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Grace Shirley Obituary

DECATUR - Grace M. Shirley, 90, of Illiopolis, passed away Friday (December 3, 2004) in Manor Care Nursing Home. Funeral services will be 2 p.m. on Monday, December 6, 2004, in Graceland/Fairlawn Funeral Home with Minister Bill Shanle officiating. Visitation will be one hour prior to services at the funeral home. Interment will be in Graceland Cemetery. Memorials are suggested to St. Jude's Childrens Research Hospital of Memphis, TN. Condolences may also be sent to the family online at www.gracelandfairlawn.com. Grace was born on March 27, 1914, in Kentucky, the daughter of Roland and Lucille Pickett. She married John R. Shirley on July 4, 1934, in Kentucky. She worked as a home aide. She was a long time member of the Riverside Baptist Church and enjoyed bible study. Surviving are her son Donald R. Shirley and wife Lisa of Las Vegas, NV; daughter Nancy Shanle of Illiopolis; brother Cecil Stinson of Redding, CA; sister Opal Tate of Decatur; sister Syrada Hathaway of Decatur; several grandchildren and several great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents. The family would like to express a special thank you to Manor Care Nursing Home for their loving care and devotion. Obituary written by family members
Published by Decatur Herald & Review on Dec. 4, 2004.

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Don Shirley

December 6, 2004

I am so very sorry that I could not come back to Decatur for the service, but I have physical limitations that make that impossible. I loved my mother very much, and will miss her greatly as will all of my family. I want to thank my sister Nancy for being the shoulder that Mom could lean on for so many years, she is truly an inspiration of kindness and love.

Jo and Art Colver

December 4, 2004

Gracie was one of the sweetest people we have ever known. My mother, Irene Morris who passed away on June 23rd, shared a room at ManorCare with Gracie for 27 days. Gracie was a perfect roommate. She always looked beautiful. We were amazed at how well she could put on her makeup. She took great pride in her appearance. I used to write notes to her when I went to visit my mother. She seemed to appreciate being part of the "conversation" in this way because her hearing was so bad. She would read my notes over and over. We thought of her very often and always imagined how much fun it would be to be able to have a conversation with her. She was a true lady and she will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.



We send our condolences to her daughter, Nancy, and to the rest of her family.

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