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Sheila Wright

1941 - 2015

Sheila Wright Obituary



Sheila Phelan Wright joined her ancestors on November 18th, 2015. She was 74. Born April 27, 1941 in Hartford, Connecticut to Helen E. Phelan and John F. Phelan, Sheila raised her two sons Rob and Chris in beautiful Glastonbury, CT with their father Curtis Wright. Sheila was educated in West Hartford public schools, and earned her Ph.D. at the University of Connecticut. She taught at Watkinson School and at the University of Hartford, where she was involved in creating the interdisciplinary All-University Curriculum. She taught English literature and English as a second language, and she provided guidance and support to academically struggling students. She moved to Denver, Colorado, and served as Vice Provost of Undergraduate Studies at University of Denver (DU) from 1993 until her retirement in 2008 as Vice-Provost emerita. At the time of her 1993 appointment at DU, Dr. Wright was the highest placed female in the university administration, a proud moment for her and for the university. Sheila made many enduring contributions to DU. Former DU Provost William Zaranka writes, "Sheila's personality was electric and she put it to work in startlingly original ways. She had an inspiring vision of the marriage of Student Life and the University's Academic Mission. She spoke her mind and acted on her convictions, which were always humane and inclusive. Sheila accomplished much, and what she accomplished was most distinguished." Beyond her professional career of serving young people, Sheila had an exuberant love of life, saying of herself: "I never met an adventure I didn't like or an idea I didn't want to examine." Travel was one way she sought adventure and explored ideas, biking the Tetons, joining women friends traveling to 20 NCAA Women's Final Four Basketball tournaments, walking through Slovenia, working with artists in Dharamsala, India, and making three spiritual pilgrimages walking the Camino de Santiago in Spain. Her love for people manifested most strongly in her love of family. After the death of her father, mother, and brother Shaun Phelan whom she loved dearly, she, by sheer force of will, brought her family together to heal. With her beloved husband Roscoe, she rebuilt the family into a solid, loving, and whole extended family. She especially wanted to make sure, as she once wrote, "something better was coming if not now for the next generation" for her two grandchildren, Emma and Colin. The gatherings of family and friends at Watch Hill, RI every summer, and in West Hartford and Florida at Christmas, were the living symbols of a family in loving community. "This," said brother Garrett, "is perhaps her greatest and most enduring legacy." Despite the distance from Connecticut, Sheila was closer than ever to her family back home and played a huge part in the lives of her grandchildren, Emma and Colin Wright, who live in West Hartford, visiting often for milestones, events and celebrations. Her family will forever be inspired by her grace and dignity. When Sheila contracted ovarian cancer, she worked hard to fight the effects on her own health and life, but more importantly, as she learned more about the illness, she dedicated herself to making sure those that followed would have a better chance of survival. She participated in Nikki's Circle, and reviewed ovarian cancer research proposals for the Department of Defense. She was on the board of HERA Women's Cancer Foundation, and was awarded the 2015 HERA Power of One Award in October. She gave so much for others while fighting her own battle. Sheila is survived by her husband, Roscoe Hill, son Robert Wright and wife Elena Castanet, son Christian Wright, Tara Cantor, and grandchildren Emma and Colin Wright; Sheila's brothers, Garrett Phelan and his wife Jane Schloss Phelan; Terrance Phelan and his wife Alyssa Ben-Kiki Phelan, and their two children Sierra Phelan, and Jeremiah Bassett-Phelan and his wife, Rachel Silverfarb Bassett and their son, Jack Basset; Roscoe's children Jennifer Hill and Stephen Hill and his wife Ana and their six children Laura Fox and her husband Christopher Fox, Christopher and his wife Jennifer, Alexander, Corina and her husband Randy, Sarah and Benjamin, and two grand-children Sophia and Rory. The memorial event will be at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, December 2 in the Hamilton Recital Hall in the Newman Center for Performing Arts at the University of Denver in Denver, CO. The family asks that memorial donations go to the Denver Hospice, a Connecticut hospice, or the Lighthouse Writers Workshop in Denver.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 22, 2015.

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Daniel Dorman

December 8, 2015

Dear Rob, Chris, and all the Phelan, Wright, and other mourners -

We just learned about Sheila yesterday. Words always seem inadequate at times like this, especially when a person is made to realize how far-flung his family connections have gotten. We want you to know, nevertheless, that our thoughts are with you.

Love,
Dan (cousin) and Vivian Dorman

Nadine & Seby Alderucci

December 3, 2015

We were saddened to hear of Sheila's passing. Our love and prayers go out to the family. We cherish the memories of the wonderful years we spent together with our boys on the soccer field. God bless her.

December 1, 2015

Roscoe, I am so sad to learn of Sheila's passing. I hadn't seen her since I saw the two of you at Karen's wedding party, and I didn't know of her cancer.

I have many good memories of our work together at DU. She made a difference in so many ways, not the least of which is that she made you happy.

My thoughts are with you,

Kathy Crawley

Jim Parola

November 23, 2015

MY wife, Barbara, was a cousin to Sheila. We send the family members our thoughts and prayers.

God bless +

Samantha Lockwood

November 23, 2015

I worked with Sheila on a board of directors. We spoke twice a month though we never met in person for 18 months. She was the ultimate professional and super strong, smart, kind and encouraging. I will miss Sheila. Such a loss for all those who knew her. She will be missed. RIP.

Lois Palmer-Alderson

November 23, 2015

Wow, I'm shocked and saddened by the loss of our dear classmate and friend. Sheila was an amazing woman and I'm proud of the legacy she is leaving for her family. Hugs and sincere sympathy to her entire family. Memories are the legacy of love. Rest in Peace, Sheila.

jessie smith

November 23, 2015

My first memory of sheila was when i was two or so asking me if she could help me blow my nose instead of my mom ,which i happily agreed to i loved her so....my next memory of her was when i was maybe four running around a store with chris jumping out at people from huge round clothes racks scaring them and her dragging chris and i outside to reprimand us and her just looking at our little faces and laughing out loud saying "you too shouldn't be trying to scare people"!She was so much ,she was an inspiration ,a pillar of strength,my mom and dads best friend,a patient and amazing mom and loved by so many ,so deeply.Thank you Roscoe for finding her and loving her the way she should be loved.She will be missed terribly.

Joanne

November 22, 2015

Blessing in this time of sorrow. CT Women of Hope

November 22, 2015

THANK YOU FOR FOND MEMORIES. WE ARE FOREVER GRATEFUL TO HAVE YOU AS A FRIEND AND ARE DEEPLY SADDENED BY THE LOSS OF OUR CLASSMATE.

CONARD CLASS '59

Alex Abare

November 22, 2015

Hey Terry, Feeling you and your sister in my thoughts. Won't attempt words of repair. Just know Terry...K?

Dan & Tamara Quartin

November 22, 2015

Terry, Alyssa, & family,

Our deepest sympathy on your loss. May time heal your hearts during these difficult times.

Lisa & Brad Roche

November 22, 2015

Reading Sheila's obituary reminds us of what a talented, courageous, and accomplished woman she was. And yet, she never made us mere mortals feel small in her presence. She was a force of nature but a delightful and loving one. I know how much she was loved and appreciated by family, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. Brad & I send our love and sympathy to you all.

November 22, 2015

My condolences to the family. May our caring God support you during this difficult time. 1 Peter 5 : 7

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