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Gordon Arbuthnot Cain

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GORDON ARBUTHNOT CAIN died October 22, 2002 in Houston of heart failure. The son of Gordon Dunn Cain and Ola Arbuthnot, he was born in Baton Rouge on May 31, 1912, and grew up in Baton Rouge, Calhoun, and Rayville, Louisiana. He is survived by his wife, Mary Hancock Cain; two step-children, Margaret (Peggy) Weaver Oehmig and her husband William C. Oehmig, and James Weaver and his wife Sharyn A. Weaver; three grandchildren, Gordon Oehmig, Alyson Weaver, and Kyle Weaver, all of Houston; two brothers, Dr. Frank Cain of Lake Providence, Louisiana and Edward Cain of San Clemente, California; and one sister, Ruth Upton of Rayville, Louisiana. Two sisters, Pola Falge of Appleton, Wisconsin and Billie Mix of Monroe, Louisiana, preceded him in death. Mr. Cain was graduated from Louisiana State University with a degree in Chemical Engineering in 1933, and until World War II, worked as a chemical engineer at Freeport Sulphur and Merck. In World War II, he served as a commander of a heavy mortar battalion, landing on Leyte and Okinawa. He received two Bronze Stars and a Purple Heart. He was wounded on Okinawa. After the war, he worked for Freeport Sulphur Company, Standard Perlite Company, and FMC Corporation. He came to Houston in 1955 to help start Petro-Tex Chemical, a joint venture of FMC and Tenneco. In 1964, he became a vice president of Conoco in charge of their chemical operations, where he built the business from $25 million in sales to $600 million. In 1970, he resigned from Conoco and spent the next twelve years as a manager of various troubled companies. These included a synthetic rubber company in Argentina, an oil refinery in Alaska, a chemical company in Houston, and electronic companies in Houston and Boston. In 1984, he completed his first leveraged buyout. He bought a fertilizer business and established the Arcadian Corporation, which became a $2 billion company before it was sold in 1996. He also bought Conoco's chemical business from Du Pont and established Vista Chemical. He formed The Sterling Group, which continued to do leveraged buyouts, buying Monsanto's Texas City plant to form Sterling Chemicals; buying six ethylene-related plants from six different companies to form Cain Chemical; buying six ethylene-related plants from six different companies to form Cain Chemical, run by his close friend and business associate Bill McMinn; and buying the Celanese polyster fibers business to form Fiber Industries. Since 1992, Mr. Cain participated in other Sterling Group investments including Mail-Well, Purina Mills, Sterling Diagnotic Imaging and Texas Petrochemicals. He helped start Atlantic Coast Airlines, helped found Lexicon Genetics and also started two other biotechnology companies still in developmental stages, Agennix and ADViSYS, Inc. Gordon Cain was one of the pioneers in the movement to involve employees in the direction of the company. He was strongly committed to having all employees own an interest in the companies where they worked. In 1997, his book, Everybody Wins! was published. It is both an autobiography for his grandchildren and a treatise on his business philosophy. In 1988, he and his wife Mary established The Gordon and Mary Cain Foundation, which supports local education, social, and health projects, as well as public policy groups with limited-government, free market orientation. He was a member of River Oaks Country Club and The Bayou Club in Houston, TX, Grandfather Golf & Country Club and Linville Country Club in Linville, NC, and Mountain Lake Country Club in Lake Wales, FL. Deepest thanks to his office staff and Doris Hollins, Sharon Baker, Bell Bennett and Eloise Green. A Memorial service will be held on Friday October 25, 2002 at 2 o'clock in the afternoon at St. John the Divine Episcopal Church, 2450 River Oaks Boulevard in Houston, with The Rev. Laurens A. Hall officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Avery Health Care System, 434 Hospital Drive, Linville, NC 28646 or Lake Wales Art Center, P.O. Box 608, Lake Wales, FL 33589.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Oct. 23 to Oct. 25, 2002.

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Tony John

October 18, 2020

He is forever my inspiration to work hard and smart to achieve my goals without violating the rights of others and to establish only win-win relationships.

PJ Gunter

November 5, 2002

Dear Peggy, William & Gordon ~

I want to acknowledge your dear father and grandfather for the contribution he made to the Houston community, and The Foundation for Financial Literacy in particular. His is a proud legacy of generosity and accomplishment. May that spirit live in us.

~ pj

Mr. and Mrs. B. R. Adney

October 31, 2002

To: Mrs. Cain, children, grandchildren and future generations



For the brief period of time we were able to be in the presence of Gordon Cain, our lives and the lives of generations to come was changed because of his leadership in business and his caring to better the lives he touched.

Gay C Dawson

October 29, 2002

My sympathy to Gordon Cain's wife, Mary, children and grandchildren. Having met Mr. Cain on two occasions I was struck by his humbleness. He was a true gentleman and a special person. My husband worked for Cain Chemical and he benefited from his leadership in business. He was a great inspiration to those who came in contact with him. I know he will be missed by family and friends.

Jonathan Avery

October 27, 2002

Mr. Gordon Cain is and has been an inspiring leader to many, me included.

Thank you and God bless you.

Bill and Joan Edmonds

October 26, 2002

Our deepest sympathy to you, Mary, and all of your family. We have lost a good friend. Much love,

MaryAlice & John Wright

October 25, 2002

Our prayers are with Mrs. Cain and the Cain family, he was well respected by the hourly employees at Sterling Chemicals in Texas City who wished he never sold the plant. He was a true Leader and very caring person, we need more people like him in both the business and personal world. My husband always talked highly of Mr. Cain, he will be sadly missed by all.

Joseph G. McDevitt

October 25, 2002

My sincere sympathy and prayers to Mrs. Cain, and the family and friends of Gordan Cain.



I benefited from the vision, leadership, and values that Mr. Cain brought Cain Chemical. He was a leader of distiction, and I am grateful that he shared his life and philosophy with us in his autobiography. I only met him personnaly twice, and yet he touched my life forever.

Kathy Greer

October 25, 2002

God bless you all!!!

Harry Conrad

October 25, 2002

Gordon was one of the finest gentlemen that I have ever known. As a former employee and as President of the Cadets of the Ole War Skule I can testify to his excellent leadership. Joyce and I offer our sincere condolences to the family.

Rayburn Hanzlik

October 25, 2002

A remarkable and very special man who I will always admire for his humility, humanity and wit, along with his immense business accomplishments during the later years of his life.

Jean McCluskey

October 25, 2002

I know Mr. Cain will truely be missed my many people, but mostly by his family. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time. It was an honor to have known this truely great man.

Louis Hemmi

October 23, 2002

I fondly remember his marriage to my aunt Lucia Lamadrid Cain, and knew him as a loving and caring man. I never was able to beat him at chess, a game he taught me as a child.

I will miss him very much.

Michael Pattison

October 23, 2002

I would like to send my deepest sympathy to Mr. Cain's family. As an employee of Sterling Chemicals, I have personally benefited from Mr. Cain's philosophy and leadership. He was truly a positive force in the lives and careers of many people. We are all grateful. God bless.

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