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Helene Marie Bayley

1950 - 2016

Helene Marie Bayley obituary, 1950-2016, Marysville, WA

BORN

1950

DIED

2016

Helene Bayley Obituary

"A Long Goodbye" Our beloved wife, mother, grandmother and friend Helene Marie Bayley passed away on Palm Sunday, March 20, 2016. Helene lived with Early Onset Alzheimer's for 13 years, the last five she had resided at Josephine Sunset Home in the Memory Loss Unit under the loving and dedicated care of her nurses. A special thank you to: John Smith, Krista Wildman, Maria Diaz, Shawn Kellogg, and the many other staff who cared for her unconditionally. Helene was born in Everett, Washington on July 22, 1950, the only child to Kenneth and Grace Neihaus. She graduated from Cascade High School in 1968. Helene met the love of her life and soul mate Michael Bayley in 1966. They were married in 1969 at the age of 18. The marriage was blessed with two daughters and lasted 47 years. Helene will be remembered for her beautiful smile, gentle personality and tender heart. She was a devoted wife, mother and nana. She had a special relationship with the elderly. Helene's greatest joy was being a nana. Helene was preceded in death by her parents; father-in-law, Thomas Bayley; Uncle Jim and Aunt Edith Muldowney. She leaves behind her husband, Michael Bayley and their two daughters, Michelle (Sam) King of Marysville, Wash., and Allison (Pat) Budke of Chugiak, Alaska, as well as four grandchildren: Cody, Bayley, Dylan and Dawson. She is also survived by her mother-in-law, Iris "Georgina" Bayley; many dear family members and friends. A Celebration of Helene's life will take place this summer. Donations to the Alzheimer's Association Washington State Chapter, 100 W Harrison St. #200, Seattle, WA 98119 or Josephine Sunset Home 9901 272nd PL NW, Stanwood, WA 98292 in Helene's memory. We've lost a beautiful and precious part of our family and she will be missed forever.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Apr. 2 to Apr. 3, 2016.

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Nancy Killian

March 27, 2019

Because of the great person she was she will always be part of our memories-

Linda Peri (Muldowney)

April 25, 2016

I just learned of Helene's death last evening. The news brought back many happy memories of family get-togethers when our children were little. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeni Ostrom

April 9, 2016

Mike, I am so sorry to hear of Helene's passing. Hold the good memories close to your heart. Take care.

Mark & Zeda Williams

April 8, 2016

Mike and family, we were so sorry to learn of Helene's passing. Mark and I think of you and Helene often and remember the nice evening we spent at your home BBQing and sitting by the river visiting. That's how we will always remember her.

April 6, 2016

My Life was BLESSED because you where in it You will live within my Heart with Gina,Pat,and Dad, untl we are together again...Never Forgotten,Forever Missed Love You Sis,Toni

Mary Merriam

April 6, 2016

I think of Helene so often. We had so much fun and lots of laughs!! Make sure to let me know about her memorial. Michelle you and all your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary Merriam

April 5, 2016

Mike, Chelle, Allison, & family, Our family loved Helene, we were blessed to have her in our lives. One of our most treasured memories is Christmas breakfast at the Bayley's, she opened her home and made us all feel so welcomed. Family was everything to her, she loved you all so much! Love you, Deb

April 3, 2016

You were the best Nana and always will be, I love you big as the world. -Bayley

April 3, 2016

Mike and family-My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May wonderful memories always keep Helene close to you Sincerely- Bev (Weaver) Kelly

April 3, 2016

Mike, Michelle, Allison and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Helene was a great friend to me for 63 years, a lifetime of memories that I will cherish always. My love to all of you, Ginger Desy

Sue Bunton (Freerks)

April 3, 2016

Mike & family. Helene was so young to have had to battle this horrific disease. She was such a sweetheart and loved you all to the moon & back. May she rest in Jesus arms.

Chelle

April 3, 2016

I Love You Big as the World!

Cheryl Cowan

April 3, 2016

Mike,Michelle and Allison,
I'm so sorry for your loss ! Helene was the sweetest person I've ever known. I have such great memories of the times we were able to spend together.
I know Wayne has welcomed her in heaven with a big hug !
Love and hugs - Cheryl

April 2, 2016

I Love You Big as the World

April 2, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember her smiling face and treasure her painted gift to us even more. She was a great coworker (Payless) for many years. Family came first.Take care. Anneliese and Patrick Howell , Stanwood

Richelle Nopson

April 2, 2016

So sorry Michelle. A beautifully written tribute to a lovely woman.
Richelle Nopson

April 2, 2016

Mike, Chelle and Allison,
The loss of Helene is great! However we have so many memories! Alzheimer's takes so much from everyone especially the family. We'll never forget her and will always value the great memories!
Love You!! Vicky

Nancy Killian

April 2, 2016

This fun loving, always in charge, caring person will be missed by all who knew her. I had the privilege of working with her for several years. Her absence when she had to leave left an emptiness felt by all. May you rest in piece my friend.

Bob and Barb Cowan

April 2, 2016

All our sympathy to Michael, Michelle, and Allison on Helene's passing. She will always be remembered as the sweet loving wife, mother and grandmother that she was.

Kristie (Dietlin's) Calkins

April 2, 2016

Michelle and Allison I know this has been hard on you and your dad but you stood faithfully and very lovingly next to your mom. She was so sweet and loved you and treasured you. May God give you peace and comfort and always remember to carry her memory in your heart.

Jerri Lyn Shumate

April 2, 2016

Helene was truly a great woman in so many lives. She had an infectious. Smile and a huge warm heart. Always a great friend to our family and especially to my beloved Mother. RIP dear lady I know you are in a better place. Give my Mom a hug. Thoughts and prayers to Mike and the girls and all other family members.

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