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Shirley Smith-Boyce Obituary
SMITH-BOYCE, Shirley Shirley Smith-Boyce, 46, daughter of the late Ulysees and Josephine Smith, entered into the arms of the Heavenly Father on Wednesday, (November 22, 2006) at St. Francis Hospital, surrounded by her loving family. She was born April 14, 1960, in Hartford and was a life-long resident until recently relocating to Maryland to be with her daughter and granddaughter. She was an active member of First Charity Baptist Church in Baltimore, MD. Shirley was baptized in the name of Jesus on July 9, 2006 by Pastor Hollis Neal. Her passion was caring for elderly and bed-ridden individuals. She leaves to mourn, a loving husband, Marcus Boyce; a devoted daughter, Uniqua Smith and her precious granddaughter, Logan S. Booze, who was the love of her life, both of Glen Burnie, MD; two brothers, Kenneth and Timothy Smith, both of Atlanta, GA; four sisters, Gwendolyn Sailor of Dover, DE, Deborah Bester of Hartford, Janice Smith of Rex, GA and Monique Boyd of East Hartford; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends, including her childhood friend for life, Donna Watkins of Baltimore, MD, and three very dear friends, Crystal Gaston, Paula Terry and Jacqueline "Candy" Young, all of Hartford. She was predeceased by her brother, John "Chucky" Smith. Funeral services will be held Thursday, November 30, 11 a.m. at Latter Rain Christian Fellowship, 3200 Main St., Hartford, with calling hour at 10 a.m. Interment will be in Mountain View Cemetery, Bloomfield. Clark, Bell & Bell Funeral Home, Hartford, is in charge of arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Smith-Boyce
Johnese Smith Jenkins
February 4, 2025
Jesus.. I miss you so much.. I have so much to tell you.
Janice Smith
November 22, 2007
My Sweet Sister Shirley. Today made exactly one year since you left. My heart is broken -- I miss you sooo much that it hurts. It is hard to believe that it has been a year. I still ache for you. I will love you always & forever.
Charles Timmons
November 22, 2007
I'm still missing you and your funny jokes. We all want to have a good time instead of crying but, it's still okay to cry because sometimes we are hurt.
Love, CJ
Your Family
November 22, 2007
We didn't know that evening
that God would take you away.
in life we loved you dearly.
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn’t go alone.
A part of us went with you, that night God called you home.
You left us so peacefully, we tried hard not to cry.
And though we can not see you, we know you’re by our side.
Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same.
But when God calls us home one day, our chain will link again.
Lovingly submitted on the ONE YEAR anniversary of your graduation to Glory.
We love you and miss you dearly!
Re-Re
October 16, 2007
I'm just sitting here thinking about how last year this time, you were here and looking better than ever! You also made your debut as a prayer warrior! I remember you asking me "How did I do?". I was SO proud of you! I remember everything.....I miss you so much. I really do. It's so hard to think about you being gone. I love you so much Auntie Shirley. I always have. I wish to God that we had more time together.
Still hurting....
Johnese Smith
September 11, 2007
I have been thinking about you so much. I miss you so much. At times it gets overwhelming. I wish you were here in the flesh I just want to touch you, laugh with you, yell at you, hear you whisper because NeNe is coming. Love You More!
Sherease
August 31, 2007
I miss you a lot today. No more than other days though. I talk about you so often that one would think that you were right here. Actually, you are...and you always will be. As close as my heart can be to my body, there you will be also.
~~~I love you!~~~
Monique Boyd
August 22, 2007
Shirley, Shirley, Shirley, I thought you would be here to help me with my new grandson. You told how to be a grandmother before it was time. You would say to me "just watch and see how different the love will be". I would say "okay". I'm so sad because you're not here to share this joy with me. He is so wonderful and I love him more everyday. I want to see him more than I want to do anything everyday. You were right Sis. My life is so different. No explanation, just plan old healthy love. I even love Kira more for having him. Now I see what you meant, and how you felt about Logan. Life is good now...even if its really not sometimes. I LOVE YOU TOO MUCH SIS!!
PLEASE STAY WITH ME...
NIQUE
Sherease
August 16, 2007
I thank my God upon every rememberance of you. (Phil 1:3)
Auntie Shirley, I had a hard morning. I miss you so much. The memories of your voice, your smile, your laughter flooded my mind as soon as I woke up this morning. I wish that I could turn back the hands of time. I thank God for blessing me with such a caring and loving Auntie. You were more than just an aunt to me. You were my friend.
"I will pray for you quietly, think of you often and love you always."
Johnese Smith
August 13, 2007
I miss you so much!! I have so many things to talk about and tell you. I mean I know you are looking down and you know just what I am talking about but it's not the same. I just want to hear your voice one more time. All those messages you used to leave on the voicemail , I sure wish I saved them. I have been keeping up on all of the family news, as you did. I am still watching everything that has anything to do with forensics. This season of the first 48 hours has been so good. Well just stopping by to say I love you!
Kenneth Smith
August 10, 2007
Hey Sis,
I miss you more then ever, now that I'm in Hartford. We did grow up together, and I guess I depended on you more then I thought. So I'm leaving Hartford, because there is no one here to love me like you can.
See you later Shirley
Your Brother Kenny
Re-Re
August 8, 2007
I love you Auntie Shirley. I miss you so much and I wish that I could turn back the hands of time. Last year this time we were laughing and joking and making plans. But God had his own plans for you. Plans of eternal life. Your light continues to shine....
I love you more than I can ever express on this guestbook.
Re-Re
July 6, 2007
Loving you and missing you now and always.
June 12, 2007
We are missing you so much. Can't believe you're gone. I know that you're resting peacefully but your absence has left a dull, empty spot in the family. I don't know if the memories make it easier or harder. What I do know is that we will meet again and spend eternity together.
With an aching heart...
Sherease
Lucretia
June 8, 2007
Missing you like crazy!!!
Cretia
Always and Forever your niece, Sherease
May 25, 2007
You're always on my mind.....
Diane Lewis
May 13, 2007
Thanks Shirley...
Re-Re
May 4, 2007
Missing you as always.....
Shana Smith
April 14, 2007
Always in my heart and on my mind!! Today and everyday!! I celebrate YOU on this April 14th 2007! Happy birthday dear cousin!!!
Love,
Shana
Your niece, Sherease and the entire Smith Family
April 13, 2007
Auntie Shirley, not a day goes by that your name is not mentioned by someone in the family. We miss you terribly and love you even more. God blessed us with your presence for forty-six years. Now, you get to spend your forty-seventh in the presence of the Father.
Remembering you on April 14, 2007 and every other day of the year.
We will always love you.
Lucretia
April 2, 2007
Hey Auntie Shirley
Been thinking about u alot lately. We going to MD for Easter and Mothers day just to make sure Ne-Ne and Logan are ok. Im sure your spirit will be all over the place.
Love you forever!!!
Cretia
Love, Re-Re & CJ
March 22, 2007
Four months later, STILL can't believe you're gone...
Missing you like crazy!
Sherease
March 5, 2007
Thinking of you today and EVERYday...Love ALWAYS
Cretia
February 22, 2007
Hey Auntie Shirely
Thinking about you alot these couple of days. We miss you so much and love you with all our hearts.
Re-Re
February 20, 2007
Loving you always...
Sherease
February 5, 2007
Me and CJ miss you so much. He talks about you all the time. He said he thinks of all the funny things that you used to say. You're always in our hearts and on our minds.
Loving you forever....
Sherease
January 19, 2007
I miss you very much. The memories are what keep me going. Rest peacefully, Auntie Shirley.
Loving you always....
Re-Re
January 11, 2007
Thanks for visiting CJ so often. He misses you SO much! We all do. Things just aren't as funny as they used to be:)
Love you!
Johnese Smith
January 4, 2007
I love you!
Lucretia
January 3, 2007
Auntie Shirley
Christmas and New Years without you was so hard. I made sure i sent out my Christmas cards and called everyone bright and early on Christmas just like you used to do. We all did. I cant remember the last time all the Smith's spoke on a holdiday but this year, I think I spoke with each and everyone of them. Putting up my Chirstmas decorations, I found the card you gave us last Christmas and how it said how proud of us your were and how you loved us with all your heart. I just cried and hung it on the tree. It will be a part of my Christmas decorations for many years to come. It reminds me of how much I loved you and how you always made it your business to tell us how proud you were of us and how much you loved us. All of your neices and nephews said the same thing about you. We all knew it and each of us equally felt the same way about you.
It was hard to me to set down and put into words what you ment to me and how much I would miss you. I finally just said I cant. I could never write down what you ment to me and how much I loved you because words would not be enough. A flower, A sunshine, or a rainbow might give a picture but nothing can compare.
The saying goes "God never gives you more that you can handle" but this was something I could not handle. Everyday it gets better and I know that your looking down on us saying "see you can do it, Im so proud of you" just like you always said.
Living without you is hard but knowing I will see you again oneday and living my life to keep making you proud, makes it a little easier.
See you when I get there!!!!!
Cretia,JW,Tae,Javiah,&Jaylah
Your niece, Sherease
January 2, 2007
It's a new year for us, but it was a new day for you when God called you from this world that runs on time to a place where life is eternal. We miss you so much! We will continue to keep our eyes on the prize so that we may see you again in Paradise.
Loving you ALWAYS and FOREVER....
Shana Smith
January 2, 2007
Cousin Shirley, Happy new year in GLORY!! You are forever on my mind! And eternally in my heart! I HEART YOU MY DEAR COUSIN!!
Carolyn Harris
January 1, 2007
Merry Xmas & Happy New year;
To Ne-Ne and my intirer Extented Family.
I pray that our Lord & Savior continues to give each of you strenght in the Time of Need.
I know that it is'nt easy around this time and I know that Shirley is yet being missed and needed at this time. I Thank God that He Blessed us Memories, I use them whenever I think of My cousin Shirley, and I have so many pleasent ones on which to think of.
Peace & Blessings I Pray for you all, the whole Year Through.
Your cousin, sister baby
Carolyn Harris
johnese smith
December 27, 2006
I love you and miss you so much. Iseen this good movie over the holidays called blood diamonds i know you would have liked it.
Sherease
December 26, 2006
It's me again.....Our first Christmas has come and gone without you. It wasn't the same. We miss you so very much. We all speak of you often. I love you and think about you EVERYDAY.
~Peace~
Re-Re
December 22, 2006
Today makes one month since another link in our family chain has been broken. We miss you SO much Auntie Shirley! Logan turned 2 today and I know that you are smiling down on your little lady. The holidays will not be the same without you. Cretia already said what we all feel.....
Loving you ALWAYS
Cretia
December 22, 2006
Merry Christmas in heaven, Auntie Shirley from ALL your nieces and nephews. We love and miss you so much it hurts.
joann lumpkin
December 17, 2006
shirley will be deeply mised .but we know that she's in heaven were she belongs love, ms. joann lumpkin
Tasha Miller
December 15, 2006
Ne-Ne,
It took me some time to sign this guest book because it's almost impossible to figure out what to write to you. After getting your response via e-mail last night, I felt it was time.
You were such a precious daughter to Shirley, you took care of her and I know that she was extremely proud of that. When thinking of her, don't cry because she has gone; cry because she lived long enough to give herself to GOD. Not many people have that opportunity but she did and she took advantage of it. Consider that a blessing!
My prayers are with you as long as you need them to be.
-Tatt-
Re-Re
December 11, 2006
Auntie Shirley, I love you so much! I miss you and think of you everyday. There have been some really hard days but, when I think of the fact that you are now an angel, I can't help but rejoice. Everyone speaks of you so often. It's like you're still here. I was wondering who was gonna imitate Grandma's voice now that you're gone? Others try, but you were the best! We are trying to hold it together, but what is a team without all the players? You were an important player on our team. You were a peacemaker in the family and I will never forget that. It will be hard to fill your shoes. We grieve heavily for our loss. But, I heard a saying that goes: "Great grief comes from great love!" How perfectly stated! You were and will always be loved greatly by all of us. Some of us can't write on the guestbook yet b/c the wound is still so deep and fresh. But, this is therapy for me. I look at your picture everyday and it just amazes me how much you had grown/changed over the past few years. I was so proud of you.
Re-Re
December 7, 2006
Auntie Shirley, I am missing you so much today. I am really having a hard time swallowing the fact that you are no longer here in the physical. I pray that God gives us the strength to get past this pain.
Johnese Smith
December 5, 2006
Words can not explain the Love I have for you! I already miss our conversations about all my life problems. I miss our laughing until we cry. I miss you calling about all your shows and movies. Who can I talk to about my kids and all the crazy things they do.
Love you!
TIAWANNA BESTER
December 5, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Sheila Dagadu
December 5, 2006
Debbie & Family:
Sending sincere sympathy, love and respect.
Sheila & Family
Nicole Gamble
December 4, 2006
Nene, Anthony and I have shared some special moments w/you, Shirley & Logan. We will cherish all those special moments. Shirley had a very big heart. When I stayed w/you & Shirley all she wanted to do was feed us. We would pick at Shirley some days, because she would wake up thinking about what she was going to cook for dinner. Shirley & I had several heart to heart conversations, she was always understanding, never judgemental. New Year's Eve night is definitely a night to remember & NeNe you know what I'm talking about...I will never forget the times Shirley & I were lost in Baltimore and didn't have a clue how to get out. We had to call her light-skinned nephew (who she would always talk about) to get us out of there. NeNe, my heart goes out to you & Logan, you know if you need a shoulder to cry on I'm always here for you...
Sherease Bester
December 4, 2006
He is the Rock, His works are perfect, and all His ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is He.(Duet 32:4)
My family, this is a most difficult time for all of us. Auntie Shirley's departure took us all by surprise. There is a void that will never be filled in our hearts. Our family will never be the same. What we need to do now, is stick closer than ever before. Auntie Shirley loved us all so much and we loved her. She taught this family the real meaning of unconditional love. She will forever be a part of our hearts, minds and family. I love you all SO much and I promise that I will do my best to be a better family member.
Nee,you are my cousin, but you are also my baby sister.Know that I will ALWAYS and forevermore be there for you. Anything you need, if it is within my power, I'll do. We have been together through thick and thin all of our lives. I love you and I love Loggie with all my heart. As I've said before, you were THAT daughter! You will be RICHLY blessed for the unconditional love and support that you have always shown your mom. She appreciated everything that you ever did for her. You know that she loved you and Logan more than words could ever describe. Let the lessons that she taught you make you a better woman/mother.
Uncle Marcus, we love you. You have been in our family for 30 years and you were the only man that my aunt ever loved. I pray that God give you the strength to get through this. Please know that we are only a phone call away.
Auntie Shirley, I am hurting SO bad right now. It is hard for me to write this. I love you with all my heart. I will miss you more than I can ever verbalize. The love that you showed our entire family was unmatched. I am so privelidged to had been your niece and your friend. Our talks and laughs will be with me for a lifetime. The advice that you have given me on so many occasions will forever be in my actions. Losing you was something that I wasn't ready for. But, as I told you, God has the final say. His will was done. You wondered what your purpose was, but little did you know, you served your purpose. You showed everyone what God can do if you just let HIM! I am so proud of you! I love you so much. It is hard for me to put it in words because I am still in disbelief. I will be there for Ne-Ne and Logan. I must see you again, so I must get my life right. Until then, I will be thinking of you fondly.
I love you so much Auntie Shirley.
Your niece, Re-Re
Cassandra Fitzgerald-Brown
December 2, 2006
Gwen, Janice, Debbie, Ken, Tim, Monique, Unique and the rest of the Smith-Boyd family. My family and I send you our sympathy in the passing of Shirley. Our families have shared many great and sad events together through out the years beginning with the friendship of Ms.Josephine and my late mother Birdie. So it is fitting and proper that I take a moment to pen a few words of encouragement to you all. I am sorry we were not in physical attendance of the Celebration of Life for Shirely, in that I was just advised of her sudden passing. However, through the reading of some of the signatures on this guest book, I know that it was a great day of celebration. God has given us something unique and that is "memories". I have wonderful memories of Shirley and the rest of the Smith family all the way back to the "Sands Apartments" when it was brand new!
Janice you and I are only an hour or so away and we must stay in contact. Debbie, hold it down in CT until our next visit. "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal". God loves you and so do I. I am only a telephone call away.
Love you all
Finitia Armstrong
December 1, 2006
To my family, May GOD give us a PEACE that surpasses all understanding.
December 1, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Aaron & Dale Manns
Rebertha "Bert" Pope-Matthews
December 1, 2006
To the Smith and Boyce families, I pray for your precious memories of Shirley's life and love for God and one another, to comfort you at this time. When my cousin shared the news of Shirley's homegoing, I immediately began to reflect on the many fond memories I have of Shirley, from my days of growing up in Hartford. The laughs we shared will always be a part of many reasons why I continue to cherish that blessed time in my life. On HIM you can always depend to see you through. Peace be with you.
Patrice Evans & Family
December 1, 2006
NeNe, Nicki and the Smith/Boyce Families:
I share in the loss of your mother, sister and friend. May you truly be comforted at this difficult time. God Bless.
Tomeka Johnson-Martin
December 1, 2006
NeNe,
Words can’t express how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your mother. You are blessed to have a supportive family to lean on… Debbie, Sherease & Lucretia… just to name a few. I pray for each of you today and always.
Rev. Delores Bobb
December 1, 2006
NeNe I want you to know that as I looked at the pictures during the home going service and looked at the smile on Shirley face she was smiling down at you with joy of how you layed your mother to rest. You sent your mother home with style and class what a victory service you gave your mom. Now its you and your dad, your family and friends, especially your faithful God mom, Donna, just look around you have support and most of all you have God. It does not seem like it now but the best is yet to come God has great plans for you and Logan. Remember God said he will never leave you or for sake you.
Rhoda B-Henry
November 30, 2006
To the entire Smith and Boyce family, my heart goes out to all of you during this sad time. I can still see Shirley's face as little girl growing up on Westland street. Those memories I will always cherish. Lean on God and he will give you all the strength that you need.
Love and Blessings
Rhoda and family
Bridgette Mack & family
November 30, 2006
To The Smith & Boyce Family: Shirley was a sweet & kind person that will be truly missed. Just keep your faith in God and He will see you thru this!
carolyn harris
November 30, 2006
Dear Uniquia, I was just sitting here reading and reflecting, and remembered that Shirley and I came up with the name of Uniquia.
I must say, that you are a one of a kind Daughter, god made you fit to step up to the plate for such a time as this , I know that Your Mother is most proud, yes i say it in the present tense, because I truly believe that she's watching.
I am also very Proud of you because I have know you before your birth (smile), and you have had your mothers back through it all, and I believe that's how it should be, If we are able.
I want to let you know that Aunt Bessie and I will keep in in our prayers always!
Aunt Bessie will contact you when she gets back in town. ok.
Iam Always here for , and I think you know that.
Oh, Unquia, you and those that helped you send your mom home to be with the Lord, did a beautiful job.
Keep being who you are!
Peace&Blessings
cousin-carolyn
Donna Johnson
November 30, 2006
To The Smith,Adams and Boyce Family, I am so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing....But remember that GOD is in control....and He NEVER makes a mistake....We go way back to Westland St. You are in my Paryers...
GOD BLESS
Barbara J. Turner
November 30, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rose Payne-Greene
November 30, 2006
Please know I'm very sorry to hear of your loss, it is hard to lose someone we love and yet we know Shirley is in a better place watching over yall every minute of your life. Keep her good memories going. She'll never be forgotten, no matter how much time passes. I'm there for ya.
LaDonn Shepard
November 30, 2006
Janet & Debbie I send you both a great big hug. :) Please know that my prayers are with your entire family and May your memories give you all comfort at this sad time.
Alicia Mayo
November 30, 2006
My sincere condolences to the entire Smith/Boyce family. I met Shirley years ago and she was very much like a sister to me via my friendship with Monique. I'll miss the days of us "cuttin' up", laughing and being silly. Please be encouraged and God will give you the strength you need during these times.
Cecelia Johnson-Hendrick
November 30, 2006
Debbie,
I too lost a sister and I know what you are going through. Be encouraged that the Lord will be with you during this time of sorrow. She is with him now, in a better place. I will pray for your strength.
Anitress Johnson
November 30, 2006
My prayers are with the Smith-Boyce Family during this time. Trust in God for strength. He is with you and I am just a phone call away.
sallie Lawrence-Pinkney
November 30, 2006
Grace & Peace be unto the Smith/Boyce family.
I can remember several great times I shared with Shirley in high school, the laughter and jokes were always welcome by her.
My Prayers are with all of your.
God Bless!
Karen Harris
November 30, 2006
To the Smith Family,
It has been years since I've seen you all, but I often think about those of you that I met while living on Andover Street. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I will be praying for you all as you face the difficult days ahead. Be forever blessed and encouraged.
Karen Harris
Kawan Johnson
November 30, 2006
Nene,
Shirley was like an aunt to me, wait correction was an aunt to me. She will be missed but not forgotten. Nene, we grew up together and go way back. I love you and I pray that, God comforts you in this time of need.
Cassandra (Sandie) Dove
November 30, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the entire family. My prayers are with you.
Sabrina Johnson
November 30, 2006
To the Smith family, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy during this time of sorrow. I have known shirley for many years. it has been a pleasure knowing her. shirley may you rest in peace sweetheart.
Sabrina Johnson and Family
The Jernigan's
November 30, 2006
In all things give God the Glory, may you grow stronger as a family and in God.
Take Care
SUSAN REGINA WILSON
November 30, 2006
To the Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathys.
Donald (Peter) Wilson, Regina Wilson, Harriet Wilson Bronson AND Anne Wilson (Silver Spring, MD) from Westland Street.
MARILYN (SMITH)LOGAN
November 30, 2006
To the Smith/Boyce Family
I just saw Shirley a couple weeks ago at St. John's and was very happy to see her. I grew up with the Smith family in St.John's and we shared a lot of laughs through the years. May God keep you in his loving arms. My Family will continue to pray for you all.
Marilyn (Smith)Logan & Family
Tish Ricks-Lopez
November 30, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Ozie Pope Jackson
November 30, 2006
Dear Family,
I was so blessed a few weeks ago to see Cousin Shirley in church. She was so happy to see everyone and she just beamed with joy. That's how I will remember her, full of joy!
Though in the natural this is hard -we can be assured that God is right here with us.
Let's keep trusting God and continue to love and support each other because together we are ONE!
Much love to you all!
Sandra Terry
November 30, 2006
NeNe & Marcus
With sincere condolences and my love. Shirley was dear to my heart.
(Paula's Middle child)
Arlene Canty
November 30, 2006
To the Smith Family;
Words can't express how you feel right now, We send our deepest sympathy to all of you keep your hands in Gods hand and He will strength your hearts, take care.
Love The Canty Family
Marvette Williams
November 30, 2006
To the family we pray for you at this time. I began to get close and know Shirley more in the last year. When Shirley would come and go to the doctor my mom asked me to pick her and her grandbaby up from the doctor and bring her to her house so Shirley and Logan could have someone and somewhere to hang out with during the day. She enjoyed herself so much looking at pictures and sitting in the kitchen talking with my mother as she cooked for her and the baby. Shirley was so grateful for me picking her up. I enjoyed going out to dinner with her the last time she was here, me my mom and Nay Nay had a good time at church and dinner as we parted from dinner Shirley was happy from being in church and spending the day with my mom and the girls. I will keep those memories as I said to my mom that was our last supper with Shirley. I have learned one thing life is short your here today and gone tomorrow. Let's treasure each day and do for each other what we can do and the energy we use to be mad and gossip and holding things against each other let's use that energy to love and restore life and hold each other up. Remember God works with us through our down falls let's work with each other. Love you all the one's I know and the family I have not met (we are still family.) God will see you through.
Russell Seals
November 30, 2006
To Janice and the Smith family, I share in your loss sis' may God watch over you and your family. Janice we (your atl. family) are here for you. Stay uplifted in the Lord.
Carolyn Harris
November 30, 2006
My children and I, would like to extend our condolences at the loss of your Beloved Wife,Mother,Sister and Auntie.
We will continue to keep each of you in our prayers.
Shirley iam grateful that God allowed you to be a part of my Life. I was once told, that I can't choose my family, but I could choose my friends. We chose to be friends, as well as we were cousinss. We had our rough spots at times,but I thank God for the love and Friendship we shared. Shirley through you, I am really Blessed to know that it is'nt about us, but about the Love we allow to flow through us because of CHRIST JESUS.
Shirley, I saw you change from a caterpillar into a butterfly.
I saw you running the race and pressing toward the mark of the High Calling in Christ Jesus.
i saw you keeping your eyes on the prize, the prize being CHRIST JESUS, Shirley I truly believe JESUS will say , Well Done My Good and Faithful Servant.
Shirley, you will be MISSED MUCH, by those who LOVE YOU MUCH!
Shirley,
REST
IN
PEACE.
I will continue to make plans to see you again.
Love Ya!
Your Cousin-friend, Carolyn(sister-baby).
Rhonald williamson
November 29, 2006
my deepest condolences u will be missed in a way that there are no words for my heart go's to the fam and nene love u.
Shana Smith
November 29, 2006
To my dearest family.We all know how good God is.We were all raised to acknowledge Him in all of our ways.Though I am far away, I mourn and celebrate Shirleys life. We all know of the angels that are waiting for her in Glory. I celebrate Shirley! I celebrate Her life! I celebrate her spirit! I only mourn , not being able to see her on this earth.But I know, that one day we will meet again!! I am so sure of that! I love you all...Although
I am not there physically, I am present in spirit. I love you all!!
Shana Smith
Karen Williams (Clark st.)
November 29, 2006
To The Smith/Boyce Family I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.
Jean Smith Norman
November 29, 2006
We have lost a loved member of our family. I thank God for allowing us to have shared life with our dear cousin. She will never be forgotten and I pray God's grace to help us all through this difficult time. God's strength is made perfect in our weakness. With loving-fond memories and prayers... I am Jean Smith-Norman
Taunya Jenkins
November 29, 2006
Nene,
My heart sends love,strength and peace to you and your family.God Bless you and know your mom is in a better place.
Carol Anderson
November 29, 2006
To the Smith and Boyce Family:
My heartfelt condolences to the entire family at this time, mourning the sudden loss of Shirley. I felt deeply sadden to learn of Shirley's passing especially since I go back pretty far with the Smith family. May you find comfort that she has gone home to glory and she can rejoice because she is in a heavenly place. Hold on to the life long memories and remember the joyous spirit she spread amongst everyone especially the family.
With deepest sympathy,
Carol Anderson and Family
Stacey Hooks
November 29, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Portia Jenkins
November 29, 2006
Nene
I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. My humble condolences to you and your entire family. May your mom Rest in Peace
Kaydene Morgan
November 29, 2006
To the entire Smith family:
My condolences go out to everyone. I grew up with Shirley's nieces and nephews and all I remember is how close knit this family has always been. I am praying for all of you. Cretia, I'm hear if you need to talk. May God Bless you in your darkest hours!
Jeremy McElroy
November 29, 2006
Our hearts go out to the Smith, Boyce, and Bester Family at this time of sorrow and in the days ahead.
From the McElroy & Gillespie Family
LORI (ANDERSON) EVANS
November 29, 2006
NENE, MAY GOD COMFORT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THRU THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME, I WISH I COULD SAY EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY, BUT I CAN'T SWEETIE. BUT I WILL SAY THAT YOUR MOM WAS LOVED AND SO ARE YOU..HOLD ON TO GODS UNCHANGING HANDS, AND YOU KNOW DONNA WILL BE WITH YOU UNTIL THE END..BE STRONG I MISS YOU.
mary Prince
November 29, 2006
To, The Smith Family.
God be with you in your time of grieve in this sad time. my heart goes out to you and your family. may God Bless you all, you all are in my prays.
Diane Prince
ALSO KNOWN AS Mary Prince.
Tahira bruff & Stewart Family
November 29, 2006
Smith & Boyce Families,
Sending deepest condolences at this difficult time.
Pamela Johnson & Family
November 29, 2006
To Nene, Marcus, Gwen, Jan, Nickie, Kenny, & Timmy my heart and prayers go out to you all during your time of sorrow for the lost of your dear Mother, Wife,& sister.
Nene I think she might want you to know that she has arrived
I arrived Ok
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Brenda Lawrence
November 29, 2006
To The Smith family,
Words cannot express my feelings during this time. My prayers goes out to you all at this time, and I will continue to do so.
Love,
Brenda Lawrence & Family
Aisha Terry
November 29, 2006
My condolences to the Smith and Boyce families, Shirley will definitely be missed.
Vickie Welcome-Southerland
November 29, 2006
Nene,
My heart goes out to you and Logan. All I can picture is how much fun we had at nay's wedding. I can still picture shirley dancing and laughing having a good time. Know that I am here for you little sis. May God Bless you always.
Vickie
Shawntell Goode
November 29, 2006
You have my sincere condolences. I will keep your family in my prayers. God Bless You all!
LaTonya Major
November 29, 2006
To the Smith Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May all your memories of Shirley bring you comfort and ease your pain. Monique, please know that I will be close by if you need me.
TuRhanda Major-Brown
November 29, 2006
To the Smith/Boyce Family,
Please except my condolences. I'm very sorry to hear about the lost of Shirley. I grew up with Shirley, Tim, and Nicky in S.A.N.D.S. My sisters and I (Candi and Peaches) always had fun and enjoyed being around your family.
May god bless your family and my prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Tynee
Rev. Delores Bobb
November 29, 2006
To the entire family and a special prayer goes to the daughter and grandchild who she spoke so much about when we talked, you were her life, Unique she loved you and was very proud of you how you watched over her and cared for her. I thank God for Shirley excepting God as her personal savior, she was so excited when she did this she called me and would go on and on about the Lord and when she came to Hartford she would come and sit and talk about the goodness of God and then end up talking about "Miss Logan", we had a little joke about Miss Logan we called her "Sharah Jane" sometimes we would just laugh out of control about Sharah Jane. "Miss Logan". Marcus she loved you with a unique love. Carolyn you was not just a cousin down through the years you was a very good and devoted friend. Donna I know you have lost a lifetime friend but know she is out pain, disappointment and she has went on to a better place. I will remember Shirley coming to the church a few weeks ago she was so happy to see some of her mother's old friends and to see people she had not seen in years she was so excited about seeing the pastor and the new face lift of the church not knowing this was her last time with us. We parted after dinner she spoke with Nay Nay and Marvette hugging and embracing them telling them how proud she was of them and how they grew to be fine, and respectable young ladies we left talking about the goodness of God, his grace and mercy and being the God of a second chance. Family know that God is in control and when you have done all you can just stand. Because of health problems you have not seen my face but my prayers are with you and I love you. I am only a phone call or email away if you need me.
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