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for Benjamin Smith
Aunt Beth
December 5, 2005
Hello Benjamin,
I wanted you to know the boys and I went to the Katy game this past weekend, I thought about you. I was sitting on the 50 yard line at Rice stadium, and I felt you around me, Jake said Mom look then a red wasp came and almost dive bombed me. It( the wasp) made a couple people yelp .I was not afaid, I know why it was there. It sure was a neat feeling seeing it there. The boys and I had a very boring Thanksgiving, but I did thank God that you had been in our lives. Miss you .
Love,
Aunt Beth
Anna Garza
November 17, 2005
Hey Ben! It's been a year ago yesterday and sometimes life just seems unreal. I stay up at night and wonder if some where you are sitting down watching over all your friends. Although I didn't know you for a year I am glad that I got to meet you and see who you are inside. You were such a great friend to PJ and Terry, sometimes I worry about them more than I did before you were gone. But I know that you are not gone for a while only for a small time...one day we will all be laughing together. Love you lots miss you too!
Love Anna
P.J. Barnett
November 16, 2005
Hey Benjammin, its been a year today that we lost you and not a single day goes by that I don't think of you. I cannot believe that time has passed by so fast, it seems that just yesterday we were playing basketball together in KYB. The memories we shared are so important to me and I will always hold them close. I will be back in Katy in a few days for Thanksgiving and the first thing I will be doing is going out to visit you. I find so much peace being out there with you, we all miss you so much Benjammin. I can't wait to get back into town with all our friends and family, it brings back so many great memories when all of us get together and tell all the stories we have. You will never be forgotten and you will ALWAYS be loved by everyone of us. You always made me feel like family to you, and I will never forget that, I love you bro!
Aunt Beth
November 16, 2005
Our precious Benjamin,
It has been a year today that you left us. What a tragic horrible day for your loved ones. We still do not understand why, but I know you are in God's loving arms, looking down on us. I pray for you daily. I wish I could have been there for you if you had needed me to be. I know you know how much your Mom, Dad and Travis yearn for you as do all your family members and friends. I love and miss you I know we will all meet agin some day sweetie. Jake, Blake, Monica and Elizabeth I know pray for you also. Thank you for all the wonderful memories you gave us. Today is the first cool day here in Katy. I am going to your place in a while, I feel so relaxed there, but sad when I go visit you. I have seen the wasp many times when I am there. I must say your mom and dad have really made your place look beautiful. My heart goes out to all of your family and friends. I want to thank PJ, Terry and Anna for their support .
Loving you always,
Aunt Beth
Anna Garza
November 13, 2005
Hey Ben! Just writing to say hi and that I miss you. I saw your mom and dad about a week or so ago... your mom and I laughed for about an hour, I also went to go see you before that. WOW! I can't beleive how beautiful your headstone is...It was so great to see something soo beautiful over looking someone so wonderful. It's getting close to a year now and everyday seems so weird...sometimes I wake up and think about our laughs. I told your mom about the time we went to the movies and you and I sat outside the theater and talked during the whole movies while Terry and PJ were watching it. We also talked about the first time I went to your house and how I couldn't remember how to give directions to my ride home. Well, PJ and Terry are doing good...I talked to Terry and he is going to try to enroll in school soon. I look forward to seeing him there, we'll be at the same school! Well, I will be by to see you soon...Love you LOTS!! Besos! (kisses)
monica bain
November 12, 2005
Hey Ben i just wanted to tell you that i have been thinking of you alot this past month and really regret not spending more time with you. i dont know if i every said it but im glad to have you as my cousin and i love you. i got something for you so ill be out this afternoon
love,
monica
P.J. Barnett
November 4, 2005
I miss you so much Benjammin, I stop and think of you all the time. I really miss all the great times that we had together, you are such a great friend and we all love you so much. I know that your with me everywhere I go and I thank you so much for all you have done for me. Its hard not having you to joke around with everytime I go back into katy, especially around the holidays. Your in my prayers everynite bro, we all miss you! Love you Benjammin
fred smith
October 31, 2005
Happy Halloween My Son. I guess you'd be pretty pumped up for Halloween tonight. I remember so many fun times w/ you when we would go Trick or Treating.. especially the time you were so scared that the Lady had to give me the candy for you (cause you got scared & ran almost home). The times we would go "trick or treating" for hours & so many blocks of walking that after we finished I carried you home on my back... All that eary & scary noises w/ those spiders & stuff. We decorated the house w/ the normal "Scary Stuff" & are as you'd say " be good to go"..sure hope to get out to your place b4 dark..i got you a skull for your stone. I love u son & I'll see you later.
October 24, 2005
Hey Ben,
I have written several times but for some reason it never shows. I thought about you on your birthday. We all love you so very much. I knew that your birthday would be hard on your Mom,Dad and Travis. They are very strong. Wish you were still with us. I know you are where you are taken care of.
Love,
Aunt Beth
Anna Garza
October 12, 2005
From me to you just wishing you Happy Birthday. We all miss you very much...I have no one there to call me and tell me how PJ and Terry are doing, or to call and tell me to watch PJ and keep pushing Terry to go to school. But I'm glad we all had good times together enough to last a lifetime. I talked to Terry he'ss doing good, working hard but doing good. PJ calls now and then but our conversations are always short and swift...we've both been busy with school. Hope you are watching your friends. PJ and Terry really miss you.
Love Anna
fred smith
October 11, 2005
Happy Birthday Son. 21 years ago you were born & you brought the most profound change in my life. You are missed so much & I yearn for the day to reunite w/ you. My Son, some much of me is just empty & I wish I would've just talked w/ you more. I'll close for now (cause of work)..Siempre Fidelis
DAD
P.J. Barnett
October 11, 2005
Happy Birthday Benjammin! I went into Katy and went by your place this past weekend. I got you a great birthday card, everyone liked it alot. I hope all is well, I miss you so much! Things are going good in school, I know you would be proud of me. Thank you so much for being the great friend you are. I hope you have a great birthday! I'll be thinking of you all day long bro! Love you!!!
odessa smith
October 11, 2005
My Dearest Granson:
Today is your birthday and I can still .remember the day you were born. How I just had to have you come home in the little blue outfit.
I was so happy to be able to hold you. I pray for you,your Mother,Dad,
and Travis. There is such a sadness that we miss you so much. We know that you are at peace with God We still do not understand it all.We know you were ready to BE GOOD TO GO. I miss your beatuful smile and eyes and there is not a day or night that I do think of you
Love you .
GAGA Grand Mother (Smith)
P.J. Barnett
September 1, 2005
Hey Benjammin, its been awhile since my last entry. Im back up in College Station. I had a great summer in Katy. I loved being able to go visit you whenever I wanted to. It looks amazing there, I know you would agree. I miss you so much, I think about you everyday. I had a great time visiting with everyone this summer. I practiacally lived over at your place these past few months.ha. I also just want to say thank you so much for everything you have done, the whole Smith family should know what I mean, I can honestly say I wouldnt be where I am if it wasn't for you Benjammin. You have always been there for me and you will always be my best friend. I know how much you cared for all of us and I can't tell you enough just how appreciative we all are for that. Thank you once again for helping me in this time of need, your in my prayers always. I love you bro!
fred smith
August 23, 2005
Hey Ben, It's been awhile since I've checked your book & I just want to restate how much you are missed. My prayers for you & all who have experienced loss continue daily. You have truly been my Star & I know your a bright one in heaven. Oh my Son, how I miss you & hope you are fine. I bet in Heaven, you are doing great & you are smiling & just being "Good To Go". Ben's Place is really looking good. The "BeBE' tree is rocking & the grass is still lush & green. We water the grass at least once a week & while there visit w/ others. I feel pride in you Son & want you to know that.Who would know how we feel except for those who's been in our place. I pray for all of our servicemen & their family to be thankful for God's grace & guidance. Please keep your head up & you, my Marine, are one brave man & I will always be proud of you. My Son, I Love You Forever & someday we will meet again. Shorty & Rave say hey & to give you their love.
Siempre Fidelis
Dad
August 18, 2005
Dear Benjamin,
It's been a while since I wrote to or about you. I get lazy sometimes, but I will always think about what a great person you were. I look often at your picture while at work. When I am having a bad day, your picture brightens it. Please know you will never be forgotten.
Love,
Aunt Beth
Aunt Beth
July 25, 2005
Hello family and friends of Benhamin,
Jake & I went to see Ben's Place this past week. The headstone is beautiful. As we stood admiring it and reflecting on Benjamin, his chimes started to gently chime, a cool breeze came from out of nowhere. I am truly blessed to have been able to share what time I did with such a beautiful loving person as my sweet newphew. He certainly touched many lives. We all continue to love and miss you Ben.
Love,
Aunt Beth
fred smith
July 21, 2005
I want all to know that yesterday, Travis,Olivia & I went to see Ben's Pace & Lo & Behold His Headstone was in place..We were so suprised & elated by finally seeing this beautiful headstone. I know that Ben's real pleased & He's got that Chesser cat smile w/ those beautiful,sparkling dark brown eyes & that look of contentment. I want to invite all to come see his polished black headstone w/ black vases. I really like the Lone Star(s) on the face of it. The E.G.A.'s (Eagle, Globe,Anchor) on vases are just awesome. Come see & you will agree that it's a real testament to our Son. Ben, We Love You & You truly are now "Good To Go". "Together Forever" My Marine.
Siempre Fidelis
Dad
fred smith
July 5, 2005
Hey my Marine, yesterday, being the 4th of July, was another typical Fireworks,B.B.Q.,drinks,friends & neighbors. We went to see a fireworks display & really enjoyed it. Then we came home & blew up a bunch of fireworks & real big aerial bombs/display's. Travis tried to shoot 3 at a time & man...talking about a near disaster.. P.J. & T-Mac came by later that evening & we visited for awhile & we all agree that w/o you, being the calming balm, are sorely missed. My Son, I felt your presence yesterday & I felt your thrill of life & friendship that was so YOU. I want to do better & TRY to improve my life. I'll get on w/ my struggles & will make a difference. Ben, I'll close w/ this...My Son not a day or night goes by that you are not w/ me in spirit & soul. I'm Good To Go. Siempre Fi Son
Dad
Anna Garza
June 23, 2005
Hey Ben...I spent some time with P.J. and Terry last week...we went out to watch a movie for Terry's birthday. We laughed and laughed and you never left our thoughts. I couldn't believe how much we all have changed since the last time i spent time with them. I told them that it was hard for me to go see you and then they all offered to go with me when or if I'm ready to go. I still can't go alone it's just something I can't come to do, but it doesn't mean I still don't think of you, I do it everyday.I'm glad to hear that your family is doing well and that they are taking life one day at a time. They are strong and so are your friends. Well, I miss you and I am going to until we meet again.
Beth Heidemann
June 21, 2005
I agree with your daddy on how nice your blanket of love I must say it is greener and seems thicker than your neighbors. But theirs look good too. I sat under your tree with the boys for a while Sunday morning. It is so nice and quiet. I saw many people visiting their loved ones too. I miss you, but this liittle book really helps me. When I need a Ben "fix" I read from it. I love and miss you sweetie.
Love
Aunt Beth
fred smith
June 20, 2005
Morning my Marine. Yesterday was a really sweet day!.Olivia, Travis & I left Saturday for a Family Reunion in Crockett,Texas. This is home to my Dad's Sister (Aunt Betty). A lot of my family live in & around this part of East Texas. I really enjoyed seeing all & reflecting on such simpler times. There must have been 60-75 of my relatives there w/ my Aunt Irene being the oldest one there. I'm amazed that She's so bright & articulant (being 97 years young). She does have a problem w/ walking though & she got this real cool battery powered scooter that she drives all around. We ate & ate such wonderful foods,deserts & truly enjoyed our visit. In fact we spent the night & still couldn't leave for home until mid-afternoon. We did manage to go Sunday & show our respect to Ben. His Love Blanket (grass) looks real good & his Live Oak is doing fine. We ran into some new friends out there & we visited w/ them for awhile. P.J. came over & we talked & visited w/ him. Seems like he & the group went to Galveston for a Midnight swim @ the beach..I'm sure they had fun! My sister, Pat, & her Husband, Larry, came down for the Reunion & I'm planning on spending some time w/ them while they are in town. I will close w/ this. Please always take the time to love life & the love that's given. So many never have the chance to have what I've been blessed w/ & to care for your Family. I will try & lead my Family by example & to walk more righteous w/ God. Siempre Fidelis
Dad
fred smith
May 31, 2005
Hey my Marine! Sure was nice to see all the flags & reverance of this past holliday. I had to step back & take in all who have served & gave their ultimate for all of our freedom & liberties. I thank GOD for us being in this country. Please pray for all who have served & who are/will serve.
I was plesantly suprised yesterday when Ben's old friend Brian Dubile came by. He's on weeekend leave from his duty in the U.S.M.C out of Virginia. Brian looks great & He is now a Lance Corporal in our Beloved Corp. P.J.'s out of class from A & M for the summer & is working at a new fitness gym. He comes by & we hang out. T Mac also comes by & we talk. We got the Military Investigation last week & we are still looking for answers. Sadly, it seems that the only answer for Ben's demise is going to be w/ him & God. We will always hope & pray that He has a reason for his action. I personally have accepted my Son's passing & pray to God that He forgives Ben & accepts him into his arms. I feel that God has plans & somehow Ben's part of it. I know that I'm not a Saint & that with all that has transpired that my life is forever changed. I hope all continue to be an example of whats right & to help all who are less fortunate & to walk righteous. Ben Jam In I Love You.
Siempre Fidelis
Dad
Anna Garza
May 18, 2005
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you...I miss the time we spent laughing at things we all did. Hearing the stories about you and PJ growing up and all the memories you allowed me to hear about. Thanks for all the smiles and all the laughs...I miss you a lot and hope to see you soon...Love your friend...
Odessa Smith
May 16, 2005
My Dearest Grandson: May 16,2005
I wanted to tell you how much you are missed bye your Mother,Dad & Brother,Gradparents, Aunts, Uncles and so many friends. I miss your beautiful eyes,smile and the times we had together.When I say my prayers I feel your presents. I know you are with God and are one of his angles looking down on all of us and saying Good to go.
We are all sad and is just natural that we miss you so much. I wrote before and I did something and it got lost. I still rember the last time I saw you I drove all the way from Humble to say goodbye again before you left back to San Deigo
It will be awhile before your Dad get a coconut pie. I think of how you love them. For now my grandson
with love .
(GA Ga) Grandmother Smith
Aunt Beth
May 16, 2005
Hello sweetie!
I was out to visit you yesterday. I love your tree, it will provide you with lots of shade. I think about you often. I know you are OK. I just needed to say like I have said so many times before, I love you, and will always be proud of you.
Love
Aunt Beth
fred smith
May 2, 2005
We visited Ben's place yesterday & met some others who have lost loved ones & really sympathise w/ all who have this burden. I know it's hard & all seems so pointless but there is a reason for all that happens during our lives & we must realize that. God cares for us & we must understand.. thru prayer, Bible & other compassionate people, all of this will help in recovery of a loss of a loved one. I get/feel Ben's love all the time & wanted ya'll to know that he's still wanting the best for all & to continue doing what right & being caring for all who need help. I Love You my Marine..Siempre Fidelis
Dad
Aunt Beth
April 20, 2005
Hi Sweetie,
I just wanted you to know that I have received yet another letter from Washington from a representitive for President Bush. I suppose that they think I am a bit pushy, well when it comes to my family I am. Anyway, I have been assured I (we) will get answers to many of our questions. I miss you so much. Ben's Place has really taken place, your parents have put alot of love in making your resting place one of beauty. Like everything they want (ed) for both you and Travis is the BEST. You will never be forgotten by so many people that love you so very much. I know you are with God. I know Gramppa Smith was there waiting for you.I remember how proud he was when you were born. It makes me smile when I remember how he would talk about you. I pray for you and your daddy,mom and Travis all the time. I know time will help ease the pain.
Much love,
Aunt Beth
fred smith
April 20, 2005
Yesterday,Olivia & I went to Ben's Place & to our surprise Ben's footstone marker from The U.S.M.C. was installed. It is approx. 14" X 24" light gray granite polished. We are very proud of our Marine & would like all to know that. I feel like Ben's grin & smile on me as I write this & I know how He would be amused at my notes. Ben, I'm as you would say "BE GOOD TO GO". Son, I'll see you later this evening.
Love Dad
Jeremy Talley
April 10, 2005
-To my Great Friend Ben-
hey good buddy, I'm sorry it has taken me so long, but i just found out Friday, I miss you alot man, and i wish we hadn't lost touch once you graduated, i cant stop thinking about all the good times we had together my friend. It seems so short ago when i lived right down the street from you man, i miss those times so much. Mr. Fred and Mrs. Libby my heart goes out to you two, i miss you both so much, and you should expect to be seeing me soon. I am with you both, and i miss Ben so much, i wish he were still here, he always was a most excellent friend
fred smith
April 8, 2005
Hey My Marine. I had a moment to check out your guest book & wanted all to know that the concrete base for your headstone is in place & that by summertime it (the black granite headstone) should be set. the live oak (we call it "BeBe") & our blanket of love (grass) is doing well. Shorty & I go out there everyday & look after your plot..we call it Ben's Place. We have met so many others out there who have experienced our loss. Ben, I know you are in a better place & I feel your presence constantly. I look for your clues & quirks you & I shared. Oh my son I pray for you & all who are now gone from this temporay home we call Earth. c ya' this afternoon my Marine. Siempre Fidelis
Dad
Anna Garza
March 31, 2005
Dear Ben,
I miss you right now and I wish you were here to celebrate my school break...and so when I go I will have some fun just for you. I haven't had the chance to go visit you but I spoke to Terry and he said that things were going good and that the tree your parents planted is nice. I know it will grow to be a very wonderful and glorious sight. It will have your strength. I miss your smile and your laugh wish you were here to have fun with...keep your loved ones taken care of and look over all your friends. I know your here in spirit...love you bunches...Anna
Aunt Beth
March 30, 2005
Dearest Ben,
I just wanted to tell you I was thinking about you alot this morning. Knowing you are with God is such a comfort. I pray that answers will come. Jake & I were at your place last week and will go there this afternoon. I still cry when I go to your place, only because I don't understand why things are as they are and because I see the hurt in your Mother,Dasddy and brother.Travis is so brave for them. I love him so much too. I love you sweetie.
Love,
Aunt Beth
Aunt Beth
March 16, 2005
Dear Benjamin,
I was out at your place a couple days ago and I saw the tree your parents planted, it is a beautiful tree, I am excited that you will be shaded when the hot sun is shining. You are so loved. I wish I could give you a big hug . I know you are still with us in spirit. We all miss you. I know someday we will all be together again. In the mean time keep smiling on us. We are proud of you.
Much love sweetie,
Aunt Beth
P.J. Barnett
March 4, 2005
I could sit here for hours and look at the pictures I have of you, and remember all the goofy times we had together. Nothing seems to stop the pain I feel, nor help me with how much I miss you. I think about you countless times during the day and hope that your watching over all of us. That really helps me, knowing that you are always with us. You'll never quite know just how great of a friend you are to me. Thank you so much, Love u bro!
Anna Garza
February 25, 2005
As everyday goes by I think about the things I could have or should have said to you...but then I look forward and see that I can still say them...I can still feel your presence...I know that although I can't see or feel you you are here...I miss you so much words can't decribe...I guess now I realize that I lost a great friend. But gained a wonderful ANGEL...Ben.
Missing you bunches...longing to see you again...your smile is my sunlight.
Until we meet again...Yours Truly...Anna
fred smith
February 24, 2005
Well it's pretty close to Springtime out here in Katy & my wife & I have planted a real nice Live Oak out at Ben's Place. We also planted some grass around him (we call it our blanket of love) & on the plot site immediately next to him. I will get a book/tablet & leave there so Ben's friends can comment if they so desire. I appreciate all the prayers,letters,cards,telephone calls from all who I know deeply share our loss. I also want you guys to know that in about 2 1/2 > 3 months Ben's Headstone should be in place. I want all to just reflect on everyone in & out of uniform who has suffered loss. God Bless all. Thanks again for such wonderful friendship & your prayers for us.
Anna Garza
February 8, 2005
Hey Ben, It's Anna. Somehow it's seems like this New Year isn't complete without you here. I miss you so much and yet I know that you are with me each day. Sometimes I get really lonely and lay and think of you and how much fun we could have been having. Superbowl weekend was alittle quiet...there was no phone call asking if I wanted to go out with you all to watch the game or go out. I'm glad to say that I'm going back to school in two weeks so please watch over me and wish me the best of luck. But for now you're in my heart forever and always...and until we meet again I love you and miss you! Hugs and kisses...your friend Anna.
MUUAH!!
P.J. Barnett
February 6, 2005
Hey Benjammin!!! I miss you like crazy. Its Superbowl Sunday, and I could think of nothing I want more than to sit back and watch the game with you. I know you'll be here with me, I always feel you. It's been so hard without you, I pray for you and everyone else everyday. I love you Benjammin, keep watching over us all.
olivia smith
February 5, 2005
Hey Baby, I want you to know how much I love you so much & I miss you so very much. Your smell,your touch, your voice ...I miss so much all the laughter, the " O Shorty's", the talks we had. Everything around me reminds me of you my precious baby! I LOVE YOU SON very very much. I pray for you every day & feel your presence constantly. The days are hard for me but not as bad as nights. Sleep is not what I enjoy when you are always on my mind. Just missing you is so hard for me. I'm trying to take care of all but it's hard & I pray that my hole in my heart will lessen with our fond memories, pictures,friends & relatives trough time. I feel so lonely without you & my baby you will never leave my heart. Sleep straight & grow my love muffin.
Love MOM a.k.a. "Shorty"
P.S. Only Ben Jam In can call me that!
Aunt Beth
February 1, 2005
Dearest Ben,
Your picture is now on the bulletin board in my office, along with Travis, Blake and Jake. You are so handson. When I get sad I look at you and know you would want all of us to get on going! The weather has been so bad lately that I have not been able to go to your place. Please keep looking after us. I know you are not physically here with us, but you will always be in our hearts. Love you sweetie.
Aunt Beth
P.J. Barnett
January 21, 2005
Hey Benjammin! I cant seem to get you off my mind these last few days. Its real hard starting this new semester of college without being able to call you after a tough day and enjoy your jokes and all the laughs we shared. You are a friend who will never leave my heart, I will never find a friend that even comes close to you. Thank you for all you have given me Benjammin!! I love you
Aunt Beth
January 21, 2005
Hello Benjamin,
I've been thinking about you alot today ( and most everyday). One thing I was thinking were happy thoughts, I keep thinking about the little jokes you made up when you were just a little guy. Your cousin Monica still tells them, as do I. I think about the last time I saw you. We were at your home in Katy and you were sitting on the driveway, taking everything in. Naturally you had your big smile on. What's not to smile about when all the Smith get together. Travis reminds me so much of you, although he will not get as tall as you. When I look at your daddy, I see you. It is amazing how much you look like him, only you are cuter! I love and miss you as always. I am actually having a "Good to Go " day in spite of having to work.
Love
Aunt Beth
fred smith
January 15, 2005
Morning Beyond! Well, it's been unreal of all the true love, compassion, & sympathy from all of our friends,family,co-workers & contemporaries. I know from my heart how I feel so (for your respect of our loss). My Marine will never be forgotten & will live on w/ me in our fond memories, photos & talk w/ & of him. God bless all who suffer loss & w/ His guidance & help, our family will carry on & as Ben would say "BE GOOD TO GO"...Siempre Fidelis Son
Dad
P.J. Barnett
January 12, 2005
Hey Benjammin! Sorry its been so long, i finally got my hands on a computer in this crazy town. I go see you alot now that ive been in Katy for break, it is very serene out there. We all miss you so very much. I cant even explain how much I think about you everyday. Your constantly in my thoughts, Terry and me are always talking about past memories we have shared with you. We are all so lucky to have known you Ben. You made such a wonderful impact on all our lives. We love you so much!!
Aunt Beth
January 7, 2005
Hello Benjamin,
Well I got through another long work week. I think about you every day. I know so many people that love you so much. I know that you know who we are. I pray for you and you family everyday. Keep watching over all of us. We love you.
Aunt Beth
fred smith
January 5, 2005
Well, it sure was different w/o Ben this past Holiday. I reflect on & of past year's Holiday's w/ Ben. I cry of happiness when I recall oh so many of those many special moments of BEYOND (Ben). He truly changed my life from the day He was born to even now. I feel like part of me is gone. We are so grateful & proud of all Ben's friends & Family for thier (your) support. I feel Ben's presence constantly. I love my Son & I hope & pray for him like all the time. Like I always told Ben "Sleep straight & grow" (when He was going to bed when he was a kid)...remarkable how he continued that trend. Siempre Fidelis
Dad
P.S. "Rave" got that old Diablo II game to load & we recalled how you impacted even that! LOVE YOU SON
Anna Garza
January 4, 2005
Hello there my dearest friend. I can't help but think about how much I miss you right now. There is so much going on that I don't know how to deal with it right now. I really wish I could have spent Christmas with you this year. And I did. Just no the way I hoped. I went to go visit you on Christmas and I sat and cried just thinking about our happy times together. It snowed and I thought about you even more. Thanks for giving us this year. I went to go see your parents but I think they had company so I left the flowers on the porch and you a Christmas tree. When I put the angel on my tree this year I knew you were in my home. You will never leave my thoughts and I hope to see you when it's my time.
Missing yo bunches...hugs and kisses.
Anna Garza
ROSE BARNETT
January 2, 2005
HI BEN;
IT HAS BEEN DIFFICULT THRU THE HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOU FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU. I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING US AND SMILING AND LETTING US ALL KNOW THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE WITH YOU AND YOU ARE WATCHING OVER ALL OF US NOW AS THE ANGEL THAT YOU ARE.WE MISS YOU
Aunt Beth
December 30, 2004
Dear Benjamin,
We sure did miss you at Christmas. It actually snowed, I think you had always wanted snow for Christmas. I just wanted to tell you again, I love you and are proud of having you in my life. I am going to visit " Ben's Place" this weekend.Your Mother, daddy and Travis have your place looking really nice, wait till spring!! You are in my prayers always.
Love ,
Aunt Beth
Aunt Beth
December 21, 2004
Dear Ben,
I just wanted you to know we are all thinking about you today, like every day. Life without you is so empty, but I know you would want us to be strong for your Mom,dad and most of all Travis. Travis is a great young man. You know some kids (young and old) go through life not knowing their parents and extended family members not knowing they are loved. We all know that was not true in your case. You and Travis are two of the most loving young men I have ever known. You both have the most loving parents that I know . I just wish sometimes I could be the kind of parents that you have. We all have so many questions that we need answered, in time I know we will know what we need to know. Everytime I see a vehicle with US Marine, or see a man in uniform, I see your face, and silly grin, then I see your piercing eyes, telling me your OK. I also believe you are really OK. I know your spirit is alive, because I see the signs,. I love you sweetie.
I was just thinking about when I would call your home, and I would tell you I was your favorite aunt, you would just agree like the obident young man with a little chuckle. I love you and miss you.
Love Aunt Beth
Evelyn Beard
December 21, 2004
My Dearest Ben,
You're always in my thoughts and I will always remember that unique grin and the love you gave not only your family but your friends too. I was one special Aunt Eleven :) to have you part of my life & the memories will always be with me. We all miss you so much. God Bless You Always !
fred smith
December 20, 2004
Hello My Son, Well it's been over a month since you left us & not a day goes by that we think of you. It's hard not having you w/ us at this time of year. Christmas seems kind of hollow w/o you & it's real hard to get that Christmas Spirit. We are doing the best we can Son & just pray & hope All find relief & understanding thru prayer & in the reading of The Bible. I feel you everywhere & "see" you throughout our world. The sound of the wind breeze, the quietness of sunsets, the peacefulness of the woods, the beautiful friends of yours & ours. Ben I just want you to know how very proud I am of you for being such a fine son. I have a hard time w/ missing you & I hope & pray for
you constantly. I will always love & treasure all the times we had together. Forever Together. Dad
Aunt Beth
December 12, 2004
Dear Benjamin,
I went to visit you today. I love the chimes. Your parents are there everyday.I left a little tree for you and signed a note on your bigger tree. I miss you so much. I know you are looking out for everyone here. The chimes were blowing in the wind and sounded so nice. I love you and your family so much.I know you are loved where you are now, I also know God has his arms around you.
Love,
Aunt Beth
P.J. Barnett
December 8, 2004
Benjammin! I miss you so much Ben. It relieves me, partly, knowing that you are with me throughout the day. I know your watchin over all of us, I constantly feel you with me during the day. We're all missing your goofy jokes and wonderful laugh. This is a hard holiday season without you, I look at your picture everyday before I leave for class, and I talk about you with others all the time. Our past will live on forever in the memories we made together. I love you bro!
Anna Garza
December 7, 2004
Dear Ben,
I just wanted to tell you that I think about you all the time and that I know you are with me at any given moment. I'm doing good but better if you were here. I love you bunches and hope to see your spirit and your family for Christmas. God Bless the Smith Family. Ben you were a good man and great friend.
Missing you lots and holding back tears....your friend Anna Garza!!
Aunt Beth
December 6, 2004
Benjamin,
Hey sweetie, I think about you everyday, just like everyone else that loves and cares for you. You are loved!!!
Aunt Beth
Darlene Hernandez
December 4, 2004
To the family of Benjamn Allen Smith, My heart goes out to you and your family on your most precious loss of your son. He will be in the prayers and thoughts of many. I know words are of little comfort at this most painful time. May God bless you all and grant you the peace and serenity need to deal with your loss. Darlene & family
Mickey Beard
December 3, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Smith and Family
I did not know Benjamin but it would have been my honor to do so.
As I have read the messages I know his precious life touched many.
You, your family and Ben are in my prayers.
Sincerely
(mrs) Mickey Beard
P.J. Barnett
December 3, 2004
I miss you alot Benjammin, I think about you everyday. I know your with me everywhere I go. Thank you for all you have given me, I'll never forget your kindness. We'll love you forever Benjammin!
Beth Heidemann
December 1, 2004
We are all missing Ben so much. I find comfort reading messages from everyone. Please continue your prayers and visits with his family. I want to especially thank P.J. and Terry all your kind words and for being Ben's friends mean so much to his family.
Ben, Aunt Beth loves you so much, I am still proud of you. I know you are at peace, and I know I will see you again.
Love,
Aunt Beth
Anna Garza
November 30, 2004
Just wanted to say that I am going to miss Ben forever and that I know his friends are doing good. We are all still having a little difficulty getting through this time of need but we all have each other. There is a bond within our friendship that lets us know that no matter how far apart we are or how quiet we become our friendship will never end. Ben is forever and always part of this love. He is one of the main reasons many of us have become so close to each other. I now know that when I need something I can go to any of my friends or even ask Ben for his help. I love him so much and I pray that his family and and his friends will see that he lives on forever with in each of our hearts. I look up to him everynight and give him a smile. Thanks for the laughs and the hugs...missing you always!!
Love you!!
Anna Garza
Trudy McDade
November 30, 2004
I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. We are friends w/ Tricia and only knew of you through the boys talking and playing. We lost our mother-in-law last month and we understand more than you know how it feels. She is very close to Ben in the cemetary. I will pray for her to watch over him.
P.J. Barnett
November 30, 2004
Hey Benjammin!You filled all our thoughts during Thanksgiving, we miss you greatly. It's been rough without you here, but knowing that you are now in all our lives every moment of the day keeps us all going strong. We know thats how you would have wanted it. Words cant express how much we all love you. Our memories together will never go untold, your spirit will live on forever in all of us. I know the great things that you did for all of us will be cherished for a lifetime, our friendship could never be explained with words and you and I know it is a bond that will never be broken. We all love you Benjammin!!!
Pete and Rose Barnett
November 26, 2004
DEAR BEN,
ALL MEMORIES OF THE YEARS YOU WERE IN OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. WE WATCHED YOU GROW UP IN THE PAST 10 YEARS. THE LAUGHTER,SMILES AND SPARKLE IN YOUR EYES WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED. NOW AS YOU HAVE GONE ON TO ANOTHER PART OF LIFE MAY GOD BLESS AND WATCH OVER YOU AS YOUR LIFE IS NOW IN PEACE AND WE WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN OUR HEARTS AND ALWAYS BE PART OF OUR FAMILY. LOVE ROSE AND PETE BARNETT.
Terry and Regina Guillory Sr
November 25, 2004
One of the greatest gifts, god gave to our son was to have Ben as a friend. His heart warming smile and his heart of gold will never be forgotten.Ben's kindness touched us all,we will miss him but never forget him.Our Prayers are with you always.
fred smith
November 25, 2004
Happy Thanksgiving my Son! Rave, Shorty & Lord Dork sure miss you. Our love that we have for you grows stronger every day (as if it could grow more). Son, You have made so many grateful for you being you. I see you everwhere in the world & I know you are safe with God. Our loss is extremely devasting but we know through prayer & with God's hand to guide us, we can do as you used to say... be "Good To Go"..I will always remember our such wonderful momments & time we spent together. "Together Forever" will always have such special meaning for and to us. We Love you Son. May you rest in peace. Siempre Fidelis YOUR FAMILY Mom, Dad & Brother
Becky Garner
November 23, 2004
Fred and family,
I had never met Ben, but he was a brave and respectable man to serve our country during this time of war. I know Fred was extremely proud of him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Angela Chow
November 22, 2004
Ben was a close friend and still is to all of us. May God protect him, and watch over all of us. We will miss you Benjamin here on earth, but when it is our time the first thing we will see is your big friendly smile, long eyelashes, and open arms for a huge hug. We will miss and love you forever. Terry and P.J. thanks for being there for all of us, and being a great friend to Ben. I know you will honor him by remebering him. Smith family if you need anything don't hesitate to ask. Ben was there for me during the hard times, and even changed the situation into some positive outlook. I will always remember Ben as a shining star, because he was always the one to brighten our spirits. God Bless.
Michael Kirby
November 22, 2004
Fred and family,
My heart and thoughts go out to you. As a father and grandfather I can't imagine losing a child. If I can be of any service during this trying time please don't hesitate to let me know. All my prayers.
Mike
Aunt Beth
November 22, 2004
My precious Benjamin,
I love you so very much. I will miss your smiling face,the warmth of your smile and all the spirit flowing from your beautiful eyes. I love you with all my heart. You have touched so many peoples lives and will continue to do so. Thank you for being a part of my life. Till we meet again. Love and kisses,
Aunt Beth
P.S. We saw the Wasp!!!! Love you
Anna Garza
November 22, 2004
I just wanted to say that as a friend of Ben's, he was and still is a good person, he is only gone to our eye but never to our hearts. He had and still has so many friends who love him deeply. God bless the Smith family and his best friend, you know who you are.
Love ya bunches BEN!!!
Rose Guel
November 22, 2004
Fred and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Terry Guillory Jr. aka Tmac
November 22, 2004
We will miss him and always remember him in our own way. He was a good person and help his friends. He put smiles on all our faces. He will always be loved. thank you ben-jaminn
Megan Griffith
November 22, 2004
Im sorry for your lost. I was a friend of Ben and I know he will be truly missed.
Todd Kerlin
November 21, 2004
Although I had only met Ben a few times, I knew him as a good friend and he will be missed by all. Rest in Peace.
P.J. Barnett
November 21, 2004
Ben, You are my best friend. You always have been and you always will be. The memories we have together will be cherished for a lifetime. Your life will live on forever in all of our hearts, and I'll never forget all the time we had together. You are an angel in all our eyes. Until the day I see your magical smile again, I love You Benjammin.
Mark Drewery
November 21, 2004
I'm sorry for your loss. I knew him and he was a great friend. My prayers go out to you.
Cathy Clements
November 20, 2004
Fred, Olivia, Travis... my heart goes out to you. There are no words to comfort you in this time of pain but please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Susan Buhman
November 20, 2004
Thank you Ben. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. God bless you and your family. God Bless America!
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