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Michael Collender Obituary

COLLENDER, MICHAEL, 51, of Aventura passed away on November 29, due to complications of surgery. Nationally recognized cosmetologist and former owner of Xanadu Hair Design. Michael is survived by his son and daughter-in-law, Christopher and Jenny and his son Harrison: father Jeffrey: sisters, Debbie, Kathy and Lisa: grandchildren, Brianna and Sebastian. Preceded in death by mother, Sylvia and brother, Scott. A memorial service will be held Tues., 12/04 at 7:00 PM at the T.M. Ralph Funeral Home Sawgrass/ Weston, 371 NW 136 Avenue, Sunrise, FL 33325. To visit this Guest Book Online, go to www.MiamiHerald.com/obituaries.

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Published by the Miami Herald from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2007.

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Paula watters D'Ippolito

August 19, 2024

I was thinking about you the other day decided to look you up. I did not know you passed away. Rip. Michael. We had some times as neighbor kids. Your mom was kind to me when my Dad wasn't. Your house was my safe haven. We made wax candles and watched soap operas with your mom. Time keeps marching by. Wishing your family condolences. see you on the other side Michael.

Nick Rubino

December 5, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the family
I first met Michael about 30 years ago at Sir Rolands Hairstyling in Hollywood, FL. It was the begining of my hairstyling career. I am gratful for his friendship and his good nature of always trying to help others he helped me build confidence in myself and told me Don't sweat the small stuff. Many times Michael would say and do the right things and help make my day brighter. I will really miss Mondays on the FT.Laud Beach.You will always be in my heart.(I Will always love you) The Dolly's version.Peace be with you Love Nicky

KIMBERLY MARTINEZ-MALO

December 5, 2007

IN THE NAME OF THE MOST HIGH ALMIGHTY POWER OF CREATION, MICHAEL MAY ALL THE JOY AND LOVE OF BEING UNITED WITH THE SOURCE OF ALL EXISTANCE BE IN YOUR HEART. MAY YOUR JOURNEY HOME KEEP YOU IN PEACE EVERLASTING! WE ARE ALL ON THIS SAME JOURNEY.
YOU GAVE ME A SENSE OF CONFIDENCE WHEN I NEEDED IT MOST. YOU TAUGHT ME THE MEANING OF TAKING CARE OF MY LOOK. WHEN I WENT TO SEE YOU AT THE HOSPITAL YOU GAVE ME MY COLOR FORMULA. YOU MADE ME LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL. I CHERRISH THE GOOD FORTUNE OF HAVING BEEN ON THIS EARTH AT THE SAME TIME AS YOU. I PRAY YOUR FAMILY HAVE STRENGTH TO STAY TOGETHER IN LOVE AND UNITY. I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM.
PEACE BE WITH YOU ALWAYS MY DEAR BROTHER FRIEND. KIMBERLY

Jacquelyne Vining

December 4, 2007

In reading all the entries and gathering my thoughts, I realize there are no words to describe this wonderful man. I met Michael in the early '70s and he was MY hairdresser from then on. I had an automobile accident in 1986 and could not get out. When Michael found out, he came to the house and did my hair....I will never forget.
He was a special person always with a beautiful smile and hug for his friends.

Greg Korth

December 3, 2007

I knew and lived with Michael for 14 years. He was a very generous, sweet and funny man. He was loved by his friends and family and will be missed greatly by those who loved him the most.

Karen Klingbiel

December 3, 2007

Michael was one of the most amazing people I have met. He was the kind of guy who was there for you when the chips were down. He was the best colorist-hands down. He will be missed tremendously, but always in my thoughts...

Adele Kline

December 3, 2007

I've known Michael for several years; he did my hair and my Mom's. He was especially kind to my
mother during her illness, which I will never forget. He was a talented stylist, and a sweet, loving person. May he rest in peace and love. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Sincerely,

Kellie, Sean, Brian Gascoine

December 3, 2007

We wanted to send out our deepest sympathies to the entire family. My brothers and I spent our childhood together with Christopher. We were inseparable. I have many fond memories of Michael. He was a great man. I don’t know if anyone will read this but we would love to get into contact once again with Christopher. Please let him know that my family is very sorry for his loss. Take care of each other.

Jill Parnes

December 3, 2007

To Michael's family:
Michael did our hair for many years, and when I first started going to him, I found out that he did my mother's hair over 20 years ago... Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jill and Toby Parnes

Sherri Rodriguez

December 3, 2007

Michael had a wonderful laugh that filled a room and made everyone laugh with him. He was a good friend and could make hair do things that it never did outside the salon! He will be missed.

Sherri Rodriguez

December 2, 2007

Michael was the love of my life. I am shocked to find out that he is gone from this world but he will never be gone from my heart. Christopher and my children played together when they were young. My deepest sympathy to all of his family.

Lisa Hergert

December 2, 2007

You should be the model of how to live life. YOU DID IT BEST. You lived an amazing life. The world has lost a bit of its sparkle with you gone. You will be forever missed. I LOVE YOU !
P.S. Leave Scott alone and give mom a break :)

Lisa (the Baby)

Janice Charlassier

December 2, 2007

I was stunned to read about Michael's passing. He did my hair for many years before I relocated. He has/had a big heart and loving soul. My sympathies to his boys and grandchildren. Michael will certainly be missed!

Your sister, Debbie

December 1, 2007

Michael,
I don't even know where to start. Maybe I'll wake up and this will be a bad dream?
You will be greatly missed. Especially your great infectious smile. Your surperlative talent at doing hair. Lord knows how many hours I spent at the salon getting my hair done knowing it will never look the same once I left. I am going to miss too much to list, but I'm sure you are aware. I love you and I hope you, mom and Scott are having a great time.

Love,
Debbie

Durinda Whitehead

December 1, 2007

I have known Michael for many years through his association with the Cosmetology Association. My mother was Irene Dollins who was the Past State President and Affiliate #15 President and Michael and she were great friends. I am so sorry to hear of Michael's passing, my sympathy to his family. Mom & Michael are having a great time in Heaven!!

Michelle Sperling

December 1, 2007

Michael was a dear friend to me. He did my hair for 25 years and during that time was there for me during my own personal crisis. I loved him very much and will miss him. I now have an angel to talk to and to look after me. My deepest sympathy to his children and family.

Jodi Izadi

December 1, 2007

Michael was always a man with a smile upon his face in good times or bad.
He loved all of his family. And was always proud of each and every one of them.
He will be missed by many including my family and myself.

Sincerely,
Jodi Izadi and Thea Stevens

Mr & Mrs John Werkmeister

December 1, 2007

Michael,

I know that you are at peace now

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