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Melissa Kelly
November 26, 2007
Dear Nancy, Larry and Family
We did not know about Brian's death until yesterday at Mass, when we offered the Mass for him. We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. I cannot believe we did not know until now, except my Mother passed away early last December so we were centering much on our family during that time. Losing a child is beyond comprehension for those of us who have not, but through our loss of my nephew Andrew, we have learned much about God's love and grace, in the face of grief. Even a life cut short, obviously affected so many people to their betterment. We will continue to pray for Brian and that God will heal the hearts of your family. I will let Holly know, and if any of us can be of any help at all, you have but to ask...
Sincerely
The Kellys
Melissa, Pat, Logan and Reid
Nancy Howell Barlar & Family
February 9, 2007
Larry and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. And when you feel a warmness in your heart, you will know it is Brian looking down on you saying, I love you and I miss you, but I am now at peace....God Bless.
Lizzi Reed
February 8, 2007
Harlans,
i really do not know where to start. you have been in my thoughts and prayers since say one. there hasn't been a day when i haven't thought about Brian, Kyle, or any of you guys. you are the best neighbors a kid could grow up with. Mrs. Nancy, i want you to know that i will be here for Kyle for the rest of our lives. i promise. Brian i miss you and your perfect smile every day. God bless you and your family. i love yall!
Peggy Lotz Carr
January 7, 2007
Larry and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. In addition to our prayers, my family will be making a donation to the Prince of Peace youth group in Brian's memory.
Rev. Mopsy Andrews
January 6, 2007
My sympathy and the sympathy of many members of Chapelwood are with your family. I have visitied with Vi and know all of you have a strong faith. May you hold his memory dear and be comforted by one another and your family and friends. Our prayers are with all of you. Love in Christ, Mopsy
Janie Montoya
January 5, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the Harlan Family.
Judy Agness
January 4, 2007
Larry, Nancy, and family,
My deepest sympathy for your precious loss. May the Lord grant you all the strength and His compassion during this trying time. Remember, your son is now your angel.
Sharleen Walkoviak
January 3, 2007
Dear Nancy, Larry and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Please know that Ron and I are praying for all of you.
Eddie, Cathy, Chad & Steph Darneal
January 3, 2007
Dear Larry,Nancy,and Kids,
Living next door to you all for six years, we were blessed by you all. Your family always was a true example of what a family should be. Larry and Nancy, Brian was blessed to have you as parents, know that! He was always such a joy to be near. He played with my kids and made us laugh many, many times. At this grief filled time we pray that the times of joy over shadow the tragic. We love you all, pray for peace and comfort.
Ron and Sheila Bahr
January 2, 2007
Dear Nancy and Larry,
We send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers regarding the loss of your precious son. We pray that as Jesus lovingly welcomes Brian to his eternal kingdom, he also provides his loving comfort to you and your family. God Bless!
Dusty Miller
January 2, 2007
Larry and Nancy,
Please know you and your family are in my prayers for comfort , peace, and understanding. My heart breaks at your loss. Know that some how God will provide you the strength to move forward. You have a wonderful family and many blessings to think about.
Kindest Personal Regards,
Dusty
Sam Charlton III
January 2, 2007
Dear Nancy & Larry: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. I shall keep you and your family in my prayers. God be with you and bless you.
Susan Hollowell
January 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Maricela R. Mamott
January 2, 2007
Nancy,
I was terribly shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved son. I can't imagine your sorrow. As Jesus has embraced Brian with His loving arms entering into heaven, I pray that Jesus also comforts you and your family.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Gordon Coe
January 2, 2007
Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son and brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. In God's Love, The Gordon Coe family
Joe` Rose
January 1, 2007
Harlan Family-
I pray that God heals and brings comfort to your broken hearts.
Drew Pedrick
December 31, 2006
Dear Harlan Family,
I have known Brian as long as I can remember. We were friends before kindergarten and continued our friendship to our senior year of highschool. Seems like it was just yesterday when we were sitting at the lunch table laughing together. I wish the Harlan family strength in this hard time. I will miss you Brian, and will never forget the laughter and smiles you brought to my life.
Jay and Dayne Otto
December 30, 2006
Dear Larry and Nancy,
Our hearts are deeply saddened over the loss of your precious son. You will be in our prayers.
Jay and Dayne Otto
Werner & Melanie Wustrau
December 30, 2006
Nancy and Larry, Werner and I want to send you our deepest condolences. We are so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family in this very trying time.
Christine Harpole
December 29, 2006
Dear Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason:
I want to express my sorrow concerning the death of your precious son and brother, Brian. I can't imagine a more difficult loss. My prayers are with each of you. Sincerely,
Pam (Geil) McNutt
December 29, 2006
Nancy,
Sheila told me of your loss. My family is praying for you and yours.
John and Lori Wightman
December 29, 2006
Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son and brother. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Love,
Teresa Mabry
December 29, 2006
Dear Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason
After reading all these wonderful words about Brian, I find it hard to know what else to say. Our hearts are heavy and we are saddened by this incredible loss. May you find strength in your faith and know that memories of Brian will live on in our hearts forever.
With Love,
The Mabry's
Teresa, Tyler, Chris, and Megan
Robert Henk
December 29, 2006
Dear Larry and Nancy, we are so sorry for your loss of Brian. He must have been very special. We are keeping you all in our prayers.
Sincerely,
Robert and Jennifer Henk
Marc & Kelly Tronzo
December 29, 2006
Dear Nancy and Larry,
We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You remain in our thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.
Bobby Howell
December 29, 2006
Nancy & Larry,
My extreme sympathies and condolences. I pray for our Heavenly Father & Lord Jesus to
give you comfort.
John Broocks
December 29, 2006
My deepest sympathy on your great loss.
Tony De la Fuente
December 29, 2006
Nancy and Larry,
May the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ help sustain you and your family during this difficult time of pain and sorrow. My prayers are with you.
December 29, 2006
Nancy & Larry,
Mom called to let us know what had happened. Alex and I are very sorry to hear what your family is going through.
The whole family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa and Alex Ortiz
Mark Bertuzzi
December 29, 2006
My wife and I are touched by the loss of Brian but we are also encouraged to hear about his relationship with the Lord Jesus.
Rob Smith
December 29, 2006
Dear Nancy, Larry and Family--We are so sorry about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. Take care, Lisa & Rob Smith
Ruth Keller
December 29, 2006
We cannot begin to fathom the depth of this incredible loss. We write this to express our sympathy and prayers for your family.
Mike, Ruth and Kerby Keller
David Steingreaber
December 29, 2006
Larry,
So sorry to hear about the death of your son. My heart-felt sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family. David
Jim and Jess Nelson
December 28, 2006
Larry and Nancy, My mom called tonight and let us know about Brain. Our thoughts are with you. Jim and Jess
Toni Provost-Hatlen
December 28, 2006
Larry and Nancy,
I'm holding you and your family in my heart and prayers.
God's Peace,
Toni Provost-Hatlen
Ann Breitigam
December 28, 2006
Nancy and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss of Brian. The church service was beautiful. I could see how much he was loved. Know that I am thinking of you and praying for Brian and your family.
David Thompson
December 28, 2006
Larry, Nancy and family,
Please accept my sympathy in the loss of your son Brian. All parents share a common love of their children, so know that we all have you and your family in our prayers.
Granger Anderson
December 28, 2006
Harlan Family- I can only imagine your grief and pray that the happy memories you have of Brian will help to assuage your sorrow. My sincere condolences.
Chris Pivonka
December 28, 2006
Harlan Family,
I will always be here for you along with many others that are there for you....my thoughts and prayers are with you and ur family
GODBLESS,
Chris Pivonka
Christi and Patrick Ruffing
December 28, 2006
We have you guys in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim Reid
December 28, 2006
Nancy & Larry,
I am saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
David and Jane Crawford
December 28, 2006
Dear Larry and Nancy,
My heart hurts for you both, I pray God's Mercy and Grace will get you through this time.
Marc Hanna
December 28, 2006
Larry and Nancy,
Marci's and my heart are heavy for your family in this time of deep sorrow. We are confident in God, that His love for your family will strengthen you and carry you in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Marc and Marci Hanna
Lisa Wesolick
December 28, 2006
Harlan Family,
I was so sorry to hear of loss of your son. Cole spoke very highly of him. May God's loving hands give you strength through this most difficult time.
Guy Garwick
December 28, 2006
Dear Larry and Family, Alison and I want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We lost our 18 year old son by suicide in April 2005. Please know that the Lord is with you in this difficult time.
Jim Covey
December 28, 2006
Larry & Nancy - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Brian. Having known you from years ago and from reading these notes from other friends of your family, I know he was a fine young man to be proud of, and he will be missed by many people. My thoughts and prayers will be with your family during this time of great sorrow.
Cathy Tran
December 28, 2006
Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and your family during this time and the days ahead.
Tina Fowler
December 28, 2006
My heart grieves for the loss you are experiencing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Betty Longwood
December 28, 2006
Nancy and family:
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My prayers are with you now and in the coming days. May God surround you with His presence and give you peace and comfort.
Mike & Leslie Clinchard
December 28, 2006
Nancy
We were so saddened to hear about your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Peter Boyd
December 28, 2006
Larry, please know that Dorinda and I extend our deepest sympathy to you, Nancy and your family.
You all will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers,
Beth and Chuck Thoele
December 28, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God hold you in the palm of His hand and give you stremgth anc courage.
Angela, David, Blair, Bonnie & Murron Workman
December 28, 2006
Dear Nancy, Larry and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss! We can never imagine what it must be like to lose a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Workman Family
Mike & Terri Turner
December 28, 2006
Larry, Nancy and family:
Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you. May the Lord give you strength and comfort.
Scott Soape
December 27, 2006
Dear Nancy and Larry,
Please know that Brian is at peace with Christ. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Scott and Lynda
Lisa Swiney
December 27, 2006
Larry and Nancy,
We are so sorry for your loss and are keeping your family constantly in our prayers. Your home has always been a place full of life, love, and lots of laughter. We remember Brain for his gentleness and sense of humor, and we are so grateful for the privilege of knowing him. We love you all--Larry, Lisa, Tyler, and Chase Swiney
Hank Alford
December 27, 2006
Larry and Nancy,
Cindy and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Hank and Cindy Alford
Texas Sigma
December 27, 2006
I never met your son, and only hear of his passing through a friend, but was saddend, as a fellow SigEp, it always hurts to hear a brother has fallen, your family is in my thoughts and hope that the lord comforts you in this time.
Tom Reichert
December 27, 2006
Dear Larry,
I am shocked and saddened by your loss. I did not know your son. If he was anything like you (and the picture shows a remarkable resemblance), then he was quite a wonderful person. I send you my deepest sympathy.
Steve & Suzanne Bryson
December 27, 2006
Larry & Nancy - May God give you strength and comfort at this time. Your family is in our prayers.
Bill and Kit Whitehill
December 27, 2006
Larry, Nancy and Family
We are sorry to learn of your loss. Please know that your are in our thoguhts and prayers.
Sylvia Gibson
December 27, 2006
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May God bless you and may your hearts be filled with happy memories.
Kara Crumpler
December 27, 2006
Nancy
I know how hard it is to lose a loved one, but please know that Brian is in a better place with the Lord. Your family will always be in my prayers.
Michael Brennan
December 27, 2006
Larry:
From the Brennan Family, our deepest condolences. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Michael, Noemy, Joseph and Sean Brennan
Rick Sullivan
December 27, 2006
Nancy and Larry,
Our hearts go out to you and your family, you are, and will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Ellen Wilhelm Lindsay
December 27, 2006
Larry and Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious son. My prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time! With Deep Sympathy
Tammy (Holder) Ahrendt
December 27, 2006
Nancy, my heart & prayers go out to you & your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. May God keep watch over you & your family to ease the pain in your lives & hearts.
Stephanie Pill
December 27, 2006
Larry, Nancy, and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never met Brian, that he was your son is enough for me to know he must have been an incredible young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your grief be brief and may your memories of how he lived linger on and bring you peace and joy. Sincerely, Stephanie Pill (formerly Stahlman-Benner)
Doug & Mary Jo Schroeder
December 27, 2006
Nancy and Larry,
Our thoughts and our prayers go out to you and your family. May Brian be at peace in the arms of the Lord and may He also ease your sorrow and pain. Our deepest sympathies.
Mary Jane Poorman
December 27, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jane Fritschle
December 27, 2006
Nancy,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your son, Brian. While there are no words I can offer to ease your sorrow, I pray God brings you and your family comfort and peace during this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy Young
December 27, 2006
Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Young's
Mike,Kathy,Judson,Tiffany & P.J.
John Carl and family
December 27, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Diane Saleme
December 27, 2006
Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine what you are going through. Your sorrow is weighing heavy on the hearts of my family and I. We are praying for you and your family during this time.
God Bless You,
Diane Saleme and Family
Mary Jane Latimer
December 27, 2006
Dear Larry,Nancy,Kendall,Kyle and Jason
Jim,Michael,Meg and I have felt such sadness since we heard the news. Brian was a joy to grow up with and always brought a smile to our faces. Jim always called him "the thinker" while coaching him in baseball and always enjoyed him as a team member. My faith tells me that he is in a better place now and we are so sorry for you lost. We are always here for yall when needed. Peace be with you
Sincerely,
Jim, Mary Jane, Michael and Meg Latimer
Dan Mraz
December 27, 2006
Nancy,
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life (John 3:16). My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Randy, Sara, Adam, Megan Ortwein
December 27, 2006
Dear Larry, Nancy and Family -- we are deeply saddened by the loss of Brian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Janie Soley
December 27, 2006
Nancy, Larry, Kendall, Kyle & Jason,
Brian was such a special person. He had such an easy-going nature and was so much fun to be around. It's so hard to believe he's not here. Please know how much we love your family and want to support you through this time of sorrow.
James Barnes
December 27, 2006
Larry,
You have my deepest sympathy for your loss of Brian. It is not much consolation, but with time grieving over the loss of a child will ease. You are in my prayers.
Lana Nixon
December 27, 2006
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Deedra & Tim Moe
December 27, 2006
Larry & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time...may your memories bring you comfort and eventually peace.
Brent McDaniel
December 27, 2006
Dear Nancy & Larry - My heart and thoughts are with you and your family.
Tom and Cathy Miller
December 27, 2006
"In my anguish, I cried to the Lord,and he answered by setting me free. The Lord is with me;I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? The Lord is with me; he is my helper." (Psalm 118:5-7) Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason: May God bless you in your time of sorrow.
Catherine Wells
December 27, 2006
Larry, Nancy, Kendall, Kyle and Jason. We were deeply saddened to hear about Brian. He was a happy, smiling young man who always shared his humor with those around him. He will be missed by so many people whose lives he touched. Our hearts are opened to you and our prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Walter, Cathy, Lauren and Lindsey Wells
Frank & Debbie Robinson
December 27, 2006
Larry & Nancy,
Debbie and I are so sorry to hear the sad news of your great loss. I know that nothing anyone may say at a time like this can lessen your grief, but we are praying that you will soon find comfort in the high regard everyone had for Brian and his accomplishments and his love for Jesus Christ. May the peace of the Lord be with you and your family during this time and always.
Sincerely,
Ellen Eakin
December 27, 2006
Larry and Nancy:
Know that I know your the depth of your loss and your grief.
Our sons are at peace. We will hold them again. Of this I am sure.
Stacy, Mark, Jared & Kyle Durham
December 27, 2006
Nancy, Larry and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss and our hearts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow. May your wonderful memories and joyous times with Brian help to comfort you in the days ahead.
Bob Kleiderer
December 27, 2006
Larry, Nancy and Family,
We are deeply saddened at the loss of Brian. We have been praying and our thoughts have been on you during this period. We are blessed that we knew him.
In Sympathy,
The Kleiderer Family
Earnestine Williams
December 27, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
John R. Irish
December 27, 2006
Larry,
There are no words that I can say to console you during this time.
I offer my prayers and my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
HFF. John R. Irish
Cullen and Carolee Aderhold
December 27, 2006
We are so sorry to hear about Brian. We will keep you in our thoughts in the days ahead.
Steve Pryor
December 27, 2006
Nancy and Larry, I am so deeply saddened for your loss. I have often thought about what incredibly loving parents you both are. Our children ultimately belong to the lord...His love covers all our losses and His care continues. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl DiGregorio
December 27, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joey and Gloria Froman
December 27, 2006
We are so so sorry for this huge loss!! We will be praying for you and your family.
Paul Nielsen
December 27, 2006
Larry and Nancy, I know you are heartbroken and share your grief. You may be aware that I lost my wife Shannon on Sept 29. It's been a tough year. I am thinking of your family and praying for you. Paul
Barbara Beard
December 27, 2006
Nancy, words cannot express how sorry I am for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Selena Plentl
December 27, 2006
Nancy, my heart goes out to you and your family. Please accept my deepest condolences at this very sad time. God bless you and yours.
Laura Westcott
December 27, 2006
Nancy,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Laura Kinney Westcott
Kelly Webb
December 27, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denise Young
December 27, 2006
Your Family is in my prayers and thoughts.
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