago, I hold many memories I will keep for life. He shall be missed. My wife and I extend our condolences for your loss....
Chris & Linda LaPierre
November 4, 2009
To the entire Aliano Family:
We are truly sorry for your loss. There are no words that can be said to help this time of sorrow. We hope that you find strength, like Ron showed his whole life, to help overcome this difficult time. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Gloria & John Quinn
November 4, 2009
Dear Valerie, we are thinking of you and your family at this very sad time. Please know you are all in are prayers
Fayth Herman
November 4, 2009
Mike and family,
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. It was a pleasure working for him! May you find peace in knowing he is at rest forever!
God Bless
Jerry Roberts
November 4, 2009
Dear Valerie, Michael and Rhonda:
My sincere condolences go out to all of you. Ron will be sadly missed. Through out our lives we are personally touched by a few individuals who have had a great impact on the way we live our life.
How we cope with adversity, cherish our accomplishments and have the wisdom to choose what is right. Ron has been one of those people in my life.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Jerry Roberts & family
Linda Hart
November 4, 2009
Valerie, Mike and family...
I am so sorry for your loss. The first time Ron and I ever spoke was while I was working at the restaurant. I had just returned from a tropical vacation. Ron held his arm up to mine to compare, so I told him I had just gotten back from Mexico. His response "I just got back from Norwich..."
After that day, everytime I worked, we'd talk, sometimes briefly, sometimes at length. I always enjoyed those talks, he always asked how other things in my life were.
The Rose City will never be the same, his legacy will live on through his work and through his family.
Honored,
Linda Hart
November 4, 2009
To the Aliano Family....
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of Ron. Our prayers are with you all.
We were neighbors and friends way back until we moved out of state.
The Mathews Family
(Teresa), John, Carole, Sharen, Joanne, Christine
christine vela
November 4, 2009
Valerie, My sincere heartfelt condolences go to you and your family. My parents adored Ron and he will be sorely missed. He will always stay in our heart as a phenomenal man and humanitarian...
With Much Love
Christine & Joseph Vela & family
Dennis Moore
November 4, 2009
Dear Valerie, Michael and Family,
I am sorry to hear of Rons passing. I knew him long enough to know that he someone who really cared about everyone and everything he was involved with. He has left a lasting impression on me that if you want to acheive a goal, be honest, work hard, and have faith.
My family, and the Donovan Marine Family express to you our Deepest, Heartfelt Sympathy.
Gaylene Smith
November 4, 2009
Dearest Valerie,
My sympathy to you and the Aliano Family. Ron will be sorely missed by many, and will always stay in our memories and remembered by all that he has done.
You gave Ron one of his most precious gifts, you gave your heart, you are loved by all.
Gaylene Smith
November 4, 2009
Dearest Mike and Rhonda,
You are being held so tenderly in my prayers. The passing of your Father has touched so many of us.
I will always remember the day I met you. Your Dad's eyes had such a twinkle of pride of his son and daughter, his love for you shined.
Linda
November 3, 2009
Michael,
Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences on the loss of your father. I know there's nothing that anyone can say that will take away the pain that you're feeling now but I hope that you will take comfort in knowing that your father lived a very full and accomplished life and that there will be many who will mourn his passing as they also keenly feel his loss.
Having had a few political discussions with your father from time to time in dispatch I wanted to leave you with a quote that I feel sums up your father's life perfectly from a President that I think he would approve of -
“Only those are fit to live who do not fear to die. And none are fit to die who have shrunk from the joy of life and the duty of life. Both life and death are parts of the same Great Adventure.” - President Theodore Roosevelt
Ron had a truly Great Adventure here on Earth and I've got no doubt that he's having another Great Adventure on the other side where he is finally free of all earthly pain and suffering.
Take care as you take comfort and strength in being your father's son.
Jodi Blais
November 3, 2009
I can't begin to express how I feel about Ron. He was a great boss, who gave me the opportunity to not just have a job in EMS, but a career. I have always admired and respected him, although at first I was very intimidated by him. i outgrew that, but the respect never changed, if anything, it grew. Ron was a wonderful man who loved his company and his employees and especially his family.
He will be missed by so many people, but will live on in the spirit of American. he will not be forgotten.
Rest In Peace, Ron.
K
November 3, 2009
Although I haven't seen Ron or his family in years he will always have had an impact on my life. He was my very first employer and in a way a mentor. I may not have words of wisdom for your grief or some quote to help feel better, but what I do have is one of my fondest memories...
-Ron at the Holiday party-... now close your eyes, and remember the little dance that came halfway threw the night...legs are kicking, fingers going (yes pointing), now he's grabbing the ends of his jacket and yes the feet are still a shuffilin! The crowd goes wild! What a wonderful moment, but the best part, the part that is the clearest in my mind was when I took a look at the expression on his face... he was, well it can only be concluded that he was really and truly happy. He had accomplished a great deal in his life , and in that moment he relished in it. In that moment surrounded by his "employees" he wasn't the boss but just a goofy carefree uncle. Just a little something to remember and smile back on amongst all this sadness and loss.
" Ron's little Dance"
Though he may not be here with us any longer his methods and ideas certainly live on through all the people he has taught one of his life lesson to and threw them Ron's legacy will live on.
With all my love and sympathy
Former Putts up employee. KLG
Scott Gladstone
November 3, 2009
Aliano Family,
My family and I wish you all our heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time.
I feel very grateful to have had Ron as a friend. When I opened my cellular business in Norwich in 1996, Ron was very instrumental in welcoming me to the Norwich business community, introducing me to his peers, and providing guidance along the way to ensure a success story.
I can assure you, my last name has never been transposed by anyone in the manner Ron found humor in, as did I. Anytime we met in a group, he would ensure everyone heard him. The larger the group, the louder and prouder he chanted.
We shared many laughs, jokes, and stories. I will miss him.
Fred K. Potter
November 3, 2009
I consider myself very fortunate to have known Ron Aliano, and just as fortunate to call him my friend. I first met Ron in 1980 when I began working for PASON at the impressionable age of 18. Ron was partners with Harvey Kagan & Charlie Epstein who ran PASOH(artford) & PASOM(iddletown) respectively. To say Ron was an involved owner would be an enormous understatement.
Ron’s greatest legacy is his unwavering insistence on providing the highest quality patient care …and that was long before it was fashionable. When we were out there in the street we were representing Ron D. Aliano (and you still are), and there was just no compromising on that. Those that did, did not last. Ron believed that every patient was entitled to competent technicians with a neat and professional appearance as well as a clean, properly stocked, & safe ambulance. Although I did not realize it at the time, those simple things have followed me throughout my entire professional life and still do to this day in my current position. There were also the training sessions every Sunday morning conducted by Ron, who was an EMSI at the time. It was not at all unusual for Ron to show up on scene in the middle of the night and help with patient care himself. As you can imagine, that could sometimes be a double edged sword! It was good to have the help, but you knew most often you would hear about something later or sometimes even right there.
Ron had what some at the time thought was this crazy idea to bring Paramedics to Norwich. There were literally only a handful of Paramedics in CT, and even Hartford did not have Paramedics until after Norwich did. Ron was irrefutably the driving force for what everyone takes for granted today: Advanced Life Support. I can recall great opposition from some influential physicians who didn’t believe that ALS could be brought into the field. Ron along with his great friend Frank Carter, were not the least bit deterred and built the necessary alliances to make that dream a reality. Ron was one of our classmates over most of those 12 or so months, but obviously could not practice enough as a Paramedic to remain proficient and run the steadily growing business. I can vividly remember Ron and I starting IV’s on each other in class in the Annex at Backus Hospital. Ron’s vision was realized on June 15, 1983 in the Norwich City Council Chambers when our class graduated and subsequently began providing Paramedic level care to the citizens of Norwich, and over time to the contiguous communities. I know that graduation was an incredibly proud moment for Ron.
Ron was extraordinarily influential in my own EMS career and I’m so grateful that I actually took the opportunity to talk with him about it 6 months ago at 1101. I told him how I mentioned his influence and high standards in my speech at my BIAFD retirement party, and I could sense that he really appreciated that. He then asked me why he wasn’t invited? I told him that he was, but apparently the invitation never reached his desk. I’m certain that he would have been there to say a few words if it had! Throughout my 20+ years in the fire and EMS service my vehicles were always clean, my equipment checked out each shift, my uniform was always neat and clean, and I like to think that I was competent. Thank you Ron for instilling that pride in me.
In addition to being a proud American, Ron was a stalwart champion of his adopted hometown of Norwich. I really believe there was nothing he wouldn’t do for his community. Community involvement was always a staple of Ron’s and one only needs to look at the lengthy list of his community involvement to get a sense of what Norwich meant to him. He passionately believed in giving back to his community -and he did that time and again with both his time and his money. Although it may seem hard to believe, he left Norwich much better than he found it.
I’ll always remember Ron as an EMS Pioneer, but I’ll equally remember the man that I knew. He would always ask about my family and I’ve heard him ask the same of others countless times. I remember stopping into AASI one day for something with my daughter Kristen (she was around 9 or 10) and we stopped by Ron’s office. He spent a lot of time trying to convince her that she would swap places with him… she could run American Ambulance, and he would go to Sacred Heart School! I reminded him of that story a while back and told him that she is now a U.S. Coast Guard Officer! He got a great laugh remembering that! Ron could be a fun guy.
Emergency Medical Services was Ron’s labor, Norwich was his passion, and his children Michael & Ronda were his love. Combine all three and you will know the man that I’ll always remember so fondly and with the greatest respect and admiration. May God Bless you my friend, and may you finally rest with the peace and comfort that all that you have worked so hard for your entire life has made such a positive impact in so many lives… our patients, your employees, and the citizens of Norwich It truly was MY privilege to know you.
Ronda, Michael, Valerie, and Dick please know that you have my most sincere condolonces on your loss... a loss for all of us.
Lisa LaPierre
November 3, 2009
Valerie, Michael, Ronda, Tasha, Travis & Family,
May God Bless you all in your time of sorrow. We are so sorry.
Lisa & Phil LaPierre
Ed Friend
November 3, 2009
Dear Michael, Ronda, Valerie:
I worked in Norwich 27 years. Lots of experiences along the way.
Good people, bad people, nondescript people.
Ron Aliano was none of these.
Need help?
He was there.
Need advice?
He was there.
Need someone to just sit down and chat with?
He was there.
I don't believe Norwich ever knew what this city had as a resource in "newcomer" Ron Aliano. But this city will learn that fact soon enough with his absence, his passing, his loss.
Life is eternal; love is immortal.
Death is a horizon.
And a horizon is no more than the limit of our sight.
You and all of Ron's close and extended families have my sympathy.
Ron Aliano, father and husband and businessman and civic leader and just plain good man, probably the best friend I ever had in this city, has my prayers.
God bless you, Ron.
Rest in peace,
Ed
Erika Treannie
November 3, 2009
Dear Ronda and the entire Aliano family
I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many memories of the times we spent visiting your father with you at the Marina. He was always so kind to all of us girls when we would visit. If you need anything all you need to do is call.
Bill Clarke
November 3, 2009
Val, Michael, Terry, & the Aliano Family:
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Ron. His adopted City of Norwich and friends will miss him very much.
November 3, 2009
Dear Val and Ron's Family,
I sure feel bad about your loss,everyone's loss. I sure have a lot of fun memories that include Ron and a new-be realtor, that wold be me, starting out in real estate. He always let this small town New London girl present her big ideas to him and was always available for every business introduction I wanted to make to him. He was a wonderful character with great dreams...what I liked best was that he let you dream the big ideas too! Wish I had a better recollection...I'd relay the story he told at many a meeting at the marina about why three coffee beans belong in a snifter of sambuca...but I bet you've heard that one too.Here's to Ron's dream for Norwich! He'll be watching from a good seat.
Glad to have known him. My deepest sympathy is extended at this time.
Ann M. Buonocore
Martin Lane
November 3, 2009
To Michael and Family
Your Father will be greatly missed, God Bless and may he rest in peace.
Kristi (Surratt) Morabito
November 3, 2009
Dear Michael,
I'm so sorry to hear the loss of your Father.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, friends and co-workers.
He's your guardian angel watching over you & your children.
I know how much he meant to you and he was so proud to have a son like you.
May happy memories comfort you.
I haven't seen you in awhile, but one
of my favorite memories was when you invited me on a boat ride near the Marina to watch the fireworks on the river with your family & friends.
Thank You for your kindness and hospitality.
Remember, he will be with you every step of the way...only 2 steps behind.
May God bless you & your family.
My sincere condolences,
Jeffrey & Deana Neault
November 3, 2009
Valerie, Tasha, Travis & The Aliano Family,
We are so sorry for your loss, your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Ann Aliano
November 3, 2009
Dear Valerie and Family-
I was so sorry to hear of Ronnie's passing. He will be missed by so many people. Your family is in my thoughts...Ann
November 3, 2009
our deepest sympathy goes out to you and ron's family woody and nancy browning
John Hogan
November 3, 2009
I worked for Ron for about a year in 1974, during the original PASON days. Although our paths diverged widely during the ensuing 35 years, I've not forgotten him. He is that kind of guy.
Rest in peace, "13."
Rick Senokosoff
November 3, 2009
Dear Valerie and the entire Aliano family:
Patti and I would like to offer our sincere sympathy for your loss. Ron will be missed and remembered by many.
God bless you all.....
RC Senokosoff
November 3, 2009
I am saddened to hear of your loss. I grew up with Ronnie and we were friends at BRISTOL CENTRAL on the blvd.We hung around at Mike's pool hall and SPA'S SODA SHOPPE at the west end. He really enjoyed taking a ride in my '61 chevy ---THE MOONDOGY.He was truley a great guy and everybody liked him.I'll keep him in my prayers
Joey Zembko 159 Ferraro Drive Bristol CT
November 3, 2009
Dear Val, Michael, and Rhonda.
Deeply sorry about Ron's passing. He had a heart of gold, loved his family, and especially the grandchildren. While I don't know them all, Giovanni put a spark in heart! I was privileged to know Ron for almost 40 years, since I was a rookie police officer. He'd stop bye the former police station to the rear of City Hall, at 1am, with coffee and doughnuts. He was one-in-a-million. We'll miss Ron, and God Bless His Soul.
Friends, Bud & Sue (Motha) Avdevich
Franklin, CT.
Steven & Susan Gamble
November 3, 2009
Valerie, Tasha and Travis,
Our thourghts and prayers are with you and Ron's entire family.May God put his loving arms around your family and bring comfort and peace in your hearts.
Jane Moriarty
November 3, 2009
Sorry to hear of Ron's passing; My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Del Reynolds
November 3, 2009
Sorry for your loss Val.
Del & Kathy Reynolds
Robin Faulise
November 3, 2009
Dear Valerie and family. Ted, T.J. and I would like to offer our sincere sympathy for your loss. Take care and know that friends from past and present are thinking of you.
Love, Robin
Michael Aliano
November 3, 2009
Dear Dad,
Thank you for being our father. I know that you always questioned if you were as good of a father as you could have been. Working as hard as you did to provide for your family, but missing out on some other things. You need to know that you were a great father. I pray that I will be as good of a father to my children as you were to yours. We love you.
We feel cheated being told there was more time and only getting a couple of weeks. However, I gladly give up that time we could have had with you to know that you are no longer in pain and are in peace now. Your family is together. We will watch over and protect your Valerie. No children could have asked for a better wife for their father as you had with her. We are thankful for her and other things. The time we had with you. The lessons you taught us. The fact you were able to see your children grow up and get married and the fact that you met your grandchildren. You raised us to live life with no regrets; however the only regret I have is that you will not be able to watch your grandchildren grow up. You will live on through all of us. We will tell them the story of you in celebrating your life.
I am honored to be your son and I am so proud of you. Your legacy will continue on and you will not be forgotten. Your Giovanni has been looking for his Papa. You were truly a loved man and we miss you so much already.
We will continue to do what you taught us and provide the best possible patient care to our patients. We will continue to be community oriented and give back to our community and we will continue to be a loving family.
You only lived 65 years, but we know you got about 265 years out of them the way you lived life. May you rest in peace now and watch over us. When my time comes I look forward to seeing you again. I ask that you be the first one there to meet me because I miss you so much.
Proud to be your son,
Michael Carter Aliano
Matthew Ostrowski
November 3, 2009
Ron was an asset and visionary to our city of Norwich. His tenacity pushed Norwich out of its comfort zone and made it a better place today. He will be missed in many different ways.
melvin buddha mitchell
November 3, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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