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for John Cosgrove
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Jamie Smith
January 17, 2025
It´s been almost 20 years and not a day goes by where I don´t feel the loss of my brother. He was always there for our family and Friends. Miss you John
Tom Zaydon
January 6, 2025
It has been nearly two decades but I will never forget John wishing Merry Christmas to nearly every person who he passed .
Gary Opper
April 1, 2017
John continues to be my mentor. I continue to wear the Florida tie he gave me.
Carrying on your legacy
Gregory G. Glenn
October 3, 2014
"The Great Coz" A good friend and mentor.... Thanks for all the great memories and taking me into your law firm when I graduated from law school. You are missed..... We had some laughs and lots of fun too..... Politics to serve the people ...It was in your blood... Your legacy will not be forgotten.
marc rodriguez
September 5, 2014
RIP John, thank you for sponsoring my PKT Leadership academy 2002. Was nice meeting you there and sharing that experience. Often i think of you randomly, have a picture of us with brothers sharing a brew. Will continue to pray for you and family. -Sincerely Marc Rodriguez
Phi Kappa Tau SFSU 2002
Den Rester
March 9, 2010
Hero
Jamie Smith
May 4, 2007
Big Brother John,
It has been over a year now and I still miss you everyday. I hope that you knew how much you were loved. I have realized how large our family is by all of the gracious and wonderful things people are still doing in your honor. I thank God for all of them and that I had a big brother like you.
Love your little sister,
Les Royle
November 8, 2006
I have just found out about Johns death. He was a great guy, I had known him for some 20 years. Always had a smile on his face and always willing to help, no matter the situation. He was one of the good guys.
My sympathy goes to Bernie & the family.
Donna-Louise Brookes
June 9, 2006
I met John back in the late sixties and attended various Bachelor and Spinster Club functions and became a member of the Young Democrats because of him. We were all so young and idealistic, together with Larry Plummer (deceased), David Tharpe, Larry Kane, all the young movers and shakers in Miami at that time...why is it that the good ones die so young?! My deepest sympathy to his family, I know that he was loved and we'll all miss him forever!
Chuck & Illy Mercurio
June 7, 2006
Bernie & Family
We just learned of John's passing and cannot express how deeply we feel and share your loss. We have been traveling as well from mid- April till now. John has been a trusted and loyal friend of the Mercurio Family for over 3 decades. He will be sorely missed.
May GOD bless and keep you and yours well.
Steve Brown
May 30, 2006
You have my deepest sympathy for your loss. John was a great American,Floridian, and Phi Kappa Tau Leader. He inspired me with his service at UF and beyond. He,and Phi Tau,gave me the convidence to succeed and the spirit to help others. We will all miss him very much.
Elaine, Crystal & Natasha Simmons/Jones
May 25, 2006
Psalm 119:76
"May your unfailing love be my comfort, according to your promise to your servant"
Siegfried/Jan Herrmann
May 15, 2006
Dear Bernie and Family:
I worked with John when he served the House. The day after Christmas before y2k/you generously shared him with us as he legalized our daughters wedding. She was in medical school at the time. I just know that we ((now living in St. Augustine))...kept in touch , and working with him and knowing him has made me a better person! The experiences he allowed me to have as his special assistant, not to mention his faith and trust he had in us ...is something never to be forgotten. Never ever. He changed the course of our lives forever! It still is difficult to think that this world is now without this great man/oh the stories we could tell...but now he is gracing the heavens. Bernie/ we lived but a block from you then, and i would drop the materials off to you! Frank(Johns other assistant) and i were soulmates as we plodded along...life was so interesting then! Again, we kept in touch, and of course when he heard that i might be running for the school board here in St. Johns County, he was thrilled and wanted to help! I had learned from him... !!!! He was our inspiration.... our light... and just too good for this earth.
God Bless you Bernie and family... ! I do believe the last that i had seen of you was shopping in Publix in miami a while back.....and oh how i miss Miami! Please take care of yourself. God Bless you, and hold your loved ones close!!!
Drs Siegfried, Jan, Ingrid and Heidi Herrmann([email protected])
Carmine Ballisteri
May 15, 2006
John and I met at the convention for Kerry right before the election. He reminded me of a close relative. We eventually talked and enjoyed a few Miami Heat & Dolphin games. I have never met someone so caring and kind as John. His kindness was overwhelming, even doubtful. But he truly was a great man. His words have helped and meant more to me than my own fathers. He will be missed much. The tears just wont stop flowing off of my face. Now I really know how much you mean to me. Love you John. I still cant swallow the fact that we might never share another game and another beer together, or hear you talk for hours about your great family and children. The world needs you, Its people like you that give god hope for all man kind. I shall never forget you. Im so distrought. Im having trouble taking this in. Why, you were so young, and so full of energy. More than me and Im 23. From the looks of thing's, your impression will be left on me for the rest of my life as well as the rest of Florida. From now on, I will try my best to pass on the things that youve passed on me. Rest in peace my good man/friend/father. Love always,
Carmine
Carmine Ballister
May 15, 2006
Thank You for being the person that you were. I shall never forget you. We had great time's at Miami Heat and Dolphin games talking about life and family. You truly changed me. Im so sad.
Colin Quinn
May 12, 2006
Brother John was like no other. There are not enough words to describe what he meant to so many people. The greatest thing that this world has lost was his ability to make people smile. He had the gift to talk with anyone and make everyone laugh.
On a personal level, I ventured on so many new experiences because of John, being a brother of Phi Kappa Tau, which he had a passion for like no other, and he was always willing to assist and share his guidance. I was lucky to be in Miami during my undergrad experience and the have presence of a great fraternal man.
Thank you John for being a leader, for sharing your experience and guidance, and most importantly for being a brother. He is missed greatly. We'll be brothers again in heaven in the name of Phi Kappa Tau.
Fraternally,
Sharon Goldfarb
May 11, 2006
Dear Cosgrove Family,
I knew John well and thought him a great man. I have met all of you in a restaurant several times, although you probably do not remember me, I thought John had a wonderful family. My late husband's name was Bernie so I never forgot your name Bernie. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my husband 4 years ago also out of town. It is tough. I know firsthand.
Sincerely,
Sharon Goldfarb (former aide to Senator Ron Silver)
Marcia Healey Fulton
May 11, 2006
Eddie & I were so sorry to learn of John's death. For over 25 years John has been a friend and fellow Democrat..with a big "D". I met John when I served as a legislative aide in '80 and last saw him about five years ago when he appeared on a legal matter before the Miami Springs City Council where I was a councilwoman. When I ran for office, John sent me a note and contribution chastizing me for not "asking". That was John, always there even if you forgot to ask. Even though the years passed between time shared, John was a bright light and one you could count on to stand tall on issues important to working people. When my husband Eddie(Barwick) and I moved to Iowa to retire, we received the nicest note wishing us well on our new "venture". In reading the many varied notes before me, it just reinforced the depth of John's influence and how many lives he truly touched with love and respect. He certainly cast a huge shadow and Miami-Dade, his new city, and the entire state has lost a wonderful friend. To Bernie and the family, know that you will be in my prayers. Marcia
Doug Andrews
May 7, 2006
Dear Bernie,
My wife, Therese, and I were sadden to hear of John's death. We wish to send our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
I remember how kind John was to my wife when she interviewed him, for a class assigment, over the telephone shortly after Hurricane Andrew. John and I last spoke when he was at MDC several months ago; he was as usual very positive and warm.
Doug andrews & Therese O'Connell
Pat & Margaret Brickman
May 5, 2006
We will miss John not only his laughter but his vision, knowledge and his leadership.
Jamie and Jonathan Carcereny
May 4, 2006
Dear Cosgrove Family
My deepest sympathy goes to you all during this hard time. I went to school, church and girl scouts with the girls. I used to volenteer for Mr. Cosgrove campaigns in Cutler Bay. I am overseas with the military now and heard he became mayor and I was so happy. I couldnt think of anyone better or more deserving to run our crazy town. I was so shocked to hear he passed away. I am so sorry. He was an honorable man and always will be remembered by the people whose lives he touched. My husband and I send our condolences for Italy.
Isabel de Armas
May 4, 2006
My sincere condolences to his family and to his coworkers and friends. May his vision for the Town of Cutler Bay continue and his spirit be honored within our community.
Brad Love
May 2, 2006
The world has lost a true leader, a rare man guided by values and those he promised to serve. You are an example to so many. In my life, I hope that I can give back to my community even half of what you've managed to.
Thank you for everything you've done.
James C. Cunningham, Jr.
May 2, 2006
On the Death of a Friend
When I learned that he was dead, I cried
How?
Why?
I am not finished!
But then came the answer ...
He was.
For John, and a life well lived.
Fraternally,
Jamielee Green
May 1, 2006
Mrs. Cosgrove and family,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss in church last Sunday. John was a wonderful example and role model for our political system. I will always be indebted to him for the time he spent at Miami Southridge giving of himself so that students would know about our political system. He will be greatly missed by so many. My prayers are with you.
LAURIE GROSE
April 29, 2006
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Anonymous
April 29, 2006
John,
Thank you for being such a wonderful person and helping everyone all the time. You especially helped the Scouts out and we will be eternally grateful for that. We were at your funeral today and about 25 Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts were there to salute you.
God Bless - we know you're in a beautiful place now.
Suzette Rice
April 29, 2006
Dear Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen:
There are no words. I am so saddened for all of us.
Empowerment was a theme in John’s life.
He empowered us to do things that we thought to be beyond our reach. He empowered others in the legislature to be more thoughtful about their responsibilities to the people.
John empowered most of us to take the extra step, to go a bit further with right direction in our lives…
Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen: YOU were the energy that empowered him.
Without your love, support and inspiration to be better and do better… your husband, your dad, and our friend would have been just another man.
Over the years, I know it has been difficult to share him with the world, and yet you did. So many lives have been made better through your family sharing (giving-up, is more like it) your precious family time with us. Thank you for being so generous to the community.
John will never need to be remembered, because John will NEVER be forgotten.
Bernie: we haveeeeeee to walk.
Colleen and Tiffany: my son, Alex sends you a hug.
Douglas McCoy
April 29, 2006
Dear Bernie,
Our paths crossed from time to time during our high school and college years. Hard to believe it has been 40 years. I was saddened when I read of the loss of John. The world is less one one fine man, friend, citizen, father, husband, and leader. Our thoughts are with you and your family in this time. We humbly ask God to comfort all of you as only he can.
R. Terry Cuson
April 29, 2006
Good,KIND and always funny! While we discussed serious issues John always thought of the good and kindness in everything. If and when we shared a dais for some occasion he would would wisper in my ear some funny remark to crack me up. He made life a joy and I will celebrate his life with the joy that he is in heaven.(probably telling St. Peter some funny quip)
Andrew Bledsoe
April 28, 2006
Dear John,
Its hard to express in words the impact you have had in my life. We first met at my family dinner in your honor for the gracious mentoring you gave my brother, Chris, while he was a page on the House floor. Later we came to cultivate our friendship while cheering on our favorite teams at the Heat and Marlins games. Who knew that later down the road as I made the awkward transition from high school to college you would be a source of encouragement. John, it was you who inspired me to join the student Senate my freshman year of college. It was you who encouraged me to get involved with Greek life, even once discussing starting a chapter of Phi Kappa Tau; I knew how much they meant to you. Only you could have known how much those decisions would later impact my life. I was fortunate to know you in the fun times, but also fortunate to be your friend in the tough times. Our trip to New Hampshire after the elections was just what you needed to clear your head. Whether it was our ATV adventure or the nature hikes, you always were able to stop and smell the roses. I always admired your ability to keep moving forward and your desire to help others. You had a strong appreciation for philanthropy, and most importantly your love for your family was an example for all. As I sit here writing this I am overcome with gratitude for all that you have done. I take comfort in knowing that although I can no longer repay you for all that you have given, I can only hope to pay it forward just as you had done. I am sure you would have wanted it that way. You will truly be missed.
Your friend,
Andrew
Paul Czekanski
April 28, 2006
May God always be with you John. You were a great friend and a true vision for this community. You will surely be missed not only by your friends and fellow parishoners but also by this community. You will always have a special place in our hearts and we will always be there for Bernie, your children. And a big, big thank you for all that you have done...God bless you always, Paul, Estervina, Brenda, and Cynthia Czekanski
Barbara Acker
April 28, 2006
Dear Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen,
My family was saddened by the news of John. He made an impact on everyone he met. He sponsored my son and daughter as pages in the State Legislature back in the 80's, somethng they still talk about.
John and I grew up together on 31st Street from the age of three through high school.
Our community is a better place because of John. He will be greatly missed.
Tiffany, you're right, God did receive the greatest gift of all.
May knowing you're in the hearts, prayers and thoughts of others help you and your family through this time of sorrow.
With sympathy, Barbara (Drumm) Acker - [email protected]
Oliver Miguel
April 28, 2006
Beloved Cosgrove Family,
I had the honor and privilege to convene with John in his office and share many stories of his world wide expeditions and writings. John has touched many peoples life and I’m proud to articulate that I was one of the persons that was profoundly inspired by John. John was a distinguished politician, a valiant American and a true friend.
As shocking as the news of John’s passing was to this nation, with great conviction John Cosgrove’s legacy will live on forever.
“Thank you, for the opportunity to meet you John.”
Cynthia Ingersoll
April 28, 2006
Dearest Bernie & Family
As you read through the pages of this book you truly realize that everyone who ever knew John or just met him,felt the same way about him.John always remembered your name even if he had just met you.He truly cared about those he came in contact with.He was a true freind and we will always miss him.
James Mann
April 28, 2006
When I first became active in the legislative process I had the fortune of meeting Representative Cosgrove. I was struck by his courtesy and willingness to answer my questions, I was new at the process in Tallahassee.
Then I met him again at a political screening, and again I was impressed with him. Representative Cosgrove was always willing to share his experience and knowledge, and he did so as a gentleman. When we spoke at the second town council meeting he encouraged me to get involved in serving on committees helping the town.
The citizens of Cutler Bay, Miami-Dade County, and the State of Florida have lost a great public servant.
I would like to thank his family for allowing him to serve our community, and pray for them during this time.
DIANNA PHILIPP ( ChoiceOne)
April 28, 2006
I find myself very lucky to have known and worked with such a noble man like John. Every time he would walk into our office he would put a smile on my face with his energy and humor. My thoughts and prayers go out to The Cosgrove Family.
Renee Roberts
April 28, 2006
DEAR BERNIE, MICHAEL, TIFFANY AND COLLEEN: IT WAS SUCH A SHOCK TO HEAR OF JOHN'S PASSING. HE WAS A WONDERFUL MAN, AND WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AND MISSED. THE LOSS OF SOMEONE SO CLOSE IS DIFFICULT TO BEAR. WE SHARE YOUR GRIEF, OUR HEARTS ARE WITH YOU.
TOM, RENEE, ERIKA & SHAWN
Tammy Gonzalez
April 28, 2006
To the Cosgrove Family,
My deepest sympathy and condolences go to all of you. I was only able to work with John for a few years and feel that I was fortunate to have made a friend like him. Not only was he a man of many accomplishments, but a man who had a funny since of humor and a pleasure to be around. He will truly be missed.
Tracey Burger
April 28, 2006
Dear Tiffany and family:
I'm really sad for you. I had only met your father a couple of times, but he seemed to be a sincere man with a fervent mission to improve our community. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Best wishes from your senior English teacher
Joan Green
April 28, 2006
Dear Bernie, Micael, Tiffany and Colleen,
I wil never forget what a strong supporter John was for our efforts to rebuild Harvest House at Anderson's Corner after Hurricane Andrew. He was a truly giving person who worked tirelessly for the people and projects that he believe in. Because he affected so many peoples lives he will always live on in our memories. Please accept my heartfelt codolences.
Emmie Kelly
April 28, 2006
Dear Bernie and family,
I will never forget when i heard the new's of John's passing. We were on our way to our new home in Georgia. It was 5:00 am last Thursday. I was in such shock like everyone else. Bernie i wish i could be there for you. We will never forget John and what a wonderful fun loving person he was. He will as you already know be greatly missed. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayer's.
Emmie & Mike Kelly
Carol Gersten
April 27, 2006
Dear Cosgrove Family,
We just heard of John's untimely passing. John was a man of great heart and integrity. He worked tirelessly in the legislature for the rights of crime victims with my husband, Howard Greenstein. He was a friend and mentor during the years before I took the bench in Miami-Dade County and he was a zealous and professional litigator. Howard and I will never forget John. He was one of those special people who epitomize the kind of public servant we would all aspire to be. He was the kind of friend we would all like to have.
We will miss him. We are so sorry for your loss.
Judge Carol Gersten (retired)
Howard Greenstein
Lamar Sawyer
April 27, 2006
Dear Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen along with all from Alpha Eta of Phi Kappa Tau who grew up with John:
John was one of a kind. Although I have not had the benefit of being in contact with him much in the nearly forty years since we shared that house on 2nd Avenue in Gainesville, we have had a couple of chances to talk in the past few years. I will never forget John's enthusiasm and love of right causes, even when sometimes he charged only windmills. He won't be forgotten. ([email protected])
Sam Porco
April 27, 2006
The Cosgrove Family:
Although John is no longer with us physically, his spirit lives on eternally. A true friend & bigger than life in words & deeds. We love & miss you.
Sam & Pat Porco & Family
Maria Lang
April 27, 2006
I loved to hear you proclaim the
Word of God at Mass every time you read. Now that Word is more alive than ever before to you, you're in it's presence. Praise God!
We'll miss you.
Jesus never fails.
Bill and Barb Jessup
April 27, 2006
Dear Bernie:
John was the epitome of a Christian; congressman and gentleman whom many would do well to try to emulate. He delighted in telling the story of how when I returned home from major surgery he voluntered to "baby-sit" me so Barb could fulfill a singing engagement she had. We both feel privileged and blessed to hve known John and you, Bernie, and know his love and faith will keep you and your children in God's protective care.
Tom Halchak
April 27, 2006
I amsaddened to hear the news of John's passing. I first met John as a freshman pledge at Phi Kappa Tau at the University of Florida in the fall of 1972. Even though John had already graduated from UF, he was still very visable and really was a fixture at the fraternity house for as long as I have been involved with it. John had the uncanny ability to develop a friendship with everybody he met. He treated everybody - even the lowly pledge - as an equal and with respect. He was the one constant that was woven into the fabric of the Phi Kappa Tau fraternity experience. He had a positive inflence on the lives of many young and impressionable skulls full of mush. He will be missed by all. My most sincere condolences to all his family and loved ones.
Jim Cooney
April 27, 2006
I will miss you John.
Wendy Carr
April 27, 2006
John, your presence on this earth will always be marked by your good work. You were hard working, honest, and ethical. I thank God for the great honor of knowing you and being able to call you "friend".
Patty Cepero
April 27, 2006
To the Cosgrove Family, I may not have known John as well as some but I did know that he was a good leader and great friend. I pray for your loss and hope that God will guide each one of you in love.
Alan Greenfield
April 27, 2006
I remembered John as a child. His Dad, Frank was a fine lawyer. We lived close by and my children went to Coral Terrace. My daughters, Janice and Wendy were friendly with Jamie, Frank and Sandie. Janice lives in Atlanta) and Wendy in New Jersey. I saw John at the courthouse about a month ago (maybe a little longer). We chatted about the "old" days. He was happy, looked great ( a little too heavy)but was the old John. The entire community will miss him, especially we democrats. But, G-D in his infinite wisdom oftentimes does things which at first distress us, such as taking John but for every thing there is a reason. Good bye John and peace and health to his entire family.
Mariolga Locklin
April 27, 2006
As Colleen's English teacher her senior year at Palmetto Senior High, I learned to admire the parents of one of my favorite students. The concern you had for her future was apparent.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Desmond Falla
April 27, 2006
Dear Cosgrove Family:
My deepest condolences are extended to you. I became friends with the Cosgrove family years ago when I was a manager at OC's Raw Bar. My heart goes out to you at this time. John will be greatly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Sincerely,
Desmond Falla
Ron Book
April 27, 2006
Dear Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen:
I knew John for more years than either he or I would have cared to admit. I knew him long before he got elected and I knew him through the great campaigns that were successful, and the great campaigns that were not as successful. He was always one of the standup great Floridians and great Americans. He stood up for those things that he believed in and he stood by those that he believed so strongly in. When I went to battle on an issue in the Legislature, he was the first guy I wanted on my team and he was the first guy I wanted by my side. He was smart, he was crafty, he was creative, he thought more quickly on his feet than any member of the Legislature.
On the personal side, I know of no other individual that was more compassionate, caring, decent, honest, hardworking and just otherwise of great moral and personal character, than John. He loved all of you as only a husband and a father could do. I will miss him, as so many others will, but I know that no one will miss him as much as you guys. Please know that the wealth of friends are now your full-time extended family. Please let me know any time I can be of help, support or assistance.
Grisel Valdes
April 27, 2006
Dear Mrs. Cosgrove, Coleen and family,
Your family was a very important part of ours during our sons' high school years. Mr. Cosgrove's presence and generous contributions to their plays at Coral Reef High, the open invitations to your beautiful home, concerts, and football games exposed our family to a beautiful, caring and kind family. We were saddened by the news and want you to know that Mr. Cosgrove and family will always be in our memories and hearts. Our deepest condolences,
Alberto, Grisel, Andres and Diego Meza-Valdes.
Chernea Mack
April 27, 2006
Dear Bernie:
During my time employed with John, I learned a lot. The Mack Family sends its sympathy to you, Tiffany, Colleen, Jamie and Lawrence.
Susan Causey Auerbach
April 27, 2006
Bernie and family,
It has been a long time since we've seen each other, but I have kept track of all the things that John and yourself have been doing to make a better life for all. I talked to John on the phone a few years ago, and he was as full of life, as he was when we were in school at West Miami Jr. High and Coral Park Sr. High. John knew he was to become someone who would always be remember for helping others. I always knew he was special, and his choice to have you by his side on his wonderful journey through life made it perfect. He had enough love for everyone he met. I read every entry in the guest book, I everyone agrees "HE WAS THE BEST".
It's hard to go on, but remember he lives on in you and children. My prayers are with you.
susan guber
April 27, 2006
Dear Bernie;
I was so shocked to hear of John's untimely death. Celine Funk, your good friend and former neighbor told me about it. Celine now is my good friend and neighbor here in southern California.
John was a colleague of mine in the Florida House of Representatives and had a terrific sense of humor. He was both funny and smart.
My thoughts are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Susan Guber
Westlake Village, California
Don & Jeannett Slesnick
April 26, 2006
Dear Cosgrove family: We will work to keep John's vision for a better world alive and well - that is the best way to honor his memory. Our prayers will continue to ask that God provide you strength and peace.
Macdara McGrath
April 26, 2006
To Bernie and the Cosgrove Family: I was so sad to get my brother's e-mail today regarding John. I met John, through my brother, Patrick McGrath, years ago in Gainesville when I first attended UF, and was a Phi Tau Little Sister. He was such a wonderful man and recently helped me with a personal family matter with such wisdom. Please find comfort that he is with the Lord, and since the Lord is with us, he can not be far away. My Deepest Sympathy. Love, Macdara McGrath Hanney,
Herman Russomanno
April 26, 2006
Dear Bernie & Family:
Sally and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family.John was not only a loving husband,father, brother and friend to all, he was also a "Champion of Justice." Sally and I met John on August 24,1971 on the first day of law school. For over 33 years John was our dear friend as you are our dear friend. John practiced law with professionalsim. He always gave back to his profession and to his community. As a past President of The Florida Bar, I witnessed first hand in Tallahassee what an outstanding public servant John was during his many years in the Florida Legislature. John was a fantastic legislator. He was intelligent, fair and most importantly, he had an understanding heart. He deeply cared about all the people in this great state.
John touched so many people in so many postive ways. We were all blessed to have known him.
We send our love to you and your family. You are in our prayers. Herman & Sally
Bill, Rosemarie, Ralph and Carolyn Thiele
April 26, 2006
Although we often value a person's time with us by their possessions, it is the lives touched in the that time that make a difference to our maker. He is certainly proud of all those times John left his impression on others. John and his family are treasures to our community. He will be missed and a "hard act to follow". God Bless the Cosgrove Family.
Pete & Marti Apol
April 26, 2006
John, thanks for all your help over the years and the contributions made that benefited so many. As a Phi Tau it is always hard to say goodbye to a fellow brother particularly one that did so much for us.
Our deepest condolences to the family.
PKT 1973
Angelica (Lica) Baldwin
April 26, 2006
As I read through the pages of this book, my heart gets heavier and heavier, because we lost someone who obviously and deservingly was held very high in everyone's esteem. But, in our faith we know that he is with the Lord receiving rewards for his efforts on earth.
Bernie and family, I pray that time will heal the pain you are feeling, leaving you only with beautiful memories.
Louis Cuayo
April 26, 2006
In a brief meeting with John at a south Dade restaurant, I kidded John about being a Democrat. He took it in what I believe was his usual good natured way. We laughed and spoke briefly. I shook his hand and told him I respected his work and time for public service.
My deepest condolences to the Cosgrove family. He will be missed.
Barrett McGrath
April 26, 2006
Dear Bernie, Michael, Tiffany and Colleen,
Although we have not met, I am Pat's brother, and also a Brother of John's in Phi Kappa Tau. I was in Miami this week visiting Pat and his family when we learned the tragic news of John's passing. Although it has been many years since I last saw John, I have been able to follow his life vicariously through Pat, and through John's involvement with the National Fraternity. I have also just read through the many entries preceding mine in this guest book. What a wonderful tribute to John this represents. I can only add that, like so many others here, John positively impacted my life early on, in encouraging and supporting involvement at a leadership level at the Delta Kappa Chapter (Tennessee). John will be missed at every level and station. Our family's prayers are with your children and you at this difficult time.
Warm Regards,
Barrett and Barb McGrath, and family.
Michael & Melissa Drury
April 26, 2006
I meet him only a few times but what an inpression he made to me. Our prayers are with the fammily.
Mavis Fisher
April 26, 2006
I was shocked to see the obituary column in the Sun-Sentinel the other day, which I came upon by accident. I was John's first secretary when he graduated from law school back in the mid-70s. I have looked but cannot find a photo of him from those days. He was from the start always funny and entertaining, and even then very political, but practical. He dictated many fund-raising letters for his law school... From reading this guestbook, I see that he obviously left a great legacy through his family and work for the State of Florida, and had many, many devoted friends. He died too soon.
kathy nettleton and cecilia despaigne
April 26, 2006
To the Cosgrove Family: The staff at CPCS, Inc. a non-profit agency that serves the needs of the elderly wish to express our deepest sympathies to your family. Mr. Cosgrove was actively involved with the Guardianship Program of Dade County as an advocate for the needs of the indigent and incapacitated. He was tireless in his support for our agencies and his involvement was vital to our survival. The community and all who knew him will greatly miss his energy and commitment.
Jim, Dee, Kathryn, Victoria Magill
April 26, 2006
Dear Cosgrove Family,
We were so saddened to hear the news about John. The community of Cutler Bay has lost a great friend and leader. John helped so many people over the years. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carroll Cameron
April 26, 2006
To Bernie and the Family,
You must be overwhelmed with the outpouring of love from all the people John assisted during his life. I am one of those people. As the first woman to be elected President of the South Florida Emerald Society, I benefited from John's counsel and support all of last year. I was amazed that this man, who traveled the world on business and was in the process of creating a new municipality, could take the time to serve on Emerald Society Board of Directors. Yet, serve he did, graciously, competently, and joyfully. His legacy will live on long beyond the lives of those he left behind. His life will be remembered and celebrated as long as there is a Cutler Bay.
Barbara "Ms. Pen" Penrod
April 26, 2006
Very Sorry for your loss and our loss. Our heartfelt sympathy to the COSGROVE FAMILY. Miami-Dade Parks/"Ms. Pen", Cutler Ridge Park/Pool Staff
Vasanti NAIK
April 26, 2006
JOHN COSGROVE: Passed away in the beautiful city/country of Bulawayo, Zimbabwe on the 18th April 2006.
Though we never had the privaledge of meeting and knowing you we already realise what an exceptionally fine and honourable gentleman you were.
Our love and deepest sympathy go out to Bernie, Michael,Tiffany and Colleen at their great loss.
With fondest regards.
Vasanti,Rev Naik and Family Bulawayo Zimbabwe.
Betsy Ott
April 26, 2006
We in the Town of Cutler Bay have lost a wonderful leader and caring public servant. I extend my deepest sympathy to his family, and hope they can take comfort in their memories and his accomplishments.
Arlene "Nick" Nicholson
April 26, 2006
I would like to express my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with the COSGROVE FAMILY in your time of mourning.
Janet Carrasquillo
April 26, 2006
To the family of John Cosgrove; please accept my sympathy for your loss. The death of someone we love is never easy. You will be in my prayers.
Bob Flanders
April 26, 2006
We have lost a dedicated public servant who sincerely cared for his constituents and fellow citizens of Miami-Dade County. John’s concern for getting the right thing done was palpable when he presented Miami-Dade’s CITT transportation plan at the Urban Environment League Dinner Series two years ago. He was one of a rare breed who gave his all.
Joey Mettley, The Christmas Shoppe, Cauley Square
April 26, 2006
Words are always diffcult at times like these but I feel compeled to thank John Cosgrove and his wonderful family for all he did for South Dade. It was his tireless effort that helped small business people like myself come back after Hurricane Andrew. He was the definition of the Rotary motto "Service Above Self". The community is a better place because of him and I hope this makes the burden of grief easier to bear for all who loved him and called him family.
Monica McConaughy Stouffer, RN
April 25, 2006
Dear Mike and Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your dad was a great man and he touched many lives. I enjoyed the stories that you and kenny shared with me about him. Just know that he is watching over you and your family. Peace to all of you
Dolores (Dee) Pierre
April 25, 2006
To John's family: John was a wonderful man, a true friend. He had the keenest sense of humor of anyone I ever knew. He came to work in the law firm where I was a secretary immediately upon his graduation from law school and he remained a friend throughout his career. He was always there when called upon, willing and quick to respond. I was always so proud to have known him and called him "friend." When my husband died 15 years ago, John took time from his busy life to send me many words of comfort and I knew they were straight from his heart. He will be sorely missed.
Alfie Sergio
April 25, 2006
Bernie & Family,
John was a great man whose name and face will forever be in our hearts. I believe that he will always be looking out for his family -- he is now your Guardian Angel. It was an honor to have John Cosgrove as the first Mayor of Cutler Bay!
Tami and Ernie Reyes (Nanni)
April 25, 2006
Bernie and Family:
We are sorry to hear of this great tragedy! John's life touched so many people, we were all blessed to have known him. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Romayne and Ben Davis
April 25, 2006
Dear Bernie and family,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. We have heard so many wonderful things about John and are sorry we never got to meet him for more than a few minutes. He will really be missed by so many. He helped so many along the way and helped make this a better place. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, we are here for you. May God bless you all.
Love,
Linda & Dave Salisbury
April 25, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jerry Dove Family
April 25, 2006
To Bernie and Family,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of John! I met John while I was working for Jennings Construction building your home! I will never forget how friendly and considerate he was and he will be missed by all that knew him!
Thomas Donaldson
April 25, 2006
As a legislative assistant in the Florida senate for 6 years, I remember John Cosgrove always being funny, honest and fair. He was truly a good man and a devoted representative for his constituents. He selected staff members who reflected his principles and persona... they were good people as well. Mr. Cosgrove will be missed. His city and former legislative constituents have suffered a real loss.
Kristin Fullana
April 25, 2006
Bernie and family,
On the blessedly few occasions when I have had to write to convey my condolences, I am always at a loss for words.... John was a legacy, leader and a wonderful friend to many of us, of which he had to have been proud. Bernie your husband was a remarkable man and he made a difference in the lives of many people. My family and I were fortunate to have been able to work with John, just so sad it was for such a short time.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers,
Kristin & Marcos Fullana - MacDougall
Julio Robaina
April 25, 2006
Florida lost one of its most dedicated public servants that knew no party lines. John made the State of Florida a better place for everyone to live in. I was honored to work by his side and am grateful for his help throughout the years. Although these are times of pain and sorrow for his family and friends, we should all take time to rejoice for the moments we have all shared with John.
Randy Hugill
April 25, 2006
The news of John’s tragic passing caught this fraternity brother off guard, and since there have been many years since our paths crossed, I’m bewildered by its impact. Introspection has evoked memories that now play like a classic film, enjoying each as if experiencing them for the first time, chuckling with each incident involving this witty, loyal, driven, stubborn, lover of life. As I peruse the amazing eloquent reflections of those lives that John touched, the outpouring of admiration, respect, and love, I find that I too must affix my name to that growing list, echoing his accomplishments throughout his allotted years. If it had not been for John, on two separate occasions, the days at U of F for this out-of-state student would have abruptly ended. The thoughts of “giving up or in” or the word “no” were never part of his thinking, and if you were around him, they were forbidden for you as well. So when John asked if I would sing at his and Bernie’s wedding, I responded that I was complimented and honored, and his comment was something to the affect that I could characterize the invitation any way I pleased as long as my behind was there. To me, he was a friend, a brother, an advocate, a comedian, a humanitarian, a man’s man, and the embodiment of Phi Kappa Tau. I think it’s human instinct to want to leave one’s mark on the world. Whether he aspired to this or not, John is now part of that exclusive company. Taking the paths of least resistance does not make legacies. And because he chose to be brave and navigate paths not charted, John has left his indelible footprints for his family and friends as they continue their journey. May Bernie, Tiffany, Colleen, Michael, and other family members find comfort that their John did blaze those paths, passing the torch to those he loved, his family.
Thanks, John Cosgrove, for being a part of a classic film that will continue to play within my memories.
Carol Payne
April 25, 2006
Jamie,
We are both so sorry for the loss of your brother. I have read the Guest Book for John and he was truly loved by so many people and was a wonderful human being. We wish we could be there for you and your family but we will try our best to hold down the home fort here in Georgia. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
We love you,
Carol Payne and Angel Cordle
Marietta, Georgia
Mike & Linda Goostree
April 25, 2006
Cutler Bay has indeed lost a great leader. But the world has lost a truely wonderful human being. Anyone John came in contact with was his friend. We are happy to have known him, if only for a short while. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and all who loved him.
Beth Hartnett-Murphy
April 25, 2006
John is one man that I will never forget. Having known him since I was a child, he has always been considered a part of our family and will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. JOhn was a great stateman, but more than that he was a great man, no one will be able to fill his shoes
Mike Toth
April 25, 2006
Although I only met John once, I heard only great things about him from the Colagross family. He was a great assistance to Anthony Colagross and I'm sure he was that way with most peole he met in life.
Bethany Deines
April 25, 2006
Dear Mrs. Cosgrove and Family,
Like everyone else, I was so shocked to learn of John's passing. He had a huge heart. He loved is family, his country and his Fraternity. His commitment to each will be greatly missed. Phi Kappa Tau has lost one of its best champions for undergraduate leadership. However, his name will forever remain alive in Phi Tau. His memory will always live in our hearts.
Price Laird
April 25, 2006
Tiffany
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. Although I have only known you a short while, and never met your father, if your disposition is any indicator he must have been a fine human being indeed. You and your family will be in my thoughts during this time of sorrow.
Larry and Barbara Smith
April 24, 2006
Although we have only met John a few times, Larry and I felt that we have know him very well as our daughter-in-law, Jamie Smith, has shared with us her deep love and affection for her brother, John. We
send our deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Michael & Maria Kesti
April 24, 2006
We have fond memories of John. John was not just a politician, he was a fighter for his community and for the good of all! John made everybody he met feel very special and important!
In everything he did, John epitomized the Rotary International motto, "Service Above Self."
Thank you for being a freind to us! We will miss you!
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