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Francis Spagnoletti Obituary

Francis Spagnoletti
August 24, 1981 - May 29, 2022
Francis Isadore Spagnoletti passed away May 29, 2022, at forty years old. As premature was his passing, so was his birth. Francis was born two months premature on August 24, 1981, to Deborah and Frank Spagnoletti. Francis learned at a young age to persevere through life's challenges and live life to its fullest at each and every moment.

From the time that he was a young boy, if Francis took interest in a subject, he mastered it. Whether it was building Lego Kingdoms, mastering Origami, becoming a professional in-line skater at age 14, or DJ'ing to hundreds in a night club, Francis had an uncanny ability to encapsulate his creativity and produce magic, and he did so wherever the world took him. He graduated high school from Portsmouth Abbey in Newport, Rhode Island in 2000. He earned his Bachelor of Arts from the University of San Francisco in 2006. In true Francis fashion, he earned his Master's in Screen Writing from the New York Film Academy in 2012.

As Francis became a man, his entrepreneurial spirit caught up to his innate creativity. He founded and trademarked his own cigar company, paying homage to his father's favorite past time. The product he produced was presented masterfully–a cunning design with a narrative for each cigar that was predicated on the history of pirates from the late 17th and 18th century. The motto of the company was "Live until you die!" Francis did just that!

Francis acted with precision and care when he created. The music that he made and the studio business that he founded in Los Angeles grew to inspire and host artists that are now household names. At each step of the way, his mother was there to cheer him on, no matter where he lived or what he pursued in Newport, San Francisco, and Los Angeles.

Perhaps Francis's most alluring trait is personified by the company that he kept over the decades. His family and friends appreciated his pioneering spirit, and, most of all, his ability to make them laugh. When he was happy, a smile plastered his face. When he was kind, he was one of the kindest and gentlest souls to be encountered. When he cried, tears fell from neighboring faces. His emotions were real, authentic, and contagious. His mere presence promoted joy and love.

Undoubtedly, assuredly, positively, despite the wonderful friends he had the privilege of keeping since he was a boy, and the creative entrepreneurial endeavors he pursued, he was most proud of his three daughters–Aster, Indi, and Ivy. Aster, Francis' first born, like her father, enjoys mastering Legos and learning how to roller blade. Francis was particularly proud of her independence, generosity, and leadership. She is also the oldest sibling. Indi and Ivy were Francis's younger twin daughters, born prematurely like their dad, who attack life with the same ferocity. Indi and her dad enjoyed sharing life at every moment they were together. They just loved being with each other, whether it was at the movies or on the couch or anywhere in between. Indi's particularly calm, easygoing nature was welcomed by her dad who was trying to navigate societal obstacles on a daily basis. Ivy, like her dad, always marches to the sound of her own drum. Francis encouraged and cherished her intelligence and independence since she was an infant. Francis was the best version of himself when he was with his children, whether it was swimming in the pool or exploring the Santa Monica Pier.

In recent years, Francis displayed a radiant tranquility when spending time with his brother, Marcus, and his niece, Vita. He engaged in family occasions with a particular calmness and appreciation for his mother and his father like never before. Francis was loved by many but no more than his children, his brother, and his mother and father. He will be sorely missed. His spirit will persevere in this world just as he did since he opened his eyes on this Earth. He had only just begun... His journey now continues.

Francis is survived by his parents, Frank and Ryla and Deborah and Larry, his children, Aster, Indi, and Ivy, his brother, Marcus, and his niece, Vita–and many other relatives and friends that are too many to name. He will catch us all "on the flip side!"

The family will have a private service and celebration of life.

In memory of Francis, love your family and friends a little extra today. Live for the living.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Houston Chronicle on Jun. 12, 2022.

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J

May 29, 2023

Dear Frankie, your memory is in our hearts always. You were kind and funny and a great friend! I loved hanging out with you, talking about your Mom and how she liked Spode dishes at Christmas time, and going shopping with you to buy groceries for your daughters, whom you loved so much! You were always there when a friend needed you and you are missed so much! I know you are watching from Heaven over all the people you love and we feel your presence always. My sympathy and condolences to your family and all the people who truly loved you. We miss you! Love, J

Chuck Pritchett

August 24, 2022

I will keep Francis in my thoughts and prayers. Chris, Sean, and I will forever remember his warm smile and loud laugh.

Blake Billings, Portsmouth Abbey School

August 2, 2022

I was greatly saddened to hear this news. I remember Francis well as a thoughtful and charismatic young man, growing much in his time with us at Portsmouth Abbey. He remains in my prayers, with his entire family.

Kathy Bridgen

July 15, 2022

With heartfelt sympathy and many great memories of an exceptional and loving family. May God´s Peace be with you.

Jan Donovan

July 15, 2022

Deborah, Frank & Marcus,
All the Dunlop kids & I have very fond memories of Francis! Always a handsome & exciting kid! Those Carefree Sweetwater days!
Truly sorry for your loss. Way too soon! Thinking of you all at this time. God bless! RIP Francis!
Love & Hugs!

Erik Laule

July 14, 2022

Marcus and family I´m sorry about this moment! Marcus I used to be Frankie´s Haircutter in Cleveland and San Francisco and 1 time in LA! My heart goes out to the lot of you......

Erik Laule

July 14, 2022

Francis I always thought of you especially when I think I transferred from Cleveland to San Fran and as a hairdresser you were one of my first clients and you brought a bunch of good people whom I still cut today due to you and your brother. I´m positive you will shine as you did in front of me wherever you are and I shall one moment in time run into you again. Love you Erik Laule your hair cutter in San Fransisco

Love ya, Jackie Jones Lloyd

June 15, 2022

June 15, 2022

Marcus wrote a very nice & sweet write up for his brother.

Dear Debra my heart is with you my Sweet friend and Marcus, all your grand babies, your family and friends in the sadness you all are going through.

Precious Francis is part of you, your life, your world, your heart for Always.

Sweetie no words can ease your pain for your loss that you feel right now, tomorrow and days to come, but just think of all the Wonderful Loving times you had with Fran and your heart will smile.

Sweetie you are not saying goodbye, you are saying Fran, my Precious son, I will see you later.

I´m sure he wouldn´t want you to be sad and he would want you to live and be happy and have FUN the way he knows you. He will be waiting for you until you both meet again in that Wonderful New World in Heaven.

God Bless you all.

Click on the site. https://youtu.be/yZrtSDmQOro

Love you my sweet friend Deborah.

Love ya, Jackie Jones Lloyd

Phillip Webb

June 15, 2022

Condolences to Frank and Marcus. I'm very sorry for your loss. Francis was full of life and vigor and always had a positive attitude whenever I had the opportunity to see or talk to him.

RICHARD L LAGARDE

June 14, 2022

Frank and Deborah, I am so sorry for your loss. Francis will always be that happy and joyful child I remember from so many years ago.

Bryan Flynn

June 13, 2022

Thoughts and prayers to the family.

Paul Suk-Hyun Yoon

June 13, 2022

My condolences to the Spagnoletti family. I swam with Francis in high school, and still remember the ways he made us all laugh on the bus rides to and from practices or to and from meets. I also remember him sharing his secret to racing fast with me, "Don't bother breathing, just swim as fast as possible." Rest in peace, Francis.

Gary.warren

June 12, 2022

I'm so sorry for you and your family love you all and God bless you

Kathy and Ronald Altobello

June 12, 2022

Frank, so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and family.

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