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Julie Henderson
April 30, 2025
Happy Late Birthday... Hope your having a blast. We all still miss you down here. Love you
Grandma
April 30, 2025
Happy 36th birthday in heaven Derrek, grandma loves and misses you so much especially your laughter and giggles your personality and just everything about you. You were special all the way around.
Sherri Murray
April 29, 2025
Happy Birthday in Heaven Derrek. You would be 36 today and I can only imagine the wonderful man you would have become. We will meet again in our Heavenly Fathers Kingdom and shall dwell with the Lord forever.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
Julie
December 25, 2024
Merry Christmas Love you
Sherri Murray
December 24, 2024
Merry Christmas to you and Grandpa, Derrek. I miss you so much and my grief is still so raw at times that I cannot believe you are gone. You always did light up the room with your joy of just everyday life and your kindness knew no bounds. We still think of you daily and talk of you often. I miss you and Grandpa so very much and look forward to one day holding you again.
Merry Christmas Derrek.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
Grandma
April 30, 2024
Grandma misses you all the time. You were always laughing or giggling about something, you were happy. you had a twinkle in your eye like grandpa. And it didn´t take a lot to make you happy Derrek. You were always fun to be around and you enjoyed yourself a lot when grandma thinks about you she remembers you happy. Love you.
Sherri Murray
April 29, 2024
Happy Birthday Derrek. Words cannot describe how deeply you are missed by all that knew you.
Love,
Aunt Sherri

Julie Henderson
April 28, 2024
Happy Birthday
Julie Henderson
December 26, 2023
Miss you
Sherri Murray
December 24, 2023
Merry Christmas in Heaven Derrek.
We all miss you and Grandpa so very much. That song, 'who would you be today", was written for the young like you. A beautiful life that ended too soon. I no longer fear death like I did before losing you. I know that you are waiting for me. That is God's promise to us.
Months after you were gone, I was still so very angry with God. One late night while I was driving home from work, I heard Jesus speak to my heart. He and asked me, "Do you think you loved him more than me"? He asked me this twice. Then I had this peace come over me. This warm comfort I had not felt in months. And I knew. I knew you were in his loving arms and in his home. A home he built for us.
I love you like my own and have from the moment you were born. I still do. I hold on to the last time we saw each other. When you kissed me goodbye on my cheek Christmas night then walked out the door with your friends. You always had so many friends.
Hug Grandpa for me.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
Sherri Murray
December 24, 2021
Merry Christmas in Heaven Derrek. We miss you so very much.
I know that you and Grandpa are together again and will great us with loving hugs when it is time to join you both. Two sweeter souls, I have never known. God broke the mold when he made you.....you were just perfect in so many different ways. Just like Grandpa.
I love and miss you so.
Aunt Sherri
Jeanle Stephenson
December 24, 2021
Grandma loves you and misses you everyday. I can still see your smile and hear that special laugh you had. I know you´re with Grandpa, You and Grandpa always had a special bond. I remember when Grandpa would get sick you would always take care of him and want to be with him. Grandpa would always say Derrek my man is here now. you would give Grandpa a hug and that grin you always had. Love and miss you so much, Grandma
Sherri Murray
December 24, 2020
Merry Christmas Derrek,
I know that you are with Grandpa and I look forward to seeing you both again one day.
I can only imagine Grandpa's joy to see you and hold you in his loving arms. You both were such a blessing to our family and are missed each and every day.
We love and miss you,
Aunt Sherri
Jean Mullins
April 28, 2017
Happy Birthday Derrek. Grandma loves you and misses you and Grandpa everyday. You would have become a great man like Grandpa had you only had the chance. I will visit you again today, tomorrow and everyday like I always have.
Love,
Grandma
SHERRI Murray
April 28, 2017
Happy Birthday to you Derrek. I know you are taking care of Grandpa now and I know that you are both in the loving arms of God. Two of the most tender, beautiful souls I have ever loved.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
September 28, 2016
I want to thank Krystal and Julie for never forgetting what a wonderful friend Derrek was. He was so wonderful to be around and such a blessing to know and love.
Thank you for your messages.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
julie bass
September 26, 2016
Miss you.. Love you fly high sweetheart
krystal o
September 23, 2016
Always missing your friendship
December 26, 2015
My Sweet Derrek,
Tomorrow will be 10 years since you went to Heaven. I still miss you everyday and I continue to wonder at all you would have become. Steven's wife, Rachel, will have their baby girl tomorrow on your Heaven Day. Please watch over her as I could only hope and pray that she is as sweet as you always were. You were always my favorite baby, so loving and precious the way you would cuddle up. I miss those fat baby cheeks of yours. I miss your hugs and kisses goodbye. You were everything to your mom. You meant everything to this family.
With love and kisses,
Aunt Sherri
When I see you again and can hug you close, I will never let go.
Sherri Murray
April 29, 2015
Derrek, you are 26 years old today. We love you and miss you so very much. You would have been the best father and husband had you ever had the chance. You were the best nephew and such a joy to be around.
I love and miss you.
Happy Birthday
Aunt Sherri, Grandma and Grandpa.
April 29, 2015
Happy Birthday Derrek! I miss you everyday. Love you baby.
Aunt Gina
Gina
December 27, 2014
Derrek,
It's been 9yrs today that you went to heaven. We all miss you so much. We will all be together again one day.
Love you baby,
Aunt Gina
Julie Bass
April 18, 2014
We love and miss you so much your a angel and living life so sweet and loving now please tell my baby girl I love her when you see her I miss both of yall so much love you
Sherri Murray
December 27, 2013
Derrek,
We miss you so very much. 8 years, seems like an eternity since we hugged. So much you have missed in this world. We will all be together again one day.
I Love You,
Aunt Sherri
krystal Ostrewich
April 30, 2013
We miss you..
Sherri Murray
April 30, 2013
Happy Birthday Derrek. We all miss you so very much. I wish that you could watch Kaylob play baseball. He is so much like you, always on the go and wanting to do something. He even cleans for Grandma....LOL
Love,
Aunt Sherri
Denise Ebert
April 29, 2013
Happy 24th Birthday. We love you and miss you very much. I think of you everyday and wish you were still here with us.
Britney delk
April 10, 2013
I love and miss you! i wish i could see you and i wish kalob could meet you! its so hard watching him grow and he is alot like you
December 27, 2012
It's been 7 years and I still feel like it was yesterday...I love and miss you my sweet baby boy!!!!
Britney Delk
October 31, 2012
HAPPY HOLLOWEEN DERREK!! i miss you so much and think about you all the time! just still is not real to me that your gone. its so hard. i wish you were here to watch kalob grow. he is almost 4. i cant wait to see your face again!
Love your sister
April 29, 2012
Happy Birthday Derrek,I miss you so much. Love you baby.
Aunt Gina
Britney Delk
April 29, 2012
Happy 23rd birthday Derrek!!! I love and miss you like crazy! kalob is growing to look just like you! we have told him all about you and show him all your pictures! he always tells me Derreks in heaven.. i know your watching over us.. please keep us safe and watch over kalob. we love you. xoxo
Love Always, your baby sister
Denise Ebert
April 29, 2012
Happy 23rd Birthday baby...I think about you and miss you everyday..
Love you forever, Mamma
April 28, 2012
I miss you baby. Happy birthday honey...I love you so much.
Aunt Sherri
Krystal ostrewich
January 29, 2012
Just wanted to say hey. :) How's Big man G? hehe. :) Miss you. <3
krystal ostrewich
May 1, 2011
Hey buddy!
=] How are you!? As you can see, I'm doing much better! ;) Thanks for helping me keep my head up. I still have the picture we colored together in class. & it keeps my head up cause I know you expect more from me. Miss you so much.
Much love to you and your family <3
Denise Ebert
April 24, 2011
Time doesn't heal all wounds....I miss you still and my heart aches everyday for you. I love you so much Derrek.
Amy Graham
December 27, 2010
Derek - Your so missed and loved. Keep them arms around your momma she sure misses you. :) love you boy! Always...
Denise Ebert
December 27, 2010
Hey baby, It's been 5 yrs today since you went to heaven. I still miss you like it was yesterday. Christmas and other holidays just aren't the same without you. We'll be together again one day.
I love you! Mamma
Denise Ebert
November 1, 2010
Hey baby yesterday was Halloween and I missed you so much! I know how you loved this time of year. Your nephew trick or teated and he was so cute!
I love you and miss you, Momma
krystal ostrewich
October 28, 2010
Miss you
Krystal Ostrewich
September 23, 2010
Hey, the picture we colored, I only still have it cause, I jacked it off the wall in class. lol. The teach tried to keep it. NOPE. MINE! Lol. Miss you! So, going back home.....to nothing, but its for the best right now. oh and i know you saw me get baptised! lol that was crazy.. I'll ttul okay, see you soon buddy
krystal ostrewich
May 1, 2010
Happy birthday. yeah its late im sorry. lol. forgive. so im sure you have seen wats goin on with me. life is so unfair huh. lol no kidding. i dont know what im going to do. please help me i need help. everything i had, everything i gave up to start my life, and this happens, everything is slipping away. help me figure this out, i dont have no one right now. god i miss you. i know you're still looking out for everyone. :]
- Denise: That's so sweet, thank YOU. :) Hope you're doing okay. Take care of yourself!
Denise Ebert
April 29, 2010
Happy 21st Birthday Derrek. I love you and miss you so much!
Love always, Mom
Denise Ebert
January 1, 2010
Another year has passed baby. I still miss & love you like it was yesterday. See you soon baby.

Christmas 09. Aunt Gina, Your Mom, Grandpa, Grandma, Aunt Sherri & Uncle Jimmy. All of us are getting on to Brit the brat...lol.
December 29, 2009

This is your nephew.....he is sweet, just like you.
December 29, 2009
Sherri Murray
December 29, 2009
I love and miss you everyday that I wake up. I still cannot believe that you are gone. 4 years and 2 days? You are 20 years old now. You are still my favorite baby. Everytime that I held you and loved on you...I wished that you were mine.
I will hold you again one day and this time, I will never let you go.
I love you,
Aunt Sherri
RedNeck
December 27, 2009
hey man its been four years and everybody still misses you =( your nephew is awsome i wish yu could of met him. and your sister is doing good she just got a new truck. well we will talk to you later and merry christmas and a happy new year
Denise Ebert
November 16, 2009
Mamma misses you so much baby! This time of year is very hard for me. I love you and can't to see you again.
PS: krystal ostrewich, I can't put into words how much your memories and thinking about Derrek means to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
krystal ostrewich
November 16, 2009
Hey.........you remember the picture we colored together in class...you had the green i had the red...we raced. To see who colored it the fastest...lol...Still have it... :)
Krystal Ostrewich
November 15, 2009
Hey buddy. :] It's been a while. But don't think I've forgotten about you! Not at all. Just didn't have the internet for a long time and Things have been crazy lately. So much going on! I miss you and know I'll never forget you. xoxo You know this! :) Toodles for now hunny.<3
Sherri Murray
June 11, 2009
I miss you so much and so much has changed since you have been gone. I love you Derrek and I think of you every day.
Love,
Aunt Sherri
Denise Ebert
April 30, 2009
I miss you baby. Happy 20th Birthday!
ciera bolieu
April 29, 2009
happy 20th birthdayy;
imy;
britney delk
February 25, 2009
hey derrek i miss you alot! i had a little boy february 10 he has your middle name! i named him kalob ryan davis! i wish you were able to meet him! it hurts alot that you cant! he is 2 weeks old and already getting big! he weighed 8 lbs 5 oz when he was born and already weighs 9 lbs 8 oz! i think about you all the time!! i wish you were here to go mudding with us when we go! but i know you are watching over me and your nephew! i love you derrek! talk to you later! xoxo
Natalee Keene
December 26, 2008
Hi Derrek!
Its been quite a while since I wrote to you, but still not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind one way or the other!
I know its a day late but MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Miss you sooo much!! Love you!
Love Always and FOREVER,
-Natalee
krystal ostrewich
December 25, 2008
Hey Derrek. Been a while. Still miss you though of course. Just wanted to let you know, MERRY CHRISTMAS. Heh, I am having a pretty ok one. :] Miss you and luv u
Denise Ebert
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas baby. It's been almost three years since I last touched you. I miss you so much Derrek.
Mamma loves you.
lexii fenske
December 11, 2008
hey derrek!! well i haven't wrote to you in a while.. & im sorry about that boo.. but i have a couple things to tell you! i recently moved back to texas and im most def thinkin about moving back to georgia. i love it there!! its so pretty! but i also wanted to say happy holidays & a happy late thanksgiving(= i love you bro<3
Denise Ebert
November 27, 2008
Good morning baby. It's Thanksgiving morning & I miss you so much! Nothing is the same without you here. Mamma needs you Derrek. I wish you could come back to me. I love you so much!
Britney delk
October 17, 2008
hey derrek well your gonna be a uncle pretty soon to a little boy!! i wish you were here to be able to see him but i know you will watch over him!! i love you
Denise Ebert
September 21, 2008
I miss you so muck Derrek. Uncle Bob & Uncle Donny are with you now. Now you have more people you know with you. I worried about you not having anyone you knew in Heaven. I can't wait to hold you again Derrek. Momma loves you so much!
Ashley Anderson
September 7, 2008
hey buddy i miss you and i love you always
Denise Ebert
July 17, 2008
Good morning baby. I miss you & love you so much. I think about you everyday, all day. I pray God will bring us together again soon.
Love & miss you always, Mamma
Sherri Merryman
April 29, 2008
Happy Birthday Derrek. You are 19 today. I miss you so much. I can still hear your laugh and see you face so clearly. I hope to see you soon and spend eternity loving you and holding you again.
Love, Aunt Sherri
Denise Ebert
April 29, 2008
Happy Birthday Derrek. We love you & miss you more than words can say!
Love you always, Mom & Dad
BRITNEY DELK
April 3, 2008
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU
Britney Delk
February 6, 2008
derrek, hey there big bro! sorry i havent wrote in a while just been busy! i have a new boyfriend hes sooooo nice to me i drive his truck all the time! it a 08 dodge!! i love it i want it! i drive it every day!! i have co op now so i get to leave after 6th period everyday thank god!! im going out of town this weekend with maigan and her mom and sister! i love it over at maigans we all get along and omg the food is great lol haha but its better there then staying at grandmas all the time!! i have fun over there we always rent movies and just sit with her mom and watch them! lol we have no life haha!! well i just wanted to write you before i went to second period! i have algebra 2! its easy tho!! im sooo hungry im gonna starve lol! well i gotta go love you mucho!! lol bye bye derrek!!
Denise Ebert
January 1, 2008
Good morning baby. It's New Years day & I miss you. I love you so much. I wish you were here.
Denise Ebert
December 27, 2007
I love you & miss you Derrek!
Sherri Merryman
December 27, 2007
Hey Derrek. God I miss you. This is the morning I dread every year...I get up and feel like I can't breath and watch the clock for what I think of as the darkest hour of my life. My only hope is that I know when God takes me...I will be with you again. I can't wait to hold you and talk with you and tell you again how much I love you. Your mom and I will see you again. I love you and miss you, Aunt Sherri
Denise Ebert
December 25, 2007
Good morning baby. It's Christmas day....the second Christmas with you not here. Derrek, mamma loves you so much. I'll see you in Heaven. No tears in Heaven, no sorrow. I'm going to hold you & never let you go.
Denise Ebert
December 24, 2007
Good morning baby. It's Christmas Eve & I miss you so much. It's so hard with out you here. I love you. I remember how much you loved Christmas. I can't wait to see you again!
lexie fenske
December 18, 2007
hey derrek! It's been a while since i wrote to you. im sorry about that. i have been so busy it's unreal. i live in Georgia now with my real mother and my sisters. i finally found them derrek! yay! well i will write more later.
i love you. and i miss you more and more everyday.
Britney Delk
December 6, 2007
derrek, hey well sorry i havent been writing i have just been busy with school and work !! its so tiring! but its money! thank god! lol well its almost christmas time and the 2 year mark from when you left to be with god!! its so sad to think about!! we all miss you alot!! i really hope i get justins four wheeler or just money!! but ill be 17 in january and i get to move out of moms!! yay!! i cant wait to be able to be on my own no more asking mom for stuff im kinda excited!! lol well you would be 19 this coming up year!! its so hard to believe! well i got to go! love you
Britney Delk
November 27, 2007
derrek, hey good morning!! today i am sooooo tired!! i didnt even want to come to school!! i already know that today is going to be a bad day!! well i just wanted to tell you good morinig and i love you
krystal ostrewich
November 24, 2007
Hey Derrek, I know It's been a while and omg im so sorry. It's just been hectic lately.
I miss you though and I hope you're watching over me....well...parts of the time...lol
Happy thanksgiving, even though im a little late.
better late then never though, right?!
Well, I'll be back to tell you merry christmas soon so ttul on. Muah!
Bye bye.
-krystal
p.s. school still sucks. lol
Hillary Bozenski
November 24, 2007
Hey Derrek It's hillary just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving!! I am so stuffed I feel like I gained 10lbs but It was all good... We miss u and love you Derrek ... Bye!
Denise Ebert
November 22, 2007
It's Thanksgiving baby. I wish you were here!Nothing is the same...these holidays mean nothing to me anymore.
I remember how much you loved this time of year. You could eat a whole pumpkin pie by yourself. I love you Derrek, and miss you so much there aren't words to describe it!
Britney Delk
November 17, 2007
hey derrek im just sitting here at justins its monicas b day i was just wrioting to say hi and i love you
Britney Delk
November 15, 2007
one more day until thanksgiving break!! yay!! lol well yea lori had a baby!! hes named after his dad he is soo cute!! we took him over to grandma and grandpas house and justin was there! grandpa enjoyed having the baby there!! i really miss you alot!! i think about you all the time!! i just hold the tears back!! but i do have the days where i cant hold them back!! im sorry i really never go up to the cemetery its just so hard to know that you really are gone!! i like to think of it as your away on vacation but i got to go
britney delk
November 14, 2007
hey derrek!! 2 more says until thanksgiving break!! im soooo excited i get to go to jutins house this weekend and im really looking forward to spending time with him!! i am so sad that we didnt get to spend alot of time together but at least we got to spend some time with each other!! i still think of the times we alll went mudding!! me and jeremy were on one fourwheeler and you were on another and you slung mud all over us! we had some crazy times!! we always went mudding after it fot done raining!! i really miss those times! i want to see if mom will get me a four wheeler for christmas!! and that would be my b day present to!! just so that i can go ride with justin and show him the places we use to go!! i miss you and love you alot!! i got to go!!
britney delk
November 12, 2007
derrek thanksgiving is coming up!! and yet your not here!! its sooo sad that you wont get to be here with the family!! i miss you and so does everyone else!! i cant wait to see you again! ill be sure to write you on thanksgivig!!
i love you
Denise Ebert
November 3, 2007
Good morning baby. I miss you more than anything. We will be together again someday, and I'll be happy again. I know you see how I am now, but I know there are no tears in Heaven. I can't wait to hold you in my arms again.
Halloween was hard. I went to the closet where those wigs are that you & Jeremy put on that last Halloween. All I could do was touch them, knowing you were the last to wear them, then I had to shut the door and walk away. God help me I miss you so much. We all love you and miss you.
Britney Delk
November 1, 2007
I LOVE YOU!!
britney delk
November 1, 2007
sorry that i didnt get to get on yesterday!! so happy late halloween
britney delk
October 29, 2007
Derrek, hows it going up there! i really miss you!! i will be 17 in 2 and a half months!! yay lol well you would be 19 next year!! cant belive it!! bradys dad had a heart attack but as far as i know he doing ok!! grandpa and grandma are doing good too!! well i just wanted to write to say hey and i love you
Britney Delk
October 9, 2007
Derrek, soooo school has been ok so far but its not over yet! i got in trouble yesterday even though i didnt do anything alls i did was laugh and the entire class was too! well he told me and like 3 others to stay after but i wasnt cause i didnt do anything!! but i just wanted to let you know how things are going down here!! well cant wait to see you again!! i miss you alot!! you were a great brother!!
Love always you baby sister britney delk
krystal ostrewich
October 6, 2007
Hey Derrek! It's been a while, and im sorry. but i still have you in my hopes and prayers. :] It is almost halloween and im not looking foward to it. As you know im a scardy cat. lol well i have to go look up something, im sure you know what it is. ;] i miss you. wish me goodluck on it please. maybe ill finally get my chance and i can get out of here and become something big.
Best wishes for you and ur family.
love, krystal
Hillary Bozenski
October 5, 2007
Hey Derrek It's almost hallowen Im so excited I love hallowen. Well I was just writing you to say Hi and to tell you we all miss you'r crazy butt... Im going to see you'r mom hopefully sometime this week I really like her she's a very nice person and she love's you soo much. You'r her angel derrek. We'll I guess I'll write you later I have to go Im at work..hopefully you'r aunt sherri doesn't see me on the internet while i'm at work .... hehe well, we love you and miss you dearly.
Britney delk
September 7, 2007
Hey Derrek just thought i would write you to tell you that i love you and i miss you alot!! your a great brother well the bells bout to ring
Denise Ebert
August 25, 2007
Derrek, baby I miss you so much! I hurt so bad. I keep asking God why? I feel like I'm being ate from the inside out. I love you baby.
Hillary Bozenski
August 18, 2007
Hey derrek It's hillary im not sure I you will remeber me but u and austin came down to the house a few times but anyway I just wanted to say hi and to let you know that you'r mom is doing better she misses you alot so does everyone else we all cant wait to see what its like on the other side I hope it's nice well i guess i'll go for now i will write you later and keep in touch we all love you and miss you goodbye
Jeremy Fitch
August 16, 2007
hey derrek! man i've missed u alot... theres alot of memories of us goin through my head all the time we did some crazy stuff and ill never forget um... ive missed u so much cant wait to see u on tha other side man!
sherri merryman
August 8, 2007
Hello Derrek,
I miss you terribly. Everyone is having a bad month. Keep watch over your Mom, Grandpa & Grandma. There is a huge place that is missing in all of our hearts. It's slowing killing us all everyday without you.
I love you,
Aunt Sherri
Britney Delk
August 6, 2007
hey derrek!! well i miss you alot and i cant wait to see you!! and i got my permit thank god!! well any way just drooped by to say hi
britney delk
June 26, 2007
Hey well sorry i havent wrote to you in a while but yea i have been busy lol well any way yea i miss you soooo much!!!!
ASHLEY GABALDON
June 14, 2007
DERREK..
EVERY0NE MISSES Y0U TERRIBLY AND I MISS US BEING LITTLE KIDS T0GETHER WITH JUSTIN. =/ ILL SEE Y0U S00N H0NEY! I L0VE Y0U
Krystal ostrewich
June 11, 2007
Hope you havn't thought I've forgotten about you. I would never!
You see what's going on, crazy huh? I am getting so tired of it.
How is it up there? So peaceful.
Well I just wanted to let you know I still think of you. Take care.We miss you hunny. xo
Krystal
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