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Jeffery Babcock Obituary
October 4, 2014
Jeffery Alan Babcock was born December 12, 1955 in Orlando, Florida. A loving husband, devoted father, and dedicated co-worker with an infectious sense of humor, which he gregariously shared with others. He was never one to take important life changing decisions too lightly or seriously, as reflected when he proposed to his wife, of 23 years, Sandi. With a penchant to become a part-time Thespian, he asked for her hand in marriage in the Laredo Little Theater, where they first met. With "Save the Last Dance for Me" playing in the background, he wooed her by saying "I've danced with many women, but chose to waltz with only one." Jeffery was a 1974 graduate of John Marshall High School, completed his bachelor degree at Texas Lutheran College in 1977, including a semester at American University in Washington D.C., and received his Doctor of Jurisprudence from St. Mary's School of Law in 1980. For over 25 years, he has worked for the Department of Justice, as an Assistant U.S. Attorney at various cities with his last assignment at the U.S. Attorney's Office Southern District of Texas in Houston. In Houston, he attended Crosspoint Lutheran Church and in San Antonio he was a member of Grace Lutheran Church. He was an active volunteer for Pope John XXIII High School, Katy, Texas. He was preceded in death by his father, Dexter B. Babcock, Jr. Survivors include his wife, Sandra M. Babcock; son, Arthur J. Babcock; daughter, Jennifer Rodriguez (John Eric); grandchildren Lilian, James Michael and Mina; mother, Mildred L. Babcock; sisters Christine Babcock and Jo Beth Oestreich (David); brother, Robert Babcock; aunt, Dorothy Joy; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and in laws. Memorial Service will be held at 10:00 A.M. on October 9, 2014 at Grace Lutheran Church, 504 Avenue E, San Antonio, Texas. After the service, a light lunch reception will follow in the church's fellowship hall. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Jeffery A. Babcock Memorial Scholarship Fund, Texas Lutheran University, 1000 W. Court St., Seguin, Texas 78155 or the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeffery Babcock
Bertha (Bert) Rixner
July 9, 2022
I received a shock this morning. While clearing up boxes of photos, I came across one of Arthur at 4mos. Jeff shared it with me. Finding the photo I thought I would lookup Jeff on Google. This obituary is what I found.
Jeff was the first attorney I ever worked for. While we didn't stay in touch, I thought of him often. And Gosh he taught me so much and always encouraged me to further my career. He was the best boss. Sandy, I am so sorry that I didn't know sooner of your loss. May he rest in peace.
Mary Yeager
October 1, 2020
I think of Jeff often... especially since he passed away on my birthday. Still miss you my special friend!
Larry Aguirre (Swan Cleaners)
July 2, 2020
Sandi, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, I went to Marshall with Jeff but had lost track of Jeff years ago. Lawrence (Larry) Aguirre Hou. Tx.
Larry Aguirre (Swan Cleaners) Hou. Tx.
July 2, 2020
I'm so sorry I didn't know you pass on to the big blue heavens above. Lost track of you yrs. ago. Your long lost high school buddy Lawrence (Larry) Aguirre
David Hamm
April 8, 2016
My (David Hamm) visit with Jeff the summer or 1996.
Shirley Lopasky
October 9, 2014
Sandra, I was so saddened to hear about your losses. Losing both of them so closely is a tremendous burden for you and your family. May the light of Heaven shine brightly upon them. And, may your memories help you through this tragic time. Prayers are with you.
Mary Frances Yeager
October 28, 2014
You will never be forgotten!
Mary Frances Yeager
Mary Frances Yeager
October 28, 2014
Sandra and Arthur,
My DEEPEST sympathies to you and your families. I knew Jeff very well from working with him on appeals to the Fifth Circuit (where I work). Jeff was even gracious enough to help me learn the streets of Houston when my job relocated there after Hurricane Katrina. It was always pleasant to deal with him. He always was happy and had a great and cheerful disposition. Sadly, he passed away on my birthday. And, before he did.. he mailed me a box of cookies that was red and heart shaped. We've never sent each other anything for our birthdays, but maybe did exchange occasional emails. He is truly special and I know WE all have an angel looking over us. Love, Mary Frances Yeager
Miss Alice
October 19, 2014
Arthur, my prayers are with you. Your dad was special. May Christ's peace be with you always..God bless you.
October 13, 2014
My condolences to the Babcock family. I hope in time you find comfort in reading Matt 5:4 in this time of sorrow.
October 13, 2014
My sincere condolences to the bereaved family of Mr. Babcock. May you be strength and comforted by reflecting on the many cherished memories that you made together.
Lee
October 11, 2014
You have my deepest sympathy. May the God of loyal love comfort the family during your time of sorrow. Psalms 119:76
Mary Anne Schmitt
October 11, 2014
Arthur, We just talked to Kathryn and she shared the sad news of your dad's passing. The Schmitts send our deepest sympathies to your family. The day we spent at TLU with your family meant so much to us. Your sweet dad couldn't say enough wonderful things about TLU and it was clear how proud he was of you. We greatly appreciated the time you all spent with us that day- it was truly a wonderful afternoon. Please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the difficult days and weeks ahead. God bless each of you.
Sincerely,
Tim, Mary Anne, and Kathryn Schmitt
Jeffery, Sandi & Arthur - Thanksgiving 2011
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Jeffery and Mom, Xmas 1984
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Jeffery at Mardi Gras - 1989
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Arthur, Mom & Jeffery at Mom's 84th Birthday
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Sandi & Jeffery on a date in 1990
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Jeffery's Marshall H.S. Grad Photo - 1974
Jeffery Babcock
October 10, 2014
Duane Powlett
October 9, 2014
Over the past few weeks I was fortunate enough to visit Jeff while he was working from home. His sense of humor and knowledge of a wide variety of topics always made him a joy to talk too. My condolences to the Babcock family, Jeff's memory will live on in all of the lives he touched.
Elizabeth Williams
October 9, 2014
So very sorry, just heard the news. Jeff was a very, very special person.
October 8, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. My heart breaks with and for you.
Hugs,
Lori Eger (Avila)
Jill Venezia
October 8, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a wonderful man with a kind heart, an always cheery disposition, and a wonderful sense of humor. His colleagues not only respected his knowledge and intelligence, but genuinely liked him and enjoyed his conversation. He will be missed but never forgotten. May God bless his family and friends. Rest in peace, Jeff!
Bernice Kohl
October 8, 2014
We were neighbors and just loved him. Too soon for someone so wonderful.
Brad Howard
October 8, 2014
Very saddened to learn of the passing away of Jeff--Had worked with him at the USAO in Houston for many years. From the time that I first met Jeff, I knew he was a very special individual. He had an infectious sense of humor and a wit that was unmatched. More than that, he was a person I could always confide in. My deepest condolences for your loss. I pray that God will bring you comfort during this difficult time.
CATHY POSTELL
October 7, 2014
Sandra, I can not even imagine the pain you must be dealing with. My prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything you might need, please give me a call. May God give you the strength and His angels embrace you in this time of need. Peace and love be with you.
Richard Trenk
October 7, 2014
Jeff and I met in July 1974 and have stayed close for over 40 years. He was the REAL DEAL - If Jeff was your friend you did not need any others: He was always there with incredible wit, intellect, kindness and love. I will miss him always and forever.
Chance Blessing
October 7, 2014
Stay strong for yourself, and stay strong for your family. Remain close to those you love in these trying times.
Karen Schneider Davis
October 7, 2014
Although years passed between times we spoke, I always will remember his smile, laughter and love for life. My thoughts and prayers for the entire family.
Cheryl Boldt
October 7, 2014
Mildred, Sandi and family, We love each one of you so much. We are so blessed by Jeff in our lives, along with your entire family. Jeff IS a wonderful man and friend and I know his spirit will always be around us. His amazing support and love with Robin through all of her health issues are amazing. Jeff is a jewel of a friend and will greatly be missed by all. Love and prayers, Cheryl
October 7, 2014
Condolences to Mildred and all of the Babcock family from one of Dexter's good military buddies. We are currently visiting in Iowa and pulled up My SA obits. Our prayers are with you, and will make a memorial donation to the Scholarship Fund at TLU, where our son also works. Eldon and Martha Kent.
Nancy & Carlos Herrera
October 7, 2014
While our loss will never compare to the loss that each member of Jeff's family feels, we, his colleagues, share your heartache. The light of Jeff's ever present smile has dimmed with his loss, but our memories of that smile, his delicious sense of humor, and his extraordinary legal talent will live on in the memories we hold in our hurting hearts. May your memories of Jeff bring back the wonderful feelings of the joy with which he lived and shared with you. Perhaps as we look into our hearts and relive the memories and rejoice, with time, the pain of his loss will slowly lessen. God has blessed Jeff. May He bless all of you during this most difficult time.
Belinda Vaca
October 7, 2014
I never known anyone with a bigger heart than Jeff. He would always ask me how is "mijo" doing refering to my son.I was honored to know and work with him. My deepest condonlence to his family. Belinda
Chris Lee
October 7, 2014
I am truly sorry for your loss. The Babcock Family and Friends are in my prayers. Mr. Babcock was always a gentleman and a refreshing person to chat with, even while briefly passing through the hallways at work. His words and smile will remain with me for years to come. He was true, devoted to his job and loved his Family! God is faithful and may you remember the great times you shared together! May God's Peace and Love remain with you all in Jesus Name! Amen!
Mark Dowd
October 7, 2014
Jeffery genuinely cared about everyone he knew. He was such a support to each of us. His kind words and support when we were grieving or concerned about a loved one I'll never forget. Jeff will be greatly missed.
Fran(cis) McIlvaine
October 7, 2014
I am so saddened by the news about Jeff's passing. He was a marvelous coworker, a wonderful friend and a model husband and father. I will greatly miss his ever-present sense of humor and his engaging laughter.
Al Balboni
October 7, 2014
The world is a less funny place today. Jeff will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Jim Tucker
October 7, 2014
Jeff was not only my colleague, he was my best friend and confidant, and I loved him. Jeff and I spent many hours talking about books, movies, history, politics and the state of the world. We shared jokes and funny stories and laughed, oh how Jeff could laugh. But mostly we talked about our children. Arthur, you were the center of his life and he loved you so much. He would always share with me your latest accomplishments and was so proud of the man you became. Sandi you were the love of his life. He was proud to call you his beloved. Jeff was a kind and generous man who shared his love, knowledge and his faith in God with friend and stranger alike. Jeff I love you, I miss you and I will see you one day when you welcome me into God's Kingdom.
Mel Pechacek
October 7, 2014
I send my sympathy to all of his family and friends. Jeff was a wonderful person to work with. No matter how busy he might be at the moment, he always took time to give me advice on legal issues in my cases. And he was fun! He will be missed.
Jennifer Berry
October 7, 2014
If there was one thing we knew about Jeff, it was if you asked a question about anything to do with History, Work, or any subject for that matter, you better have some time on your hands. There was never a answer that you recieved that you didnt know the entire history of before you left. You will be truly missed!
Douglas Davis
October 7, 2014
Jeff was a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor who was always ready to help. He will be missed. I am sorry for your loss.
Elsa Salinas
October 7, 2014
We will miss you, Jeff. It was a pleasure getting to know you and work with you.
Ricardo Beltran
October 7, 2014
Jeff was my mentor, he inspired me not only to be a better employee, but a father, husband, and a man. I will miss him but carrying on his passion to teach others.
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