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Marcia Grigas Obituary
Marcia J. (Henderson Perry) Grigas
Marcia is survived by her husband, Frank; children, Annette (Tad) Taylor, Bob Perry, Diane (Fred) Gillings, and Jim (Kim) Perry; grandchildren, Greg, Eric, Douglas, Megan, Jenna, Sam, Adam, Ryan, Emily, Claire, Lief, Jimmy, Kendal, Stephanie, Zachary, Jonathan, and Paul Jr.; mother, Josephine Rhyan; brothers, Martin Henderson and Pat (Cookie) Gunther, and former husband, Richard Perry; as well as countless friends. She also leaves behind her faithful companion, Mocha.
She was preceded in death by her father, Sidney Henderson.
Marcia worked 20 years for Snohomish County, first in the Auditor's office and then in the Superior Court Clerk's office. She enjoyed gardening, traveling and cooking. Most of all she loved spending time with her grandchildren and children. In her retirement, she and Frank traveled to Europe several times, where her high points were visits to Italy and Russia. When her children were younger, she was involved in the PTA at Monroe Elementary in Everett and taught religious education at St. Mary Magdalene. She was very involved in Snohomish County Politics and the Snohomish County Democratic Party.
Marcia never had an unkind word to say about anyone. Her door was always open for her children and their friends. She was her family's shining light, providing unconditional love and support. She saw the good in everyone. Marcia never hesitated to help a stranger. She believed that everyone deserved a helping hand because you never knew when you might need a helping hand from a stranger.
A Memorial service honoring Marcia's life will be held at 11:00 a.m., June 19, 2009, at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church in Bothell, 2316 180th St. SE., with a reception to follow at her daughter Annette's home.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you send donations to Hospice of Snohomish County, the Arthritis Foundation, or simply pay a kindness to a stranger.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Marcia Grigas
Monica Larsen
July 7, 2009
I had the extreme pleasure of doing Marcia's hair for the last five years. She was a kind, wonderful woman that I feel so lucky to have gotten the chance to know. Last year I told her about a BBQ I was going to at a "chefs" house and was pondering what to bring. She knew just the thing. She went home and brought me the recipe the same day. It was a hit! (The host was very impressed.) I will always think of her when I make the 'Curried Rice Salad'.
My heart goes out to the entire family for your loss.
June 19, 2009
Dear Frank,Diane,Annette,Bob and Jim,
I am thinking of all of you today as you share memories of your wife and mother. Marcia was the "perfect package", as a neighbor for 30 years, as a friend and partner in many outings,events and meetings. I believe our last event was to attend Chad and Kathy's wedding reception. She was there to give me comfort and support as Rollie passed away from cancer 20 years ago. We enjoyed visiting each others gardens and sharing plants and recipes. She was a proud mom and laughed and had fun, even though I am sure she lived with lots of physical pain. I just adored her. May God bless all of you.
-Sharon Olson, Lake Stevens
June 18, 2009
To the family of Marcia J. Grigas. I was so sorry to hear of Marcia's passing. What a wonderful woman! I have known Marcia for many years due to us both working in the Criminal Justice System. She always had the right answers -- was always willing to help with a smile. We walked and campaigned in parade's during elections together -- we had lunch and shared our lives, our children, our grandchildren and our medical issues with each other. The world has lost a great womam. She will be missed!
You are all in my prayers,
Karen Phillips Wick
Terry Clark
June 18, 2009
Dear Diane,
I was so sorry to learn about your mom's death. I know she was so important to you and your whole family. I hope that your wonderful memories will comfort you in the days to come.
I am thinking of you and your family.
Terry
Bill Foster
June 16, 2009
To all of Marcia's Family:
I was so sad to hear of Marcia's passing. She was a valued friend for nearly 30 years ever since we met when she was in the Clerk's office.
I extend my sincere regrets, and wish all of the family the best in these difficult times.
Michelle DiCesare
June 14, 2009
Dear Dad,Annette,Diane,Bob and Jim,
I am so sorry for you losing Marcia and Mom. Thoughts and prayers are with you when words just aren't enough. Thank you for sharing her with Zach and me for the times we shared her lovely company,she was always so loving and genuine. I have photos of your mom and my dad at my wedding, that I'd like to share with you at some point soon. Love, Michelle and Zach DiCesare
Maureen Buennagel
June 11, 2009
Dear Diane, Annette, Bob and Jim,
I am very sorry for your loss. I have so many memories of your mom and all of you through the years. I will always remember her laugh and the way she would bow her head forward. She had such a friendly smile too. I remember the summer evenings barbecuing at our house with your family among us. Your mom was a great lady and every time I think about her I will smile.
Maureen (Harrigan) Buennagel
Charlene and Bob Williamson
June 10, 2009
To The Family Of Marcia,We were so sorry to hear of Marcias passing,We were neighbors with Marshia for many years,our children all grew up in same neighborhood,Marshia is thought of with the kindness thoughts,she was a kind and loving lady.
Virginia Canady
June 8, 2009
Dear Bob, Diane, Annette, Jim, Frank and all her loving Grandchildren,
I have only known Marcia since 2001, but I feel like I have known her much longer. She was a rock to all her children and a friend to me. I wish I could have had her in my life many more years; however, her pain is over now and she is with her God. I am keeping all of you in my prayers and if there is anything i can do to help any of you please let me know.
In loving memory of Marcia,
Virginia
Cindy McCall
June 8, 2009
Dear Frank, Annette, Diane, Bob, Jim and all the grandchildren,
I was very sorry to hear of Marcia's passing. She was always so kind to me and Lief loved her. He will miss her very much. Please give Mocha a big hug for Lief.
You are all in our prayers.
Cindy & Lief
Lyn Wessman
June 8, 2009
Diane, Fred, and family,
It was with a heavy heart that I heard of your dear Mother's passing. I had the pleasure of working with her in Superior Court, Clerk's office, and little did I know that years later I would meet her daughter, Diane - you worked at Compass at the time. Please accept my deepest sympathy, and know that many of us are thinking bout you and your family at this most difficult time.
Lyn Wessman
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Mark Horner
June 7, 2009
Dear Bob, Jim, Diane & Annette,
Your Mom was one of the kindest...no, let me say "coolest", people I have ever known. Although, I hadn't seen her for years, several memories remain fresh in my mind (including the time she paid Bob & I to "dance" at Jimmy's birthday party).
My parents recently shared warm memories of your mother during the ol' soccer days: Always quick with a smile and easy to fall into a pleasant conversation with along the sidelines.
I can't even imagine how many lives your mother touched in a kind, positive way.
I do know mine was deeply enriched by the many times she engaged in conversation with me and shared her smile, laughter and interest in my life.
You have my sympathy.
Kathleen Harrigan Lefcourt
June 7, 2009
Dear Diane, Annette, Bob and Jim,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your families for the loss of your mom. Marcia was a special lady and we have many happy memories of growing up together with all of you. We are sad for you, but happy that now our mom has a friend in heaven to reminisce with.
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