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Donna Lynn McLavey

1950 - 2019

Donna Lynn McLavey obituary, 1950-2019, Everett, WA

BORN

1950

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Evergreen Funeral Home and Cemetery

4504 Broadway

Everett, Washington

Donna McLavey Obituary

Our kind and loving Donna, our Wife, Mother, Grand-mother and Friend, moved home to be with Jesus on January 25, 2019, at 68 years of age. Cancer began a fight with her four years prior, but she triumphed by ending the fight with grace, dignity, and courage. Even as we miss her, we celebrate with her as she goes on to a life so full of joy that there is no room for pain or tears. Donna is survived by her loving husband of 49 years, Mickey; her daughter, Tammy (married to Peter) Schneidler; her grand-children, Claire and Jonathan; her brother, Martin (married to Margie) Campbell; as well as many nieces and nephews, including Barbara (married to Garry) Wells, Don (married to Renee) Campbell, and John Campbell. She was preceded in death by her parents, Aletha and John Campbell; her brothers, Bob Campbell and George Campbell, and her sister, Katherine Barkdull. Born in Gooding, Idaho, Donna was the beloved last born child of her parents. Her dad doted on his sweet little girl until his passing in 1958; her mom loved her for the both of them after that. Donna then moved with her family to the Yakima Valley, where she attended school, graduating from Toppenish High School in 1968. It was in Toppenish that she met the love of her life, Mickey. The two were married on May 29, 1969, and after that, they shifted their lives to the west side of the mountains, where they cut hair, trained horses at Longacres, and raised their daughter. Donna's education, both in and out of the classroom, was full of variety. She traveled to join Mickey in Germany when he was posted there, and gave birth to Tammy in a German hospital. In 1976, shortly after coming home, she became a licensed barber with the State of Wash-ington. She cut hair at their Salon in Mount Vernon, and later on the backside of Longacres itself, where she also helped Mickey with the horses. In 1988, Donna went to work for Boeing, where she was employed for the next 27 years. During her time there, she earned a Bachelor of Science in Information Technology (2003) and an MBA in Tech-nology Management (2007). Donna loved creativity. She crafted, sewed, quilted, and even became an accom-plished oil painter (following in the footsteps of her mama) throughout her life; in later years, she talked of writing a book. Her grand-kids always found in her a kindred spirit when it came to creating and artistry. She also loved exploring and trying new things. Whether traveling with their trailer and pets to different sites around the Northwest (sometimes with their camping club), or through books and her book club, or in culinary adventures, Donna loved to try something new. In just the past few months, she and Mickey committed them-selves to becoming golfers, taking weekly lessons together. She delighted in her growth as a player, from initially hitting the ball 40 yards, to being able to send it 266 yards in her last lesson (but she was most proud of hitting the ball just as far as her husband!). Most of all, Donna loved people. Her life was filled with friends, and she treated those she knew like they were a little bit golden. People who knew her received her kindness and her genuine interest in them and their lives. Her smile would light up the room, but even more so it lit up the faces and hearts of those she loved: colleagues and friends from days past and present, her sisters in Beta Sigma Phi, her cancer center and hospice nurses or the clerk at the grocery store--whomever she encountered. Her friends, her family near and far, and her beloved husband, Mickey--we will all miss her dearly. And we are so grateful to have been loved by her. A celebration of Donna's life is planned for friends and family, to be held on Friday, February 8, 2019, at 2:00 p.m. at Evergreen Funeral Home in Everett, WA. If you would like to contribute memories or photos of Donna, the family would like to read them. Please sign THIS online Guest Book at: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/everett-wa/donna-mclavey-8141850

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Published by The Herald (Everett) on Feb. 6, 2019.

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Janet Church

February 10, 2019

Mickey and Tammy,
May you find comfort and strength in your many special memories of Donna. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Randy
Janet, Allan, and family
Tim and Catherine

David Carlson

February 8, 2019

Hi Mickey and family, I was sorry to have read about Donna's passing this week. We worked together for a bout a year at Boeing on a project. She was assigned to support this effort and what a joy she was to work with. Also, you might remember me as Donna invited me to your new house in south Everett after work one night for a tour, a glass of wine, and conversation. When I retired from Boeing shortly after this time, Donna gave me several Boeing going away present that I still have which shows her generosity to others. I will always remember Donna and hope you and your family all the best in these trying times - David

Carolyn Otterness

February 8, 2019

AH, DONNA, WE MISS YOU SO.

February 8, 2019

Dear Donna, You were such a bright and shinning light in my world and I will feel the loss of that light the rest of my life.May the Lord watch between thee and me while we are absent one from the other.

Joyce Thompson

February 6, 2019

My dear sweet Donna,
It has taken me many days to send this special message to you and your family. Finding the right words is difficult as I struggle to capture all that you meant to me. With such grace and dignity you accepted the fate that God had given you. Through all of the days when you faced the many challenges of cancer, your concern was always for others. Giving, loving, sharing, caring....there are so many words that I can use to describe you. I feel that God sent you to me as a special gift...to be a shining example of how to live with goodness and how to die with grace and dignity. I prayed so long and so hard for you that God would give you the strength to carry this burden I like to believe that those prayers must have helped. I will miss your smile, encouragement and always your kind words, but am happy in my heart that you are in such a better place with no pain or suffering. I have found myself during the last week wondering, "What is Donna doing today?" I imagine Jesus next to you with His arm wrapped around your shoulder and you smiling up at Him .I see it so clearly and know how happy you are. Thank you for all of the gifts of love you have given to me by just being YOU!!! until we meet again, my friend I leave with our closing ritual:
Eternal Father, Shepherd of the stars, guide us that we may follow only the good, only the true, only the beautiful. Hold aloft to us the guiding torch of wisdom and help us to push on, undaunted, toward its light. Illume our souls with Thy wisdom, that we in turn may light the way for those who follow us. If the road we take seems obscured in dust, give us skill and grace to pave it with stars, to transmute the dust into stardust. Grant us such clearness of vision, such sweetness of spirit, such earnestness of purpose that we may follow the torch to our goal.

"May the Lord watch between me and thee, while we are absent one from the other"

Becky Scheffer

January 29, 2019

I will always remember Donna for her kind words, her gentle spirit and her love for others. I pray God will fill your hearts and minds with memories of happier times when the days seem dark. Remember to keep laughing and loving each other. I love you all and send lots of hugs.

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