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Ronald A. Raffele

1952 - 2021

Ronald A. Raffele obituary, 1952-2021, Portland, CT

BORN

1952

DIED

2021

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Portland Memorial Funeral Home

231 Main St

Portland, Connecticut

Ronald Raffele Obituary

Ronald Anthony Raffele, 69, of Portland passed away on Saturday November 20th. He was born in Hartford on January 3, 1952 and was the son of the late Anthony and Stella (Thomas) Raffele. An alumnus of Xavier High School, Ron graduated in 1970 and remained very involved with the school ever since. He was selected to the Hall of Honors in 2011 and was an active member of the Alumni Association. Ron was an avid golfer and was the past president and current member of the Portland Golf Club (PGC) Men's Club. A huge sports fan, when Ron wasn't out on the golf course, he could be found watching his cherished Red Sox, Giants, or UConn Men's Basketball. He was full of life and had a great sense of humor. His carefree attitude and winning smile could light up a room. His stories and laughter will be missed, and he will always share a special place in the hearts of all those who knew and loved him. He is survived by his beloved wife Diane (Atkinson) Raffele, son Damian Raffele and his wife Cara, of Costa Mesa, CA, his three grandchildren, Kyla, Hailey, and Ronald Raffele, sisters Mary Colavito and Joyce McAuliffe, and many in-laws, nieces, and nephews, who he loved dearly. He was predeceased by his son Christopher Raffele and his brother Jay Hannen. The funeral will be held on Monday, November 29th at 9 a.m. from the Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main St, Portland, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in St. Mary's Church, Portland. Burial will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Portland. Friends may call at the funeral home on Sunday, November 28th from 5 to 7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Xavier High School Alumni Association, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT 06457.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 26, 2021.

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John Pulaski

November 29, 2021

To Diane and family. My sincere sympathy on Ron's passing. So many great memories over 55 years of friendship from being seated next to each other since freshman year to years of golfing in the Xavier tournament. A remarkable person, smiles, laughs, sport enthusiast, devoted husband and father. Will sorely miss him. Such a surprise - just spoke with each other on Nov 9. Praying for all.

David Russo

November 28, 2021

Diane my thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

Don Curley

November 26, 2021

To the Rafalle´s and Extended Family,

Deeply sorry for your loss. Spent my early childhood growing up with Ronnie in the Summer Street neighborhood in the mid 50´s along with David Moore. Great indelible memories!
Rest in peace Ronnie.

Rhonda Pease

November 26, 2021

So sorry to hear about Ron's passing. I went to St. Mary's School with Ron. May you find comfort in knowing that Ron is at peace with our Lord. My prayers are with you.

Cheryl Karalus

November 25, 2021

I don´t even think sorry will cover how I feel right now. My heart just hurts.

Michael and Cheryl Santostefano

November 25, 2021

Our hearts are broken that you left this world. We will always remember you and your smiles, and jokes that made us laugh. Forever in our hearts. We love you and will always support Diane

Phil Incerti (Bear)

November 25, 2021

My heart goes out to the Raffele family. I've had the honor and privilege of knowing Ron for over 50 years. He will be missed.

Susan Cashman Lavoie

November 25, 2021

to Ron's family I offer my condolences and prayers. We had some great times with our moms at Judy and Buddy's annual picnics.

Dennis & Beth Rau

November 25, 2021

To the entire Raffele Family , so sorry to hear of Ron´s passing . May your fond memories help to ease the pain you are feeling at this very sad time .

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28

Calling hours

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Portland Memorial Funeral Home

231 Main St PO Box 168, Portland, CT 06480

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29

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Portland Memorial Funeral Home

231 Main St PO Box 168, Portland, CT 06480

Nov

29

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Mary's Church

Portland, CT

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231 Main St PO Box 168, Portland, CT 06480

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