James "Buddy" E. Small, Jr., 82, of Stevensville, Mich., passed away on Oct. 15, 2025.
Jim was born on May 29, 1943, to James E. and Frances (Scott) Small in Benton Harbor, Mich. He proudly served his country in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War, stationed in the Philippines.
A lifelong craftsman, Jim spent his years working with his hands from fabrication and metal art to running a Christmas tree farm at his home in Baroda. He was the owner of The Outdoor Kitchen, serving the community for over 50 years, and feeding thousands at Whirlpool picnics, the Apple Cider Century bike race in Three Oaks, as well as numerous family reunions, graduations, weddings and local gatherings. He was also a familiar face at area wineries, known for his burgers, brats and stir-fry.
Deeply committed to his community, Jim served on the board of directors for the Berrien Artists Guild, helping to oversee the Box Factory for the Arts. His metalwork installations can be found across the country. He was also a founding member of the Baroda Business Association. For all that he accomplished, when asked to describe himself, Jim simply said he was "a caterer," although everyone who knew him understood that meant so much more than serving food. It meant serving people and serving with heart.
Jim is survived by his wife, Carolyn Drier, and her children, as well as grandchildren Tyler, Lindsey, Andrew and Leah, with whom he shared a special bond. He is also survived by his daughter Keely (Mary) Small-Bradly, grandchildren Ashley (Steven) Aumack and Cortney (Shawnee) Williams, and great-grandchildren; his brother Earl (Lori) Small, nephew Earl David (Kasi) Small II, niece Emily Small; and his sister Deborah (Clark) Small Ballard; and his "adopted" family, Michelle and Stephen Ashley, and their sons Brandon, Ryan and Bryan.
Jim was preceded in death by his daughter Jennifer Small-Walker, his brother Frank Small, and his parents James Edward and Frances (Scott) Small.
Jim's legacy of creativity, generosity and community spirit will live on in the countless lives he touched, the many shared meals, and the memories he leaves behind.
A celebration of life will be held from 3-6 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 7, 2025 at the American Legion Hall in Baroda.

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Lonnie and Chris Zebell
November 13, 2025
To the whole family. We are so sorry for your loss. Your all are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. Thinking of Jim, I will always see his wonderful smile, may he rest in peace...God Bless!
Cathy Curtis Gregory
November 12, 2025
I´m am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies and prayers for the Small family.
Stan and Sally Bennett, Lake Placid,Fl.
November 11, 2025
Gosh, I sure am saddened by Jims passing. A great 1961 classmate at Lakeshore High, he never ceased to dazzle you with his subtle humor and jabs. A great craftsman, wonderful "caterer", Jim could do it all in top notch fashion. Our sincerest sympathy to the family. Rest in peace old friend.
Barbara McKie
November 11, 2025
Thank you for your service
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