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Steve Dykstra Obituary


Steve M. Dykstra of Holland, age 56, passed away on Thursday, April 25th after a battle with ALS. He was a faithful member of Pillar Church, where he both worked and worshiped, and was a beloved member of the congregation. Prior to working at Pillar, Steve worked at Van Hill Furniture for over twenty years. In his free time, Steve enjoyed time with family, serving and helping others, biking, hiking, racquetball, camping, and playing good practical jokes.

He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Kathy, his children, Leah and Mike Sudborough and Lucas and Shannon Dykstra, parents Terry and Evelyn Dykstra, siblings Jeff Dykstra and Kristy de Best, in-laws Kerri and Al Nykamp, Konie and Keith Walters, and Kimberly Klaasen, nieces and nephews Heather de Best, Heidi de Best, Bethany and Joshua Franken, Erin and Brandon Van Groningen, Troy Nykamp, Anna and Nick Rillema, Rachel and Randy Palmbos, Julie and Robert Dykstra, and seven great-nephews.

Visitation will be held Monday, April 29th from 4-7 p.m. at Langeland- Sterenberg Funeral Home, 315 E. 16th St. Holland. Burial will be in Pilgrim Home Cemetery. Funeral services will be held 10am Tuesday, April 30th at Ridgepoint Community Church, 340 104th Ave. Holland. Memorial contributions may be given to Susan Mast ALS Foundation, Pillar Church Building Fund and Holland Christian Schools. To leave a condolence and for more information, please visit www.langelandsterenberg.com.

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Published by The Holland Sentinel on Apr. 28, 2019.

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October 3, 2019

Dear Kathy,
I just learned of Steve's passing today. I ache for you. Even just last month I was remembering a quartet Steve and I sang in at Pillar. I was singing the song out loud at home and remembered a part Steve had trouble with. We all were laughing and having fun at Pillar that day. I am heart broken for you in your loss. Steve was a kind, gentle man. I recall working with you at Pillar in the kids' programs. What fun we had. I ache for your loss. I am remembering you today and always. Heaven is blessed with Steve's presence. I remember Steve being so kind to my Curtis, who is rocking it out in Heaven with Steve. All my love to you!

Paul Blain

May 14, 2019

I just found out today that Steve had passed. I had stopped into Van Hill furniture, and the salesman informed me of Steve's passing. He was such a good friend, softball competitor, and a very helpful person. I will miss him. He always had a kind word.

May 5, 2019

As you remember your love one, as God heals your broken hearts (Psalm 147:3), may your cherished memories continue to bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

Mike Wohlwend

May 3, 2019

So sorry for your loss.

Bea Molendyk

April 30, 2019

Dear Kathy and family, my heart goes out to all of you. I have great memories of your family having Leah and Lucas on the Kindergarten bus to South Side Chr. you were very precious to me, Kathy also seeing you at the Dr's Office and also Steve when he worked at Van Hills. Kathy and family my thoughts and prayers are with you .

Mark Vander Berg

April 29, 2019

So sorry for your loss I knew Steve when he sold me my Mobil home and he was a very nice guy always polite and could use then he sold some furniture to me at Van Hills he is going to be dearly missed by all and u and ur family are in our prayers

Nona and Gene Miyamoto

April 29, 2019

Steve was one of the first smiles and welcomes we received at Pillar Church. We will miss his presence there but know he is enjoying his heavenly reward. Our condolences to Kathy and family.

Glen Houting

April 29, 2019

Steve was a good man.
He will be missed.
He leaves a family he was always proud of.
You are all in my heart and prayers.
Peace & Love

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Benjamin Fox

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Douglas Elenbaas

April 28, 2019

When he worked at vanhill,we always asked for steve. We loved him. He also helped us find our mobile home back on 87. He will be missed. So sorry!!

Karl &. June DeJinge

April 28, 2019

Kathy and family, sending you our love and prayers!

Johanna Mannes

April 28, 2019

So sorry for your loss Kathy. Will keep you and your family in prayer.

Jennifer Carlson

April 28, 2019

Kathy, you and your family are in our thoughts and hearts. I know that you will find great comfort within your faith community. Steve was and remains an example of how to live a life of purpose. Please reach out to all around you if there is anything you need.

Krista Matlock

April 27, 2019

Dear Kathy, Leah and Mike, Lucas and Shannon, Mr. and Mrs Dykstra, family and friends.

Steve will be dearly missed by the Matlock family. As our neighbor for nearly 16 years, he made us laugh out loud daily, always greeted us with a smile and kind words, and was there to help and guide Brad when he needed a good Christian man to count on. He was always kind and patient with our girls when they wanted to visit the goats,. We enjoyed many fire pit nights with all of you and will truly miss his friendship.

I know we will see him again some day in heaven and hope to sit by the fire of Jesus' light .

I pray that Our Heavenly Father grants peace, healing, and bountiful blessings on Kathy, Leah and Mike, Lucas and Shannon, Mr. and Mrs Dykstra, family and friends.

With Love,

Marc, Krista, Kate, Brad, Sara and Alli

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Ridgepoint Community Church

340 104th Ave., Holland, MI 49423

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