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Richard Fatter Obituary
Richard "Rich" Allen Fatter, 77, of Three Oaks died peacefully, Thursday, Nov. 6, 2025, in the comfort of his family's presence.
His life began July 3, 1948, in Niles, Mich., the middle of three children born to William and Dixie Fatter. He married Rebecca Carver on May 16, 1970 in Three Oaks, Mich. After 52 years, she preceded him in death.
Rich lived a life defined by hard work, friendship and love for family. He worked proudly for the Berrien County Road Commission, where he served his community. Rich found deep meaning in serving his country for the United States Army and then becoming a member of the American Legion. He had a gift for connecting with people; mentoring kids while coaching Little League, sharing stories and laughs with friends, or spending time with his grandchildren, teasing and cracking jokes at family gatherings.
He poured his heart into every relationship. His love for human connection and his generosity of spirit left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him. Rich knew how to make people laugh. His quick wit, clever sense of humor, and ability to find joy in every moment drew people to him. Rich had a special gift for interacting with others through laughter. His humor was his way of showing love and it made every room brighter. Rich will be remembered for his warmth, kindness and unwavering devotion to his family and friends. His presence will be deeply missed, but forever cherished by all whose lives he touched.
Rich will be greatly missed by family and friends; one daughter, Stephanie (Eric) Spriggs of New Buffalo; one son, Darrin Fatter of Dewitt; one bonus son, James (Alison) Grosse of Zeeland; seven grandchildren: Spencer, Evan, Mila, Maddon, Ava, Kellen, Ella; one sister, Diane Yettaw of Michigan City, Ind.; one brother, William (Robin) Fatter of LaPorte, Ind.; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his parents and beloved wife.
Family and friends will gather for a graveside service at 11 a.m. Friday, Nov. 14, 2025 in Forest Lawn Cemetery, Three Oaks.
A celebration of Rich's life will be held at 4 p.m. Friday, Nov. 14, 2025 at the Three Oaks American Legion Randall Couchman Post 204, 204 West Linden St., Three Oaks.
The family prefers contributions in memory of Rich be made to Three Oaks American Legion Randall Couchman Post 204 at 204 West Linden St., Three Oaks, MI 49128.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Wagner Family Funerals Pobocik Chapel, Three Oaks. Please share a memory or a message online at wagnercares.com.
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Cindy Graziano
November 13, 2025
We were fortunate to know one another for many years, sharing experiences and memories. As we celebrate the life, we also join your family in mourning. Rich and Becky, my dear friend are united back together. May you find comfort in the love and support of those who care deeply for you. Wishing you peace, strength, and gentle moments of healing during this difficult time. May God continue to bless you and lay his healing hands upon your family, bringing continued comfort and hope in the days ahead.
Suzanne Levy
November 13, 2025
Rich was a great friend to my brother, Steve Sheldon. He was there for my mom, Steve, And Rhonda after Steve´s accident. And he was there for Steve´s son, Chad, after Steve died, giving him advice and guidance. Rest in peace, Rich.
karen crowel
November 12, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray your memories will comfort you. I have many fond memories of Rich, although I knew him as Dickie. His cousins were my neighbors in Galien when I was very young and we all played together when they would visit and then I moved away but later came to live in Three Oaks where I was reacquainted with the Fatter family. I loved Bill and Dixie. I was welcome in their home. My heart is with ya'll.
Barbara McKie
November 11, 2025
Thank you for your service
Steve Myers
November 10, 2025
I met Rich in 1984 when we worked together hauling automobiles for Janesville Auto Transport . I remember him for his hard work , teaching me the ropes in the skill of transporting new automobiles , his enjoyable clever humor along with his generosity too . May prayers go out to his family . Rich God Bless you and Peace be with you my friend .
Brian Habel
November 8, 2025
A lifelong friend who will be missed! He's back with Becky now, and that warms my heart I have many wonderful memories! Rest in peace, my friend!
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