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Stephen Zwillinger Obituary

Stephen D. Zwillinger, 70, of Newington, died suddenly at home on Wednesday September 25, 2019. He was the beloved husband for 18 years of Shelley Schuman. Born in Hartford, he was the son of the late Dr. Richard H. Zwillinger and Jacqueline (Wolf) Zwillinger. He was a graduate of Charleston University in West Virginia. Stephen worked in real estate sales and property management. He loved kayaking, riding his bike, reading and going to museums and shows. He was a loving and devoted husband, son, brother, uncle and great-uncle. Besides his wife, Shelley, he is survived by: his mother Jacqueline Zwillinger, sister, Joan Finger of Philadelphia, father-in-law Burton Schuman, nephews, Jonathan Rosenfinger and his wife Shoshana and Geoffrey Fox, nieces, Adrienne Halterman and Erica Galanter and her husband Aaron, sister-in-law Barbara Fox and her husband Tim, and great nieces Anna and Zachary Rosenfinger and Olivia and Miles Galanter as well as many dear friends. He loved his dog Cooper more than almost anything. A funeral will be graveside TODAY, Friday, September 27 at NOON at the West Meadow Cemetery in Newington, 679 Willard Avenue. Following interment the family will receive friends at his sister-in-law's home. Donations in his memory may be made to a charity of donor's choice. Stephen will forever be in the hearts of those he shared life with. Funeral arrangements provided by Hebrew Funeral Association, West Hartford.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 27, 2019.

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Joan Finger

April 11, 2021

Steve was a wonderful, gentle soul. He lived to take care of those dear to him. He was fiercely loyal and loving. So many times he stepped in to rescue me with supportive counsel, encouragement, honest opinions. I look around me and miss my brother every day.

Stanley Kenton

September 23, 2020

Watching the US Tennis Open, playing tennis with my son, and passing by tennis courts remind me of Steve every day. I smile at the many matches we had, fiercely competing but rarely being able to beat the master! The best part was hearing that great infectious laugh. Always in my thoughts.
Stan Kenton

Mike and Lucy Green

October 12, 2019

Our hearts are deeply saddened by the loss of Steve. He was the dearest and best friend for the last fifty five years of my husband Michael Green.
They always kept in touch with each other and talked about sports, politics, business, inventions and had so much in common. They were more like brothers than best friends. It's very difficult for Mike not to be able to pick up the phone and call him anymore.
Mike always admired Steve for his honesty and integrity and how he always managed to strike up a conversation with people no matter where he was. He was a very likable human being.
He was such a giving person who was always there for anyone who needed help.
We were also blessed to have Steve as our "Best Man" at our wedding.
He will be dearly missed by so many people who loved and admired him.
Steve, May Your Soul Rest In Heavenly Peace Until We Meet Again.
Sincere and Deepest Condolences To His Loving Family.

Mike and Lucy Green

Tony&Tillie Casasanta

September 27, 2019

Dear Shelley,

We are sorry to hear of Steve's passing, such a great person he was , we appreciated him taking time to help out in our complex changing those light bulbs to save our complex money, we will miss seeing him walking Cooper around the neighborhood too. May he rest in peace

Stan and Colleen Kenton

September 27, 2019

Shelley and Family,
We have just read of Steve's passing and our hearts are absolutely broken. He was such a good friend; tennis partner, groomsman, real estate agent extraordinaire, emergency babysitter for our triplets, and lifelong friend. The treasured memories of his gentle, kind and loving ways will be forever in our hearts.

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George Zeller

September 27, 2019

Steve was a good friend in high school (Hall High, W. Hartford). Great tennis player. Sat behind me in homeroom class. Alphabetically we were the last: Zeller, Zwillinger. But not last in our hearts.

Elliott & Elissa Donn

September 27, 2019

Dear Shelley & Family,

Our deepest condolences and love to you all at this sad time. Just read about Steve's passing and want you all to know how shocked and saddened we are to learn about this.

Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

May his memory be for a blessing, and may he rest in peace.

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