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Louis Stephan Ontek Jr.

1970 - 2024

Louis Stephan Ontek Jr. obituary, 1970-2024, twentynine palms, CA

BORN

1970

DIED

2024

Louis Ontek Obituary

Louis Stephan Ontek Jr, a Twentynine Palms resident for 25 years, passed away on Wednesday, March 6, 2024, of chronic hyper-tension. He was 53 years old.
Louis was born to Lou and Barbara Ontek on Nov. 12, 1970, in Point Pleasant, New Jersey.
Louis grew up in Jackson, New Jersey, and went to Jackson Memorial High School.
He lived several other places such as Pennsylvania, Florida, Santa Catalina Island and then finally residing to Twentynine Palms. Many of his friends called him "Lou."
Lou was talented with many skills and could create anything; like his father. He was an excellent artist of drawing. He was self-employed in construction: remodeling. He studied electronics, electrical, HVAC and welding. His interests: trucks, dirt bikes, car racing, playing pool, darts, gaming and listening to classic rock and heavy metal music.
He is survived by his brother, Thomas Beenick and sister-in-law Robyn Beenick, nephew Tommy Beenick and niece-in-law Tammy (great-nephews: Tommy and Scott and great-niece Jessica), nephew Jonathan Beenick and niece-in-law Crystal (great-nephews: Damon and Atticus), sister Regina Wallace and brother-in-law Kevin Wallace, nephew Kevin Wallace, Jr., and niece-in-law Caroline, nephew Andrew Wallace and Brianna Perry.
He is also survived by his former wife, Missy Varlese, daughter Jessica Ontek and fiancé Jacob Brady, grandchildren: Jena, Jade and Jaxson.
He was preceded in death by father Lou Ontek Sr., mother Barbara Ontek, sister Cynthia "Cindy" Tamblin, grandmother Grace (Wilkins) Bashuk, great-uncle Lawrence Wilkins, and grandfather Steven Ontek Sr.
A Catholic Mass funeral service will be held 7 p.m. on Friday, April 12, at the Blessed Sacrament Church of Twentynine Palms. A viewing will be at 6 p.m.

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Published by Hi-Desert Star from Apr. 10 to May 9, 2024.

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Jo Ann

May 21, 2024

Lou was Loving and kind to me always! He shared his Mom and Sister with me for which I am eternally grateful! I remember one night his bike broke down so I towed him home with my car! He would get angry and I"d step between him and whoever he was upset at and he would say " why are you taking their side?" And I would reply to keep you out of prison! Is it really worth it? And he would calm down. At times I could see the familiar pain in his eyes and I would just hug him. I will miss you my brother. Thank you for teaching me so much sister by God!

Sherrie

April 20, 2024

Lou I will sbyou. Dearly. We all will miss Rest in Peace My friend

The parkisons

April 13, 2024

Lou was always a sweetheart and part of our family he was always there!

Jill

April 11, 2024

Thank u for letting me be a part of ur family for so many years. Lots of luv. Rip. U will be missed. Xoxo

Amy

April 11, 2024

Louis you were truly one of a kind. I still can´t believe that you´re gone. You are missed.

Darla

April 11, 2024

Lou was one of a kind, a great friend, I miss you so much Lou.

D

April 10, 2024

Lou will truly be missed

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