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2020

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Elizabeth Ruthford Obituary

Elizabeth Belle Ruthford April 26, 1923 - March 7, 2020 Elizabeth Belle Colton entered the world the first born child of Veda Mae and Herbert T. Colton on April 26, 1923 in Big Lake, Washington. Soon her two sisters, Lois and June were to follow. When she was 8 years old the Colton's moved to the family owned ranch in Dobbins, California with no electricity or running water made for a very Spartan lifestyle. Betty would walk the trail through the woods two miles to school and two miles home each day. Needless to say it made for a rugged life that tended to build great strength and character. When Betty was 16 her family moved back to Washington, known as the "new girl from California" she met Daniel Ruthford at Lake Stevens high school. They became high school sweethearts and graduated together in 1941 and upon Daniel's return from the Aleutians Islands in WWII, they were married on April 14, 1944. Dan found employment in Seattle in the commercial construction business. Initially they settled in the Shoreline area of North Seattle and eventually they purchased property and built a fine home in the Richmond Beach area where they lived for approximately 25 years before moving back to Everett in 1980. Betty and Dan had four children: Thomas Colton Ruthford (Margarett), Craig Steven Ruthford (Joan), Bradley Daniel Ruthford, and Diane Elizabeth Silbaugh (Dale). Betty loved and enjoyed her many grandchildren and multiple great grandchildren. That Betty was totally devoted and dedicated to being the best mother, wife and homemaker she could be, was clearly evident on a daily basis. As an example of their love and resiliency as a couple Betty and Dan endured a very tough stretch together in the mid to late 1950's. Due to a rather severe recession, the company in which Dan was a partner suffered a bankruptcy. Shortly after, Dan was diagnosed with cancer. After treatment, he was given a 50/50 chance to live, five years that if he could reach, he would then have a good chance to live a normal lifespan. At this time also Betty learned that her fourth child, Diane was on the way. Facing these trying times together Betty and Dan exhibited nothing but great strength, determination and courage. Betty highly valued her friendships throughout her life, and always displayed loyalty, generosity; and caring toward all her friends. Her interest's tended to lean toward communing with nature, she loved riding horses, which her family enjoyed doing many times at Hidden Valley Ranch in Cle Elum. She had great affection for her pets, the various dogs and cats her family had throughout the years. She loved working in the garden and had great appreciation for the beauty of the flowers and plants she tended. She also played the piano well and had affinity for music and other arts. Betty was quite an opinionated individual, but the vast majority of her opinions were very well founded and she lived in accordance with her beliefs. Betty will forever be missed and be remembered with great love and affection. A public Memorial Service for Betty will be held when state health officials give the all clear.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Mar. 18 to Mar. 22, 2020.

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Sue Pettersen

August 30, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She really was an extraordinary person. I had the privilege of knowing Betty when she first came to Fredrick & Nelson to get her hair done. She was a long time client of mine and we had many wonderful conversations while doing her hair. I lost contact with her after retiring from the business and often wondered about her. I know she is missed by many. My sincere condolences go out to all of her family and friends.

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