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Gretchen Stinson (Hurt)
February 18, 2011
I wish I'd known this online guest book was here sooner. I apologize for the timing of my sentiments, but I wish to express them even in their lateness.
To Jan and to all of Dan's children-I know there's no need to tell you what a good man your husband/father was. You know it yourselves, and through the expressions of so many others. But I do wish to express that I will always hold my time with you all at the ranch near and dear to my heart.
As an assistant chef and house manager there, and living on the property, my time there made up some of my favorite memories. Now that I've married, and had a little one, I often think back to the time I've spent there, and cherished not only the beautiful land, but also the beautiful man that created the ranch itself.
I was always struck by the story of his growing up years, and of how he made his own way in life, and MADE himself who he was. Most that make it the distance in business that he did can not say that. I ran an after school program for at risk youth after I left the ranch. I often used Dan's story of coming up in hard times, only to work hard and make a life for himself, to motivate the kids to "DO THEIR BEST EVERY DAY" (as Dan was known for saying).
What has stayed with me the most was the fact he managed to remain a good-hearted, honest, hard-working, down to earth individual, who could be made happy with a simple country breakfast or a bowl of home made blackberry cobbler. A man that could have had anything he wanted, but still enjoyed the simple life at home with his family whenever he got the chance. I know he will be missed.
Betty Jukes
June 12, 2010
Our love and condolences to Jan and to the family. Dan had much and gave much to the city of Houston.
Love to all.
Betty and Harr Jukes
Agnes Duncan Koch
April 28, 2010
Our grandfather's were brothers and we shared a great grandfather - the famous Charlie Duncan. Unfortunately, we were never acquainted after early childhood, but I'm very proud to be of the same family as Dan Duncan. My thoughts go out to his wife and children.
Tim Connolly
April 19, 2010
I lost my personal hero when Dan Duncan died suddenly at age 77. Dan was the founder and driving force of Enterprise Products Partners, one of the largest pipeline companies in the world. He started Enterprise with a truck, a trailer, and $10,000 of hard earned savings from his work in the oil patch. However, as extraordinary as this accomplishment is, this is not why I call him a hero. Dan was raised by his grandparents, having lost both his mother and brother at an early age. I shared this same background growing up, and somehow perhaps it was this shared experience of growing up that caused us to become friends, and me to have the benefit of him as a mentor. Dan learned the virtue of hard work and a simple, straightforward philosophy early in life, that he repeated to me more than once. “Always do the best you can every day”. No matter what I was dealing with, regardless of how daunting the situation, his earnest message held me in good stead, to stay focused, do the right thing, and to “do my best every day. ”Jan and I last saw him at dinner with his wife Jan not long ago, and he was his typical affable, unpretentious personality, who made time for me to have lunch with him and talk, about business, about giving, or just about life in general. He had a sense of awe, appreciation and gratitude for everyone around him, and I always felt he was completely present to whatever we were doing or talking about, never looking around for a higher profile person in the room, or a more valuable relationship to be with. Dan Duncan was the epitome of what life is all about, leaving the legacy of a man who deeply cared about others, who succeeded in life through honest dealings and hard work, and who made his mark by leaving this world a better place. Dan’s generosity to Baylor Medical School, the Houston Museum of Natural Science, and many other beneficiaries too numerous to mention is dwarfed by one very powerful fact of his life—Dan was a hero, and we loved him and will deeply miss him. Thank you, Dan, for making my life a richer, more meaningful experience with the gift of your presence, and I will honor you the rest of my life by always doing the best I can every day.
Evelyn Verner
April 15, 2010
Jan, I send condolences, love, and prayers. Being a descendant of Lewis Duncan b. ca 1770 of SC & TN, & Hamilton L Duncan b. 1806, and his daughter, Narcissia Elizabeth Duncan who maried Ross Dye, I would have loved to have known Dan and to know you. I experienced being a grieving widow. I'm thankful to God for Dan's life. Evelyn Lawson Meeks Verner of TN and now Center, TX
He will be missed @ Enterprise
Joy Cheathem
April 11, 2010
I used to work at Enterprise products, as a temp. I used to see Mr. Duncan everyday and he would walk the halls and talk with you. He was a lovely man. I will never forget, when his wife introduced him to pink shirts. I told him how good he looked and he was so glad, because she had bought him three of them. He was a very kind and approachable guy. He will be missed as a challenge in the oil/gas industry. He was a pioneer. He will be missed. I am glad, I had the awesome pleasure of working in his company and chatting with him on occasion.
james verrett
April 6, 2010
to the family of mr dan duncan
i was saden to hear about your lost
my prayers go out to you all
April 6, 2010
Jan,as former parishioners of St. Theresa in the Park, James and I would like to express the pleasure we had in seeing you and Dan at mass and tell you that we were so sorry to hear of his death. We have retired to Freeport, Tx. We are having masses said for Dan at Holy Name Retreat and pray for you the comfort of Our Lord. Love James and Martha Davis
Lillian Dye
April 6, 2010
Mrs. Duncan,
My Mother Lillian Dye would like to send her deepest condolences. She has many fond memories of you and Mr. Duncan during the time Maggie worked with you.Our family wishes you peace with all of your fond memories..Mr. Duncan was truly an inspiration to all.. He will be missed.
Lillian Dye
Juanita Tristan
April 6, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the Duncan Family. I had only seen Mr. Duncan a few times when he was officed at the North Loop Complex but each time he was quick to greet and flash a big warm smile. I hope that the outpouring of the warm memories of Mr. Duncan give you strength and comfort in the days ahead. May he rest in peace.
Juanita Tristan, ETC
April 6, 2010
I am saddened to hear about Mr. Duncan. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My son and I had the privledge of meeting Mr. Duncan during a "Special Hunt". Dan gave my son the opportunity to do something I can honestly say my son would have never had the opportunity to do. Throughout the hunt Dan was kind, caring, supportive, and truly wanted to know that the kids and their family were having a great time. He opened his ranch home and guest home to us. My son, Ethan, was so excited. He is very proud of his Black Hawaiian Sheep. Mr. Duncan was so proud he had it fully mounted. Wow, unbelievable, my son tells everyone about his hunt and his sheep. Again, he would have never had the experience if it wasn't for Dan's kindness. Thank you Dan, you will be greatlly missed. Ethan said this morning, " I will do what Mr. Duncan said, I will do my best every day."
My Deepest Sympathy,
Rosalie Brillon
Barbara Wolbrink
April 6, 2010
There are no words to express my sorrow. I have known Dan since 1992 and have always admired his warmth and acceptance of everyone he came in contact with over these years. My heart goes out to fhe entire Duncan family and may the peace of God be with you all.
April 6, 2010
To the Duncan Family,
Mr. Duncan was a good man,. He was nice to all of us. He helped kids like me to learn to hunt. I was happy when he let me go to the Special Needs Hunt. Now he is an angel in heaven like he was here on earth. I will always remember him and his kindness.
Love,
Ethan Brillon
gerald and margaret warnock
April 6, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
FEDERICO SADA G.
April 5, 2010
WE WILL ALWAYS REMEBER YOU FOR YOUR GREAT HEART
LILIANA & FEDERICO SADA
2010 Weatherby Dinner
Betsy Wandtke
April 5, 2010
Dan was someone I admired ever since meeting him several years ago. When I started working with the Weatherby Foundation I had a chance to really get to know him. His smile lit up the room. He knew how to make people feel good about themselves and what they did. He was soft spoken, but was a very wise man and Dan was always there when I needed him. This January, when I would see him at our Weatherby Foundation banquet I noticed how much fun he was having and how many interactions he had with people. It made me smile just watching him. He will be deeply missed for so many reasons.
Another of Mr D's Gifts to his community!
Freddilee Howell
April 5, 2010
Though I’ve been an EPCO employee for 4 years, I never had the privilege of meeting Mr. Duncan. Even so, he impressed me with his wise management of the company and his and Mrs. Duncan’s influential philanthropy. Mr. D epitomized the self-made American, and I strive to do my best work for his Enterprise. Deepest condolences to the Duncan family.
Sara Dye
April 5, 2010
Mrs. Duncan,
I am saddened to hear of the loss of your husband Dan Duncan..He was a kind gentle man....He inspired me and was so kind to my family...My thought and prayers are with you and your family..
April 5, 2010
Mrs. Duncan,
I am so sorry for your loss and please know you are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Patricia Hannah
member of St. Theresa's Catholic Church
John Wythe Fain II
April 5, 2010
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
It is always too soon to lose a parent.
He was a good one, too!
April 4, 2010
Jan:
We love you so much, and are so saddened by your many losses of late. We have offered up prayers and graces for you, Dan, and all family and friends!
Love,
Amy and Jason
larry muse
April 4, 2010
A good man! He lived a fine "DASH"! RIP sir!
Herb Chambers IV
April 3, 2010
My only meeting with Mr. Duncan was at a meet and greet type meeting after Enterprise had acquired the company I worked for. When he saw my name on my name tag he mentioned that he had heard of me and that he knew who I was. It was truely a humbling moment. His kindness and his focus regarding business will always be inspiring too me. I wish his family all the best in this difficult time.
Don Giles
April 3, 2010
On behalf on Don Giles and Family
"Jan I was shocked, and greatly saddened by the news of Dan's passing. He was a great man and a very good friend of mine. My family and I extend our sympathy to you and the family. I am sorry that I will be unable to attend the memorial services, since I am recovering from a recnt operation. My thoughts and prayers and love will be with you." Don Giles and Family
Michael J. Newsome
April 2, 2010
I met Mr. Duncan last year. We talked for only a short time, but I could tell he was a hard working man with a good heart. At the time I met him I had no idea who he was, He asked me what I was doing in the building, I laughted and said I did not know...it is a very safe building, that's when he smiled (he owned the building) :-).....That's the type of gentleman he was. Later I learned his moto of "do the best you can everyday"..funny my life is better for doing that in small ways. Later I met a hospice nurse when my Mom was dying of brain cancer in December, who knew the family and another man I had the chance to meet, Dr. Michael DeBakey. To the family. I want you to know that I am happy to meet your loved one, we all must go that way, Big Dan had an impression on me, I will try to do my best every day, He told me he loved the Houston Police Department and told me to take care of myself for my family. I hope the family keeps big Dan in their hears forever. Mike Newsome (Houston)
Irma Ellison
April 2, 2010
Jan,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and the family during this most difficlut time. Know that you are not alone during this most difficult time.
God Bless you and the family
Irma Ellison
Kathie & Bill Waldheim
April 2, 2010
Dan was an humble, extraordinary man with a heart the size of Texas. So many fond memories at the Double D together. He has most definately left an imprint on our heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort you in your loss.
Harold Boyd
April 2, 2010
The Boyd Family sends our condolences for your lost one . He was a very good man and a father and husband. He will be miss by everyone.
Sue Boy
April 2, 2010
The Boyd Family sends our condolences for your lost one . He was a very good man and a father and husband. He will be miss by everyone.
Betty Duncan
April 1, 2010
Jan & Dan names that fit perfectly together. Dan, was my husband's (Charles Gaylon Duncan)second cousin they played as children together. It had been my husband's intent to meet up with Dan once again.
Jan, may God hold your hand, through
out this ordeal and the future days ahead. God be with you and your family,
until you see Dan once again.
Love to each member in your family.
Betty Duncan
Les & Gayle Maxey
April 1, 2010
Tho' difficult today to see beyond sorrow, May memories of the heart help comfort your tomorrow's.
Our sympathies to the family.
April 1, 2010
Dan will be missed dearly by all his friends. Sam and I shared many laughs with Dan. Our thoughts and prayers are with Jan and family. Sam and Judy Rhodes - Dallas
Vicki Howison
April 1, 2010
Please accept my condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Maggi Brown
April 1, 2010
My condolences to the family. I worked at Enterprise 22 years ago and remember Dan always had a smile on his face.
Leonard A. Trahan Jr.
April 1, 2010
My family and I were invited to his ranch outside Lagrange Tx. for a
special hunt. I would like to thank the family and Dan is a great man now in Heaven.
Leonard A. Trahan Jr.
Denise Trahan
Leonard A. Trahan III
April 1, 2010
A humble honorable man who lived his life to the fullest to glorify Christ.
JRJ
April 1, 2010
A very humble man who lived his life to the fullest.
March 31, 2010
Dear Mrs Duncan, my heart goes out to you and your children. I will forever be thankful to Mr Duncan and you for the hospitality and generosity you bestowed upon us at our time of need and sorrow during our Jae's passing. Our prayers will always be with you.
Gloria Flores and Children, Corpus Christi, Texas
Cassandra Olmstead
March 31, 2010
Jan, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Dan was a very gentle, kind, and generous man and you were both blessed to have found each other. May your love for each other continue throughout the eternities.
Angie Wiggins
March 31, 2010
I never met Mr. Duncan but have heard many, many amazing stories on how he touched the lives of countless others. His generosity and goodwill to others will surely be missed. My sympathies to his family.
Bobbye Adams
March 31, 2010
Jan...been thinking about you constantly and praying for God's peace during what must be a very difficult time for you. What a great man Dan was and what a great partner in life you found! God continue to bless you with His grace and peace.
Bobbye Daves Adams (formerly of Baton Rouge and neighbor to your Nannie Ellis)
Meghan
March 31, 2010
First and foremost I want to offer our condolences to the Duncan family. Our prayers are with you. In the time I have worked at Enterprise, every encounter I had with Mr. Duncan was pleasent, courteous , and never belittling. Mr. Duncan had a heart the size of Texas, and he will be greatly missed.
Thank you Mr. Duncan
Velma Myles
March 31, 2010
May you always remember the life, and kind spirit of, "One of a Kind".
March 31, 2010
I never knew Dan, but I knew of him. He was a remarkable man who enriched and touched the lives of an entire city. He will be GREATLY missed by many.
Ray Gutierrez
March 31, 2010
Jan,I join in your Sorrow and I know you will miss Dan,just remember that God gave you Dan to enjoy and build your lives together. Remember the Good times,They will always be with you .Dan has inspired and helped many people, his legacy will continue and your legacy is just begining.Keep your smile ,this is where it begins
Thank you Dan
Ray Gutierrez
Don Farrell
March 31, 2010
My wife and I offer our condolences to the Duncan family and will keep you in our prayers. After working in Mr. Duncan's company for nearly 11 years I will miss his guidance and leadership.
Jo Anne (Sheriff) Schrock
March 31, 2010
Jan and family, my condolences to you and your family. Mr. Duncan will be missed by so many people that were fond of him. My prayers are with you.
Diane Stephens
March 31, 2010
I always found Dan Duncan to be a wonderful gentlemen. His wit, his intelligence and his zest for life will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
John & Beverly Mattern
March 31, 2010
Jan: May God bless Dan this day and forever. He is such a wonderful man who supported the Friends of St. Theresa in all that we tried to accomplish to help St. Theresa School. May God also comfort and bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Kathy Carroll
March 31, 2010
Our sympathy goes out to all of you at this time. Dan was a great man and admired by many. I appreciated the type of business he did with the moral values and good common sense deals for both sides. He will be missed. Kathy and Bill Carroll
Trini Mendenhall Sosa
March 31, 2010
Dear Jan,
My deepest condolences. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this sad time.
May God grant you peace, strength and may God bless you and his family.
Dan was a special man!
March 31, 2010
Dan touched a lot of lives, and mine was one of them. I will miss not knowing that he is with us. My sympathy goes out to his family in this time of their grief. Mike Brown (Houston, Texas)
March 31, 2010
Jan, our hearts hurt for you and your family during this very sad time. Dan was such a wonderful man and he will be so very missed. We send our love and pray that God gives you comfort and strength.
Connie and Clayton Cooke - Houston, Texas
Phil Allen
March 31, 2010
I worked with Dan, Monty, and Bill Ray at Wanda Petroleum in the early sixties. I have fond memories of that time and I learned to highly respect Dan for his business skills. Dan was the sharpest businessman I have ever known. I still own shares in EPD because I knew if Dan was involved I was with a winner. I am so proud to have known him and what a story I still tell to this day about his journey from humble beginnings to his successes. Dan earned it all, fair and square. Eloise and I will miss him and remember him all of our days. God bless all of his family.
Beth Lee
March 31, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family at this sad time. Dan was special to so many people. He was greatly loved by all of his family in Shelby County. Any news of him was always shared with everyone with much joy and admiration. We love him and will miss him.
Brenda Pearson
March 31, 2010
He will be so missed. I can remember when Mom married Clifford and I was welcomed into the family. He nevered showed a difference toward me as any other member of the family. He was witty, charming, and truly one of the best men I knew. So full of life it is hard to believe he is gone. God bless you all and I will keep you in my prayers.
Brenda Pearson
Tarneasha Robbins
March 31, 2010
My family would like to send our condolences during this time of grief. Dan Duncan will be greatly missed.
Rufus Lewis
March 31, 2010
My deepest sympathies. I will forever miss Dan Duncan.
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