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William Charles "Charlie" Witzleben

1948 - 2022

William Charles "Charlie" Witzleben obituary, 1948-2022, Durham, NC

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William Witzleben Obituary

W. Charles Witzleben
May 22, 1948 - March 4, 2022
Durham, North Carolina - Heaven gained the life of the party on March 4th, 2022!
Charlie was a favorite friend to many. He made friends everywhere he went and never met a stranger. His zest for life and smile were infectious. His sense of humor was well known; his wit incomparable; story and joke teller extraordinaire! And he was a gentle, loving and fun-loving father and grandfather. Generous beyond words.
Charlie's life took him from Coral Gables, FL, (birth through 12th grade), to Mercer University in Macon, GA, graduating in 1970. Then he moved on to Evanston, IL, to work as a chapter consultant then Consultant Director for Sigma Alpha Epsilon national fraternity. One of the SAE chapters on his itinerary was Simpson College in Iowa. It was at Simpson where he and Karen Hughes had a blind date in the fall of 1970. That blind date would lead to Charlie and Karen's 31-year marriage. After time spent in Macon, GA, then a year or so with Mercer's Atlanta office, Charlie was chosen to join the development team at Emory University. Daughter Hilary Jean was born in 1978, and Charlie was 'over-the-moon' in love with being a dad! The family then took a giant step in 1986 and moved to Durham, NC, to join the fundraising consulting firm of Ross, Johnston, and Kersting. He and Karen welcomed son Clark Hughes in 1989, and again Charlie was ecstatic in fatherhood.
In 1992, Charlie formed his own fundraising and public relations firm, Witzleben & Associates. His friendly and tireless leadership style, creative and individualized thinking, and writing prowess helped scores of colleges, universities, independent schools, healthcare organizations, and other charities raise billions of dollars over the life of the firm. His hard work and devotion to detail was greatly appreciated, highly regarded, and widely recommended. He retired in December 2019 after a remarkable career.
Charlie happily led and/or served on many non-profit committees and boards, especially in Durham -- Durham Academy, The Hill Center, Duke Gardens, and Durham Central Park to name a few.
For all of Charlie's career success, he was an even more successful father, family man and friend. Charlie's favorite times were spent traveling with his kids and (later) grandkids, and he did his best to show his family every corner of the world. He relished his treks to exotic places – Africa, India, Southeast Asia, and Central and South America were just a few of the many places he explored. He was even scheduled to visit Antarctica in January, 2023 with friends! One thing was always guaranteed when Charlie returned from his adventures – there were always PLENTY of pictures to show off and stories to share.
Charlie is preceded in death by his parents Jean and John (Jack) Witzleben.
Charlie is survived by his daughter Hilary Taylor and son-in-law Carson and grandsons Vaughn and Hugh of Telluride, CO, and son Clark Witzleben and daughter-in-law Katy of Arvada, CO, his former wife Karen Witzleben, his twin brother Larry, and older brother Fred, as well as nieces and nephews (and their children) in many states.
In lieu of flowers, Charlie asks that memorial gifts be considered for the following organizations: The Hock Family Pavilion (Duke HomeCare and Hospice), Sarah P. Duke Gardens, Duke Chapel Music Endowment, and Feeding the Valley Foodbank of Southwest Georgia.
A memorial service will be held in May.
As Charlie said in his final days, "If the curtains must close, it's been a great show!"
It sure was. Bravo!

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Published by & from Mar. 11 to Mar. 12, 2022.

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Michel Lecuyer

December 12, 2023

Missing Charlie! He is frequently in my thoughts. Hope you are all doing well

Susan Baldwin

June 25, 2023

I have just learned of Charlie´s death and wanted to share with the family that he was a wonderful consultant to Exploris museum, and a mentor of sorts to me. I am from Macon and he and I often discussed that strange and lovely town. He was supportive of me as a young mother. And as I said, was a great mentor figure in the world of nonprofits and development. Please accept my late but heartfelt condolences.

Claudia

February 14, 2023

I was so thankful that Witz stopped for a visit in
May of 2021. We had plans for Charlie´s return
The following October at our annual Halloween
Party.

It has been so hard without Witz. He has been a constant in my life since our Mercer Days. He and
His snarky sense of humor and laughing together
Leave a hole in my heart. Thank you for sharing him.

Claudia

February 14, 2023

Susan O Gunderson

May 18, 2022

Dear Hiliary and Clark - I cannot express to you how sad I am about the loss of your dear dad. I retired from Winthrop University in Rock Hill, SC. He did some work for us and quickly became one of my favorite people. We remained friends and kept up with each other. I realized that I had not seen any posts from him on FB and sent him a message several weeks ago; today I saw the sad news. I will miss his larger than life personality and I know you all will too. My favorite picture of Charlie was of him dancing at Clark's wedding! I know he is dancing up a storm in heaven! Love to both of you! Susam Gunderson ([email protected])

Robin Hutchison

April 19, 2022

The world will miss Charlie for so many reasons. I always remember to fun times with Wylie and Clarke at DA, and I was so happy to reunite with Charlie at Drew´s wedding. May you rest in peace after your amazing life punctuated by your courageous fight at the end. Much love to all! Hope to see you at the Memorial Service. Robin Hutchison

The Drozes and our spouses

April 4, 2022

We´ve shared sooo many wonderful memories since we were all infants. We´ll always hold these memories close to our hearts.
This picture is from a reunion we all had in July 2019 in NC. Such a fun time full of partying and laughter. That´s what Charlie was so good at! He will be so missed

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Christian

March 13, 2022

It was a great show. Glad I had the pleasure of knowing the showman.

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Michel Lecuyer

March 10, 2022

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Michel Lecuyer

March 10, 2022

One of our favorite trips riding off into the sunset in the Sahara Desert

Renée Rand

March 10, 2022

I love you, Charlie!
You will always be alive in our hearts!

Toni Mason

March 10, 2022

I appreciate the. comment: "Heaven gained the life of the party"! Because WE have lost the life of the party and he will be sorely missed! I feel SO grateful to be able to count Charlie among my dearest friends and I will cherish the memories I have of all the good times we had together! My deepest sympathy goes out to his children and grandchildren - y'all were the most important people in the world to him. May he rest in peace.

Michel Lecuyer

March 10, 2022

My deepest sympathy to the Witzleben family, Hilary, Clark and Karen and brother, Larry. It was an honor to know Charlie, to be a friend and a travel companion. Charlie was a spirited and generous man, kind , compassionate and an extrovert that always made friends wherever he was. Lord only knows, the party in heaven, has only just begun!

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