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Pam Ann Henry

1962 - 2025

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1962

DIED

2025

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McClendon-Winters Funeral Home - Okmulgee

303 E. 7th Street

Okmulgee, Oklahoma

Pam Henry Obituary

Pamela Ann (Mayhar) Henry was born June 29, 1962, in Odessa, Texas. She was the youngest of three born to Nathan Dale and Gloria Jean (Hurt) Mayhar. Pam and her siblings, Allen and Glynda grew up in Morris where Pam graduated from high school in 1980. Known to be a "tomboy," Pam loved the outdoors. She enjoyed fishing, camping and spending time at the lake. She also had a passion for riding motorcycles and was lucky to have toured 36 states on it.
Pam spent her career as a Respiratory Therapist serving at numerous hospitals throughout Oklahoma. She retired in 2007 from Norman Regional Hospital.
Pam passed away on April 19, 2025, in Okmulgee at the age of 62. She will be remembered for her loving and kind nature, always extending warmth to everyone she encountered. Pam cherished her family and friends and was always eager to help in any way she could. She also had a deep affection for her faithful companion, Finn.
She was preceded in death by her parents Nathan and Gloria Mayhar, her husband Rod Henry and brother Allen D. Mayhar.
Survivors include her children: Niki Harvey and husband Jeremy, Shane Arnold and wife Krymsen. Two grandchildren, Cayden Harvey and significant other Breanna Hughes-Parker, Lexi Harvey and boyfriend Troy Montez and her first great-grandchild, Ryker Dale. Other survivors include her sister Glynda Casselman and husband Ronnie, sister-in-law Frankie Mayhar, niece Krysten Mabrey and husband Mark, nephew Dayton Casselman, niece Tephanie Neill and husband Nathan, nephew Steven Carter, great niece Lakelyn Mabrey and great nephew Baker Mabrey, stepdaughter Melanie Schucker and husband Mark, step granddaughters Sydney Ricks and Emmy Schucker and step grandson Jack Schucker.
The family will receive friends on April 25, 2025, from 5-7 p.m.
A funeral service for Pam will be held Saturday, April 26, 2025, at 2 p.m. at McClendon-Winters Funeral Home Chapel, with Rev. Randy Mathews officiating. Interment will follow at Greenwood Cemetery in Eufaula. The casket bearers will be Shane Arnold, Cayden Harvey, Dayton Casselman, Jeremy Harvey, Mark Mabrey and Ronnie Casselman. Honorary casket bearers will be Russell Henry, Callahan Henry and Tony Mayhar.
Arrangements have been entrusted to McClendon-Winters Funeral Home of Okmulgee. Memories, condolences, photos and videos may be shared with the family on Pam's Tribute Page at www.mcclendon-winters.com.

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Published by Henryetta Free-Lance from May 30 to Jun. 7, 2025.

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