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CHARLES WM. PATRONELLA 1933 - 2007 Charles Wm. Patronella, age 74, a retired architect, contractor, and real estate developer died Wednesday, April 11, 2007. He was a native Houstonian and a graduate of Texas A&M University, Class of 1954. Upon graduation, he served as a Lieutenant in U.S. Army as an Intelligence Officer in Frankfurt, Germany until 1958. He served on numerous professional, educational and fraternal boards; including Contractors Association of America, Incarnate Word Academy of Houston, the Italian/American Federation of Houston and the Sacred Heart Society of Little York. Survivors are: Antoinette Sedita Patronella, his wife of 53 years; Carrie Brocco Patronella, mother, 95; his brother Dr. Jerry "Sluggo" Loving, and wife, Arlene; and his four sons, Anthony Patronella, II, and wife, Mary Sue; Christopher Patronella, M.D. and wife, Roseanne; Mark Patronella and wife, Maureen; Michael Patronella and wife, Allyson Patronella, M.D. He is also survived by his twelve grandchildren, Kecia, Michelle, Brittany, Christopher, Jr., Nicholas, Justin, Anthony "Trey", III, Gabriella, Domenic, Damian, Rachel, Vanessa, numerous other relatives; and loving and caring friend, Lisa Francis and special caregivers Valerie Harris and Myra Velasquez. Charles was always ready and willing to provide counsel and advice to anyone who asked and many who did not. Your love for us was always constant, your devotion never wavered, and your selflessness by always putting your sons first was unsurpassed. Dad, thanks for your unrelenting pursuit of our education, the discipline you demanded of all of us and the wisdom you had to make it all work. This was the noblest Roman of them all. His life was gentle. The elements so mixed in him that nature might stand up and say to all the world, "This was a man." William Shakespeare Serving as pallbearers will be Christopher Patronella, Jr., Nicholas Patronella, Anthony "Trey" Patronella, III, Justin Patronella, Greg Palermo, Steve Palermo, Sammy Palermo and Jimmy Burnett. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to St. Thomas High School, 4500 Memorial Drive, Houston, Texas 77007, or Incarnate Word Academy, 609 Crawford, Houston, Texas 77002. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from five o'clock in the afternoon until eight o'clock in the evening on Saturday, the 14th of April and two o'clock in the afternoon until eight o'clock in the evening on Sunday, the 15th of April with a Wake/Eulogy Service starting at half past six o'clock on Sunday with Rosary to follow in the Jasek Chapel of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive, Houston, Texas 77057. Funeral mass will be celebrated at twelve o'clock noon on Monday, the 16th of April at St. Christopher Catholic Church, 8150 Park Place, Houston, Texas 77061. Rite of Committal to follow at Forest Park Lawndale Cemetery.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Apr. 13 to Apr. 14, 2007.

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Markey Thacker Burrows

April 17, 2007

Dear Antoinette and family,
I was saddened to hear of Charles'death and sorry I couldn't be at the services.
May you be at peace and know you are in my prayers.

Che & Tim Herron

April 16, 2007

Michael, Allyson and the Patonella Family,
Please know that our family is thinking about you and you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. We know that your father was a great man, and he must have been so proud to have such a wonderful family.

Janette (Jan) Bacon

April 15, 2007

Our sincere condolences to you, Antoinette, and your family. You are remembered in our prayers.

Sincerely,
Janette & Bill Bacon

Damon Sedita

April 15, 2007

Dear Antoinette and Family
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of you loved one and my dear friend Charles I so enjoyed talking to him when ever we met and I know that he is in the hands of the lord for he spoke of his love for Christ often and always

Charles & Karen Campise

April 14, 2007

Michael and family,
We were so very sorry to hear that your dad had passed away. He was such a wonderful and special person and we are glad to have such fun memories of him. I (Karen) will never forget the camera man at all of the sporting events and in later years the
"Oh! Your the cheerleader" comment whenever I saw your dad.

We will miss him and our thoughts and prayers are with you all,
Charles and Karen

Magdalene Kowis

April 14, 2007

Dear Antoinette and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your demise. I have not seen you in years..as we graduated in 1953...maybe you will remember me. I lost my husband 17 years age and there is not a day that goes by where he is not remembered. You and your family will be remembered in my prayers
God Bless All Of You.
Magdalene Kowis

Sue Pellegrino Wolf

April 13, 2007

Dear Antonette and Family
We are so sorry to hear about Charles. Our prayers are with you all. Herb and Charles were lifelong friends - from little grade school classmates all the way through Texas A&M. What great memories they have. Charles was such a Gentleman - always said "I love you". He loved all his friends so much. He was very sick these last few years, but he always had a smile on his face and important things to share with all of us at Patrenella's Restaurant. It was always a joy to see him. Now he is with God. We will see him again -- later. He will have more important things to tell us then - and we will listen.

Sue and Herb Wolf

Sam & Terese (Ancona) Raia

April 13, 2007

Dear Antonette and the Patronella family.
Terese and I want to convey our sympathy for the lost of Charles. We know the suffering he went through and how devoted you were to his care. We also know the Lord will bless you both because of these conditions. I also want you to know that Charles was our buddy for many years and he will be missed

April 13, 2007

DEAR ANTONETTE....PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY IN THE LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
MARY AND MARION AQUILINA

Lela Gilchriest

April 13, 2007

Dr. Patronella and Family:

We are so sorry to hear about the death of your dad. Please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,
Lela Cascio Gilchriest
Doris Cascio

Lynn Mandola

April 13, 2007

Dear Antoinette and Family,

May God be with all of you at this time. My heart goes out to you and your family, and I know God will hold all of you in the palm of his hands. Words cannot descripe the hurt you all are going through. I will always remember the fun times we spent together. I am praying for you and your family. He never leaves or forsakes us.

God Bless,

CAROLYN MILBY

April 13, 2007

DEAR ANTHONY AND MRS. PATRONELLA:
MY HEART IS HEAVY AS I READ OF THE DEATH OF YOUR DEAR HUSBAND AND FATHER. HE WAS ONE OF MY FAVORITE INSURED'S AND I ALWAYS ENJOYED HEARING HIS VOICE. HE WILL BE MISSED BY OUR AGENCY. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND GIVE YOU PEACE.
CAROLYN MILBY - INSTEX INSURANCE AGENCY

April 13, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS THE FAMILY AND GIVE THEM STRENGTH DURING THIS LOSS. HE WILL BE MISSED HERE AT INSTEX INSURANCE AGENCY. DORIS JONES-HOUSTON, TEXAS.

Antoinette Rao Mattaliano

April 13, 2007

My deepest sympathy, love Antoinette Rao Mattaliano

Diane Engbrock-White

April 13, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

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