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William Karl Wasch Sr.

1931 - 2021

William Karl Wasch Sr. obituary, 1931-2021, Middletown, CT

BORN

1931

DIED

2021

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William Wasch Obituary

William Karl Wasch Sr. died on August 28, 2021 at the age of 90. He was born in Mt. Vernon, NY on May 11, 1931, the son of German immigrants, and was a long-time resident of Middletown, CT. He graduated Phi Beta Kappa from Wesleyan University in 1952 and then was a Bronfman Scholar at Columbia University, where he earned his MBA in 1953. He joined the Navy as a Lieutenant, Junior Grade in 1953 and served in the Supply Corps until 1955. After the Navy, he joined Standard Oil as a financial analyst and marketing supervisor, before moving to the Sinclair Refining Company in 1961 as a marketing economist. In 1958, he married Susan Devereux Beck in Scarsdale, NY. In 1964, Bill returned to Wesleyan and began a long career with the university, initially running the annual fund and then becoming Director of Development and Alumni Relations in 1967. While at Wesleyan, he oversaw several large capital campaigns and successfully kept more traditional alumni connected to the university during the very difficult years of campus unrest in the late 60's and early 70's. He retired from Wesleyan in 1985 and began his third career as a consultant and advocate for healthy aging. In 1996, he published the book, Home Planning for Your Later Years, which provided practical advice on how to plan for aging in place. In 2004, he hosted a Connecticut Public Television original documentary series, Seniors: Living a Quality Life, and in 2005, he hosted another series, In our Prime. He was on the boards and ran several conferences for the National Council on Aging and the American Society of Aging. He was a lifelong member of Rotary International, the Middlesex Chamber of Commerce, and served on boards and commissions for the City of Middletown. He was treasurer of the Wesleyan Adelphic Literary Society and the Skull and Serpent Society. In his later years, he and his beloved wife Susan worked on developing and endowing a center for retired faculty at Wesleyan, the Susan B. and William K. Wasch Center for Retired Faculty. It opened in 2004 and has provided a place for retired faculty to share intellectual and social pursuits, while also offering lectures and classes for the community. In 2012 he was awarded the Baldwin Medal for extraordinary service to Wesleyan. Bill was optimistic, big-hearted, generous and always curious. He was devoted to his family, his faith and Wesleyan. He loved his wife and mourned her untimely death in 2016. He loved his children and grandchildren and took every opportunity to visit them, the more exotic the location the better. His Christian faith grounded him in the world and his community. He was a devoted member and supporter of The Church of the Holy Trinity, where he loved to sing in the choir with his booming tenor reverberating throughout the brownstone church. He felt blessed to be alive and wanted those around him to share his pleasure in the moment. While his parents taught him the importance of hard work, others recognized his intellectual and leadership potential, which led to many opportunities including full scholarships to Wesleyan and Columbia. His mind was sharp and expansive - no one appreciated the value of a liberal arts education more than he did. He valued the gifts he was given and the importance of mentorships. Throughout his adult life he actively sought out ways to support and mentor students, alumni, friends of his children and many others in his community. Together with Susie, they created an open and welcoming home. There was always an extra place at the dinner table and an extra bedroom for alumni, foreign students and anyone who needed a safe landing. Bill saw the best in people and actively maintained and encouraged relationships with family, friends and alumni all over the world. He loved Pepe's pizza, the Metropolitan Opera, chocolate Labs, vanilla ice cream, beer, getting dressed up and going to a party, meeting new people, playing squash, taking a nap, reading the New York Times, and singing at his children's weddings. He travelled widely and intrepidly, from the Siberian taiga, to the beaches of Kerala, to the wonders of the Silk Route and to many many places in between. He was also perfectly content taking the dogs for a walk through the woods and then sharing time and a glass of wine with Susie down at the pond. He is survived by his children, Christina E. Wasch of Middletown, CT, William K. Wasch Jr. (Natalia Vovk) of Munich, Heidi H. Wasch (Robert O. Leversee) of Seattle and Frederick C. Wasch (Elizabeth Wasch) of Pennington, NJ; and his grandchildren Sophia, Maya, Emily, Marc, Samuel and Eleanor; as well as many nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be held on Friday, September 3rd from 4pm to 7pm at the Wasch Center for Retired Faculty, 51 Lawn Ave, Middletown, CT 06457. Please only attend if you are fully vaccinated. Handicapped Only parking at the rear of the building entering from Home Avenue. There will be a private funeral service for the family and a larger memorial service next spring. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Memorial Fund of The Church of the Holy Trinity (381 Main Street, Middletown, CT 06457 https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/2040503) or the Wasch Center for Retired Faculty at Wesleyan University (c/o Jennifer Opalacz, Wesleyan University, Office of Advancement, 291 Main Street, Middletown, CT 06457 https://www.givecampus.com/campaigns/15700/donations/new?amt= designate Other and use Wasch Center in the memo section). To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 1, 2021.

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Jeff Chandler

September 10, 2021

There are so many memories I wouldn´t even know where to begin except to say every time I was in Bill´s company it was a blessing. He was one of the great ones! Rest In Peace

Merrell and Lynne Clark

September 5, 2021

Lynne and I loved Bill and Susie. We knew Susie from Scarsdale, and Bill and I worked together in the aging field for several years. Bill shared my zeal for finding opportunities for productive employment by old men and women. Bill modeled our hopes himself, living a life of service in many entities, in Middletown and beyond. Our condolences to his family and friends as we salute a man of unusual grace and caring.

Harold Sogard, Wes '74, P'17

September 3, 2021

Bill was the very definition of a Wesleyan person. Bright, inquisitive, selfless, kind, eternally cheerful, and always wonderfully open to new ideas and alternative thinking. Plus he was pretty handsome. His influence lives on across a broad spectrum of Wes alums and those in the many other communities he touched. Many thanks to his family for sharing him with us, and may he rest in eternal peace.

John and Melissa Schilke

September 3, 2021

We enjoyed his company only a couple of weeks ago at Forest City Brewery. It was a fun evening that we all enjoyed. We are grateful for his friendship with the whole Schilke family for decades. Peace, prayers and blessings to all who loved him.

Pete and Suzanne Jaworski

September 2, 2021

Our deepest condolences to Bill´s family. He was a real gentleman and had a wonderful smile and he enjoyed a good conversation. May he Rest In Peace. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Betty Horne

September 2, 2021

My sincere condolences. A loving, entertaining gentleman. Always reaching out to others and so welcoming to all. He lived life to the fullest and will be greatly missed

PETER F HUNTER

September 2, 2021

Sad to see this about Bill. I was a good professional colleague he at Wesleyan in Development and I was at University of Hartford Alumni and Development 1970s. What a great guy and a true professional. I was happy to call him friend. RIP you are well remembered Bill.

David Blauer

September 1, 2021

Dear Wasch family,
Please accept the Blauer family´s sincerest condolences. Bill Sr., was an extraordinary, generous, kind person and an important part of my life. We celebrate his wonderful life and family and wish his family the very best.

David Blauer

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