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Toby Bannister Obituary
Toby E. (Garber) Bannister, 68, of West Hartford died peacefully on Monday, December 30, 2013. She was born on July 3, 1945 in Boston, MA to Morris and Ann (Torf) Garber and spent her life as a resident of West Hartford. Toby was a graduate of Hall High School, Hartford College for Woman and Boston University and until her retirement made a career as an underwriter in the insurance industry for over 30 years. She was a fan of Foxwood's slot machines, UConn Basketball, Yankees Baseball, and rock-n-roll oldies naming her beloved cats, all of whom have passed away, Santana, Pearl Jam, and Elvis. She is survived by her daughter Jamie Bannister of Chicago, her daughter-in-law Jamielyn Siergiej Bannister, her first and only grandchild Michael Jayce Bannister who will turn one year old in February, her sister, Lisa Garber of New York, her brother Peter Garber of Vero Beach, FL, his wife Debbie and their children Pamela, Emily, and Jeffrey, numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins from the greater Boston area, her former husband and friend, Brian Bannister of West Hartford, and her loyal friends Liz Mead and Elaine Stevens. She is predeceased by her son Michael Justin Bannister who died of cancer at 26 years of age, a tragic blow to all who knew and loved him. Her grandson is named Michael in his memory. Toby's ashes will scattered so she may once again be with her son. A luncheon in celebration of Toby's life will be conducted at a date to be determined. Donations may be made to the CT Humane Society as well as the American Cancer Society. To light a candle or send a condolence please visit www.FarrellFuneralHome.com.
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Carol Zacchio
January 7, 2014
Jaime, My condolences to you and your family. Toby and I became friends at CG/Cigna and we shared many stories. She loved being your and Michael's Mother. I am sure her grandson brought joy to her life. Sincerely,
Dorislee Carpenter
January 7, 2014
I knew Toby way back when. . .
You Walked So Tall,
You Were So Strong,
A real Mohamed Ali,
So Gifted, Gentle, Accepting
So Loving and Giving.
Thank You For Your Example.
Ellen Garber Stokoe
January 5, 2014
Dear Peter and Debbie and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your sister's passing. If you are in town or are coming to town, please get in touch.
Our hearts and love are with you and Toby's family at this very sad time.
Ellen Garber Stokoe and Andrew Stokoe
Margaret Taff
January 4, 2014
Jamie, my sincere condolences. I am very sorry to learn that Toby has passed. We worked together for a number of years and I have good memories of our conversations.
January 4, 2014
Dear Jamie, I am so sorry to learn of your mom's passing. Although we had not spoken in a while, she was thought of often. I mentioned to Bob the othe day that I needed to call her and set up another one of our trips to Foxwoods. She was a wonderful, dear friend who will be sorely missed. I have fond memories of her in Florida when she took such great care of my sister-in-law Doreen. A true friend.
Joan and Bob O'Rourke
Marty & Elaine Samuels
January 3, 2014
Dear Jamie,
We were sorry to learn of your Mom's passing. We remember all the good times with you and your family on Hartwell Road.
May her memory be a blessing.
Joe and Wendy Benanti
January 3, 2014
Jaime, our heart felt condolences for you and the whole family. Another light in the night sky now shines.
Betty Jean Ray
January 3, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing,Jamie. She and I worked together as underwriters for many years, and were good friends. I'm sure she is at peace with her beloved Michael now. Sincerely, Betty Jean Ray
Beth Haas Taylor
January 2, 2014
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Jamie. I will always remember your mom fondly.
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