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David McWilliams Obituary

David Reid McWilliams, Sr
December 17, 2021
Miami, Florida -
David Reid McWilliams, Sr. passed away unexpectedly, yet peacefully, on December 17, 2021. He had recently celebrated his 65th birthday on November 10th with characteristic joie de vivre alongside his beloved wife Laurie.
David enjoyed a rewarding and successful 40 year career in the financial services industry beginning as a Financial Advisor with Merrill Lynch following his graduation from Rhodes College. He was quickly recognized for his natural leadership skills and inspirational mentoring abilities and moved into various management positions, including overseas postings in Australia and Japan. He retired from his corporate career at UBS as the aptly titled, Head of Wealth Management Transformation. There was simply no one more capable of completing such a challenging role than David. He had the most gracious gift of empowering people to embrace and adapt to life's changes in a way that contributed to the greater good of all involved. He was renowned and universally respected for his motivational leadership, professional accomplishments, and skills. He always replied with a cheerful "sure" when asked if he had a minute. That minute was never limited or rushed as he would listen carefully and then gently impart perspective and wisdom.
David also shared his energy and leadership with genuine pleasure in service to his community. He was a Founding Trustee of Camillus House, focused on humanitarian services for the poor and homeless; Trustee for over a decade at Rhodes College, his alma mater; Trustee at Ransom Everglades, his children's school; Board and Legacy Circle Member for Florida Foster Care Review and Co-Chair with wife, Laurie, of Vassar Parents' Council at Vassar College where his daughter, Ivy, attends.
His smile was quick and cheeky. His laugh was warm and infectious. His patience and generosity were legendary. He was both interested and interesting and never failed to remember and inquire about whatever you might have discussed most recently. He was the consummate host who always made you feel special and most welcome. To know him truly was to love him.
His love of wine, travel and being out on the golf course was surpassed only by his devotion to his most beloved family. He cherished Laurie, his adoring wife of 30 years, with a steadfast and loyal devotion. Theirs was a rare and wonderful love story, fully evident to anyone who knew them. He treasured his four amazing, bright, and loving children - Allison, Reid, Cole and Ivy. They brought him immeasurable pride and joy, each in their own unique way. Being a father was undoubtedly David's proudest accomplishment. He and Laurie were happiest when they were all together, whether at a simple family dinner or on an adventurous vacation. His family was his universe.
David was a giant among men, and not just because of his impressive stature. His sheer strength of character, razor sharp wit, intelligence and genuine kindness of heart set him apart. He only saw the very best in people and called everyone a friend. He leaves us all a bright, shining example of a life well lived - overflowing with authenticity, gratitude, joy and bountiful love.
The legacy of this remarkable and charismatic gentleman will be closely held in the hearts and minds of the many, many lives he touched but nowhere more lovingly sustained than by his family.
On February 24th at 3:00 pm, Father Roger Tobin will officiate a service followed by a joyful celebration of David's life at Biscayne Bay Yacht Club in Miami.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a scholarship being created in David's name at Rhodes College. Jenna Goodloe Wade( [email protected]) will assist in providing details regarding contributions or you may visit www.rhodes.edu to contribute online designating the gift in memory of David.

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Published by the Miami Herald on Jan. 16, 2022.

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olivier khalil

December 5, 2022

I am so sorry to find out almost a year after David passed.
I was fortunate to work with David in Australia over 20 years ago. He was an awesome man. David was kind, patient, intelligent, and one of the best listeners I have ever met.

I will miss David very much. May he rest in peace.

Olivier and Renae Khalil

Susannah and John Shubin

February 27, 2022

Laurie - We are heartbroken to hear of David' s passing. We cannot fathom such a loss. Sending hugs to you and your family. Please know we are thinking of you and our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you.

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David Hulett

February 12, 2022

I worked with David in the 80´s at Merrill Lynch in Lexington. It was a wonderful learning experience for me and I´ll always be thankful to him for that.

Mark Wilden

February 12, 2022

David inspired me to a 35 year career at Merrill as he did for so many in the Industry. God bless.

Mark

Win Smith

February 5, 2022

I am so saddened to hear of David´s passing. He was a great leader. I really enjoyed our times working together in Australia and Japan and seeing him at our ML reunions.

Vivien Tucker

January 22, 2022

Deeply saddened by the news of David´s death. He was a wonderful, kind, inspiring person of whom Nick and I have the fondest memories from our days in Sydney. He was truly one in a million. Memories of him will be cherished for ever by all who knew and loved him. Sending all our love and sympathy to Laurie and all David´s family and friends at this incredibly sad time. xxx

Linda Pittari

January 19, 2022

My sincerest sympathy to Laurie and family. I saw Dave at the ML reunion in Naples a few weeks before he passed and am so happy to have had a chance to spend time with him. Everyone who knew him loved him. What an extraordinary guy. He will be sorely missed.

Stacey Richardson

January 13, 2022

Our hearts are broken to hear of this. David was so influential in my husbands life and a friend that will never be replaced or forgotten. Deepest condolences to his beautiful wife, Laurie, and his family. There are no adequate words to express our sadness at this time.

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