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Barbara Miranda
March 20, 2024
My dear friend. Always in our hearts! My daughter has the prettiest and most unique name ever. Hope you and Ruben are both having a great time wherever you both maybe. 18 years have gone by way to fast.
Barbara Miranda
April 9, 2023
Today for some reason you are on my mind. Perhaps because I´m driving into Cape Coral where we spent many good times. If it is true that you meet again, hope you are with Ruben having a great time. He made sure that BILLIEANNA always new of you.
Lisa Vera
March 7, 2007
Billy,
Today is your birthday..Happy Birthday!!!
you would have been 40 today! I could just hear you now saying what an old fart you are! Where do the days go, the many times we've missed you, thought you'd call, swore we heard someone that sounded like you..It's almost 2 years that you're gone...& sometimes it fells just like yesterday it happened. We miss you so much, the void, the hole, the silly guy in our lives. We'll never be the same. Rest in peace...We love you always, Lisa, Alex, AJ, Olivia & Cristian XOXOXO
Belkis Young
June 27, 2006
Thank you Alex and Lisa for keeping Billy alive in all of us!
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Maritza Fernandez
March 22, 2006
Dear Bill,
I feels like just yesterday That phone call to Frankie. I still think is not true. But it's been a year without you and Frankie playing x-box. I know he hurts. I remember when I gave birth to Frankie-Lee you were the second person to rush in to meet him. It was like Frankie dad & you were the Mom. I admire the frendship you guys had. Ruben, Frankie & Fatboy (Bill) The 3 Musketers. If we can turn back time Frankie will be calling you to play & give the BEST NEWS,That his a dad again. So much you bother us to have a second baby. Well guess what , we do . His beatiful baby boy . He was born Feb 1,2006 he weigh 9.2oz & his name is Joshua Alexander Fernandez.But i know your watching over him, your his guardian angel.We miss you Bill Bernardez and love you . I know you be taking care of us from above. We have u & your parents, sister & Liz in are hearts and prayers. We will love them like you loved them and us .
Jackie Iglesias
March 22, 2006
Billy-
The last year has been so difficult for those that knew and loved you… There is not a day that goes by that you are not thought of and missed. You have been in my thought and in my prayers the last year every day. I pray for your parents, your wife and your sisters every day as well. They were left behind with so much pain in their hearts. Your untimely death changed all of our lives forever.
Happy First Anniversary in heaven Billy~ You will never be forgotten my friend.
masked man...
March 20, 2006
love & laugh hard....
March 20, 2006
liz & billy...NYC
March 20, 2006
mom & billy
March 20, 2006
billy & alex
March 20, 2006
Lisa Vera
March 20, 2006
I can't believe a year has passed since you were taken from us...our hearts will never be the same because there is such a big hole left.
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you & miss you. I wish we could turn back time, even if it's just for 1 day, to tell you how much I appreciated who you were & what a wonderful friend you always were to me & Alex. I thank you everyday for the gift of love you gave me in Alex. My 3 beautiful kids would not exist if you didn't play Cupid & know me better than I knew myself! A.J. picked up your picture the other day & told me he wanted you to come to his birthday party...he misses you too.
Words cannot express the sadness, the void, we feel in our lives. I feel you with me Billy, watching over us, & it brings me peace. Take care of Nic for me...I miss you both so much.
Love you always, forever in my heart!
Frankie lee Fernandez
March 20, 2006
we will always remember you in our hearts tommorow it will be a year without u bill u were alway a family to me well i miss u i have cried many nights for u you & charlie looked alike even charlie acts like you what makes me cry i see the loving memories we had playing xbox beating my dad all the time (no efence dad) and you weddding photos you & liz were the perfect couple i mis u & love you bill
Frankie lee Fernandez
March 20, 2006
we will always remember you in our hearts tommorow it will be a year without u bill u were alway a family to me well i miss u i have cried manynights for u
Omar (Ruben) & Barbara Miranda
March 20, 2006
Billy, my husband's forever bestfriend. Not a moment goes by that you are not in our thoughts.
Just this week we saw our wedding pic. for the first time, and there you were,the center of attraction! Your long speach and your blessing will always be in our hearts.
You & Liz were the first ones to find out that we were having a baby, we know that you were very happy for us. You kept on picking out names for girls and we did not even know what it was going to be. You were right, it was a girl and she was named after you. (Billieanna) Billieanna is beautiful, she was given to your sister Betty to take your place as her godfather. We see your sisters and we see you. It has brougt a bit of comfort to us to have establish a closer relationship with both Betty, and Belkis as well as with Mauricio and Carlos.
Ester, Roberto, Belkis & Betty, It took a year for us to write in this guest book. The pain will always be there but remember that Billy always found a way to put a smile in us.
Billy, we love you!!!!
Nancy Goodwin
March 15, 2006
Billy,
I can not believe it will be a year that you are gone. I have a picture of you with Joe on my desk and sometimes when things get tough or I have to make a decision I look at the picture and say what would Billy do in this situtation. I can hear you telling me ahh just do it! It has not been the same without you. This year at the banquet they metioned your name and how it had been a tough year, it didn't feel right without you there. I am sorry for your family and there loss and miss you very much.
Leyanys (Martinez) Mills
March 13, 2006
Dear Billy,
I'm sorry I'm a little late writing here, I just got this email today. I didn't read all of the things that everyone wrote. I DID read the ones that Belkys and Betty entered, (I hope they didn't mind!). I can tell you that this last year....your family's first year without you, has been very hard. You can see the pain and hurt in their eyes, at every turn, and at every celebration....however, it is quickly followed by "Billy would hate to see us sad"...YOU WOULD!!
My memories of you all of our childhood. I don't think I have a any single family event or memory that does NOT include you, Betty, Belkys and your mom and dad. Those times were truly GREAT!! Thanks for being a part of them! I'm proud of you, of who you became, and mostly about how much you LOVED....because, it is obvious that someone so loved...must have loved others an awful lot!
I try to call your mom and dad, suddenly and "out of the blue"...just to let them know I'm thinking about them. I try to do the same with your sisters, too!!
For your birthday I called your mom and Belkys. I know it was a tough day, week, year....but, I just wanted them to know that they/we needed to celebrate your life!! I also told them to remember how lucky they all were to have had you, for the time they did! You lived your life, and NOT too quietly....you know I'm a big fan of that!!! Rest peacefully, YOU are the lucky one, that are in a much better place...say hi to my dear grandad (Tata) for me, and Javy too...I know that NOT a single day goes by when I don't shed a tear for Tata...and I talk to Javy often....You are also loved that way...and I'll do my part to keep an eye on them for you!!!
Nadine Bagnarol
June 1, 2005
Billy,
I shall miss you so much, we sure had a lot of laughs together my family all loved you so. Billy thank you for bringing me and my daughter together again, I still laugh about how you wanted me to pick up one of your friends at the airport and Belkis was with me, and i'm cursing you as usual and of course you are late...........Upon arriving at the airport there is my beautiful daughter boy what a birthday present you gave me Billy and to tell me she was having my first grandchild, then we all went to Disneyland and had so much fun and you were always behind me in line bugging me to tears, I love you Billy and will miss you ever so much. sighning with so much love and respect Nadine Bagnarol
Tammy Arsenault
April 24, 2005
I will never forget the night I got the horrible phone call from Belkis. All I heard was Billy is dead. As she explained what happened all I could hear was Billy is dead! I just kept asking myself (WHY BILLY) he was definitely one of the funniest people I had ever met. Along with his great sense of humor was his big heart. Billy and Belkis where both there for some very important years of my life. Billy taught me how to drive. (OH BOY) He went above and beyond teaching me how to drive he took the extra time to teach me how to drive a clutch. What patience that took. How about the time you rescued my brothers missing python from the tree outside. Boy were you scared but you did not want us to know. That is just the kind of guy you were. I was so lucky to have seen him with Charlie when he was a baby. What a proud Uncle he was of his little Charlie. Up until he died he was so proud to be an uncle especially because Charlie looks so much like him and Charlie looked up to him. Billy wanted him to be just like him. Watch out Beliks!!! Billy Billy Billy I still can not believe you are gone. I use to clean your apartment when you and my uncle lived together boy were you a slob.HAHA I guess heaven needed some humor and boy they picked the right guy. I will tell you one thing you are missed down here by sooooooo many people who loved you.
I guess we never know when it is our time but the hard part is when someone who is loved so much is just taken and we are all left wondering why???? Your parents are so heartbroken my heart goes out to them being a mom of two I could not ever imagine losing one of my girls. Your sisters boy do they miss you. Your wife who I have never had the pleasure of meeting Liz I am so sorry for your loss. Charlie I am so sorry to you. I know how much you loved your uncle. Your two brother in laws I am sure they miss you teasing them as does anyone you ever teased. You and your Miami gear and boy did you have a lot of it. I will forever think about you especially when I hear about the Dolphins.I will never forget the 4th of July you were here in Boston for a few days we met up and you met my husband and my daughters. I am so glad we were able to see you then. That was my last memory of you. When my girls get older I will be able to show them a picture of you and tell them what good friend you were. You were a wonderul guy who was so loved by so many. Where ever you are it is one lucky place to have you such a great guy!!! Billy please watch over your family and help them deal with your sudden death. I miss you so very much and will never forget you. God bless your entire family. Love Always Tammy Arsenault
Carolina Bagnarol
April 22, 2005
Simply unbelieveable to me was the news when I was told that Billy was gone. We never think that these horrible and painful things happening to us or to those we know, but unfortunatly we have one plan and this crazy life has another.
We just moved into our new home a few weeks ago, and my children found a box of videos that had been in storage for five years - and didn't if just grab my heart and I held my breath when I heard that right there in the room with us was Billy. Big as life, in one of his wild and crazy colorful shirts. He was at one of Joseph's birthday party's in Manhattan Beach. Then, there he was again Christmas morning hair going in every direction, helping the kids rip the paper off the presents. Being his humorous self. I had not seen him in years, and of all times for him to pop up, be on screen in my new home only days after his passing...I found it so bizzare in a wonderful way that I started to laugh that he should all of a sudden show up at that time in space. When you least expect him - there he is!
My heart goes out to his parents. I simply cannot imagine what you are feeling. As a mother of three children
I simply cannot bring myself to imagine.
Belkis and Betty I am so sorry. I know how connected the three of you are. Again, as a sister to four others - I cannot bring myself to imagine how I would feel if something happened to one of my own. Carlos, Charlie and all other family members I know that these words mean nothing to help ease the pain, but I am truly sorry for the loss that you feel.
Elizabeth, I do not know you, but I can sense from reading these postings that there was a great love and bond between you. You were each blessed with having found each other to love so intensely. I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that you must be enduring. When one loves as deeply as you both did I do not know how long or when your heart stops to hurt -I pray that your grieving will one day soon come to a place that you will not feel as in pain as you are now. That the beautiful memories of your great love will help sustain you through this most difficult time.
May God help all of you through this.
Always with love, and with fond memories.
Belkis Young
April 17, 2005
Hey Bro,
The day you left us is unforgettable….. I sat there in my office and at around fourish, I got the biggest splitting migraine headache. Closed my laptop without even shutting down and walked out of the school. One of the parents asked me if I was OK and all I could respond was “I have to go.” I went home to find Carlos also not feeling well. He asked me to let him lay down and he would take Charlie to Karate around 6:45 pm. I let him rest for he rarely feels sick and by that time Charlie had to be in Karate. I was feeling less pain, so I decided to drive him to the Dojo. Then I figured I pick up some food and come home. Carlos called and screamed at me “come home now!” What was I to think….. mom, dad, etc…. Never YOU!
My poor little sister Liz dealt with the news on her own. Carlos waited for me in the driveway and I watched him prance as I drove up knowing something was terribly wrong. Betty confirmed it was not her, Mo, dad or mom. Liz sounded sad but was able to contain herself while speaking to me for a couple of seconds. I got out of the car and Carlos came and held me, so tight so hard, that I could not breath. Then he told me “your brother is dead and we have to go help Liz!” Next moments are lost in my mind, he says I kicked the car, punched the car and screamed. I’m sure that what I did at that time but I do remember punching the car all the way to their house. Before we arrived at their house which, had been the center of attention for the past year. I receive a call from “Tia Betty” she wanted to know what was going on. I couldn’t lie to her and I was way too distressed to lie. I told her “Tia, I think our brother is dead.” She replied “No, Belkis that is not true… Stop it…. That can’t be.”
The rest has been a nightmare that we all want to wake up from but don’t. I think about the last couple of months. They were joyous times with lot’s of family interaction. We went to see Phantom of the Opera, you joined us for the live auction, we celebrated your B-Day, you and Carlos hung out, Charlie played games with you, you emailed me the day of accreditation wishing me luck and recognizing how important it was to us. Charlie always talks about the times you and him would go to the movies, Dave and Busters, dinner, and most of all jet skiing. One of the best memories I have are of the night before your unfortunate accident, we ate dinner together with Betty, Mo, Carlos, Charlie, Liz, you and I. You teased Mauricio, fished with Charlie, you ate and enjoyed the food as you always did. I criticized you for wearing a T-Shirt with a hole… U of M no doubt. When you were leaving you hugged me and kissed me and said see you later sis. That was our last moment together and I will never forget it.
I’ve always shared a special connection and passion for life with you. Probably because we are so much alike in a lot of ways. I left to California and you ended up there too. I returned to Miami and so did you. I moved to Cape Coral and there you were again in my path. I think of you all the time and I miss you sooooooo much. It will be a month since you left us and I’m still not able to finish this and post it on your site. I dream of you and wish you were here.
Charlie and Carlos miss you so. They show it in different ways. Charlie is angry and sad. He sleeps a lot. Carlos is just plain angry and tries to be supportive to us all. I thought I was the strong one but Betty’s strength has surpassed mine in many ways this time. I want to help her, Elizabeth, Charlie, mom and dad but I don’t know how. I hope you can show me the way as you always have in the past when I have gone through tough times. Remember our last garage/driveway conversation that is what I will continue to think of in order to have strength to endure this hardship.
My son Charlie is a constant reminder of you and the legacy that you have left behind. Reading all of your friends and co-workers and how they looked up to you as their mentor, teacher, motivator makes me realize it was not only us as a family who admired your strengths, courage, enthusiasm as well as your craziness!! I hope and pray that Charlie will not only be as handsome as you will but will have all of those wonderful qualities you possessed (without the “getting in trouble” part of it!) He will not only have you to look down upon him, care for him, guide him but you can count on him having his uncles; Michael, Chris and Mauricio to help him get through the tough times. His “tia Betty” who will never let him down as well as aunt Connie who is always supportive and willing to listen.
I was so proud of him when he stood up and to give a eulogy for you at the funeral, the things he said about his uncle Billy… “I was not blessed with a brother or sister and my uncle Billy…… I know he deeply touched many people that night. He was not asked to speak, he did not plan it, he did it because it came from his heart.
Elizabeth I words cannot express the pain I know you are feeling. There is nothing more that I could say or do that will make the pain, hurt or loneliness any better. Just know that we are here for you, that Carlos, Charlie and I love you and will continue to take care of you just as Billy would have and would have wanted us too. You are our family and will always be. I know Billy rest in peace knowing that all of his family will support Liz in whatever she chooses to pursue in life.
“Bro̶
1;, “Gordo” I miss you with all my heart! I will love you forever, I will love you for always there will not be a day that goes by that you will not be a part of my thoughts, my dreams and my prayers. I look forward to the day when we can all be together as a family once again.
Billy, Dad, Charlie, Carlos and Maurice
April 12, 2005
live, love, laugh hard.....
April 12, 2005
Lisa Vera
April 12, 2005
My dear,dear friend Billy,
Words cannot describe the emptiness & the hole that is in our hearts. I still can't believe that you're gone; I keep expecting my cell phone to ring & hear your voice on the other end checking up on me, busting my chops, making me laugh & getting me annoyed at you all in the same breath!
You were so many things to me besides my 1st boss when I moved to Fla. 9 years ago; You were hard on me, but you saw in me things that only a true leader sees...I owe so much to you for believing in me & supporting me...I am successful from your guidance, your leadership, your professionalism & the heartfelt morals & values you embedded in me. You were my mentor, my confidante, my cheerleader, my buddy, my hardest critic, & my most loyal fan. You were the 1st person I called when I won the President's Club award because "I strived for excellence" & always wanted to make you proud!
You knew me better than I knew myself when you said "I have the perfect guy for you" & brought Alex along to Mexico to meet me. Almost 5 years later, 2 kids & lots of wonderful memories...I owe my "Life" to you. Thank you. That is the best gift you could have ever given me besides your friendship.
The kids miss Tio Billy...but I can't help but crack up when Olivia & A.J. sing "Lean Back" thanks to you.........it is just one of the many things you did to make us laugh, & I will cherish that forever.
I will carry on your legacy Billy, to enjoy life, to love to the fullest, to laugh often & to laugh hard. I will be there for Liz & I will remind her everyday how much you loved her...
We will miss you so much,my friend.
But I know you are watching over all of us & you are not alone.
We love you, Billy. You are forever in our hearts....
Lisa
Terri Collar
April 6, 2005
Betty and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betty, when I read what you wrote about Billy kicking you out of your mother's stomach, I couldn't hlep laughing. I remember hearing him say that back in St. Augustines. I also remember him making everyone laugh, especially my sister, Diana. I see from reading other people's entries, that he never changed. I hope you find peace knowing that he has a friend, my sister with him. I'm sure she is showing him around. He will always be your guardian angel. Somehow when things are tough you will always feel a hand on your shoulder.
All my love,
Terri (Jorge)Collar
Terri Collar
April 6, 2005
Betty and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betty, when I read what you wrote about Billy kicking you out of your mother's stomach, I couldn't hlep laughing. I remember hearing him say that back in St. Augustines. I also remember him making everyone laugh, especially my sister, Diana. I see from reading other people's entries, that he never changed. I hope you find peace knowing that he has a friend, my siter with him. I'm sure she is showing him around. He will always be your guardian angel. Somehow when things are tough you will always feel a hand on your shoulder.
All my love,
Terri (Jorge)Collar
Jackie Iglesias
April 6, 2005
My childhood friend Billy….
There are no words to express how your untimely passing has affected all of us who knew and loved you… I thought I knew what ‘hurting’ meant……. I thought I had seen someone overcome with grief, but in reality it wasn’t until I arrived in Miami for your wake that I really knew what those emotions were!! You left behind a legacy of memories for everyone you touched….. I looked around the night of your wake and I saw many people crying, some people just sat and stared, asking themselves "why? " but despite all the pain and sorrow there, I saw laughter….. Laughter was an emotion you brought to us…… I remember as a kid, you were always in trouble Bill... Always goofing around... That's the Billy I'll never forget......
I met your beautiful wife...... I only wish I could have met her under different circumstances... My heart hurts for her but I find comfort in knowing you left her with such a wonderful family... They'll take care of her for you until the day you and her can be together again. I know Liz is proud of the impact you had on so many.
Liz, if you read this, I hope I get the opportunity to spend more time with you someday...
Betty.... what can I say that I haven't all ready said to you? Our friendship has always been so pure and unconditional.. So few things in life are like that. I am blessed to have you.. If I knew I could take away even a little of your pain, I'd sign up for the task. I know how much Billy meant to you.. He'll never leave you completely.. Trust and believe in that..
Belkis.... Te quiero. You know that, stay strong Big Sister... Thank You for always making me feel a part of your amazing family... I know you and Betty will take care of Berto and Esther.... You are both exceptional daughters.......
To all of you, my sincere love and affection always.
Jackie
Kimberly Gallo
April 5, 2005
Dearest Billy,
My mentor, my motivator, my friend. I am truly grateful our paths in life have crossed. You are gone now but, certainly not forgotten.
Rest in peace, Kim Gallo
Sheri Younes
April 1, 2005
Over the years, Billy has been both an educator and motivator in my salon. He was bright, enthusiastic and funny. I can't imagine attending an Ace function and not seeing his face. He was an inspiration to all who knew him and he will always be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this devastating time.
Pat Wolfmeyer
March 30, 2005
My heart felt sympathy & prayers go out to Billy's family and many friends. Although I never had the opportunity to meet Billy I know through my daughter, Scottie, that he was a wonderful person and a great boss & mentor. He was someone who did not just "talk the talk" about putting his people first - he lived it. I experienced his kindness & humanity first hand when I had serious illness two years ago. It was a very stressfull time for me & it was very comforting to me that my daughter was able to be with me every step of the way. This would not have been possible had Billy not been the supportive leader he was. Obviously he touched the lives of many & will never be forgotten. I always hoped that I could someday thank him in person for making it possible for me and Scottie get through a very bad year. While he will be greatly missed he truly earned his wings here on earth & is a real Angel now.
Sandy Forte
March 29, 2005
Billy,Billy,Billy........Thank-You
for your fresh, young perspective on things. You always saw opportunities in everything no matter how difficult it was, which continually amazed me.
I will certainly miss those brainstorming conversations with you.
The South Florida team you have built is a reflection of the kind-hearted understanding person you showed to us. We will always remember you.
You will always be an inspiration and I will truly miss you.
Love Sandy Forte
darryl garcia
March 29, 2005
In the short four years That I knew Billy,he was always helping me,making sure that I did my work properlly and that I was taken care by the company and others.
He was more than a boss,he was a friend,mentor,and spiritual caretaker.
My family and I will pray for him every day and we will also pray for his family to recieve the pease and closure they diserve.
He will be in our hearts and thoughts even after years because he was the niciest person I have known,kind,always happy,with a smile,a joke and always a word of encouragement for everyone.
Isabelle Fulton
March 29, 2005
To the Bernardez family;
We did not personally know Billy, we new about him through our good friend Betty and her family. All though Billy's stay in this world was short, it is very obvious he impacted the lives of many in a very positive way. I am sure his memory will live on and continue to impact everyone's lives.
Betty, James and I are so sorry that we could not be there to help and support you during such a difficult time in your life. But please know that we have thought of you very often over the last week. We love you very much and hope that our thoughts and prayers are reaching you and your family!
Lisa Petty
March 29, 2005
Liz,
I can't even imagine how lonely you must feel now. I just want you to know that I am here for you. You can call or come over whenever you want. If you need anything, just ask, and I'll do what I can to get it for you. I know I can't make you feel better or bring Bill back; I just want you to know that you are not alone. I'm here for you.
Lisa
Carrie English
March 29, 2005
I did not know Bill very well, but the little I knew of him was that he was always laughing and making others laugh. My family's thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless.
ROMEO CAICEDO
March 28, 2005
Dearest Billy, I just want you to know, you'll always be in my heart, and I will always miss you. I will always remember our great times in far away places. I will miss them alot. You were a great friend, and I will miss you dearly. Love, your friend Romeo
Carolyn Kurpe
March 28, 2005
Rainbows and raindrops
Are as precious as gold
They tell of Billy's story
That is now to unfold
Of a place, he will be
When the time is right
To be kissed by the Angels
And hugged through the night
God in his glory
And all his splendor
Calls down from above
To let him know ...
It is time to surrender--
Yes, rainbows and raindrops
Are as precious as gold.
When Billy seen the light
He knew it was time to go--
Billy, you truly touched my soul
Carolyn Kurpe
Tracy Giorgio
March 28, 2005
Dear Friends & family,
I can not put in to words the scence of loss we all feel. I will never forget how much I have learned from Bill or his unique ability to make our job fun. He will be in my thoughts every day
Sandy Fanucci
March 28, 2005
Billy,
My mentor, my friend, my guidance. I will never forget all the fun times we had together. I made jokes about you and you loved to make jokes about me. You weren't my boss but my friend. You have left a void and I dont' know how to fill it. Everything I learned was from you. My motivation came from you. Ace Beauty is not what it was. I will go on and dedicate the rest of this year to you because you had so many plans for the sales force. I looked forward to go to the meetings only because I know you would be there and we would laugh at you and Joe (your partner in crime). Our little rival between FSU and UM was the best. I always lost and you had the last laugh. But with profeesional footbal( the dolphins) we saw eye to eye. I will pray for you and your family everyday and hope that we can all know that you are in a better place. I will miss you dearly and I will never forget you. Love always ,
Fanuch
Stephanie Silk
March 27, 2005
My deepest sympathy to Liz & Billy's family & dear friends. Billy was my mentor & one of the most passionate men in our Industry I've met throughout my 14 year career. I've only worked with Billy less then 2 years, but he made me feel as special as those who he knew a lifetime.
Leaving our sales meeting Monday...I rushed out the door & he stopped me to ask for his hug.
Thank you for that Billy...there's no doubt your in that place we call heaven watching over us. Your life of good intention will live through all the lives you've touched.
May God bless your soul for eternity.
Scottie Wolfmeyer
March 27, 2005
My toughts, prayers and deepest sympathies go out to the Bernardez family. Your son, your husband, your brother impacted the lives of so many people, he made you proud, he made you smile he was a gift to all of us....
Billy... Mr.Bernardez... a man who can make your blood boil and your heart smile all at the same time! I think most of the people who were priveledged to know you would agree! Mr Bernardez... tough, strong, courageous, stood up for what you believed in "TRUTH," reasonable, un reasonable, crazy, smart, out of the box thinker, goofy, clumsy, kind, loved living, lived your life to the fullest, caring, had a heart of gold and most of all you were a great friend... without question you touched so many people in so many ways... I just returned from your funeral (WOW! I never thought I would say that)and I have to say you would be proud... so many people love you, you made a difference in the lives of so many people including mine. You were my mentor, my strength, you gave me courage to follow my dreams,you challenged me to be my best, but most of all you were my friend! I will miss your laughter, your smile, your off the wall... but brilliant ideas and your friendship! Life is a journey thank you for helping me in mine!
Scotster
March 7, 2005 Our 38th Birthday
Betty Bernardez Ruiz
March 27, 2005
My Twin Brother Billy-I've repeated these four words so many times throughout our lifetime, always mentioning you as a part of me. And if before these words were one of the most important things I would tell people about myself, today and for the rest of my life these words will now carry a meaning for me that is INDESCRIBABLE. Just on that Monday morning I was talking to someone telling them I have a twin brother. You were in some way always a part of my daily life. Since we were little you ALWAYS looked out for me, ALWAYS stood up for me, and ALWAYS defended me and this I carry in my heart forever. Remember how you would bother Mom telling her you knew me better then she did and that you were closer to me then anyone else because you were with me before anyone else was for 9 months in her belly. And how you use to joke around saying I was born first because you kicked me out….and then I would say you didn’t kick me out I was running out of there!! I think back now at all the crazy funny stories we have, Belkis you and I and somehow I find myself with a smile on my face. We had such a great childhood and as adults the three of us always bothering each other this was how we showed our love for each other. The three of us were now all married, planning for the future, settling down. I have a million stories and memories of you, and all of them come back to one very important thing that I will cherish forever…you always knew how much we loved you and we always knew how much you loved us.
I won’t let you down Billy; I will always look out for Mom & Dad like you were always asking me to. You are and always will be in their hearts forever, sadly no matter what I or anyone else says or does the pain they feel will always be inside them. But I promise you Billy even though my heart is also crushed in little pieces…I promise you I’ll be strong and try my best everyday to make life a little bit easier for them. There are things I don’t need to write or say-you and I already know how it will be.
Although I could never take “your place” in Charlie’s life, I promise to always watch out for him the way we always talked about. He will miss our playful competition over him, but I will make sure to always speak to him about how much you absolutely adore him! You are his idol he always looked up to you and worshiped you. I gave him a picture of the two of you were your standing together and your talking to him with your hand over his shoulder and Charlie had a huge smile on his face. I told him to always keep this picture with him because you were always going to be by his side and there for him giving him advice the way you were in that picture. I will miss more then anything Charlie’s laughter as you made him call me “Betty” and not “Tia” and the both of you ganging up on me. All these moments we shared were always full of laughter & love.
Your brothers in law Mauricio & Carlos are being very strong, but you can clearly see the pain in there eyes. Our family gatherings will never be the same without the three of you goofing on each other. Sunday night, our last dinner together was like always full of jokes and laughter. Like it had been all my life you always had something to say about the guys I dated. I remember how important it was for me that you would like Mauricio when you first met him. Everyone had Mauricio going telling him horror stories of Betty’s big strong twin brother who had to give his blessings. No one has ever forgotten how beautifully you spoke at our wedding you brought everyone to tears. Mauricio & I have always felt you had given us your blessing.
Billy, Liz will be a part of our lives forever. We look at her and see you, and I know she looks at us and sees you. Together we will help her through her sadness, and remind her how much you loved her and always wanted her happiness. You & I had many conversations of marriage, of our spouses, of children, and of future plans. You were like a little kid telling me what you got Liz for Christmas or how you were surprising her with something romantic. We will be here for Liz forever, no matter what happens no matter how many years pass by, we will be here for Liz. We know how deeply you loved her, and how deeply she loves you. I was so happy for you & Liz, getting your home together, and all the hard work fixing up your house. I was so happy for both of you, what more can I ask for my baby brother was with the women he loves and the woman who adored him in return. Liz will continue to be a part of our lives forever…
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rom the bottom of our hearts we would like to thank all of our family and friends for helping us in every way possible. We would also like to thank all of Billy’s friends & colleagues for their support & prayers. During these unbearable moments we have found some comfort knowing how much everyone truly loved him.
Billy, on Sunday night when you kissed & hugged me goodbye for some reason that I did not understand at the time I told you “I miss you”. At that moment you looked back at me like what’s wrong with her and why is she getting all mushy like that. At that moment Billy I was as shocked as you to hear those words come out of my mouth. When I woke up Monday morning all I could think about was you. I was calling you first thing Monday morning and left you a voice mail. Remember how we use to play around about how I felt when something was wrong with you and you with me. Looking back at those last couple of days, I know that “twin connection” we always goofed about must have been real. I will miss you forever and have you in my heart & mind always.
I love you Gords,
Your Twin Sister,
Betty
Barbara Lonteen
March 26, 2005
Billy was taken from us too soon and at too-young an age. My heart-felt sympathies to his wife, my very good friend Belkis and her sister. But most especially to Billy's mother. Please know that his spirit will be with you always.
Barbara Lonteen
San Mateo, CA
Roy & Teresa Fagundes- Hyde
March 26, 2005
To Our Good Friends,
We are truly sorry for your pain and we are here if you need anything.God bless your family at this time and always. Our prayers are with you.
Karen Dutcher
March 26, 2005
To Elizabeth and Mr. & Mrs. Bernardez
I've known Billy since he stared working at Ace Beauty Company.He was so full of life and always made you laugh no matter what. It is a shame that he was taken so young. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
frankie lee fernandez
March 25, 2005
I will never forget Bill he was a great man and a good husband to Liz. He was funny to make me happy when I was sad and crying.I love him very much. And he is always be in my heart
Veronica Santos
March 25, 2005
Elizabeth,
I'm sincerely sorry for your loss.
You obviously love him very much.
He was lucky to have you.
Erni Mathis
March 24, 2005
To Billy's wife and family, Thank you for sharing Bill with us. He was always enthusiastic and energized.... ready for business. He was always there to lend a helping hand or give encouragement. I will always be grateful for his professional but exuberant way of helping his salons grow and prosper. God bless you and give you the "peace that passeth all understanding." Erni Mathis, salon owner of Curl Up N Dye, Miami
Mary Strunk
March 24, 2005
My deepest sympathies goes out to Billy's family and loved ones. I only knew Billy for a short time but from the time that I got to know him, he was a great guy. He always made sure he could get people to laugh. It is such a great loss to lose someone like him as a friend and co-worker, he will be missed very much and never forgotten.
Annette Mata-Torres
March 24, 2005
To Mrs. Bernardez and the rest of the Bernardez family,
Billy and I were friends in high school and through the years I have remembered him often. He was a great person, who always made us all laugh. Definitely gone too soon. I am very sorry for you and your family's loss. With time I hope that you find peace.
Lizzy and Bill
Roberto Santiago
March 24, 2005
My deepest and heart filled condolences to all who know and have known Lizzy and Bill. I pray that God gives us all strength to get through these tough days and the wisdom to understand His Plan.
Bill February 2005
Elizabeth Bernardez
March 24, 2005
To The Love of My Life,
I know you'll be watching over me and all the people you loved. I can't understand how or why we have lost each other. I'v missed you since that day you left for work and I know that won't go away. Billy, you are the only one who knows my heart and soul. I want you to know I will always be a part of your family. I won't abandon them because your body is no longer by my side. I love them so very deeply... as if they were my own flesh and blood. I know these are only words that will linger in cyber space for a short while, but I don't know how else to let it out. Your funeral is today, and all I can think about is our Sunday mornings... You asleep next to me, warm and breathing gently. I'll miss kissing your shoulders softly while running my hands down your back... just taking comfort in the warmth of you. I'll miss you slowly opening your eyes, turning towards me and kissing my cheek before I get out of bed... hugging me tight so I stay just a littel longer (and I do). When I get out of bed I go to the kitchen and in the time it takes me to make you a cup of your favorite coffee, you are asleep again... I lightly kiss your forehead, then your cheek. As you awaken for the second time you ask me to make some of that "yummy' coffee (not knowing it's already beside you on the night stand) you pull me back into bed with you and just hold me. I'm going to miss that... all of that.
My heart knew nothing but peace and joy in our time together. You are my soul mate and you know all the ways the universe kept us together. We always managed to gravitate towards each other. It has and always will be YOU and ME. We are still in this together. I won't let you go. I love you, Bill.
Barbara Verges
March 24, 2005
My sincere and deepest condolences to the Bernardez and extended families. May God above help heal the pain of losing him and forever keep his memory alive in all our hearts.
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