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Ruthe Boyea Obituary

BOYEA, Ruthe (Wright) Ruthe (Wright) Boyea, 89 of Plainville, wife of Douglas Boyea, passed away Friday, (December 7, 2007) at Brittany Farms Health Care Center. Born in Newton, MA, she lived in New Britain for 48 years, moving to Plainville in 2003. Ruthe graduated from Boston University, and received master's degrees from both CCSU and Trinity College. She began her professional career at the West Springfield YMCA and enlisted in the Navy during World War II as a 2nd Lt. Welfare and Training Officer in the WAVES. Following her service to our country, she taught at Lincoln School, and then at Vance and Stanley Schools as part of the School of Education of CCSU. She then became an Assistant Professor of English. In 1977, Ruthe became the administrator of the new Woman's Center, which was then named after her upon her retirement from the college in 1989. Following her retirement, she continued teaching part time at Tunxis Community College. Ruthe was a 50-year member of South Church, where she served as Moderator, Chair of Christian Education, and on the Board of Stewardship. She was also a member of the Board of Directors of the Connecticut Conference of the United Church of Christ. Ruthe was always actively involved in the community. She was the President of the local branch of the American Association of University Women, where she also served as Vice President, and chair of the Committee on Women. She was also the Vice President of the state AAUW and was the New England Regional Director for the national AAUW. She was a Past President of the New Britain Chapter of the American Red Cross. She served as President of the League of Women Voters, was on the Board of Directors of Burritt Bank, and appointed to the Advisory Board for Cable TV. She was appointed to the Commission of Human Rights and Opportunities as well as being the first woman appointed to the Veteran's Commission in New Britain. She has received numerous awards and recognitions including most recently, the Outstanding Alumni Award, Boston University School of Theology, and the NAACP Community Service Award. She was selected to attend the International United Nations Conference on Women in 1975, 1980, and 1985. Besides her husband Doug, she leaves a son, Douglas Boyea, Jr. and his wife Gail of Pittsburgh, PA; a daughter, Ruthe Boiczyk and her husband Edward of Plainville; a sister, Carol Harrington of South Weymouth, MA; five grandchildren; Ericka Fangiullo and her husband Mark of Windsor; Mary Westkott and her husband Mark of Quaker Hill, CT; Katherine Boiczyk of Winsted; Keith Boyea of Arlington, VA; and Luke Boyea of Dallas, TX; two great grandsons, Eli Fangiullo and Noah Westkott; several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a brother, George Wright, and a sister, Laura Jordan. A memorial service will be held Saturday, December 15th, 10 a.m. at South Church, 90 Main St., New Britain. Calling hours are Friday 4-8 p.m. at Carlson Funeral Home, 45 Franklin Square, New Britain. Memorial donations may be made to the Ruthe Boyea Fellowship Fund, c/o The American Association of University Women, 1111 Sixteenth Street N.W., Washington, D.C. 20036 or to the Ruthe Boyea Scholarship Fund at CCSU, 1615 Stanley Street, New Britain, CT 06053. Please share a memory or note of sympathy at www.carlsonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant from Dec. 9 to Dec. 10, 2007.

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Sharon Howell-Burke

January 9, 2008

Ruthe has inspired me as well as many other women in CT, particularly in the AAUW organization. She wil be sadly missed and fondly remembered.

Barbara Yezierski

December 24, 2007

Ruthe was an amazing woman who inspired all of those she touched. My deepest sympathy to her family. I hope it helps to know how well she was loved by others and how much she will be missed.

GAIL HICKSON

December 16, 2007

TO THE BOYEA FAMILY MY SINCEREST SYMPATHIES ON LOSING YOUR, WIFE , MOM AND NANA. SHE WAS AUNT RUTHE TO ME AND TRIPS TO HER HOME WERE ALWAYS A TREAT,HER ATTIC WAS FILLED WITH FUN THINGS TO DO. SHE HAD A FLAIR AND EXUBERANCE THAT MADE EVERYTHING MORE FUN AND CERTAINLY MORE INTERSETING. SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY US ALL. LOVE GAIL "ALICE" HICKSON

Carol Virostek

December 14, 2007

My deepest sympathy to all of Ruthe's family. She had a profound impact on the lives of so many women, myself among them. A revered leader in the American Association of University Women, she was a tireless and passionate advocate for women and the issues affecting women. As such she was a beloved mentor for me and countless others. We will miss her but will ever gain strength and inspiration from all the lessons she taught us by word and example.
Rest in peace, dear Ruthe.

With love,
Carol

Carol R. Virostek, Ph.D.
AAUW/CT President

Lorraine Trippodi

December 14, 2007

My deepest sympathies to all family and friends. Ruthe's work and service touched so many women, myself included. Ruthe helped women to see possibilities and fight for the resources to acheive them. Ruthe will be missed, but her legacy will live on in all of us who were touched by her life and her work.

Jim Williamson

December 13, 2007

Doug,very sorry to hear of Ruthe's passing. Enjoyed talking to her while delivering mail on Black Rock Ave. Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tom Pillion

December 12, 2007

Doug and family,
I remember your leadership well from my high school days in the Jr. Leader Corps with Jim Havlick from 1962-1964. I believe I met Ruth upon occasion at "Y" events, and I was sad to read of her passing. Thanks for all you, Ruth, and your family have done for the youth of America. God bless you all during this time of sadness.

Maggie Ford

December 12, 2007

Ruthe was always my mentor, as she obviously was to many others. She pushed me along a path that brought many satisfactions, not the least of which was her lifelong friendship. We'll miss you.

Maggie Ford, Past President, AAUW Educational Foundation and AAUW/CT

Barbara Mase

December 11, 2007

Ruthe was an inspiration for me....always saying "I'm so proud of you" and "keep going" and "how are things doing in seminary?" She never doubted when others did and was always there to encourage and challenge and motivate. I will always remember you as Ruthe...my friend and dreamer of possibilities.

Carmetta Williams

December 11, 2007

Although I never met Ms. Boyea in person, I have heard so much about her and really admired her work. She will truly be missed. I am very sorry for the family and their lost.

James Sfiridis

December 10, 2007

My sincerest sympathy to Mrs. Boyea's family and all that knew her and were touched by her. She was a great 3rd grade teacher who I was so fortunate to have at Lincoln School. Years later I ran into her on the CCSU campus while confronting a decision to return to school for graduate work as a "mature" student. By then I was a veteran returning to school compliments of the G.I. Bill. After a warm greeting I told her of my dilemna and she encouraged me and reassured me. I'll never forget that short visit with her in a CCSU parking lot.

Ruthe Boyea at a Ruthe Boyea Women's Center Event.

Jacqueline Cobbina-Boivin

December 10, 2007

Though you have passed on to eternity, Ruthe, you are still and will always remain our HERO. You inspired so many of us to be who we are today. You were the angel God placed in CT to advocate on behalf of women's issues. You were the Betty Freidan of CCSU, the Bella Abzug of CCSU, the Gloria Steinem of CCSU, the Shirley Chisholm of CCSU, the Mother Teresa of CCSU and the Princess Grace Kelly of CCSU. You were and still you are simply the best CCSU could ever have! You were the Wind beneath our Wings. Thank you for your greatness! We will always remember you.

Joe Bazzano

December 10, 2007

Dear Family of Mrs. Ruthe Boyea, I was saddened to read about Mrs. Boyea's passing and offer my sympathy for your loss. She was my supervising teacher when I student taught at Vance School. Speaking as one of the many student teachers with whom she worked, she was a truly gifted teacher whose influence will continue long into the future.

Monique Daley

December 10, 2007

Ruthe Boyea, you are an inspiration to many. I will remember you visiting the Center (always lovely dressed with your shoes matching your dress and hair perfectly curled) sharing your story and the story of the many women who you worked with to form the Center, rightfully named in your honor. You will be missed.

Carrie Gallagher

December 10, 2007

Ruthe was a significant influence in my life. I will forever remember her kindnesses to me, her incredible fortitude and personal integrity and her ability to share her vision of equity for women and girls.

A final big hug for you Ruthe.

Fondly,
Carrie
An AAUW Friend

A.W. Carlson Funeral Home

December 10, 2007

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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